Build Your Happier Marriage
A happy marriage is what every married couple wants. They want to feel loved, supported, heard, respected, and desired. This does not mean a perfect marriage; a marriage that doesn't have problems. No! But it's one where you feel safe, secure, and satisfied. Right? How to get there is the challenge. And this is where I, Kingsley Grant, come in. I'm a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Relationship Coach, and Communication Expert, and has been married for almost four decades. I believe a happier marriage results from you and your spouse committing to creating an emotionally safe space as the starting point and then building toward a happier marriage. This happier marriage is possible using a scientific and Christian-based healing approach. This may involve marriage counseling, coaching, or live or virtual conferences. The ultimate goal is to Make Marriages Happier Again. Let's eradicate unhappiness from marriages globally!
Episodes
In this episode, we unpack Ayesha Curry (Steph Curry's wife), viral confession about her marriage, motherhood, and personal identity.
Ayesha’s raw honesty — admitting she never planned to be a wife or mom — shocked the internet. But behind the controversy lies a truth many Christian wives quietly wrestle with: “What happens when I love my family, but I’ve lost myself?”
You'll learn:
✅ Why it’s okay to admi...
Have you ever thought something was “just a joke,” only to realize later it actually hurt your husband?
In this episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, we unpack a viral clip of a wife who shattered her husband’s two-day puzzle project — all in the name of “fun.” What looked harmless to her left him deflated and silent.
Here’s the truth: moments like this are rarely about the puzzle, the trash, or the laundry. They’re a...
In this episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, I react to a viral clip of a woman claiming that staying loyal to your husband during hard times doesn’t make you supportive — it makes you “stupid.”
This kind of so-called “wisdom” has been spreading through TikTok and YouTube, feeding wives a dangerous narrative: that loyalty is weakness, that respect is outdated, and that marriage is nothing more than a transactional e...
Is gratitude optional in marriage?
According to one viral TikTok clip, yes.
In this episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, I react to a wife proudly declaring she doesn’t thank her husband for everyday responsibilities like taking out the trash, unloading the dishwasher, or making the bed.
What she doesn’t realize is that this “Diva Mentality” — fueled by feminism, cultural shifts, and social media trends — is toxi...
What happens when a wife no longer feels safe, protected, or defended by her husband?
In today’s episode, we dive into the heartbreaking story of a woman who left her husband—not because he cheated, not because he failed financially, but because he refused to stand up for her when it mattered most.
This episode uncovers one of the biggest mistakes many husbands make without realizing it: failing to protect their wives e...
When your husband seems distant, quiet, or emotionally absent, it’s one of the most painful experiences a wife can face.
He’s physically there, but it feels like his heart has left the room.
Why does this happen — and what can you do about it?
In this episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, we unpack the #1 reason husbands emotionally check out of their marriages.
You’ll discover:
- The silent pattern that causes men ...
Is it possible for respect to overfuel a husband’s hustle?
In today’s episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, we unpack the story of a man who works seven days a week—12-hour shifts, side hustles, no rest days—because he feels respected and supported at home.
On the surface, it looks admirable. But what happens when that drive becomes unsustainable? When marriage turns into a transaction—“I’ll pay you to stay home”—ins...
What happens when a woman walks away from hustle culture and embraces God’s design for marriage—even before she says “I do”?
In this episode, you’ll hear the powerful story of a former “Boss Babe” who traded the grind for something richer, deeper, and more fulfilling. I’ll break down:
- Why the “Boss Babe” mindset leaves so many women empty.
- How aligning with God’s blueprint changes everything in marriage.
- What wives of...
They said “I do”… and then moved into their car.
What sounds like a quirky newlywed adventure might actually be a fast track to frustration—and a warning sign for wives of high achieving, career entrepreneurial husbands. In this episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, Kingsley Grant breaks down the story of a couple who traded stability for spontaneity, why this kind of decision can strain even the strongest marriages,...
She has a good man.
Three beautiful kids.
A home, a stable life… even a planned vow renewal trip.
So why is she emotionally preparing for divorce?
In this eye-opening episode, Kingsley Grant—Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, Christian Relationship Coach, and author of The Joyful Wife—dives into the unseen emotional and spiritual disconnect many wives feel in seemingly “good” marriages.
Using raw insights ...
In this powerful episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, Kingsley reacts to a surprising and concerning comment made by former President Barack Obama, where he credits a gay professor for teaching him one of the “most valuable lessons” as a man. But the issue goes much deeper…
👉🏽 What happens when culture starts promoting alternative mentors in place of godly fathers?
👉🏽 What message does this send to Christian fami...
What would you do if your husband’s secret life was exposed… on a Kiss Cam?
That’s what happened to Andy Byron, CEO of Astronomer, and Kristen Cabot, the company’s HR director, when their “moment” at a Coldplay concert went viral — and shattered two marriages in the process.
But this isn’t just a scandal to gawk at — it’s a sobering warning for Christian wives who’ve quietly feared that emotional disconnection in their ...
In this episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, we tackle a topic that hits home for many wives of high-achieving, entrepreneurial husbands:
Why won’t he open up to you—even when you’ve asked nicely, prayed about it, or tried everything you know to connect emotionally?
We dig into the emotional walls men like Shaquille O’Neal often build—and why those walls aren’t necessarily about you, but about something deeper.
You’l...
In this jaw-dropping episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, we explore the true story of a husband who had to fake his own death… because his wife hired a hitman.
Yes, really.
But the real shocker? The damage started long before the murder plot — and what this couple experienced is far more common than you might think.
As a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and Christian relationship coach, I’m breaking down the ...
How does this even make sense? Husband. Wife. Boyfriend. Jealousy.
It sounds like a tabloid headline—but it’s real. A married woman proudly talks about her long-term boyfriend and even claims her husband is jealous of her boyfriend.
In this episode, we unpack how culture has twisted the sacredness of marriage, giving adultery a new name: “polyamory.”
But let’s be clear—just because you rename something doesn’t mean it st...
What happens when a wife goes too far, thinking her “small mistake” wouldn’t cost her the marriage? In this episode, you’ll hear the powerful (and heartbreaking) moment a woman shares what led to her husband walking out—and why she never saw it coming.
Whether or not you’ve made a mistake like this, there’s a crucial lesson here about how even small cracks in a relationship can cause massive breaks if left unchecked.
Th...
In this episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, Kingsley unpacks the emotional downfall of a viral TikTok wife who shared her raw frustrations with the world—only to push her husband away in the process. This powerful real-life example shows what happens when hurt is broadcast instead of processed.
If you’ve ever felt invisible, emotionally drained, or tempted to air your struggles publicly, this is an episode you can’...
In this powerful episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, we’re digging into the real and raw emotions that follow divorce… the kind most people don’t talk about until it’s too late.
💔 You’ll hear from women who thought they’d be happier after leaving…
But found themselves grieving more than they imagined.
We’ll explore:
✅ Why culture sells us on “freedom” but hides the pain
✅ What the Bible really says a...
What if your husband says all the right things… but something still feels off?
In today’s episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, we’re diving into what emotional manipulation really looks like in marriage—and how to recognize the subtle signs before they turn into deep regret.
Inspired by a jaw-dropping moment from a recent Dr. Phil episode, we unpack how a man used charm, confusion, and half-truths to keep two women ...
n this episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, we’re diving into a powerful lesson that could save you from deep marriage regret.
Too many wives fall into a painful trap, thinking they’re doing the right thing—only to realize later that it cost them dearly.
Today, we’ll uncover this one critical mistake, why it happens, and most importantly, how to avoid it.
You’ll hear a shocking real-life story that perfectly illustr...
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