June 2, 2025 • 27 mins
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Hi, welcome to the latest episode of Call Me Mistress.
I'm your Hostess, Mistress Mia, and I've got with me Madam Live.
Hi, guys. Then we've got our other little
slave boy here, Charles. Hello.
Good. Morning, Charles.
Good. Morning.
CC Oh, that's the dragon thing. Calls him Charlie.
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How you doing, Charlie? I like that.
Cute. And that's sweet.
It is. It's like, is it a British
thing? But you know, Charlie's short
for Charles. I know, that's awesome.
So she was like, why not? Oh, Charlie is short for
Charles. Yes.
I don't know why I was thinking the other way.
Around No, no, no. They also say Chuck, which is
awful. Or Chucky, you know.
They did that to me in Korea. Yeah.
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They knew I hated it, so they. Yeah.
And it was too late. Military, they something like
that and they just fucking stickwith it.
So I was chucked for a year and a half you fuckers.
All right, So interesting scenesthat we've been through in the
dungeon and potential scenes that we'll be in in the future.
Charles has gone through a lot in his past where he's met
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multiple Doms, etc, etc. And the point of this episode.
So we're going to stay on track.That's very essential is that
we're talking about fantasy versus reality and how people
build up with the expectation ofwhat they want in a session when
in fact, when they actually comefor the session, they realize
there's at some point it's a no go.
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All right. So Charles, you were talking
earlier and you were saying thatthe build up of CBT for example,
or the build up of something in an actual specific scene, you
have to stop at a point. I can never go as far as I want
before going like in the past when I go to a pro Dom, I would
have this fantasy and it might be a few months before I was
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able to go see one. And so you keep coming up with
different scenarios over and over and over again in your mind
about how it will go. And in your mind you think you
can take more than what you really can.
OK, so I will go see a pro Dom. Let's take CBT for example.
Most men don't like being kickedin the balls.
Big shock. But you have to, for me, I have
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to build up to it. I have to be like either really
horny or really angry and go slow and, and it builds towards
it. But I could never take as much
as I think I can in my fantasies.
The same with the strap on. A lot of guys want, oh, I want
the biggest, blackest Dick you've got and it's not going to
work. You got to start slow and build
up and you can't go in there basically dry, you know, like if
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you've never had anything in your butt and you go to a Dom,
you know. Yeah, I want to take it all.
Going to have a bad time. I've done that before because I
thought I could take something large and then the next thing
you know, she's got this triangle shape standing up my
butt. And I'm like instant regret.
And I tried to keep going. But at some point you've got to
use your safe word. And in your fantasies, you think
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you can take a lot more than youcan.
That was the gist. Of all right, so my experience,
this has been within the last 10years.
It was, it was quite funny. So I had this guy and he called
me multiple times for about two weeks, for about two weeks
before we actually met. And he was talking about, you
know, one in wanting to be abducted.
He wanted pegging, he wanted to be cross dressed.
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He wanted all these things basically a lot.
So I told him I said, look, I said, this sounds like an all
day affair. He's like, Oh yeah, we're gonna
make it all day. And so he would drive down from
New York and he wanted to come to a Dom in Florida and I, I'm
assuming he was somewhere in thearea that he had bought property
or something that effect. And so we thought, oh, you know,
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great, I'll meet a Dom. So in contacting me, he told me
he's like, yeah, I've got this great strap on.
I'm going to gift you. It actually has the fake pre cum
and ejaculate that you can put in the strap on.
So you could come in my ass if you want to.
Want to buy one of those? Yeah, it's fun, right?
So I thought, Oh yeah, neat. OK, so then we continue on and
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like I said, we go in pretty great detail about a lot.
And so we, we go to, you know, that morning and I told him and
I said, look, you come in to seeme at 8:00 AM.
Let's let's start early and we'll proceed from there.
And I said we're going to make this, you know, we'll make this
an, an 8 hour affair. So he'll come at 8:00 AM and
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we'll continue through until 4:00.
So he wanted to go somewhere andbe used, but abducted there.
And I said, you know, I'm happy to do that.
I've done it before. It's been a lot of fun, blah,
blah, blah. So the morning of Bree and I
were sitting in the dungeon, youknow, it's all red lights.
It's kind of intimidating. It's 8:00 AM.
Now, mind you, he called me. He called me like at 6:30 that
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morning. He's like, hey, mistress, you
know, he's Italian. Hey, mistress.
Oh, I got to do the accent because it's fucking hilarious,
you know, because you could imagine this guy looks like he
the straight up Italian, like hewas part of a mafia family.
Because this man comes in wearing a Nike jumpsuit, OK, a
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red fucking jumpsuit. And he had a a towel around his
neck like fat, sweaty Italians too.
And that's cool because I love Italian men.
Go ahead and do it. Look sexy with your You know
your towel, your sweat, and your.
Pinky rings, yeah. He had a fucking pinky ring.
It was so so My Cousin Vinny. It was great.
Anyway, so he comes in, he's like, he calls me first and he's
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like, hey, mistress, you want toyou want to meet me for
breakfast? I said no, this is business.
You come to my dungeon. We're not going on a date for
breakfast. And he's like, well, can I bring
you coffee? I said no, no, no, don't bring
me anything. Just be here promptly at 8:00
AM, Said OK. So he comes in, I show him in
and we're sitting there. Now, you know, I'm wearing some
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PVC as I do. Bree is dressed in this
elaborate corset and little skirt and stockings and big
heels. I mean, she always dressed to
the 9. And we're sitting there like,
we're getting ready to, like, verbally probe him.
And I said, well, come on in, Come sit down on the couch.
And immediately, his first wordsout of his mouth, He's like, I
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ain't gay or nothing. And I said, OK, and I'm not
either, and neither is she. And so I'm like, he wanted all
of this. But yet I think he was a little
offended by my transgender friend.
It's like shut the fuck. So anyway, so I said okay, so
have you been to a dungeon? He's like, no, you know, I
haven't been to a dungeon before, but you know, I seen two
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Doms back in New York. I said okay, sounds good.
So tell me about your experiences.
He's like, well, you know, I metthis one.
She come to my apartment and youknow, she cleaned up a little
bit and then she'd let me fuck and then, you know, come on her
face and I said. Doesn't sound like a dog.
Not at all. I said that was a hooker.
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OK. And I said, tell me about your
other experience. Well, you know, I used to see
this one chick and she was, she was great.
