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(00:00):
The way you put it, I've never heard that before and that makes
total sense. Yeah, yeah.
Teach these motherfuckers. Yeah, you teach them just like
any, and that's like anybody Like you teach people how to
treat you. Like, do you have a niche?
(00:20):
Is that I? Do I do so?
I'm a really big dirty talker, yeah, so.
I didn't expect that, all right.Oh, really?
Yeah, I don't. I don't know you.
Well, you should have known whatI said.
Lactation. That should have been a
giveaway. But I.
(00:42):
Don't know, man. I would have said like, you
know, you know, I just go with like fucking generic fucking
vanilla shit, like brunette, Mexican, you know, some shit
like that. Yeah.
Dirty Talker. Yeah, So what I'm known for on
this site, like if you go to CamSoda and you've seen me on
(01:03):
there, this is what you expect and this is for any models that
are watching. This will help you find your
people a lot quicker and you will be a lot more successful in
whatever set that you're on. Is that like you've established
what you do? Like when people come to your
room, they know exactly what they're getting.
You give him a reason to come back, you know, like you're not
(01:25):
just all over the place. You do this thing and they know
that they're gonna get it. But I do.
I'm a big dirty talker and I'm like the biggest slut.
Like, that's like my niece. It's like, like, just like the
biggest, like super submissive, like this slutty dirty talking
freak. Like, that's just like my role.
(01:49):
That's what I'm known for. Oh shit.
Yeah, like when you come into myroom how I perform, like as soon
as I press broadcast, I'm dirty talking the entire time.
Like that's how. So oh good, I'm glad you said
that. So like the second you hit
broadcast, like you don't just like sit there like good, right.
(02:12):
So you hit broadcast, you're fucking, you're going balls
deep. We're going balls deep.
We are balls deep, my bitch. And cause listen, I've learned
the longer that you wait around,the longer the money's gonna
come. But for me, I like to work in a
short amount of time and exert like I like to exert more in a
(02:35):
short amount of time. So like, I'll camp, like I
simply camp like an hour and a half and make my goal because I
just like when I start, I'm I'm rolling.
I'm not just sitting in there waiting around for somebody to
tip me. I mean, yeah.
(02:55):
Yeah, you just an hour and a half that doesn't for a live
camera, that doesn't sound like a long time because it seems
like you would have to like be there for a while if you want to
hit your fucking goal. No, see, I got ADHDI, got AHDI.
Can't you know, like my mind like constantly means to like
(03:19):
go. I need to be doing shit so.
Right. So Cam soda, is it similar to
chaturbating in the sense that like like you just bust your
Beaver out and you know, you gotthe the freeloaders and you got
people that tip. Is it like that?
(03:40):
Yeah, well, yes, because in freechat you can do anything in free
chat, you know, you have the free well, but for me
personally, I don't do like I'lltease like I don't just like put
the I don't press start and it'slike have my pussy in the
camera. Like I will tease the fuck out
of you until you tip for it and I'll like verbally encourage it
(04:04):
through like my dirty talking. Like, so it's like
psychologically I'm putting the idea in their mind without
actually showing them, showing them it.
Holy shit. So you're psychologically
manipulating these fucking guys?Yeah, it's nice.
I love that. Yeah.
Yeah, exactly. Shit.
(04:26):
Yeah, it's manipulation. Yeah, and hey, there's nothing
wrong with that. They're fucking obviously
they're looking for, you know, they're looking for their shit.
Yeah, yeah. So do you see like as you're
doing that, do you like read thechat and like, you know, like
pick up on shit and be like, oh shit, I see that.
(04:48):
I'm going to fucking say this ordo this or anything like that.
Yeah, so like when I am, so whenI'm canning, like what I do,
like what helps me, I look at myself a lot.
Like I watch myself a lot and I watched myself a lot 'cause it,
(05:08):
'cause I'm showing. Like I can see how seductive I'm
being. Like, I can like watch myself
perform. And then for the chat part, I
talked to whoever, whoever tips me.
So like, because you're teachingthe chat how to treat you, like
when you can, you teach them howto treat you.
(05:30):
And if you're just talking to people that don't pay, they're
going to think that they can just sit there and talk to you
for free all night long. Like I'll say hi to you like one
time or two times, right? Like they're like, hey, and they
don't tip me. I'm like, hey, like, Are you
ready to play with me? I'm so fucking horny, you know
what I mean? And it kind of like gets it
(05:51):
going. And if they don't tip, then I
won't talk to them again. And if somebody else tips, I'll
pay attention to them. And then it teaches them like,
oh, like I need to pay. I've never heard that before.
