By the Bi

By the Bi

By the Bi is a podcast for curious minds and open hearts—whether you’re bi, non-monogamous, kinky, or just wondering what it’s like to step outside the hetero-norm. Hosted by a bisexual expat couple, Bradford and Angela, based in Sydney, we dive into real conversations about bisexuality, swinging, open relationships, BDSM, and the messy, beautiful realities of non-traditional love and sex. Every episode blends personal stories with thoughtful discussions, listener questions, interviews with guests from around the globe, and the occasional cocktail-fuelled confession. We don’t have all the answers—but we’re not afraid to ask the questions your vanilla friends won’t touch. Whether you’re exploring your own sexuality, seeking practical advice, or just want to feel seen, By the Bi offers a welcoming, inclusive space for everyone across the spectrum. So pull up a seat, pour yourself something tasty, and let’s talk about the things no one else will. Oh, and by the bi… we’re damn glad you’re here. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episodes

August 20, 2025 59 mins

From the sugared thighs of Ancient Egypt to the shimmering vajazzles of the 2000s, this solo episode dives deep into the sensual, political, and power-laden history of pubic hair removal. Bradford takes Angela on an intimate journey through time—where grooming rituals weren’t just about beauty, but about gender, class, control, and desire.


We trace how hairlessness became sacred, sinful, scandalous, and—eventually—optional. Alon...

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This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford take you inside their cheeky adventure at Melbourne’s Museum of Desire — an immersive playground of sensuality, art, and introspection. While wandering through this unique space, we found ourselves face-to-face with a Never Have I Ever game built for two. As we reveal our own risqué answers, we also disclose how our experiences compared to the percentages of other museum-goers who had pla...

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In this solo episode, Angela opens up about the emotional rollercoaster of body image in non-monogamous and kink spaces. From first-party nerves to reclaiming confidence at every age and size, she shares personal stories, practical tips, and empowering insights on navigating body shame and embracing desire without apology. Whether you’re new to the lifestyle or a seasoned player, this is your reminder: your body is worthy of pleasu...

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July 9, 2025 72 mins

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Get ready for a thrilling ride on this week’s episode of By the Bi, where Angela turns host for a game of high stakes and high voltage called “By the Bi - I Hope I Don’t Die!” Listen as Bradford and The Gentleman put their sex trivia knowledge to the test, with each correct answer earning them a tantalizing shock from the Neon Wand, and each miss bringing a painful zap.


This electrifying game will reveal just how m...

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June 25, 2025 52 mins

This week on By the Bi, Angela sits down with a very cheeky Bradford to unpack his latest solo travel adventures—and let’s just say, things got spicy. From spontaneous Sniffies hookups and steamy cruise room encounters to massages that definitely crossed into naughty territory, Bradford’s been making the most of life on the road.


Join us for a candid, hilarious, and oh-so-saucy episode as we explore the thrills (and occasional c...

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June 11, 2025 54 mins

This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford had one goal: a sexy, well-planned dirty weekend. What actually happened? Well… let’s just say, things didn’t quite go according to plan. From unexpected detours to logistical hiccups (and Bradford going delightfully off the rails more than once), this episode is all about embracing the mess, laughing through the chaos, and finding the fun even when things go sideways.


Join us as we re...

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May 28, 2025 50 mins

Before streaming, before OnlyFans, before incognito mode — there were blue cinemas. This week, we’re peeling back the curtain on the forgotten world of adult movie theaters: where porn was communal, seats were sticky, and trench coats weren’t just for the weather.


We’re talking about how these spaces shaped everything from censorship laws to queer cruising culture, why the U.S. Supreme Court once had to define porn (and totally ...

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May 14, 2025 54 mins

This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford dive into a topic that doesn’t get talked about nearly enough—the post-kink and party drop. Whether it’s after an intense BDSM scene, an emotionally charged connection, or a euphoric night at a lifestyle event, the crash that follows can be real, raw, and confusing.


In this episode, we explore what “the drop” feels like, why it happens, and how to care for yourself—and your partners—wh...

