Sandra Arnold: Raising Resilient Kids While Building Wealth

In this powerful episode of Burning the Ships, I sit down with Sandra Arnold — a real estate investor, wife, mom of three, and Sweden native whose journey embodies grit, resilience, and reinvention.

Sandra shares how growing up with a father battling addiction shaped her drive to create a better life, one built on independence, hard work, and purpose. From leaving Sweden for college in the U.S., to balancing motherhood, homeschooling during the pandemic, and ultimately building a real estate portfolio and her first new construction project from the ground up, her story is one of courage and continual growth.

We also dive deep into motherhood, mentorship, private lending, short-term rentals, and the delicate balance between giving your kids a better life without shielding them from real-world lessons.

If you’ve ever wondered how to chase big dreams while keeping family first, this episode will leave you inspired to take action, no matter where you’re starting from.

Key Talking Points of the Episode

00:00 Introduction

01:05 JJ’s Joke of the Week

02:20 Childhood and early motivations: growing up in Sweden, navigating a difficult home environment, and deciding to create a different life.

05:44 Lessons learned about resilience, self-reliance, and determination from losing her father

09:22 Moving to the U.S. at 19 to attend George Mason University

11:37 Meeting her husband, navigating deployment, and building a life together across continents

12:36 Life between Sweden and the U.S.: culture, family, and finding where “home” really is

14:20 Challenges during the pandemic: moving back to the US, deciding to homeschool

17:31 Discovering real estate investing through BiggerPockets, RING meetups, and finding inspiration in the Richmond investing community

20:40 Lessons learned through homeschooling for the first time

23:51 The first duplex: learning about evictions, repairs, and real-world education

30:13 Joining Brandon Lindsay’s Rehab Playbook and building her first investment property from scratch

33:52 The power of mentorship and how having a guide builds confidence, community, and results

39:11 Turning the new build into a short-term rental: strategy, returns, and Hopewell’s hidden potential

45:01 Future vision: expanding into build-to-rent models and sustainable growth

46:39 Discovering private lending through self-directed retirement accounts

51:30 Balancing motherhood and business, raising grounded kids while running a growing real estate portfolio

55:40 Family travel and point hacking: how Sandra uses credit card points to fund world travel for her family.

01:00:10 Parenting through privilege: raising resilient, grateful kids in a better world than the one you came from.

Quotables

“I just decided this is not going to be me. The only way out was to get good grades and take responsibility for my own life.”

“I didn’t want to just outsource building a house. I wanted to learn how to build a house so I could keep doing it.”

“Having a mentor gives you confidence. When things go wrong, they’ve seen it before, and you realize — everything is figureoutable.”

Links

Sandra Arnold

https://www.facebook.com/sandramarnold

608B Capital

https://608bcapital.com