Brothr Podcast w/ Stu Murray

Strong men don’t say "I have to," "I need to," or "I should"—but most guys leak power through this victim language without realizing it. These three phrases instantly signal weakness and make you appear untrustworthy to your wife, kids, and colleagues.If you're tired of feeling powerless, resentful, or like you're constantly seeking approval, this simple language shift will help you reclaim you...

Most men are performing strength instead of embodying it – and women can sense it from a mile away. After Wayne Barkus’ divorce, he discovered he was choking on his own truth, seeking approval from everyone except himself. This conversation reveals why the age of uninitiated men is ending and what rises from the ashes.

We explore the invisible forces keeping men sedated, the difference between fitting in and belonging, and why women...

What happens when a successful priest realizes he's "done everything right" but is dying inside? Father Michael Butler's panic attack at 45 became the catalyst for a profound transformation - and this raw conversation reveals exactly how it happened.In this conversation, Father Michael shares the brutal truth about male purpose, why thousands of young men are flooding into Orthodox churches, and the epidemic of di...

There's a voice inside you that knows things your logical mind hasn't figured out yet. I spent 8 years ignoring mine — until my body started screaming what my intuition had been whispering all along.

This is the story of walking away from a respected career in education, not because I hated it, but because something deeper was calling. It's about the dangerous comfort of "pretty good" opportunities and why the ...

Most men think avoiding conflict keeps the peace. But what if I told you that avoiding confrontation is actually the fastest way to kill intimacy in your relationship?After years as a firefighter struggling with PTSD and nearly losing his marriage, Markwell discovered something counterintuitive: conflict isn't the enemy of connection - it's the golden pathway to deeper intimacy. The very thing we're taught to avoid is a...

He shuts down. You stay calm. You speak your truth—and still feel like the villain. This video unpacks why that happens, how emotional unavailability shows up, and what to do next.You’ve done everything “right.”You’re calm. You’ve thought through your words. You’re not blaming or attacking—you’re just sharing how you feel. And somehow… he still shuts down.If every attempt to connect turns into defensiveness, avoidance, or being tol...

Semen retention, porn addiction recovery, male sexual energy, lust transmutation, and magnetic masculinity—if any of those topics hit home, this video is your field manual. Inside, coach Nikolas Das breaks down exactly how practicing semen retention and non-ejaculatory sex can end the dopamine loop of endless porn, ignite testosterone, and channel raw desire into purpose-driven discipline.You’ll learn why unchecked lust hijacks foc...

You said what needed to be said—but somehow, you still feel miles apart.This video unpacks the real reason most relationships fall apart—and it’s not what you think. It’s not yelling, cheating, or even the argument itself. It’s the emotional disconnection after conflict that slowly erodes intimacy and trust.

If you’ve ever felt like you're walking on eggshells, repeating the same fight, or wondering why your partner always shuts...

What if the glow-up you’re chasing is actually masking your deepest wound?

Looksmaxxing promises power—but delivers pressure, shame, and identity collapse. In this video, we expose what’s really behind the obsession with facial symmetry and “Chad status.” It's not vanity. It’s a survival strategy born from disconnection and despair.

Before you optimize another inch of your jawline—ask yourself: Who taught you that your face defin...

We don’t shut down because we don’t care. We shut down because we don’t feel safe.This isn’t just a “man thing” — it’s a human thing. In this episode, we explore the subtle, often unseen patterns that cause us to pull away from the people we love most. From unspoken fears to survival strategies masked as silence, this conversation unpacks what’s really happening beneath emotional disconnection.If you’ve ever felt confused by your p...

You were told being a good man would lead to love, respect, and connection. But if you're honest, all it's brought is resentment, rejection, and feeling like you're never enough.

In this raw conversation with Dr. Robert Glover, we expose the hidden patterns sabotaging high-performing men—especially the covert contracts silently destroying your relationships, sex life, and self-respect.

This isn't about blame. It's about ownership. It...

You think you're being the calm one. The grounded one. But avoiding hard conversations doesn’t preserve peace—it breeds quiet resentment and kills intimacy.

This video unpacks the hidden cost of emotional avoidance and redefines masculine leadership as the courage to face tension, not flee from it.

If you've ever felt like you're doing everything right—but still losing connection—this one’s for you.

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There’s a silence most men carry—one shaped by shame, trauma, and a world that taught us to armor up instead of open up.In this raw and revelatory conversation, Dr. Gary Barker unpacks the unspoken pain men inherit and the quiet crisis of emotional disconnection shaping modern masculinity. From war zones to boardrooms, he’s seen the same wounds… and the same potential for healing.What if the strength we’ve been chasing is actually ...

Why are so many men feeling lost, angry, or disconnected? It’s not because masculinity is toxic — it’s because we’ve removed the very things that helped boys grow into strong, mature men.In this video, I break down:- Why masculinity isn’t the problem — immaturity is- How fatherlessness, lack of mentorship, and no rite of passage created a crisis in modern manhood- The high cost of undervaluing men in society- What mature masculinit...

Are you a high-performing man who's mastered control, but feels like you're cracking underneath it? This video is for leaders, founders, and high-achieving men who appear strong on the outside but silently struggle with stress, emotional shutdown, and burnout behind the scenes.In this video, you'll discover:

• Why emotional mastery—not emotional suppression—is the key to sustainable leadership

• The hidden cost of contro...

What happens when you lose everything—your money, your identity, your sense of purpose?In this raw and powerful conversation, we sit down with a man who hit rock bottom: $200,000 in debt, lost in lust, drowning in shame. But instead of breaking, he broke open. What followed was a radical awakening through faith, fatherhood, and purpose-driven leadership.

This video isn’t just about religion—it’s about what happens when a man stops p...

Most men don’t realize it—but the reason she’s pulling away isn’t about sex or success. It’s because she can’t feel you anymore.

Emotional repression, overthinking, or “being the rock”... it’s killing your connection.

In this video, I’ll show you why real strength isn’t about staying shut down—and how reclaiming your emotional power can actually save your relationship without making you weak.

This is for men tired of walking on eg...

What happens when the life you built starts to feel like a prison?

In this raw and powerful conversation, Chris Goguen shares his journey from a decade working in corrections to rediscovering purpose, fatherhood, and emotional freedom.

He opens up about the cost of living out of alignment, the identity crisis that nearly broke him, and the healing practices that brought him back to life.In this episode,

we explore:

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Most people chase success. But after working with over 100 high-performing men I’ve seen what’s behind the curtain.

This video uncovers the 5 brutal truths that successful men rarely talk about. The emotional numbness. The constant proving. The relationships quietly falling apart while the business thrives.

If you feel like you’ve built a life that looks good on paper but feels empty in your chest, this is your wake-up call.

This isn’...