Like the way you put it, I've never heard that before.
And that makes total sense. Yeah, yeah.
(06:12):
Teach these motherfuckers. Yeah, you teach them this like
any and that's like anybody. Like, you teach people how to
treat you and it's like you haveyou control the room and it's
like you have to talk without saying it.
You have to communicate with thechat without saying it.
(06:32):
Yeah. Yeah, wow, that's fucking well
said. Yeah, that's.
Fucking crazy. Yeah.
So I just learned that over the four years of canning and.
Yeah, I was going to say like, how did you figure this out?
Did you just, you know, one day just be like, oh, shit.
Or it's just like an ongoing thing?
(06:54):
Yeah, but I like to emphasize, like even personally, I like to
emphasize like I continue to do things that work.
So like I like to emphasize, like I, I analyze a lot when I'm
working. Like I'm watching and I'm
picking up on things and I'll dothings that that work and I'll
just keep doing it. And so that's just kind of what
(07:18):
I've created over the years. I mean, maybe for slow people
like me, that is so tough to do because the other thing I do,
like I tried doing like I usually just like, you know,
just like just do what I do. Then I started like like that,
like trying to fucking analyze shit.
Like OK, how are they reacting? How can I fucking like play off
(07:41):
of that? And it just fucked my shit up.
You know, I can't, maybe I'm just slow and I can't like
think, you know, think in two different ways.
Like, is that tough to do? I mean, it seems to me it seems
tough to do like as you're fucking like.
I don't know, that just seems tough.
You honestly though, it's I think for me because I used to
(08:08):
how do I put this? Like I just gotten so used to
it. Like I've been, so I used to
camp for like 7 hours a day. Like I wasn't, I wasn't always
like an hour and a half stream or two hours.
Like I used to like literally from Monday through Sunday every
day, like hardcore. And I guess like I just
hardcore. So I have, I have a lot of hours
(08:31):
behind me that I've like just kind of caught on to it and I've
just kind of like learned how todo it.
Like you have to put in the hours in the beginning.
Like it's not like that. Like it does take time to get to
this point. Again, it's took me 4 years to
adjust and yeah. Right, so so as you're doing,
(08:53):
yeah. Because no, this is so
interesting. So like, you know, like when you
start out you're doing 7 hours aday, which is completely insane
to me like. Holy.
Shit, that's a long fucking day.Yeah, yeah.
But as you're doing it, you're fucking, you're analyzing and
thinking about, OK, this is all right, so this worked.
(09:14):
So let me fucking, you know, memory bank that shit or
whatever you do. And yeah, it's an art, honestly,
it's an art because everybody has their own style.
And how I look at it, it's like your own world, you know, like,
as soon as they click on your broadcast, like they don't know
anything behind the screen, you know, like they don't know you.
(09:38):
They don't know what else is beyond your room.
They don't know who you are. It's like you get to create this
world like and you choose how you want to be perceived.
And so I think that's kind of helped me with canning.
It's like control, I guess. It's all about control really.
(09:58):
You know you. Know, Right, right, right.
Yeah, You're in control. Yes.
That's so fucking like to. That's so fucking crazy to me.
So 7 hours a day, you're fuckingdoing this shit.
Because I think a lot of girls like when they're fucking, like
they just go on and fucking, youknow, try to do something that
(10:19):
works and don't think about whatactually is working.
Because when you're doing it that long, that's a long fucking
time. Well, in the beginning, so I
used to be, I used to just kind of like sit there.
Great. Like I used to sit there and
like a sexy outfit and I would just kind of like just like sit
there, just kind of like touch myself a little bit and just
(10:41):
felt like fucking forever. And that's why to me it took me
so long because like I didn't, Ididn't, I didn't find my
confidence yet. Like I didn't find my confidence
on Cam. I didn't know my niece yet.
I just kind of felt like I didn't find myself yet.
So it took me a really long timeto figure out who I am on, like,
(11:04):
in the sex industry. And, you know, I, again, I was
still super young. I didn't have a certain look to
me. Like I had some tattoos.
I was like having babies, not having babies.
So it was just like a wild ride to get to this point.
But yeah, 7 hours. I was fucking tired.