She was great. I'd see her, then she'd let me
fuck her from behind. And, you know, I'd wear a panty
sometimes, but then I'd I'd fuckher in the ass and then she'd
let me come on her back. I said again, that was a hooker.
I said, you realize we're not prostitutes and we're not going
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to fuck you, right? And he's like, oh, I said no,
no, no. So let me tell you what I have
planned for you. I said you've contacted me
multiple times. I never asked for any money
exchange. In the multiple conversations
we've had, I said we talked about your fantasies.
You told me you were going to bring me a strap on.
You told me you wanted to be abducted, cross dressed and
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taken somewhere where you could be sodomized.
And I said, so I contacted my local sex store and I spoke with
the manager and she's going to let us that room space as long
as we buy, you know, X amount ofof store merchandise.
And he's like, you know, this isjust a little too real for me.
I just don't think I could do this.
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And I said, OK, so you don't want to be abducted.
Would you rather do just the scene here?
He's like, no, no, I think I'm good.
I think I'm good. And I said, well, you know, we,
we we agreed to so much of this.But that was the point, you
know, we backed out and wasted my time, wasted breeze time.
And you know, that's what a lot of people do.
They will build up this momentum.
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They'll think about so much in their head of oh God, oh, I can
go to the Mistress's dungeon. I can do this, this and this.
It's a baby batter on the brain.It's baby batter on the brain.
But you know, I've told people anytime they contact me, I'm
like, look, there's no sex involved.
You come here, we'll play, we'lldo a BDSM scene.
These are the things that we do,you know, bondage, domination,
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we do all these things that go under the umbrella of BDSM and
you know, all those things were in that that spectrum, including
the cross dressing and the abduction scene.
I was willing to do the abduction scene even for a total
stranger. And who's at risk?
Me. And shit can go wrong.
And shit can go wrong. Exactly.
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To change your mind and run around like what a chain are on
their neck exactly. Oh Lord.
I got I can get picked up for some unknown violation.
I could get into a car accident and I've got some guy chained up
in my trunk. I mean, things are not going to
go well for me, you know, so. A random checkpoint, DUI
checkpoint or something? Yeah, you never know.
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But my point of it is they don'trealize how much we go through
to set things up, to make thingshappen for them.
And it's true, you know, We wanttheir reality to become true,
you know? But at the same time, they can't
handle the reality, just like Jack Nicholson said, you can't
handle the truth and they cannotbecause there's only, you know,
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a good percentage of people thathave nerve to come to the
dungeon. And when they finally do, you
know, they don't regret it. I don't think we've, we've come
in contact with somebody. I mean, there's always that
somebody who's just like, oh God, what did I fucking just do?
But then they'll call us two weeks later.
They get nervous at first, they do.
And it's understandable. I get it, I really do.
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I have sympathy for that. But don't waste my time with a
full day scenario, Yeah, of whatyou want.
Come in and pretend to be this big badass and, you know,
telling me these stories about how he fucked hookers instead of
actually being and, you know, a submissive to a Dom.
And then he wanted to be basically enslaved and take it
up the ass. That was completely opposite.
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Oh, but he wasn't gay. Yeah, of course not.
And he was offended by a transgender woman I had with me.
But he would just, well, sometimes he doesn't have to be
gay. Take it at the butt.
No. Well, I kind of think he might
have been a little gay. I think he was a lot of gay.
Yeah, that's OK, though maybe he's really really, really,
really curious. I think he went back to his
hotel room and jacked off debrisprobably.
So probably some get caught. Exactly.
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All right, so live tell us you're exploring more as being a
submissive. I mean, yeah, I guess we're
starting to work. On it, yeah.
So what are some of your fantasies that you would want to
fulfill in your future? I mean, because you have some
deep, dark fantasies and I thinkit's cool.
Yeah, but I don't know. I don't know what I would be
actually able to have, you know what I mean?
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Like what is doable? What is And honestly, what are
my fantasies now? What?
Do you mean like doable like it is?
Can can your Dom provide it or is it physically possible?
Like mentally able to do it because you know for a fact
you're going to get out, you know for a fact that they care
about you. You're not getting that sense of
they don't care, they're not going to leave.
So is it physically and mentallyable to happen for you?
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OK, so if if you come in like inelaborate fantasy, yeah,
there's. A big one.
Like a great 10 OK, so you want to be CNC sexually, but you know
the person involved versus a complete stranger.
So that unknown factor is out ofthe way and like you don't know
what could possibly happen if you just met somebody in the
hotel versus I don't. I think it's just more about I
know this person cares and if I say ow, they're gonna pull back
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a little bit. OK.
You know, if you could negotiatethings ahead of time and like
safe words or no safe words, things like that.
Alright, I. Haven't been able to explore it
yet. Alright.
So my thing of it is, I will saythis much, being in a
relationship, you know, having this, this long term
relationship for 13 years, I'm still able to scare the shit out
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of my, my slave boy. You know, I scare the shit out
of him. Now he knows that when we go
into that special place in that physical room and he does
exactly what we have planned outas a scene, he knows that I love
him and that I'm married to him and that everything is daisies
and roses. But you know what changes real
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quick? When I do something that he
doesn't want and I take him so far to the edge where he knows
that could be just a slight fuckup.
So they're gonna go wrong. And something could go wrong.
So see, that's gonna be the point for you.
He's going to have to do something that you don't like
that's going to be so life threatening that it scares the
shit. Out of you, yeah.
You know, like put a plastic bagover your head, scare the fuck
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out of you, you know, and if youpass out, you're gonna pass out
and you're not gonna like, but at the same time.
You can all love it. You might wake up to him raping
you and be like, Oh my God, you know?
Because what happens is the breath play is so essential with
somebody that when you go out, you wake up and you have to
gauge your surroundings all overagain.
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Imagine that happening over and over again.
Goddess sounds hot. I know.
OK so I know you both are like crossing your legs but.
Seriously. That's.
True. For both tingling and our our no
no spots. Yeah, so we're going to do that
today with Charles. We're going to show how
delusional you can get. And you, you know when I used to
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do this with? Really blushing look at this.
I know his face is on fire, yes,but you know when.
I'm not trying to give serial killers any ideas but but when I
used to do this debris imagine Iwould strap her down to that
box. She's unable to move like you
will be and I'll put a bag over her head or I'll stop the
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carotid artery. All of these things she'll
fucking pass out. She'll blank out.
