Brothr Podcast w/ Stu Murray

You were told being a good man would lead to love, respect, and connection. But if you're honest, all it's brought is resentment, rejection, and feeling like you're never enough.

In this raw conversation with Dr. Robert Glover, we expose the hidden patterns sabotaging high-performing men—especially the covert contracts silently destroying your relationships, sex life, and self-respect.

This isn't about blame. It's...

You think you're being the calm one. The grounded one. But avoiding hard conversations doesn’t preserve peace—it breeds quiet resentment and kills intimacy.

This video unpacks the hidden cost of emotional avoidance and redefines masculine leadership as the courage to face tension, not flee from it.

If you've ever felt like you're doing everything right—but still losing connection—this one’s for you.

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There’s a silence most men carry—one shaped by shame, trauma, and a world that taught us to armor up instead of open up.In this raw and revelatory conversation, Dr. Gary Barker unpacks the unspoken pain men inherit and the quiet crisis of emotional disconnection shaping modern masculinity. From war zones to boardrooms, he’s seen the same wounds… and the same potential for healing.What if the strength we’ve been chasing is actually ...

Why are so many men feeling lost, angry, or disconnected? It’s not because masculinity is toxic — it’s because we’ve removed the very things that helped boys grow into strong, mature men.In this video, I break down:- Why masculinity isn’t the problem — immaturity is- How fatherlessness, lack of mentorship, and no rite of passage created a crisis in modern manhood- The high cost of undervaluing men in society- What mature masculinit...

Are you a high-performing man who's mastered control, but feels like you're cracking underneath it? This video is for leaders, founders, and high-achieving men who appear strong on the outside but silently struggle with stress, emotional shutdown, and burnout behind the scenes.In this video, you'll discover: • Why emotional mastery—not emotional suppression—is the key to sustainable leadership • The hidden cost of contr...

What happens when you lose everything—your money, your identity, your sense of purpose?In this raw and powerful conversation, we sit down with a man who hit rock bottom: $200,000 in debt, lost in lust, drowning in shame. But instead of breaking, he broke open. What followed was a radical awakening through faith, fatherhood, and purpose-driven leadership.This video isn’t just about religion—it’s about what happens when a man stops p...

Most men don’t realize it—but the reason she’s pulling away isn’t about sex or success. It’s because she can’t feel you anymore.

Emotional repression, overthinking, or “being the rock”... it’s killing your connection.

In this video, I’ll show you why real strength isn’t about staying shut down—and how reclaiming your emotional power can actually save your relationship without making you weak.

This is for men tired of walki...

What happens when the life you built starts to feel like a prison?

In this raw and powerful conversation, Chris Goguen shares his journey from a decade working in corrections to rediscovering purpose, fatherhood, and emotional freedom.

He opens up about the cost of living out of alignment, the identity crisis that nearly broke him, and the healing practices that brought him back to life.In this episode,

we explore:

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Most people chase success. But after working with over 100 high-performing men I’ve seen what’s behind the curtain.

This video uncovers the 5 brutal truths that successful men rarely talk about. The emotional numbness. The constant proving. The relationships quietly falling apart while the business thrives.

If you feel like you’ve built a life that looks good on paper but feels empty in your chest, this is your wake-up call.

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The success you've chased is killing you from the inside. I know—I almost lost everything before discovering these 5 masculine lies.

In this video, I expose the toxic beliefs trapping high-performing men in silent suffering. You'll discover why "toughing it out" leaves you brittle and alone, why achievements never fill the void, and why vulnerability isn't weakness—it's your pathway to authentic power.

As someone who climbed the ladd...

Two-thirds of young men are single while dating apps have never been more popular. The disconnect isn't about your profile—it's about the foundation that makes authentic connection possible.

In this video, I break down the shocking statistics behind the modern dating crisis and reveal why so many high-performing men are struggling to form meaningful relationships despite wanting them. You'll discover the hidden societal shifts creat...

What if a Netflix drama was shaping real government policy… based on a story that’s not even true?

Adolescence, a fictional show about a 13-year-old boy who stabs a girl after being exposed to online “manosphere” content, is now being discussed by the UK Prime Minister as something students should watch in school.But there’s one huge problem: the scenario has never actually happened in real life.

In this video, I break down what Adol...

You’ve been the nice guy your whole life—saying yes, avoiding conflict, trying to be liked. But deep down, you know it’s not working.

In this video, I’ll show you how to stop people-pleasing and start living with self-respect, confidence, and purpose.

If you feel invisible, stuck, or unappreciated... this isn’t about becoming someone else. It’s about reclaiming the man you truly are.

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You think being a "Nice Guy" makes you a good man—but what if it’s secretly draining your confidence, relationships, and happiness? In this video, I reveal the 3 hidden costs of people-pleasing and how they keep you stuck in frustration, resentment, and fear.

Most men don’t realize how much their need for approval is sabotaging their lives—until it’s too late. If you’re tired of feeling disconnected, unappreciated, or powe...

Is being a 'Nice Guy' holding you back from getting what you want?

You always say yes. You avoid conflict. You put others before yourself, thinking it will earn you love and respect. But instead, you feel overlooked, frustrated, and unfulfilled.

Here’s the truth: Being "too nice" isn’t making you happy—it’s making you invisible.

In this episode, we break down:

✅ What the Nice Guy Syndrome is & why it’s keeping yo...

Why do so many men struggle with self-sabotage, doubt, and emotional blocks?

In this powerful episode, Pierre Cormier, a mindset coach and healing expert, opens up about his transformational journey—from battling self-sabotage to stepping fully into his purpose. After attending a life-changing men’s retreat, Pierre discovered the power of brotherhood, accountability, and deep emotional work.

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What does it truly mean to be a man in today’s world?

It’s not about muscles, money, or bravado. It’s about depth, self-awareness, and leadership.

In this powerful episode, I sit down with Riley Smith—certified men’s coach, breathwork facilitator, and advocate for authentic masculinity—to dive deep into the transformative power of men’s work.

We unpack:

✅ Why traditional masculinity is broken—and how it’s leaving men isolated and unful...

What separates a man who drifts through life from one who commands it? It’s not luck, talent, or just hard work—it starts with a clear vision.In this episode, Stu Murray, former educator turned men’s coach, explains why having a clear vision is the foundation for leadership, growth, and success. Without it, even the most talented men feel lost in the noise.

You’ll learn:

✅ The key to unlocking your full potential

✅ Why busyness is NOT...

Are lust and instant gratification controlling your life? It’s time to break free. In this video, I share proven strategies for resetting your dopamine system, mastering your impulses, and reclaiming your focus. With mindfulness and intentional habits, you’ll learn to shift from chasing quick fixes to building a meaningful and disciplined life. Start your transformation today.

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