(11:24):
Energy drinks have been like, I thought they have been like my
backbone. Yeah, you can probably.
You can probably get a fucking sponsorship deal.
I Oh my God, I would love that. Right.
Yeah, yeah, fuck, man, 7 hours. But yeah, out there, like doing
(11:45):
those 7 hours a day and shit. Like you weren't just like
fucking just doing your seven hours and fucking, you know,
like clocking in, clocking out. You were fucking like trying,
like during those seven hours. You were like trying to memorize
what works, what doesn't. Yeah, so my cat's so loud, but
(12:06):
yeah, so like in the beginning Ididn't truly understand.
Like I used to just like talk topeople.
Like I thought like, oh, just like, just talk to them.
They said I would talk to peoplefor free for hours.
Like trust me. Like I don't know what the fuck.
Like obviously my mom like, toldme what to do.
But like, you still have to like, find yourself regardless.
So in the beginning I would literally just talk to people.
(12:28):
They kind of like Omegle like just for hours without them
tipping. And I didn't know how to control
the room. I just figured like, oh I'll
just talk and eventually they'llthey'll they'll tip.
But I was doing shit for free like in hopes that they would
pay. It was a mess.
Yeah, that sounds like a lot like what the majority does.
(12:50):
Yeah, that was that was like therookie years.
Fucking noob. Such a noob.
Fuck, yeah. Not me, but no, I mean, we all
start off somewhere and I'm not,you know, I'm very humble and
I'm grateful. But fuck, that was just it.
Just had it been part of the journey.
For me, it was just part of the journey.
(13:13):
So yeah. So how did you like, like, what
was the transition? Like, you know, like you're just
talking to everyone and you know, all that bullshit and then
what shit just clicked and you're like, OK, I got to talk
to these certain people. Or, or like, what was the
transition? So honestly, it took me to get
(13:34):
fed up, you know, sometimes, yeah, it took me to get my
fucking belly full. And I was like, what the fuck?
You know, we're just like, I'm working all these fucking hours
and, you know, I'm still making money, but I should be making so
much more money. And I honestly just kind of got
like fed up. Like I started realizing that
people were taking advantage of me of like, oh, they're just
(13:58):
talking to me. Like they're not paying me.
They're asking me to do things for free.
Like it took me a while to understand that, oh, they're
just taking advantage of me because they know that I'm
newer. And I didn't realize it at
first, but I just got fed up when people started like asking
shit for me for free. And I was getting tired of it.
(14:18):
So I got my belly full. And then I started kind of like
fighting my confidence and finding my leg boundaries and
camming. So that's kind of what switched
it for me. And like, it wasn't like one
thing. It was just kind of gradually
overtime. And I was like, you know what?
Like, no, like you're going to pay for this shit.
And yeah, I started valuing me in my time more and that's what
(14:42):
did it for me and I haven't looked back since.
So like what? So like what did you do?
Like you were like, all right, all right.
Now it's like, all right, you know, you'll fucking entertain
him a little. Yeah.
You were just like, hey fuck you, pay me.
Somebody. OK, so actually, so let's see
(15:03):
here for a good example. That's so funny.
No, I guess like for me, I was kind of just like, hey, like,
you know, like show me like, youknow, show me your tits, Mama.
You know, like, you know, there's like show your tits,
Mama. And I used to be like, okay, you
know, like, did you like that? Like, yeah.
And like hopes that they wouldn't pay, but I just learned
(15:24):
like, no way. Like, no, like you pay me first.
So this is kind of how it started years ago.
I was like, no, like they're like, show me your tits.
I was like, yeah, like, of course I would love to show you
my tits, you know, like, you know how to get it, you know,
like, look at my tip menu. So I started like encouraging
them, like saying like, yes, I would like, I would affirm their
(15:49):
answer, like agree with them andthen encourage them to pay.
Like, yeah, I'm going to show you my tits so bad.
I know you would love it. Like tip for it so I can do it.
And so I kind of just started implementing that type of like
reverse psychology type shit. And that was how I transitioned.
I just kind of like, you say yes, you say yes to them.
(16:13):
They're like, like, show me yourasshole, you know, like, show me
your asshole. But yeah, like I would love to
show you my ass and. Got to go to a tip menu.
I don't know. Yeah.
Yeah. Like, yeah, I'd love to like,
look at like play around with me, you know, exactly how to do
it. So that's kind of how.