And then when she finally comes to, she'll ohh, you know, she
don't know how long she's been out.
That's the other thing. Yeah.
You know, And I, I'd let her geta couple breaths, Do it fucking
again, you know, And I would sayto her, you will get air when I
let you. You will breathe when I let you
breathe. If you die on this table, it's
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not my problem. I've got a hole in the backyard.
No one will find you. No one knows you're here.
Yes, so it's so smiley. I know.
Somethings wrong with me? It's it's all about.
Somebody else would get all fearand I'm over here.
I know we're both like. Want to get on my knees and kiss
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her feet? But you know, that's that's
going to be the point we got to we got to take it to that level.
Yeah, I don't know where my level is.
I've never met my line and I would like to to see where my
line. Where exploring comes in.
You have to go. Pause the way though you.
Do and you know, we deal with people all the time and I go to,
you know, local parties and a fence and they're like, oh, if
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the rack, the rack acronym, you have to be safe, risk aware, you
have to play by the rules. You know, fuck the rules.
This is the fucking lifestyle. Do whatever the fuck you want.
You're with your partner. There's no, you know, policing
your fucking relationship. Take it to the line.
Take it over the limit. Keep going and pushing and
pushing until you're fucking passed out.
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You're gasping for air and you're begging him to stop.
That's the point. That works with you because I
trust you, but I also miss some people around some of the
parties that are fucking idiots.I know I'm talking about being
in a relationship. I'm talking about being in a
relationship and you feel fully trust somebody you know.
You talk about trusting me and as you should, because like I
said, you know, if you die, you die.
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I mean, we'll, we'll revive you back.
We'll just. Drag you, I can haunt your
dungeon and your mom. Could you could, but then when
your mom would call, I would have to say I'm sorry, he's tied
up right now. Well, the first step will be to
delete this episode. Step one.
Step 2 is like. CNC for murder.
This is what? That feels like though.
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See, the actual suicide rates inAmerica are lower than what
people say they are because a lot of people are dying from
autoerotic asphyxiation. They get they jerk off of bags
in their heads and oops they went too far.
So people are cleaning up the scenes after that way.
Oh, it was suicide, not he was jerking off in a Batman costume
in a garbage bag on his head. They try to make it look cleaner
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than what it is, but apparently quite a few people are having
eggs every year, so that's how that needs to get doctored up.
Oh just give me a Batman costumeand glue in my hand.
I'm like this fucking freak and just listen to a few previous
episodes. Absolutely.
But you got to do what makes youhappy.
And my point of it is, you know,take something on your list that
has been an absolute no go for you.
But see, how am I supposed to know where the no?
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Go's are I thought ideas if you get disgusted but.
No poop. So you already.
Know that's a hard limit boom OK, but you were again you were
talking about breath play offline and and you were like
yeah, it's a little scary I don't know if I want to do that
yeah. Because especially if somebody's
never played with it. Before, Yeah, well, again, he
can come get lessons, I mean. Plastic bag in my pocket.
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You could do it here on air. Oh yeah, we're going to do it.
We're going to do it. Now, here's the thing, whoever
you're doing it to, they always need to stand over you for 1-2.
You need your your victim in a safe place where they're not
going to fall and hurt themselves.
Sharp objects, yeah. No, he the person is going to be
restrained like Charles. They're going to be on the box.
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I'm going to be over them. We're going to do this.
It is what it is, you know, no CPR.
That's the rule there. Yeah, I'm DNR anyway.
But like I said. It's CNC for murder.
Yes, no, what you do is again, you erase this and put Lube in
my hand. Oh, he's saying he wants to be.
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Yeah. If you did that, if something I
don't want, something did, I don't want her to get in
trouble. Look, sometimes this is probably
in this little disclaimer for people listening.
Sometimes shit goes wrong. Yeah, it does.
You gotta be. You gotta be careful.
Well, you know, and I'll fuck around with my husband.
I'm doing breath play with him. And I'll say, you know, it's
been a long time since I've doneCPR.
I think I kind of forgot. And then I'm going to have to
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drag your body. You're 150 plus pounds.
I have to drag you on this hard floor.
What? You have an insurance policy
right next to him, so this is a lot.
He already knows that. It's an extra little thing that
like dangle, you know, furnace of art there, you know, fuck
with their mind. So again, the mind fuck.
Yeah, I've had an orgasm in my mind before, so they're that's a
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real thing. And that was a real thing.
What happens? People have a, you know, dream
about coming. And men do.
I'm sure women do too. Oh, yeah, you wake up and you're
like, hump in the bed. Yeah.
Or or you're already, you know, in your underwear.
So. Oh.
I never actually came, I just woke up.
Oh, really, really super ready. No I've I've had orgasms in my
sleep and it no, no pumping at all, just mentally.
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Wow. I thought women had that too.
I mean, I had a mental orgasm, but I was having sex with the
mental orgasm happened and I didnot have a physical orgasm.
OK, men can have orgasms when wedream.
If you actually dream about sex,you wake up like squirting and
didn't do any kind of pumping whatsoever.
It's all mental. But it was cool.
I hadn't had one in years. Although my dreams I remember
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are zombie fights or none of my guns work.
But yeah, you think about your hard limits, what you'd actually
not want to do. Obviously defecation, that's
scratch off the list. That's gross.
You need something that's going to scare the shit out of you,
you know, that's the. I guess I just would like to
experience it and then say no, no, yes, no.
Yes, for. Fear or pain, I don't know what.
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I'm looking for. Just give it all to.
Her yeah, just be like, I want to pick things out, like get the
whole experience, then pick things out of things that I
actually. Am doing.
I'm thinking sensory deprivationwould be a great way to fuck
with her. She has no idea what's going on.
I have autism. Yeah.
I have a specific thing where I have sensory issues.
Yeah, when my hands get wet, my sensories heightened.
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So if I stay in the shower too long, it'll physically hurt me
to touch certain fabrics. I don't think we found
something. I guess so.
Well, you went right there. I.
Hate it like corduroy. Oh, it's a certain feeling.
So it's. Certain textures so.
If you were blindfolded and gagged and you had like.
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No, yeah. She can't hear anything either.
Yeah, and you get whipped with different items like corduroy,
just beaten with a pair of pantsor hitting with a hair.
Rubbed all over you. Or have like paper rubbed at her
back and then pour all lemon juice on it and then like stick
her hands in a toilet bowl or something.
