Build Your Happier Marriage
A happy marriage is what every married couple wants. They want to feel loved, supported, heard, respected, and desired. This does not mean a perfect marriage; a marriage that doesn't have problems. No! But it's one where you feel safe, secure, and satisfied. Right? How to get there is the challenge. And this is where I, Kingsley Grant, come in. I'm a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Relationship Coach, and Communication Expert, and has been married for almost four decades. I believe a happier marriage results from you and your spouse committing to creating an emotionally safe space as the starting point and then building toward a happier marriage. This happier marriage is possible using a scientific and Christian-based healing approach. This may involve marriage counseling, coaching, or live or virtual conferences. The ultimate goal is to Make Marriages Happier Again. Let's eradicate unhappiness from marriages globally!
Episodes
When JD Vance publicly shared that he prays for his wife Usha Vance to one day come to faith in Christ, the internet exploded.
Some labeled him controlling… others said he “disrespected” his wife… and almost everyone missed the biblical truth sitting right in front of them.
In this powerful episode, you'll discover why JD Vance’s statement wasn’t arrogance — it was love with eternal vision.
You’ll learn what Scrip...
This one might sting — but it’s needed. In today’s episode, you'll uncover what the Bible really says about the “contentious wife” — the type of wife no one wants to admit exists, but every husband fears becoming the target of.
We’ve all heard about controlling or narcissistic men… but Scripture also warns about wives whose words can wound deeper than they realize.
You’ll learn why unintentional disrespect quietly...
What happens when pain takes the mic?
In this episode, I break down the viral story of a husband who exposed his cheating wife — in front of everyone — at his own birthday party. It was shocking, emotional, and raw. But what he lost in that moment was far more than dignity.
If you’ve ever been hurt or betrayed in your marriage, this episode will help you understand why revenge feels tempting but never brings healing.
L...
Discover the secret to a marriage that lasts decades!
In this episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, I share the story of a couple married for over 30 years and the powerful words the husband said early in their marriage that shaped their lifelong bond.
Learn how covenant commitment, compromise, and grace—not perfection—can transform your marriage.
If you’ve ever felt disconnected, unseen, or unheard in your relation...
In this powerful episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, Kingsley Grant tackles one of the most misunderstood and controversial topics in Christian marriage today — submission.
You’ve heard the cultural narrative: “Submission means weakness.” Or worse, “It means control.” But what if both are wrong?
In this episode, Kingsley breaks down:
- Why many wives unknowingly undermine the very leadership they pray for.
- What Bibl...
In this episode, we unpack Ayesha Curry (Steph Curry's wife), viral confession about her marriage, motherhood, and personal identity.
Ayesha’s raw honesty — admitting she never planned to be a wife or mom — shocked the internet. But behind the controversy lies a truth many Christian wives quietly wrestle with: “What happens when I love my family, but I’ve lost myself?”
You'll learn:
✅ Why it’s okay to admi...
Have you ever thought something was “just a joke,” only to realize later it actually hurt your husband?
In this episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, we unpack a viral clip of a wife who shattered her husband’s two-day puzzle project — all in the name of “fun.” What looked harmless to her left him deflated and silent.
Here’s the truth: moments like this are rarely about the puzzle, the trash, or the laundry. They’re a...
In this episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, I react to a viral clip of a woman claiming that staying loyal to your husband during hard times doesn’t make you supportive — it makes you “stupid.”
This kind of so-called “wisdom” has been spreading through TikTok and YouTube, feeding wives a dangerous narrative: that loyalty is weakness, that respect is outdated, and that marriage is nothing more than a transactional e...
Is gratitude optional in marriage?
According to one viral TikTok clip, yes.
In this episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, I react to a wife proudly declaring she doesn’t thank her husband for everyday responsibilities like taking out the trash, unloading the dishwasher, or making the bed.
What she doesn’t realize is that this “Diva Mentality” — fueled by feminism, cultural shifts, and social media trends — is toxi...