So that's how I transitioned, yeah.
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The way you put it, I've never heard that before and that makes
total sense. Yeah, yeah.
Teach these motherfuckers. Yeah, you teach them just like
any, and that's like anybody Like you teach people how to
treat you. Like, do you have a niche?
(00:20):
Is that I? Do I do so?
I'm a really big dirty talker, yeah, so.
I didn't expect that, all right.Oh, really?
Yeah, I don't. I don't know you.
Well, you should have known whatI said.
Lactation. That should have been a
giveaway. But I.
(00:42):
Don't know, man. I would have said like, you
know, you know, I just go with like fucking generic fucking
vanilla shit, like brunette, Mexican, you know, some shit
like that. Yeah.
Dirty Talker. Yeah, So what I'm known for on
this site, like if you go to CamSoda and you've seen me on
(01:03):
there, this is what you expect and this is for any models that
are watching. This will help you find your
people a lot quicker and you will be a lot more successful in
whatever set that you're on. Is that like you've established
what you do? Like when people come to your
room, they know exactly what they're getting.
You give him a reason to come back, you know, like you're not
(01:25):
just all over the place. You do this thing and they know
that they're gonna get it. But I do.
I'm a big dirty talker and I'm like the biggest slut.
Like, that's like my niece. It's like, like, just like the
biggest, like super submissive, like this slutty dirty talking
freak. Like, that's just like my role.
(01:49):
That's what I'm known for. Oh shit.
Yeah, like when you come into myroom how I perform, like as soon
as I press broadcast, I'm dirty talking the entire time.
Like that's how. So oh good, I'm glad you said
that. So like the second you hit
broadcast, like you don't just like sit there like good, right.
(02:12):
So you hit broadcast, you're fucking, you're going balls
deep. We're going balls deep.
We are balls deep, my bitch. And cause listen, I've learned
the longer that you wait around,the longer the money's gonna
come. But for me, I like to work in a
short amount of time and exert like I like to exert more in a
(02:35):
short amount of time. So like, I'll camp, like I
simply camp like an hour and a half and make my goal because I
just like when I start, I'm I'm rolling.
I'm not just sitting in there waiting around for somebody to
tip me. I mean, yeah.
(02:55):
Yeah, you just an hour and a half that doesn't for a live
camera, that doesn't sound like a long time because it seems
like you would have to like be there for a while if you want to
hit your fucking goal. No, see, I got ADHDI, got AHDI.
Can't you know, like my mind like constantly means to like
(03:19):
go. I need to be doing shit so.
Right. So Cam soda, is it similar to
chaturbating in the sense that like like you just bust your
Beaver out and you know, you gotthe the freeloaders and you got
people that tip. Is it like that?
(03:40):
Yeah, well, yes, because in freechat you can do anything in free
chat, you know, you have the free well, but for me
personally, I don't do like I'lltease like I don't just like put
the I don't press start and it'slike have my pussy in the
camera. Like I will tease the fuck out
of you until you tip for it and I'll like verbally encourage it
(04:04):
through like my dirty talking. Like, so it's like
psychologically I'm putting the idea in their mind without
actually showing them, showing them it.
Holy shit. So you're psychologically
manipulating these fucking guys?Yeah, it's nice.
I love that. Yeah.
Yeah, exactly. Shit.
(04:26):
Yeah, it's manipulation. Yeah, and hey, there's nothing
wrong with that. They're fucking obviously
they're looking for, you know, they're looking for their shit.
Yeah, yeah. So do you see like as you're
doing that, do you like read thechat and like, you know, like
pick up on shit and be like, oh shit, I see that.
(04:48):
I'm going to fucking say this ordo this or anything like that.
Yeah, so like when I am, so whenI'm canning, like what I do,
like what helps me, I look at myself a lot.
Like I watch myself a lot and I watched myself a lot 'cause it,
(05:08):
'cause I'm showing. Like I can see how seductive I'm
being. Like, I can like watch myself
perform. And then for the chat part, I
talked to whoever, whoever tips me.
So like, because you're teachingthe chat how to treat you, like
when you can, you teach them howto treat you.
(05:30):
And if you're just talking to people that don't pay, they're
going to think that they can just sit there and talk to you
for free all night long. Like I'll say hi to you like one
time or two times, right? Like they're like, hey, and they
don't tip me. I'm like, hey, like, Are you
ready to play with me? I'm so fucking horny, you know
what I mean? And it kind of like gets it
(05:51):
going. And if they don't tip, then I
won't talk to them again. And if somebody else tips, I'll
pay attention to them. And then it teaches them like,
oh, like I need to pay. I've never heard that before.
