In this episode of Catching You, Rusty and Lacie Ham dig deep into the real-life questions parents and players face in the world of youth travel softball. Inspired by a thoughtful message from listener Josh, the duo reflect on what it was like transitioning into 12U, navigating tryouts, and dealing with the pressure of being on elite teams like the Batbusters.
Lacie opens up about the emotional highs and lows of tryouts, the power of seeing supportive parents beyond the fence, and why closed tryouts might be a red flag. Rusty adds a humorous yet honest take on why he only let 4.0 student-athletes babysit Lacie and Jesse—and why being “prejudiced” about who influences your kid is not a bad thing.
They also talk about middle school transitions, how friend groups shape character, and the all-too-real drama that can start creeping in as girls get older. From clicky teammates to competing coaching philosophies, it’s a raw look at how the travel ball journey isn’t just about performance—it’s about values, relationships, and finding the right fit.
Plus, Lacie gives her perspective on the infamous rivalry between the Batbusters and the Corona Angels, how each program built their culture differently, and why being humble was drilled in from day one.
If you're a softball parent, a player, or a coach, this episode is loaded with practical insights, laughter, and the occasional roast from dad. Catch you on the other side.
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