Brother Sister Whatever

Welcome to Brother Sister Whatever — the podcast where growing up GenX or Xennial meant chasing streetlights, drinking from the hose, and emotionally imprinting on after-school specials.

Hosted by real-life siblings Lisa (the burnt-out perfectionist) and Josh (the strategic underachiever), this is your bi-weekly dose of 80s/90s nostalgia, brutally honest midlife commentary, and ongoing sibling debates about whose memory is actually ...

We made it. 24 episodes later, Season One is officially a wrap.
What started with Lisa’s fear of recording and Josh’s “let’s just wing it” energy has grown into something real: a structured (but still chaotic) sibling podcast built on honesty, growth, and way too many personal confessions.

In our Season 1 finale, we reflect on:
 → The evolution of our dynamic (spoiler: we barely disagreed)
 → Josh’s mic-drop moment abou...

Josh and Lisa say goodbye to their most chaotic segment ever, the Weekly What If, revisiting six favorite questions and debuting two brand new ones to open and close this beautiful mess.

• Josh would choose to live in Dragon Ball Z as Goku, while Lisa prefers Sweet Valley High books as a sidekick character
• Lisa would travel back to the 1990s which she calls "her decade," while Josh acknowledges he's ha...

What’s the lie you tell yourself the most? “I don’t care what people think”? “I’ll do it later”? “I’m fine”?

In this reflective rewatch of our most-downloaded episode ever, Lisa and Josh revisit The Lies We Tell Ourselves—and things hit a little harder the second time around. From quiet self-deceptions to white lies we tell our kids, this episode explores how our relationship with truth shifts over time.

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What’s the difference between real self-care and just...numbing out? In this rewatch of one of our most popular episodes, Lisa and Josh break down the blurred line between authentic self-care and self-indulgent habits that leave you drained.

With fresh commentary from both masculine and feminine perspectives, they ask:

• Is self-care about bubble baths or boundaries?
• Are men still made to feel guilty for resting?
• Can gaming, snacks, ...

Remember when summer meant biking until the streetlights came on, catching fireflies, and dodging the neighbor’s terrifying dog? In this nostalgia-heavy episode, we’re throwing it back to the 90s—when summer was sticky, chaotic, and absolutely glorious.

From PEI farm adventures and popsicle brain freezes to street hockey and reading under a box fan, Lisa and Josh swap stories of childhood freedom and the moment summer stopped feelin...

Lisa and Josh explore their favorite comfort items, foods, smells, and sounds while debating what makes something truly comforting in this cozy episode.

• Weekly What-If: What if every comfort item became illegal – what would you smuggle?
• Physical comfort items vs food comfort items – Lisa loves her cozy nook, Josh can't live without lasagna
• The chemical reaction in our brains when we experience comfort

Ever wondered if all this self-improvement stuff is actually making us better—or just making us obsessed? Josh and Lisa dive headfirst into the complicated world of modern self-help, questioning when personal growth becomes a personality trait and why we're all suddenly desperate to fix ourselves.

The siblings share candid stories about their own journeys, from Josh's realization that gaming had become a void-fil...

Fandoms aren’t just about celebrities or fictional characters—they’re emotional homes where we process feelings, celebrate obsession, and find community through shared passion.

In this episode, Lisa and Josh dive into the world of fandom culture—from cosplay and gaming to music and underdog stories:

• Are you a casual fan or a full-blown Swiftie?
 • How cosplay helps people embody resilience and identity
 • Celebrities who lo...

We explore the powerful concept of doing absolutely nothing—and why that might be the most revolutionary act of self-care in a world obsessed with hustle. From battling the guilt that creeps in when we rest to carving out sacred spaces for flop-mode living, this episode is all about embracing stillness.

Featuring: 

• A “Would You Survive?” scenario: 8 hours in a silent room with only your thoughts
 • Why rest feels wrong even whe...

We dive deep into the psychology of FOMO, exploring why we feel it, how it impacts our mental health, and whether we're actually missing out or just falling for an illusion fueled by social media. This conversation reveals universal truths about our desire to keep up with others while questioning the need to compare ourselves at all.

• FOMO represents an emotional cocktail of envy, regret, and self-doubt often trigger...

We take a deep dive into regrets that have shaped our lives, exploring the moments that haunt us and the lessons they've taught us along the way. From financial missteps to spending too much time on other people, we share personal stories about the experiences we wish we could do over.

• Weekly What If: Could you erase one moment in your life if you'd lose all the lessons from it?
• Financial regrets and the ...

We explore our complicated relationship with the outdoors, sharing personal stories about camping, swimming fears, and the surprising psychological benefits of reconnecting with nature.

• Weekly “What If”: Could we survive a week completely offline in the wilderness?
 • Josh reveals he doesn’t know how to swim—and how that shaped his childhood
 • Stories from Spartan races, Mud Girl competitions, and pushing past comfort zon...

Ever wonder why certain tiny behaviors can trigger such a disproportionate emotional response? From the person who places their phone face-down during your conversation (a sign of respect or subtle disrespect?) to the maddening habit of leaving dishes beside rather than in the sink, this episode dives deep into the psychology of pet peeves.

We explore whether these seemingly minor irritations might actually reveal somethin...

What transforms a simple activity into a meaningful hobby? Is it the joy of creation, the thrill of skill-building, or perhaps the escape it provides from everyday pressures? 

In this thought-provoking episode, we peel back the layers on what makes our favorite pastimes so essential to our wellbeing and identity. Josh opens up about his newfound passion for collecting Dragon Ball Z cards alongside his son's One Piece ...

Are you truly an introvert, extrovert, or something else entirely? This captivating exploration of personality types ventures beyond simplistic labels to uncover the fluid nature of our social batteries and how they shape our interactions.

We journey through the fascinating spectrum of personality types, introducing listeners to ambiverts (balanced individuals with traits from both sides) and omniverts (those who dramatica...

Have you ever considered the powerful effect of the lies we tell ourselves? In this enlightening episode, we explore the insidious narratives that creep into our daily lives, often clouding our self-perception and preventing us from realizing our true potential. We open with an intriguing "what if" scenario, prompting you to reflect on the dreams you might have forgotten and how they shape your identity.

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What if you could instantly become a master of any skill, just like in "The Matrix"? Join us as we entertain this tantalizing thought experiment on "Brother, Sister, Whatever." Lisa dreams of mastering kung fu and jiu-jitsu for the empowerment and confidence it exudes, while Josh envisions a deep dive into the world of psychology, inspired by the analytical prowess of figures like Jordan Peterson. Together, we p...

Have you ever wondered how technology might be quietly altering the fabric of your family life? Join us, Lisa and Josh, on "Brother, Sister. Whatever" as we unpack this pressing question, sharing personal stories and insights along the way. We'll open up about the one piece of wisdom we'd impart to our children—Josh's heartfelt advice for Jett and Fallon, and Lisa's steadfast belief in trusting one&apo...