Slap. Slap your face with different
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kill bosses and shit. You just can't see what's coming
or feel all these different sensations.
You know what's? Weird is I literally went to
therapy or what would it be? Yeah, physical therapy whenever
before I had my first kid because they were worried I
wouldn't be able to give my kid a bath because of this problem.
And they put my hands in shavingcream.
So the shaving cream makes a weird texture on your hands.
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And they made me touch like riceand other textures to kind of
like help me. Oh, have you done this?
When it's fucked up? It's when you put a slave on
your knees and you sprinkle ricein the floor.
Yeah, OK, have. You done it to somebody or they
done it to you? They done it to me.
Now what? Did you like it or not like it?
I like. OK, I was in the corner and had
to take as much as I could. Ouch.
I actually had to do that with clothes pins on my nipples for a
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very, very long time and I literally almost cried.
And then taking it off. It.
Was. So intense.
Comes back alligator I just. Wanted to throw.
It 100 times worse. I got largas nipples.
I got some alligator clips. My literal nipple is huge.
That ain't going to work, Honey Boo Boo, you got to cut my
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nipple. Off I never saw African nipples
on you at all. You.
Want me to pull it out right? Now I'm driving nipple.
I saw that. OK, you see my nipple?
Yeah, at that party, that thing.What party did?
You see my nipple at? Oh, OK, we would talk about this
off camera. Did I show you my boob?
Oh hell yeah. Dished you?
Did I show anybody else my boob?There were two women there.
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You're on that thing. Yeah, I wasn't naked.
My titties were. At Yeah, I saw your nipples.
I like gum drops. Oh yeah, I got gum drop nipples.
Yeah, I. Wasn't in there, do you?
Want to see my? Nipples, I have seen your gum
drops. Have your titties.
Yeah, yeah. You 2 have big nipples.
Yeah, wow, I got clips for that.Yeah, you do have big nipples.
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I gotcha. It was completely platonic.
I had the remote control. It was for science.
It was for science. And now, to be completely fair,
I did almost catch you when you fell off the thing, because yet
you exploded really hard and fell forward.
OK. But yeah, that's anybody would.
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The other two were riding and we're having a great time too.
They were. It was coming off the ground
and. Whoever stole that remote, I
hope you go to hell. Yeah, $600.
Yeah, it's $600.00 for a machineand they won't replace the
fucking remote. You have.
To buy a whole new. I'm sorry, no.
No fuck love bots fucking all day long.
But that's why clothes pins hurt'cause it's so big.
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Well, that when you when you getnumb, the pain eases up.
They never take it off. It gets worse.
I get it. I.
Never went numb. I get numb pretty easy.
Like with my tattoos it'll go numb or you know something, they
never went numb. The pain kept getting higher and
higher. I think it was left on for like
like 30 minutes the whole time. Was it a plastic or a wood clip?
Wood. OK, in the middle.
So much worse. Someone told us they use chip
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clips. That's and fell asleep with
fucking chip clips on their towers.
Yes. Easy, yeah, she told us on the.
Podcast. Yeah.
And the permanent nerve damage or something?
Yeah. Yep.
That was also a thing with guys with CBT and the the rope
bondage during the testicles, because you should put either
it's 10 or 20 minutes. I don't have sometimes less.
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But if you go too far with it, yeah, you can get nerve damage
and the blood flow stops and thechronic tissue all kind of shit
goes on. But I've seen people with the
new breast bonds that way too. And with their nipples, they
actually have like dental floss wrapped during their nipples
super tight. I guess you just kind of have to
play it by ear. Don't.
Don't stay too long. Yeah, the nipples.
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I have had my nipples pierced and I I don't know if it's, I
don't remember what my nipples were like before.
I just knew I could handle a lotof pain on them and I guess I
can handle sometimes more pain because you know you can handle
more pain certain times than others.
Yeah, when you're horny, you could take a lot more.
When I'm really pissed off, I can take a lot more.
Oh yeah, I feel like I can take more when I'm mad versus being
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corny. Unless I'm like like a tease in
denial. I love teasing, denial, the
more, the more I'm teased. It's just, yeah, you can take a
lot. And then right after that
orgasm. Back to 0, you get anger built
up. Well, you do, I don't.
Oh, for women? For me, because I would do that
to women, I would go down on them and bring them to the point
of orgasm and then stop and thendo it again because I love it
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when they have. Men don't.
Yeah, men like that. Women do not.
Women hate that. Yeah.
My God, this woman was just fixing to kill me.
Yeah, she was so. Absolutely.
Oh my. That's got to be.
I would have figured that would have been awesome.
No, not at all. No, it's horrible for women.
I like, I like a teaser denial, but not to the well I don't
know, I've never had it like that.
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I've always been fun like maybe 3 times.
And then I got to go. They got mad.
That's. Well, OK, Do you know why?
Think about it, right? Well.
For a regular guy, yeah, they they get built up and they want
to come. OK, Now to me it's like when I
stop and start over again, it just makes it more intense.
Yeah, that's what does it with women too.
But does it physically hurt you?Just makes you angry.
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I was. Gonna say just yeah pisses me
off. My thing of it is I have to get
in that mindset. It takes a long time to get
there it. Takes a long time to get there
'cause there's always certain things that just throw you off.
Yeah, you'll be in your head thinking about, oh, I forgot
that groceries or is the milk gone bad And then, then.
Yeah, with a woman is see everything has to be mentally
good or she will not have a normal.
You have to be mentally that's why like for sub being a woman,
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it's easy for a Dom cause a Dom can take all that stuff away and
make you just think about that moment.
But it's, you know, it's hard, especially when you're a
monogamous Christian. Very, very different for guys.
Sometimes, you know, if I'm distracted with something, yeah,
it will take longer to come. But guys are so much easier to
make come. But I've done it where I last
longer if I'm thinking about something else or if I'm really
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not, you know? But it's not like women, you
know, they have to be like everything's got to be
completely lined up, you know, for a good orgasm.
Our guys are kind of luck. I mean, worst case scenario,
bend over or stimulate the prostate and then there you go
that. Noise.
OK, well on that note, this has been the latest episode of Call
Me Mistress. How about that?
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There you go. All right, Liv.
Yeah. Are you going to say it for me?
Yeah. Liv This has been the latest
episode of. Call me Mistress.
Hi, welcome to the latest episode of Call Me Mistress.
