Anger Is Not the Enemy: Healing, Boundaries & Emotional Truth

In this powerful and heartfelt episode, we're joined by Karimah Cornelius-Stith, Certified Sex Therapist, Anger Management Specialist, and CEO of New Reflections Therapeutic Services. Hailing from the U.S. Virgin Islands, Karimah brings deep cultural insight, spiritual grounding, and clinical expertise to a topic that’s often misunderstood: anger. We explore the emotional, spiritual, and physical costs of unprocessed anger—especially within Black and Caribbean communities. From her faith-based beginnings in St. Croix to her work with trauma survivors and couples, Karimah breaks down why anger is a signal, not a sin. We talk about the shame and guilt often connected to intimacy and emotion, the difference between venting and healing, and how suppressed feelings can show up in our relationships, bodies, and communities. You’ll also learn: The difference between expressing anger and weaponizing it Why therapy is not the same as talking to friends The right (and wrong) way to apologize What "shake therapy" is and how it helps you release tension How to identify emotions when language feels out of reach If you’ve ever been told you’re “too much,” if you’re navigating a legacy of silence, or if you're ready to feel without judgment—this episode is your invitation to begin. Listen to the episode and share your biggest insight or learning moment. Connect with Karimah Cornelius - Stith: LinkedIn | Website Connect with Monique Russell: ⁠LinkedIn ⁠| ⁠Instagram⁠ | ⁠Facebook ⁠| ⁠Youtube Or email with feedback or questions: [e-mail] Produced by Breadfruit Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices