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June 27, 2022 40 mins

If our sensuality and sexuality are at the core of who we are, it effects what we attract and allow into our lives. - Lourdes Starshower.

From this premise, we ask ourselves this question - “If we are not attracting the partner that we want in our lives, then how does our sexuality actually look like from the inside?”

Many of us are not aware of our child wounds around our sexuality. These wounds could be in the form of abuse, repression of self-pleasure, apprehensions toward sexual attraction to the same sex, shutting out conversations about sexuality, or giving the impression of it being shameful. We all have heard these stories from our parents, in school, or even in the church. The repression can have massive effects on our physical, emotional, neurological, subconscious, and spiritual energy. Our orientation about sexuality early in life has something to do with how we perceive our sexuality and how we relate to ourselves when it comes to being intimate with another person.

If we open mind and heart to accepting these ideas, tantric healing can open the door to healing these wounds. We can then come into alignment with our true selves, unlearn and re-learn how to give love and pleasure, and be intimate with ourselves the way we want to be loved. And when the right person comes into our life, we feel whole, centered, and ready to share that intimacy.

This episode is an open and straightforward discussion about the topic of sexuality and the ideas around it. It may contain words that others may deem explicit. All terms have been used precisely for the sake of knowledgeable and informative discussion.

If you are ready to satisfy your curiosity about your sexuality and what is there for you to re-learn and explore, then you definitely should give this episode a listen.

Tune in to another impactful episode of Breakthrough The Ordinary podcast.

 

S1 E45 | Ignite Your  Divine Ecstatic Sexual and Spiritual Potential Through Tantra Healing with Lourdes Starshower

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These are the highlights you wouldn’t want to miss:

03:08 - How Lourdes became a Tantric Practitioner and how Tantric healing transformed her life

09:30 - How can people create a breakthrough in their life?

11:22 -   The benefits of sexual healing in relationships

22:02 - What is de-armoring, how is it done, and how does it heal sexual shame?

25:55 - How does tantric de-armoring affect the orgasmic ability in men and women?

28:25 - Meditative self-love practices that allow you to become the partner you desire

33:45 - Why receptiveness allows for exploring what’s possible in intimate pleasure

About the Guest

Lourdes Starshower was an Advanced Certified Tantra educator, sacred sexuality coach, shamanic minister,  breathwork, and  Coach Clairvoyant. She is also the creator of Ecstatic Dakini Practitioner Training Inst. She is also a Reiki Master (energy and vibrational healing), Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist, EMDR Therapist and Interactive Guided Imagery Specialist. She's the author of an online video program titled "Tantra Practices for Divine Ecstasy,” and holds a BA in Psychology and an MA in Wellness Management.

Lourdes is a catalyst for people to become conscious around their sexuality.  She believes that transformational sessions are unique to each individual or couple. Therefore, she uses unique combinations of healing modalities that include hypnotherapy, breathwork, movement, Kundalini activation, eye gazing, chakra balancing, sound healing, reiki, shamanic energy healing, and more. She is known for her warm, intelligent, open-hearted  approach to emotional healing and erotic and spiritual awakening. 

Lourdes holds private healing sessions and Goddess Retreats for women.  She coaches, empowers and supports the healing of erectile and intimacy issues in gentlemen. And she counsels, reconnects and ignites emotional intimacy and sexual alchemy in couples. 

She has helped hundreds of people from all over the world to heal their inner wounding, enhance their intimacy, ignite their passion and expand their joy, pleasure and ecstasy in her private practice in Palm Beach Gardens, Florida as well as on Zoom from all over the world.  

 

Know more about Lourdes and what she does:

Visit https://www.tantrahealerflorida.com/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/LourdesStarshower

Connect with Lourdes on  Socials:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lourdestantra/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lstarshower

Twitter: https://twitter.com/lourdestantra

 

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