But I Didn’t Know… Cancer Doesn’t Always Look Like the Movies

But I Didn’t Know… Cancer Doesn’t Always Look Like the Movies (with Alicia)

Alicia is 33, a new mum, and on paper, “indefatigable.” Her early signs didn’t look cinematic: a stubborn cough, a fading voice, a tiredness that didn’t make sense. In this candid, behind-the-scenes conversation, Alicia shares how she kept notes, asked clear questions, and partnered with her clinicians to reach a hodgkin lymphoma diagnosis, reminding us that self-advocacy isn’t defiance, it’s good care done together.
This episode shares lived experience, not personal medical advice; please speak with your clinician about your personal situation.

In this episode:

• Life before and after diagnosis, and the Thursday phone call many of us fear.

• The small clues that add up and how to bring your lived wisdom into the room.

• A gentle plan for “results day” and staying steady in uncertainty.

• Heidi’s reflective narration on dignity, partnership, and practical next steps.

You’ll leave with:

• A simple way to prepare a one-page brief for appointments.

• Three questions to open up options with your care team.

• Language to protect your dignity without confrontation.

Notes & links: We’ve written up Alicia’s self-advocacy tips. 

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Hodgkin lymphoma, cancer journey, health advocacy, emotional resilience, motherhood, diagnosis, healthcare system, personal story, support, coping mechanisms