I'm your Hostess, Mistress Mia, and I've got with me Madam Live.
Hi, guys. Then we've got our other little
slave boy here, Charles. Hello.
Good. Morning, Charles.
Good. Morning.
CC Oh, that's the dragon thing. Calls him Charlie.
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How you doing, Charlie? I like that.
Cute. And that's sweet.
It is. It's like, is it a British
thing? But you know, Charlie's short
for Charles. I know, that's awesome.
So she was like, why not? Oh, Charlie is short for
Charles. Yes.
I don't know why I was thinking the other way.
Around No, no, no. They also say Chuck, which is
awful. Or Chucky, you know.
They did that to me in Korea. Yeah.
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They knew I hated it, so they. Yeah.
And it was too late. Military, they something like
that and they just fucking stickwith it.
So I was chucked for a year and a half you fuckers.
All right, So interesting scenesthat we've been through in the
dungeon and potential scenes that we'll be in in the future.
Charles has gone through a lot in his past where he's met
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multiple Doms, etc, etc. And the point of this episode.
So we're going to stay on track.That's very essential is that
we're talking about fantasy versus reality and how people
build up with the expectation ofwhat they want in a session when
in fact, when they actually comefor the session, they realize
there's at some point it's a no go.
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All right. So Charles, you were talking
earlier and you were saying thatthe build up of CBT for example,
or the build up of something in an actual specific scene, you
have to stop at a point. I can never go as far as I want
before going like in the past when I go to a pro Dom, I would
have this fantasy and it might be a few months before I was
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able to go see one. And so you keep coming up with
different scenarios over and over and over again in your mind
about how it will go. And in your mind you think you
can take more than what you really can.
OK, so I will go see a pro Dom. Let's take CBT for example.
Most men don't like being kickedin the balls.
Big shock. But you have to, for me, I have
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to build up to it. I have to be like either really
horny or really angry and go slow and, and it builds towards
it. But I could never take as much
as I think I can in my fantasies.
The same with the strap on. A lot of guys want, oh, I want
the biggest, blackest Dick you've got and it's not going to
work. You got to start slow and build
up and you can't go in there basically dry, you know, like if
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you've never had anything in your butt and you go to a Dom,
you know. Yeah, I want to take it all.
Going to have a bad time. I've done that before because I
thought I could take something large and then the next thing
you know, she's got this triangle shape standing up my
butt. And I'm like instant regret.
And I tried to keep going. But at some point you've got to
use your safe word. And in your fantasies, you think
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you can take a lot more than youcan.
That was the gist. Of all right, so my experience,
this has been within the last 10years.
It was, it was quite funny. So I had this guy and he called
me multiple times for about two weeks, for about two weeks
before we actually met. And he was talking about, you
know, one in wanting to be abducted.
He wanted pegging, he wanted to be cross dressed.
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He wanted all these things basically a lot.
So I told him I said, look, I said, this sounds like an all
day affair. He's like, Oh yeah, we're gonna
make it all day. And so he would drive down from
New York and he wanted to come to a Dom in Florida and I, I'm
assuming he was somewhere in thearea that he had bought property
or something that effect. And so we thought, oh, you know,
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great, I'll meet a Dom. So in contacting me, he told me
he's like, yeah, I've got this great strap on.
I'm going to gift you. It actually has the fake pre cum
and ejaculate that you can put in the strap on.
So you could come in my ass if you want to.
Want to buy one of those? Yeah, it's fun, right?
So I thought, Oh yeah, neat. OK, so then we continue on and
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like I said, we go in pretty great detail about a lot.
And so we, we go to, you know, that morning and I told him and
I said, look, you come in to seeme at 8:00 AM.
Let's let's start early and we'll proceed from there.
And I said we're going to make this, you know, we'll make this
an, an 8 hour affair. So he'll come at 8:00 AM and
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we'll continue through until 4:00.
So he wanted to go somewhere andbe used, but abducted there.
And I said, you know, I'm happy to do that.
I've done it before. It's been a lot of fun, blah,
blah, blah. So the morning of Bree and I
were sitting in the dungeon, youknow, it's all red lights.
It's kind of intimidating. It's 8:00 AM.
Now, mind you, he called me. He called me like at 6:30 that
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morning. He's like, hey, mistress, you
know, he's Italian. Hey, mistress.
Oh, I got to do the accent because it's fucking hilarious,
you know, because you could imagine this guy looks like he
the straight up Italian, like hewas part of a mafia family.
Because this man comes in wearing a Nike jumpsuit, OK, a
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red fucking jumpsuit. And he had a a towel around his
neck like fat, sweaty Italians too.
And that's cool because I love Italian men.
Go ahead and do it. Look sexy with your You know
your towel, your sweat, and your.
Pinky rings, yeah. He had a fucking pinky ring.
It was so so My Cousin Vinny. It was great.
Anyway, so he comes in, he's like, he calls me first and he's
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like, hey, mistress, you want toyou want to meet me for
breakfast? I said no, this is business.
You come to my dungeon. We're not going on a date for
breakfast. And he's like, well, can I bring
you coffee? I said no, no, no, don't bring
me anything. Just be here promptly at 8:00
AM, Said OK. So he comes in, I show him in
and we're sitting there. Now, you know, I'm wearing some
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PVC as I do. Bree is dressed in this
elaborate corset and little skirt and stockings and big
heels. I mean, she always dressed to
the 9. And we're sitting there like,
we're getting ready to, like, verbally probe him.
And I said, well, come on in, Come sit down on the couch.
And immediately, his first wordsout of his mouth, He's like, I
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ain't gay or nothing. And I said, OK, and I'm not
either, and neither is she. And so I'm like, he wanted all
of this. But yet I think he was a little
offended by my transgender friend.
It's like shut the fuck. So anyway, so I said okay, so
have you been to a dungeon? He's like, no, you know, I
haven't been to a dungeon before, but you know, I seen two
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Doms back in New York. I said okay, sounds good.
So tell me about your experiences.
He's like, well, you know, I metthis one.
She come to my apartment and youknow, she cleaned up a little
bit and then she'd let me fuck and then, you know, come on her
face and I said. Doesn't sound like a dog.
Not at all. I said that was a hooker.
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OK. And I said, tell me about your
other experience. Well, you know, I used to see
this one chick and she was, she was great.
She was great. I'd see her, then she'd let me
fuck her from behind. And, you know, I'd wear a panty
sometimes, but then I'd I'd fuckher in the ass and then she'd
let me come on her back. I said again, that was a hooker.
