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August 20, 2024 70 mins

In this episode, I share the mic with Matt Gerlach to dive deep into the journey of overcoming personal shame and nurturing self-love. We discuss the challenges in setting boundaries, handling familial relationships, and addressing imposter syndrome. Together, we explore the impact of societal expectations and the importance of accepting positive feedback and affirming oneself amidst external validation. With candid personal anecdotes and practical advice, we highlight the significance of acknowledging and challenging our inner critics. Join us for a raw, relatable conversation filled with insights and strategies for finding inner peace and embracing your true self, as we continue to inspire each other toward self-acceptance and growth.

🎧 Episode Chapters:

00:00 Introducing Matt Gerlach

05:36 Reflecting on Childhood and Emotional Health

10:59 Navigating Financial and Emotional Stress

14:49 Confronting Masculinity and Emotions

22:25 The Role of Shame and Self-Awareness

31:52 Setting Boundaries and Self-Advocacy

36:50 Balancing Responsibilities and Expectations

38:52 The Importance of Boundaries in Relationships

41:13 Facing Personal Shame and Growth

42:45 Challenges of Setting Boundaries with Family

46:43 Understanding and Overcoming Imposter Syndrome

57:27 The Role of External Validation in Self-Worth

01:04:48 The Practice of Self-Compassion

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💡 Learn more about Matt’s coaching program, Rise to Your Worth: https://mattgerlach.com/coaching/

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