Like the way you put it, I've never heard that before.
And that makes total sense. Yeah, yeah.
(06:12):
Teach these motherfuckers. Yeah, you teach them this like
any and that's like anybody. Like, you teach people how to
treat you and it's like you haveyou control the room and it's
like you have to talk without saying it.
You have to communicate with thechat without saying it.
(06:32):
Yeah. Yeah, wow, that's fucking well
said. Yeah, that's.
Fucking crazy. Yeah.
So I just learned that over the four years of canning and.
Yeah, I was going to say like, how did you figure this out?
Did you just, you know, one day just be like, oh, shit.
Or it's just like an ongoing thing?
(06:54):
Yeah, but I like to emphasize, like even personally, I like to
emphasize like I continue to do things that work.
So like I like to emphasize, like I, I analyze a lot when I'm
working. Like I'm watching and I'm
picking up on things and I'll dothings that that work and I'll
just keep doing it. And so that's just kind of what
(07:18):
I've created over the years. I mean, maybe for slow people
like me, that is so tough to do because the other thing I do,
like I tried doing like I usually just like, you know,
just like just do what I do. Then I started like like that,
like trying to fucking analyze shit.
Like OK, how are they reacting? How can I fucking like play off
(07:41):
of that? And it just fucked my shit up.
You know, I can't, maybe I'm just slow and I can't like
think, you know, think in two different ways.
Like, is that tough to do? I mean, it seems to me it seems
tough to do like as you're fucking like.
I don't know, that just seems tough.
You honestly though, it's I think for me because I used to
(08:08):
how do I put this? Like I just gotten so used to
it. Like I've been, so I used to
camp for like 7 hours a day. Like I wasn't, I wasn't always
like an hour and a half stream or two hours.
Like I used to like literally from Monday through Sunday every
day, like hardcore. And I guess like I just
hardcore. So I have, I have a lot of hours
(08:31):
behind me that I've like just kind of caught on to it and I've
just kind of like learned how todo it.
Like you have to put in the hours in the beginning.
Like it's not like that. Like it does take time to get to
this point. Again, it's took me 4 years to
adjust and yeah. Right, so so as you're doing,
(08:53):
yeah. Because no, this is so
interesting. So like, you know, like when you
start out you're doing 7 hours aday, which is completely insane
to me like. Holy.
Shit, that's a long fucking day.Yeah, yeah.
But as you're doing it, you're fucking, you're analyzing and
thinking about, OK, this is all right, so this worked.
(09:14):
So let me fucking, you know, memory bank that shit or
whatever you do. And yeah, it's an art, honestly,
it's an art because everybody has their own style.
And how I look at it, it's like your own world, you know, like,
as soon as they click on your broadcast, like they don't know
anything behind the screen, you know, like they don't know you.
(09:38):
They don't know what else is beyond your room.
They don't know who you are. It's like you get to create this
world like and you choose how you want to be perceived.
And so I think that's kind of helped me with canning.
It's like control, I guess. It's all about control really.
(09:58):
You know you. Know, Right, right, right.
Yeah, You're in control. Yes.
That's so fucking like to. That's so fucking crazy to me.
So 7 hours a day, you're fuckingdoing this shit.
Because I think a lot of girls like when they're fucking, like
they just go on and fucking, youknow, try to do something that
(10:19):
works and don't think about whatactually is working.
Because when you're doing it that long, that's a long fucking
time. Well, in the beginning, so I
used to be, I used to just kind of like sit there.
Great. Like I used to sit there and
like a sexy outfit and I would just kind of like just like sit
there, just kind of like touch myself a little bit and just
(10:41):
felt like fucking forever. And that's why to me it took me
so long because like I didn't, Ididn't, I didn't find my
confidence yet. Like I didn't find my confidence
on Cam. I didn't know my niece yet.
I just kind of felt like I didn't find myself yet.
So it took me a really long timeto figure out who I am on, like,
(11:04):
in the sex industry. And, you know, I, again, I was
still super young. I didn't have a certain look to
me. Like I had some tattoos.
I was like having babies, not having babies.
So it was just like a wild ride to get to this point.
But yeah, 7 hours. I was fucking tired.