I said, you realize we're not prostitutes and we're not going
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to fuck you, right? And he's like, oh, I said no,
no, no. So let me tell you what I have
planned for you. I said you've contacted me
multiple times. I never asked for any money
exchange. In the multiple conversations
we've had, I said we talked about your fantasies.
You told me you were going to bring me a strap on.
You told me you wanted to be abducted, cross dressed and
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taken somewhere where you could be sodomized.
And I said, so I contacted my local sex store and I spoke with
the manager and she's going to let us that room space as long
as we buy, you know, X amount ofof store merchandise.
And he's like, you know, this isjust a little too real for me.
I just don't think I could do this.
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And I said, OK, so you don't want to be abducted.
Would you rather do just the scene here?
He's like, no, no, I think I'm good.
I think I'm good. And I said, well, you know, we,
we we agreed to so much of this.But that was the point, you
know, we backed out and wasted my time, wasted breeze time.
And you know, that's what a lot of people do.
They will build up this momentum.
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They'll think about so much in their head of oh God, oh, I can
go to the Mistress's dungeon. I can do this, this and this.
It's a baby batter on the brain.It's baby batter on the brain.
But you know, I've told people anytime they contact me, I'm
like, look, there's no sex involved.
You come here, we'll play, we'lldo a BDSM scene.
These are the things that we do,you know, bondage, domination,
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we do all these things that go under the umbrella of BDSM and
you know, all those things were in that that spectrum, including
the cross dressing and the abduction scene.
I was willing to do the abduction scene even for a total
stranger. And who's at risk?
Me. And shit can go wrong.
And shit can go wrong. Exactly.
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To change your mind and run around like what a chain are on
their neck exactly. Oh Lord.
I got I can get picked up for some unknown violation.
I could get into a car accident and I've got some guy chained up
in my trunk. I mean, things are not going to
go well for me, you know, so. A random checkpoint, DUI
checkpoint or something? Yeah, you never know.
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But my point of it is they don'trealize how much we go through
to set things up, to make thingshappen for them.
And it's true, you know, We wanttheir reality to become true,
you know? But at the same time, they can't
handle the reality, just like Jack Nicholson said, you can't
handle the truth and they cannotbecause there's only, you know,
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a good percentage of people thathave nerve to come to the
dungeon. And when they finally do, you
know, they don't regret it. I don't think we've, we've come
in contact with somebody. I mean, there's always that
somebody who's just like, oh God, what did I fucking just do?
But then they'll call us two weeks later.
They get nervous at first, they do.
And it's understandable. I get it, I really do.
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I have sympathy for that. But don't waste my time with a
full day scenario, Yeah, of whatyou want.
Come in and pretend to be this big badass and, you know,
telling me these stories about how he fucked hookers instead of
actually being and, you know, a submissive to a Dom.
And then he wanted to be basically enslaved and take it
up the ass. That was completely opposite.
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Oh, but he wasn't gay. Yeah, of course not.
And he was offended by a transgender woman I had with me.
But he would just, well, sometimes he doesn't have to be
gay. Take it at the butt.
No. Well, I kind of think he might
have been a little gay. I think he was a lot of gay.
Yeah, that's OK, though maybe he's really really, really,
really curious. I think he went back to his
hotel room and jacked off debrisprobably.
So probably some get caught. Exactly.
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All right, so live tell us you're exploring more as being a
submissive. I mean, yeah, I guess we're
starting to work. On it, yeah.
So what are some of your fantasies that you would want to
fulfill in your future? I mean, because you have some
deep, dark fantasies and I thinkit's cool.
Yeah, but I don't know. I don't know what I would be
actually able to have, you know what I mean?
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Like what is doable? What is And honestly, what are
my fantasies now? What?
Do you mean like doable like it is?
Can can your Dom provide it or is it physically possible?
Like mentally able to do it because you know for a fact
you're going to get out, you know for a fact that they care
about you. You're not getting that sense of
they don't care, they're not going to leave.
So is it physically and mentallyable to happen for you?
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OK, so if if you come in like inelaborate fantasy, yeah,
there's. A big one.
Like a great 10 OK, so you want to be CNC sexually, but you know
the person involved versus a complete stranger.
So that unknown factor is out ofthe way and like you don't know
what could possibly happen if you just met somebody in the
hotel versus I don't. I think it's just more about I
know this person cares and if I say ow, they're gonna pull back
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a little bit. OK.
You know, if you could negotiatethings ahead of time and like
safe words or no safe words, things like that.
Alright, I. Haven't been able to explore it
yet. Alright.
So my thing of it is, I will saythis much, being in a
relationship, you know, having this, this long term
relationship for 13 years, I'm still able to scare the shit out
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of my, my slave boy. You know, I scare the shit out
of him. Now he knows that when we go
into that special place in that physical room and he does
exactly what we have planned outas a scene, he knows that I love
him and that I'm married to him and that everything is daisies
and roses. But you know what changes real
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quick? When I do something that he
doesn't want and I take him so far to the edge where he knows
that could be just a slight fuckup.
So they're gonna go wrong. And something could go wrong.
So see, that's gonna be the point for you.
He's going to have to do something that you don't like
that's going to be so life threatening that it scares the
shit. Out of you, yeah.
You know, like put a plastic bagover your head, scare the fuck
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out of you, you know, and if youpass out, you're gonna pass out
and you're not gonna like, but at the same time.
You can all love it. You might wake up to him raping
you and be like, Oh my God, you know?
Because what happens is the breath play is so essential with
somebody that when you go out, you wake up and you have to
gauge your surroundings all overagain.
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Imagine that happening over and over again.
Goddess sounds hot. I know.
OK so I know you both are like crossing your legs but.
Seriously. That's.
True. For both tingling and our our no
no spots. Yeah, so we're going to do that
today with Charles. We're going to show how
delusional you can get. And you, you know when I used to
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do this with? Really blushing look at this.
I know his face is on fire, yes,but you know when.
I'm not trying to give serial killers any ideas but but when I
used to do this debris imagine Iwould strap her down to that
box. She's unable to move like you
will be and I'll put a bag over her head or I'll stop the
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carotid artery. All of these things she'll
fucking pass out. She'll blank out.
And then when she finally comes to, she'll ohh, you know, she
don't know how long she's been out.
That's the other thing. Yeah.
