In this episode, I sit down with Dan Drake—literally the man who wrote the book on Full Therapeutic Disclosure—to talk about one of the most important (and misunderstood) parts of the recovery journey.
What happens when the truth finally comes into the light?
We unpack:
- What Full Therapeutic Disclosure is (and what it isn’t)
- Why honesty is the foundation of rebuilding trust
- How empathy and truth-telling go hand in hand
- The role of polygraphs in the process
- Whether or not disclosure lines up with Biblical teaching
This conversation is raw, practical, and filled with hope. If you’re a man battling secret struggles—or a spouse who has been betrayed—you’ll walk away with clarity on why disclosure matters, how it brings healing, and why God always calls us into the light.
Ultimately, disclosure isn’t just about naming failures—it’s about creating a pathway toward healing, safety, and deeper intimacy. When couples have the courage to face the truth together, they discover that God’s grace is bigger than any secret, and that honesty really can set them free.
HELPFUL LINKS:
Dan Drake at Kintsugi Recovery Partners here.
-Instagram @kintsugirecoverypartners
-Disclosure Workbook for Men here.
-Disclosure Workbook Volume 1 of 3 here.
-His Website here.
-Banyan Instagram @banyantherapygroup
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