(11:24):
Energy drinks have been like, I thought they have been like my
backbone. Yeah, you can probably.
You can probably get a fucking sponsorship deal.
I Oh my God, I would love that. Right.
Yeah, yeah, fuck, man, 7 hours. But yeah, out there, like doing
(11:45):
those 7 hours a day and shit. Like you weren't just like
fucking just doing your seven hours and fucking, you know,
like clocking in, clocking out. You were fucking like trying,
like during those seven hours. You were like trying to memorize
what works, what doesn't. Yeah, so my cat's so loud, but
(12:06):
yeah, so like in the beginning Ididn't truly understand.
Like I used to just like talk topeople.
Like I thought like, oh, just like, just talk to them.
They said I would talk to peoplefor free for hours.
Like trust me. Like I don't know what the fuck.
Like obviously my mom like, toldme what to do.
But like, you still have to like, find yourself regardless.
So in the beginning I would literally just talk to people.
(12:28):
They kind of like Omegle like just for hours without them
tipping. And I didn't know how to control
the room. I just figured like, oh I'll
just talk and eventually they'llthey'll they'll tip.
But I was doing shit for free like in hopes that they would
pay. It was a mess.
Yeah, that sounds like a lot like what the majority does.
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Yeah, that was that was like therookie years.
Fucking noob. Such a noob.
Fuck, yeah. Not me, but no, I mean, we all
start off somewhere and I'm not,you know, I'm very humble and
I'm grateful. But fuck, that was just it.
Just had it been part of the journey.
For me, it was just part of the journey.
(13:13):
So yeah. So how did you like, like, what
was the transition? Like, you know, like you're just
talking to everyone and you know, all that bullshit and then
what shit just clicked and you're like, OK, I got to talk
to these certain people. Or, or like, what was the
transition? So honestly, it took me to get
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fed up, you know, sometimes, yeah, it took me to get my
fucking belly full. And I was like, what the fuck?
You know, we're just like, I'm working all these fucking hours
and, you know, I'm still making money, but I should be making so
much more money. And I honestly just kind of got
like fed up. Like I started realizing that
people were taking advantage of me of like, oh, they're just
(13:58):
talking to me. Like they're not paying me.
They're asking me to do things for free.
Like it took me a while to understand that, oh, they're
just taking advantage of me because they know that I'm
newer. And I didn't realize it at
first, but I just got fed up when people started like asking
shit for me for free. And I was getting tired of it.
(14:18):
So I got my belly full. And then I started kind of like
fighting my confidence and finding my leg boundaries and
camming. So that's kind of what switched
it for me. And like, it wasn't like one
thing. It was just kind of gradually
overtime. And I was like, you know what?
Like, no, like you're going to pay for this shit.
And yeah, I started valuing me in my time more and that's what
(14:42):
did it for me and I haven't looked back since.
So like what? So like what did you do?
Like you were like, all right, all right.
Now it's like, all right, you know, you'll fucking entertain
him a little. Yeah.
You were just like, hey fuck you, pay me.
Somebody. OK, so actually, so let's see
(15:03):
here for a good example. That's so funny.
No, I guess like for me, I was kind of just like, hey, like,
you know, like show me like, youknow, show me your tits, Mama.
You know, like, you know, there's like show your tits,
Mama. And I used to be like, okay, you
know, like, did you like that? Like, yeah.
And like hopes that they wouldn't pay, but I just learned
(15:24):
like, no way. Like, no, like you pay me first.
So this is kind of how it started years ago.
I was like, no, like they're like, show me your tits.
I was like, yeah, like, of course I would love to show you
my tits, you know, like, you know how to get it, you know,
like, look at my tip menu. So I started like encouraging
them, like saying like, yes, I would like, I would affirm their
(15:49):
answer, like agree with them andthen encourage them to pay.
Like, yeah, I'm going to show you my tits so bad.
I know you would love it. Like tip for it so I can do it.
And so I kind of just started implementing that type of like
reverse psychology type shit. And that was how I transitioned.
I just kind of like, you say yes, you say yes to them.
(16:13):
They're like, like, show me yourasshole, you know, like, show me
your asshole. But yeah, like I would love to
show you my ass and. Got to go to a tip menu.
I don't know. Yeah.
Yeah. Like, yeah, I'd love to like,
look at like play around with me, you know, exactly how to do
it. So that's kind of how.
So that's how I transitioned, yeah.
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