You know, And I, I'd let her geta couple breaths, Do it fucking
again, you know, And I would sayto her, you will get air when I
let you. You will breathe when I let you
breathe. If you die on this table, it's
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not my problem. I've got a hole in the backyard.
No one will find you. No one knows you're here.
Yes, so it's so smiley. I know.
Somethings wrong with me? It's it's all about.
Somebody else would get all fearand I'm over here.
I know we're both like. Want to get on my knees and kiss
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her feet? But you know, that's that's
going to be the point we got to we got to take it to that level.
Yeah, I don't know where my level is.
I've never met my line and I would like to to see where my
line. Where exploring comes in.
You have to go. Pause the way though you.
Do and you know, we deal with people all the time and I go to,
you know, local parties and a fence and they're like, oh, if
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the rack, the rack acronym, you have to be safe, risk aware, you
have to play by the rules. You know, fuck the rules.
This is the fucking lifestyle. Do whatever the fuck you want.
You're with your partner. There's no, you know, policing
your fucking relationship. Take it to the line.
Take it over the limit. Keep going and pushing and
pushing until you're fucking passed out.
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You're gasping for air and you're begging him to stop.
That's the point. That works with you because I
trust you, but I also miss some people around some of the
parties that are fucking idiots.I know I'm talking about being
in a relationship. I'm talking about being in a
relationship and you feel fully trust somebody you know.
You talk about trusting me and as you should, because like I
said, you know, if you die, you die.
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I mean, we'll, we'll revive you back.
We'll just. Drag you, I can haunt your
dungeon and your mom. Could you could, but then when
your mom would call, I would have to say I'm sorry, he's tied
up right now. Well, the first step will be to
delete this episode. Step one.
Step 2 is like. CNC for murder.
This is what? That feels like though.
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See, the actual suicide rates inAmerica are lower than what
people say they are because a lot of people are dying from
autoerotic asphyxiation. They get they jerk off of bags
in their heads and oops they went too far.
So people are cleaning up the scenes after that way.
Oh, it was suicide, not he was jerking off in a Batman costume
in a garbage bag on his head. They try to make it look cleaner
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than what it is, but apparently quite a few people are having
eggs every year, so that's how that needs to get doctored up.
Oh just give me a Batman costumeand glue in my hand.
I'm like this fucking freak and just listen to a few previous
episodes. Absolutely.
But you got to do what makes youhappy.
And my point of it is, you know,take something on your list that
has been an absolute no go for you.
But see, how am I supposed to know where the no?
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Go's are I thought ideas if you get disgusted but.
No poop. So you already.
Know that's a hard limit boom OK, but you were again you were
talking about breath play offline and and you were like
yeah, it's a little scary I don't know if I want to do that
yeah. Because especially if somebody's
never played with it. Before, Yeah, well, again, he
can come get lessons, I mean. Plastic bag in my pocket.
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You could do it here on air. Oh yeah, we're going to do it.
We're going to do it. Now, here's the thing, whoever
you're doing it to, they always need to stand over you for 1-2.
You need your your victim in a safe place where they're not
going to fall and hurt themselves.
Sharp objects, yeah. No, he the person is going to be
restrained like Charles. They're going to be on the box.
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I'm going to be over them. We're going to do this.
It is what it is, you know, no CPR.
That's the rule there. Yeah, I'm DNR anyway.
But like I said. It's CNC for murder.
Yes, no, what you do is again, you erase this and put Lube in
my hand. Oh, he's saying he wants to be.
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Yeah. If you did that, if something I
don't want, something did, I don't want her to get in
trouble. Look, sometimes this is probably
in this little disclaimer for people listening.
Sometimes shit goes wrong. Yeah, it does.
You gotta be. You gotta be careful.
Well, you know, and I'll fuck around with my husband.
I'm doing breath play with him. And I'll say, you know, it's
been a long time since I've doneCPR.
I think I kind of forgot. And then I'm going to have to
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drag your body. You're 150 plus pounds.
I have to drag you on this hard floor.
What? You have an insurance policy
right next to him, so this is a lot.
He already knows that. It's an extra little thing that
like dangle, you know, furnace of art there, you know, fuck
with their mind. So again, the mind fuck.
Yeah, I've had an orgasm in my mind before, so they're that's a
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real thing. And that was a real thing.
What happens? People have a, you know, dream
about coming. And men do.
I'm sure women do too. Oh, yeah, you wake up and you're
like, hump in the bed. Yeah.
Or or you're already, you know, in your underwear.
So. Oh.
I never actually came, I just woke up.
Oh, really, really super ready. No I've I've had orgasms in my
sleep and it no, no pumping at all, just mentally.
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Wow. I thought women had that too.
I mean, I had a mental orgasm, but I was having sex with the
mental orgasm happened and I didnot have a physical orgasm.
OK, men can have orgasms when wedream.
If you actually dream about sex,you wake up like squirting and
didn't do any kind of pumping whatsoever.
It's all mental. But it was cool.
I hadn't had one in years. Although my dreams I remember
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are zombie fights or none of my guns work.
But yeah, you think about your hard limits, what you'd actually
not want to do. Obviously defecation, that's
scratch off the list. That's gross.
You need something that's going to scare the shit out of you,
you know, that's the. I guess I just would like to
experience it and then say no, no, yes, no.
Yes, for. Fear or pain, I don't know what.
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I'm looking for. Just give it all to.
Her yeah, just be like, I want to pick things out, like get the
whole experience, then pick things out of things that I
actually. Am doing.
I'm thinking sensory deprivationwould be a great way to fuck
with her. She has no idea what's going on.
I have autism. Yeah.
I have a specific thing where I have sensory issues.
Yeah, when my hands get wet, my sensories heightened.
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So if I stay in the shower too long, it'll physically hurt me
to touch certain fabrics. I don't think we found
something. I guess so.
Well, you went right there. I.
Hate it like corduroy. Oh, it's a certain feeling.
So it's. Certain textures so.
If you were blindfolded and gagged and you had like.
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No, yeah. She can't hear anything either.
Yeah, and you get whipped with different items like corduroy,
just beaten with a pair of pantsor hitting with a hair.
Rubbed all over you. Or have like paper rubbed at her
back and then pour all lemon juice on it and then like stick
her hands in a toilet bowl or something.
Slap. Slap your face with different
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kill bosses and shit. You just can't see what's coming
or feel all these different sensations.
