The Break Time Podcast

The Break Time Podcast

(Formerly Break Time on Westside) A young, witty, Kenyan guy's outlook on Love, Sex & Relationships in Nairobi, Kenya and the world at-large. Hosted by Sir Denver B, expect a mini-marathon of comedy, insight and controversial opinions with a dash of charm. New episodes out every Tuesday & Friday.

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August 25, 2026 14 mins

Lots of people like to debate on how if x gender or y gender loves more, then it's better for the relationship. While that discussion may seem fun to discuss, it's mostly pointless to be honest. 

A different debate was brought forward: Who should want to date more, men or women? While the answer seems more obvious to many, in it lies the answer to how we can fix the dating market that many of us have seemed to hate for ...

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It's all about dating, and the generation that seems to be struggling with it the most. There's the belief that the issue stems from the men's side, but there could be more to it than meets the eye. 

Let's try finding out... 

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August 18, 2026 15 mins

A group of women talk candidly about dating younger men, and people are taking different corners in this discussion. Whether it's supporting them or wondering if the reactions would be as positive if it were men discussing this instead. 

Somewhere in this discussion, a realization is made, and it goes beyond whatever gender claims a preference for a younger version of the opposite sex... 

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In an episode where women speak a lot, truth and accountability need to take centre stage. There's a lot of online jargon and well-dressed talk going around, and someone has to show the sense (or nonsense) of it all. 

A woman is hosting a sex cruise for other women, and using "consent" and "empowerment" as a selling point. A man claims that men haven't taken accountability and use certain tropes to throw blame to women. 

Is...

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August 11, 2026 28 mins

It's an all-out attack on both genders by women, and someone's got to step up. Whether it's preference-related or desire-related, someone's got to speak up for all sides, right? 

A woman hops online to accuse women who don't date bisexual men of homophobia, and someone's got to set the record straight. Then another woman hops online to speak on why financially independent women treat their men differently once they're up, and s...

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August 7, 2026 31 mins

It's an episode full of split opinions and misunderstandings as two women hop online to speak, and either gender feels some type of way about one or the other. An OF creator emphasises beauty as a matter of proportions, and there's someone calling her a "pick-me"? 

Then another woman decides to tell corporate wives that they should be letting "hubby" pay for everything so their relationship can flourish. It might have worked fo...

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August 4, 2026 27 mins

It's another episode and a different outlook on men as different women share their viewpoints on men and dating, and get them completely wrong. 

There's an influencer claiming men are SA's, while another claims that men have become "bedazzled divas". Could any of them be right about what they're saying? 

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July 31, 2026 16 mins

It's been 700 Episodes! 

That's a lot, but has anything changed, or is it still the same old same old that we're used to? 

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It's another episode, therefore another chance for someone to say/do something, thinking they're smarter than everyone else yet the truth isn't as rosy. There's a woman who claims that hook-up culture is patriarchal, and that's not even the worst she said. 

A lady goes online and speaks on women not dating men who are much older than them, claiming that it isn't good. But surely, she did it in her time, so why shouldn't you?

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July 24, 2026 28 mins

In an episode trying to speak for those looked down upon, details matter, and underlying context may be missing as we try to make sense of different decisions. There's a man's voice memo that's been going around TikTok, and there are a lot of thoughts on it. 

Then, a man's realisation after dating many single mums outlines the cons that dating them would/could carry. This leads down a path of FYIs that come with dating a single...

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July 21, 2026 28 mins

It's all about clearing the air in this episode, and online content is the subject. There's a woman who's questioning her husband's work-wife's behaviour, and the internet is mad at her. Is there maybe more to it there? 

Then, a man hops on Reddit complaining that the dating market has been ruined by social media, and there may be some truth to it. It's uncomfortable; it may be true, but what if we content creators are the prob...

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July 17, 2026 25 mins

It's all about desire and what it's making people do out here as well as how it's made people think in the most selfish of ways. There's a dilemma involving children and a question on strategy as well. 

A woman hops online asking for advice on getting a second baby, but her circumstances are more complicated than ever. Then, a young man laments on his friends' dating experiences, citing the lack of self-esteem as a factor that ...

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July 14, 2026 32 mins

It's all about love and size in this one, as a study says we should love bigger, while a woman says that men should be loved conditionally. There's a lot of comparison, and the one giving (or stealing) the joy isn't the men this time. 

There's a study suggesting that men are happier dating plus-sized women, and there are questions about this. Then, a conversation between an influencer and her friends forces a consideration into...

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July 10, 2026 28 mins

It's all about improvement in this episode, and how we all want it... Regardless of how legit it is. There's a centre in Brazil offering something that may improve the lives of many women, except their offering seems a little too good to be true. 

Then, a young man spots an opportunity where he sees some of the struggles "high-net-worth" men may be having with women and promises to show them how to navigate. This is great, exce...

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It's all about the men, and the women are the ones making suggestions. From flirting to mate selection, there are some things that some women think that men should do. 

A former vixen hops onto a podcast to speak for the idea of marrying the whore, citing reasons she think benefit men the most. Then, a woman hops on to Reddit complaining that the art of lirting may have been lost. 

Should we correct them, or nah?

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June 26, 2026 34 mins

It's been spoken about for a bit, and it seems to have many in a chokehold. The series hit Netflix and people have spoken about it, made memes about it and posted about it. 

Someone had to see what all this fuss was about, and if there was something more to learn besides what women online claimed to have learned. Also, there's something about single women wearing rings to deter men from approaching them...

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June 23, 2026 28 mins

It's tax season, and we've got money at the centre of this episode. The price of the date is up, and we need to know why. There's also a woman with a money issue in a relationship, and we need to see whether the man might be the issue. 

From Gen Zs and millennials spending more on average for the typical date, to a man's ambition being questioned, there's quite a bit to say on this episode. 

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It's another episode but no sides are being taken here. There's an equal opportunity understanding, but also an equal opportunity to be accountable and change in your own individual way(s). 

Someone online said that sex is overrated, and many agreed with him. There might be something to refute that here. Then, another man makes a case wondering why men can't "turn a hoe into a housewife" yet men expect women to make a King out ...

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It's going to sound like a long rant, as the issues get sent the women's way in this heated episode. It all starts with a question often asked online but this time, a guy answers it. 

Then, after a man's post on why he'd never be in the friendzone after hearing a discussion amongst women, someone comments on how such thinking is why the male loneliness epidemic exists. This triggers a response to not only discredit the comment,...

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June 9, 2026 27 mins

It's all about flipping the tables and seeing how men are faring in this episode. A recent report stated that Kenyan men gossip more than Kenyan women, and some tribes do it more than others. That's definitely got to be critiqued, right? 

Then, a topic on non-sexual attractiveness inspires a list after a few women (and a man) speak on things that make a man attractive in a non-sexual way. Surely men have to have a couple of the...

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