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April 30, 2025 67 mins

Venture beyond the velvet rope with us into a world where fantasy meets reality in grand, public settings. From the anticipation of dressing up to the thrill of stepping into a room buzzing with like-minded adventurers, discover what makes these events a magnet for those curious about or deeply embedded in the kink community.


In this episode, Angela and Bradford share their perspectives on the vibrant atmosphere, the community e...

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April 16, 2025 63 mins

We’re back, baby! After a little time away, we’re reconnecting, recharging, and ready to dive back into all things By the Bi. In this episode, we catch you up on where we’ve been, what’s been brewing, and how damn good it feels to be back in your ears.


But that’s not all—strap in as we take you inside our latest (and dare we say greatest?) Pendulum Party yet. From sexy surprises to magical moments, this one had it all. Whether y...

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April 1, 2025 104 mins

Dive deep into the exhilarating world of pegging with our special double feature re-release of Episodes 83 and 84 of By the Bi! In these fan-favorite episodes, Angela and Bradford explore everything you need to know about pegging—from the basics of getting started to advanced tips for those looking to enhance their experience. Discover the joys, challenges, and intimate bonding that pegging can bring to a relationship.


Whether y...

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March 5, 2025 45 mins

Join Angela and Bradford on a vibrant journey in this episode of By the Bi as they recount their exhilarating experience marching with Biconic at the Mardi Gras parade. Immerse yourself in the pulsating beats, vivid colors, and spirited cheers that define one of the most iconic celebrations of LGBTQ+ pride and diversity. From the flurry of feathers and sequins to the powerful messages of love and acceptance, our hosts share their p...

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February 18, 2025 50 mins

This week we talk about some of our excursions and play we’ve had at Chateau Vino in Gold Cost, an afternoon with The Gentleman, and more!


Sit back and enjoy some sexy stories.


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Dive into the heart of understanding and intimacy on this episode of By the Bi as Angela and Bradford play “We’re Not Really Strangers” with guests Coby and Judy. This thought-provoking card game is designed to deepen the connections between players through a series of personal and insightful questions. Watch as our hosts and their guests embark on a journey of discovery, revealing hidden facets of their relationships and personal ...

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January 22, 2025 64 mins

Pack your bags and grab your lanyards—Bradford and Angela are setting sail on their first-ever swingers cruise! In this episode of By the Bi, we’re taking you behind the scenes of the ultimate floating lifestyle experience. From the anticipation of stepping aboard to the steamy encounters at sea, we’re sharing it all.


Join us as we dive into our expectations, surprises, and lessons learned from this exciting adventure. Did the r...

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January 8, 2025 63 mins

Ring in the new year with a heartfelt look back and an eager gaze forward on this episode of By the Bi. Join Angela and Bradford as they revisit the hopes and goals they set at the stroke of last New Year’s Eve, exploring the victories, the challenges, and everything in-between. From personal milestones to podcast achievements, get an intimate look at how the year unfolded for your favorite hosts.


In the spirit of renewal and gr...

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December 25, 2024 3 mins

Well it’s that time of year…. Take care of yourselves. We love you.


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December 10, 2024 47 mins

Step into the colorful world of queer flagging on this episode of By the Bi. Angela and Bradford explore the intricate and historical art of flagging, a coded language of colors and patterns used within the LGBTQ+ community to express identity, desires, and boundaries. Originating in the underground scenes of the 1970s, flagging has evolved from the traditional hanky codes to include contemporary twists like accessories and digital...

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November 27, 2024 60 mins

Join Angela and Bradford for a very special live episode of By the Bi, broadcasting directly from the sun-soaked and sensational Xcape to the Tropics 2024! Dive into the heart of this exotic getaway as our hosts share their experiences, interviews, and unexpected adventures from one of the hottest lifestyle events of the year.


From vibrant theme nights like Pop Culture and Dirty Disney to intimate conversations with fellow atten...

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November 14, 2024 46 mins

This week on By the Bi, strap in for a hot and steamy recount as Bradford shares his tantalizing tales from Renos Relaxing, a popular gay sauna in Zurich. Join Angela and Bradford as they delve into a series of sexy adventures that unfold behind the sauna’s discreet doors.


From flirtatious encounters to unexpected connections, Bradford reveals the exhilarating experiences and playful escapades that highlighted his visit. Whether...

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