You know what's? Weird is I literally went to
therapy or what would it be? Yeah, physical therapy whenever
before I had my first kid because they were worried I
wouldn't be able to give my kid a bath because of this problem.
And they put my hands in shavingcream.
So the shaving cream makes a weird texture on your hands.
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And they made me touch like riceand other textures to kind of
like help me. Oh, have you done this?
When it's fucked up? It's when you put a slave on
your knees and you sprinkle ricein the floor.
Yeah, OK, have. You done it to somebody or they
done it to you? They done it to me.
Now what? Did you like it or not like it?
I like. OK, I was in the corner and had
to take as much as I could. Ouch.
I actually had to do that with clothes pins on my nipples for a
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very, very long time and I literally almost cried.
And then taking it off. It.
Was. So intense.
Comes back alligator I just. Wanted to throw.
It 100 times worse. I got largas nipples.
I got some alligator clips. My literal nipple is huge.
That ain't going to work, Honey Boo Boo, you got to cut my
(22:12):
nipple. Off I never saw African nipples
on you at all. You.
Want me to pull it out right? Now I'm driving nipple.
I saw that. OK, you see my nipple?
Yeah, at that party, that thing.What party did?
You see my nipple at? Oh, OK, we would talk about this
off camera. Did I show you my boob?
Oh hell yeah. Dished you?
Did I show anybody else my boob?There were two women there.
(22:34):
You're on that thing. Yeah, I wasn't naked.
My titties were. At Yeah, I saw your nipples.
I like gum drops. Oh yeah, I got gum drop nipples.
Yeah, I. Wasn't in there, do you?
Want to see my? Nipples, I have seen your gum
drops. Have your titties.
Yeah, yeah. You 2 have big nipples.
Yeah, wow, I got clips for that.Yeah, you do have big nipples.
(22:55):
I gotcha. It was completely platonic.
I had the remote control. It was for science.
It was for science. And now, to be completely fair,
I did almost catch you when you fell off the thing, because yet
you exploded really hard and fell forward.
OK. But yeah, that's anybody would.
(23:16):
The other two were riding and we're having a great time too.
They were. It was coming off the ground
and. Whoever stole that remote, I
hope you go to hell. Yeah, $600.
Yeah, it's $600.00 for a machineand they won't replace the
fucking remote. You have.
To buy a whole new. I'm sorry, no.
No fuck love bots fucking all day long.
But that's why clothes pins hurt'cause it's so big.
(23:38):
Well, that when you when you getnumb, the pain eases up.
They never take it off. It gets worse.
I get it. I.
Never went numb. I get numb pretty easy.
Like with my tattoos it'll go numb or you know something, they
never went numb. The pain kept getting higher and
higher. I think it was left on for like
like 30 minutes the whole time. Was it a plastic or a wood clip?
Wood. OK, in the middle.
So much worse. Someone told us they use chip
(24:01):
clips. That's and fell asleep with
fucking chip clips on their towers.
Yes. Easy, yeah, she told us on the.
Podcast. Yeah.
And the permanent nerve damage or something?
Yeah. Yep.
That was also a thing with guys with CBT and the the rope
bondage during the testicles, because you should put either
it's 10 or 20 minutes. I don't have sometimes less.
(24:23):
But if you go too far with it, yeah, you can get nerve damage
and the blood flow stops and thechronic tissue all kind of shit
goes on. But I've seen people with the
new breast bonds that way too. And with their nipples, they
actually have like dental floss wrapped during their nipples
super tight. I guess you just kind of have to
play it by ear. Don't.
Don't stay too long. Yeah, the nipples.
(24:43):
I have had my nipples pierced and I I don't know if it's, I
don't remember what my nipples were like before.
I just knew I could handle a lotof pain on them and I guess I
can handle sometimes more pain because you know you can handle
more pain certain times than others.
Yeah, when you're horny, you could take a lot more.
When I'm really pissed off, I can take a lot more.
Oh yeah, I feel like I can take more when I'm mad versus being
(25:03):
corny. Unless I'm like like a tease in
denial. I love teasing, denial, the
more, the more I'm teased. It's just, yeah, you can take a
lot. And then right after that
orgasm. Back to 0, you get anger built
up. Well, you do, I don't.
Oh, for women? For me, because I would do that
to women, I would go down on them and bring them to the point
of orgasm and then stop and thendo it again because I love it
(25:26):
when they have. Men don't.
Yeah, men like that. Women do not.
Women hate that. Yeah.
My God, this woman was just fixing to kill me.
Yeah, she was so. Absolutely.
Oh my. That's got to be.
I would have figured that would have been awesome.
No, not at all. No, it's horrible for women.
I like, I like a teaser denial, but not to the well I don't
know, I've never had it like that.
(25:46):
I've always been fun like maybe 3 times.
And then I got to go. They got mad.
That's. Well, OK, Do you know why?
Think about it, right? Well.
For a regular guy, yeah, they they get built up and they want
to come. OK, Now to me it's like when I
stop and start over again, it just makes it more intense.
Yeah, that's what does it with women too.
But does it physically hurt you?Just makes you angry.
(26:08):
I was. Gonna say just yeah pisses me
off. My thing of it is I have to get
in that mindset. It takes a long time to get
there it. Takes a long time to get there
'cause there's always certain things that just throw you off.
Yeah, you'll be in your head thinking about, oh, I forgot
that groceries or is the milk gone bad And then, then.
Yeah, with a woman is see everything has to be mentally
good or she will not have a normal.
You have to be mentally that's why like for sub being a woman,
(26:32):
it's easy for a Dom cause a Dom can take all that stuff away and
make you just think about that moment.
But it's, you know, it's hard, especially when you're a
monogamous Christian. Very, very different for guys.
Sometimes, you know, if I'm distracted with something, yeah,
it will take longer to come. But guys are so much easier to
make come. But I've done it where I last
longer if I'm thinking about something else or if I'm really
(26:54):
not, you know? But it's not like women, you
know, they have to be like everything's got to be
completely lined up, you know, for a good orgasm.
Our guys are kind of luck. I mean, worst case scenario,
bend over or stimulate the prostate and then there you go
that. Noise.
OK, well on that note, this has been the latest episode of Call
Me Mistress. How about that?
(27:15):
There you go. All right, Liv.
Yeah. Are you going to say it for me?
Yeah. Liv This has been the latest
episode of. Call me Mistress.
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