What happens when a wife no longer feels safe, protected, or defended by her husband?
In today’s episode, we dive into the heartbreaking story of a woman who left her husband—not because he cheated, not because he failed financially, but because he refused to stand up for her when it mattered most.
This episode uncovers one of the biggest mistakes many husbands make without realizing it: failing to protect their wives e...
When your husband seems distant, quiet, or emotionally absent, it’s one of the most painful experiences a wife can face.
He’s physically there, but it feels like his heart has left the room.
Why does this happen — and what can you do about it?
In this episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, we unpack the #1 reason husbands emotionally check out of their marriages.
You’ll discover:
- The silent pattern that causes men ...
Is it possible for respect to overfuel a husband’s hustle?
In today’s episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, we unpack the story of a man who works seven days a week—12-hour shifts, side hustles, no rest days—because he feels respected and supported at home.
On the surface, it looks admirable. But what happens when that drive becomes unsustainable? When marriage turns into a transaction—“I’ll pay you to stay home”—ins...
What happens when a woman walks away from hustle culture and embraces God’s design for marriage—even before she says “I do”?
In this episode, you’ll hear the powerful story of a former “Boss Babe” who traded the grind for something richer, deeper, and more fulfilling. I’ll break down:
- Why the “Boss Babe” mindset leaves so many women empty.
- How aligning with God’s blueprint changes everything in marriage.
- What wives of...
They said “I do”… and then moved into their car.
What sounds like a quirky newlywed adventure might actually be a fast track to frustration—and a warning sign for wives of high achieving, career entrepreneurial husbands. In this episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, Kingsley Grant breaks down the story of a couple who traded stability for spontaneity, why this kind of decision can strain even the strongest marriages,...
She has a good man.
Three beautiful kids.
A home, a stable life… even a planned vow renewal trip.
So why is she emotionally preparing for divorce?
In this eye-opening episode, Kingsley Grant—Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, Christian Relationship Coach, and author of The Joyful Wife—dives into the unseen emotional and spiritual disconnect many wives feel in seemingly “good” marriages.
Using raw insights ...
In this powerful episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, Kingsley reacts to a surprising and concerning comment made by former President Barack Obama, where he credits a gay professor for teaching him one of the “most valuable lessons” as a man. But the issue goes much deeper…
👉🏽 What happens when culture starts promoting alternative mentors in place of godly fathers?
👉🏽 What message does this send to Christian fami...
What would you do if your husband’s secret life was exposed… on a Kiss Cam?
That’s what happened to Andy Byron, CEO of Astronomer, and Kristen Cabot, the company’s HR director, when their “moment” at a Coldplay concert went viral — and shattered two marriages in the process.
But this isn’t just a scandal to gawk at — it’s a sobering warning for Christian wives who’ve quietly feared that emotional disconnection in their ...
In this episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, we tackle a topic that hits home for many wives of high-achieving, entrepreneurial husbands:
Why won’t he open up to you—even when you’ve asked nicely, prayed about it, or tried everything you know to connect emotionally?
We dig into the emotional walls men like Shaquille O’Neal often build—and why those walls aren’t necessarily about you, but about something deeper.
You’l...
In this jaw-dropping episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, we explore the true story of a husband who had to fake his own death… because his wife hired a hitman.
Yes, really.
But the real shocker? The damage started long before the murder plot — and what this couple experienced is far more common than you might think.
As a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and Christian relationship coach, I’m breaking down the ...
How does this even make sense? Husband. Wife. Boyfriend. Jealousy.
It sounds like a tabloid headline—but it’s real. A married woman proudly talks about her long-term boyfriend and even claims her husband is jealous of her boyfriend.
In this episode, we unpack how culture has twisted the sacredness of marriage, giving adultery a new name: “polyamory.”
But let’s be clear—just because you rename something doesn’t mean it st...
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