Central Lutheran Church - Elk River

Ever feel the tug to keep the peace and just let it slide? We dig into a crisp idea that rewires how you think about your role: you can be friends with your kids in the first part of their lives or the second, but not both. Through a quick story from the baseball field and a candid look at screen-time standoffs, we show how fear of a child’s anger can flip the home and stall a child’s growth. The antidote isn’t harsher rules; it’s ...

Some questions crack the heart wide open. We sit with the most jarring line in Scripture—“My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?”—and refuse to rush past it. I share a fresh loss, the strange numbness that followed, and the ordinary moment that finally let grief speak. From Jesus’ Aramaic cry to an old voicemail in a dark car, we trace how honest lament moves us from denial into deeper presence.

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A single sentence changed how we travel, plan, and live: whatever happens is all part of the pilgrimage. That line guided us from the streets of Tel Aviv to the hills of Galilee, where a thoughtful guide helped us move beyond checklists into the living story of the land. It surfaced again in Tanzania when cascading flight delays upended our plans and exposed how tightly we grip control. And it shaped a quiet birthday at home that b...

Ever catch yourself following the rules but missing the point? We open with small-town warmth and head straight into the heat of Matthew 15, where Jesus confronts the Pharisees’ obsession with handwashing and exposes a deeper problem: the heart that hides behind holy habits. From the Corban loophole to Isaiah’s warning about lip-deep worship, we trace how tradition can eclipse truth and why Jesus’ question—“Are you still without un...

Grief doesn’t disappear when we ignore it; it grows quieter and heavier. Today we talk candidly about funerals—why they matter, who they’re actually for, and how ritual gives our bodies and communities a way to carry loss with honesty and love. Ryan shares the tender story of his dad’s passing and the family’s plans to lay him to rest in Denver, then opens up about a hard truth learned during the pandemic: when we skip communal mou...

A single question flips the room: have you not read. We take that line from Jesus and follow it through a grainfield, a temple, and a minivan full of questions, asking why a law meant for rest became a rule intended to measure, and how compassion rewrites the script without erasing the text. With Mark 2:23–28 as our anchor, we sit with the tension between Sabbath as gift and Sabbath as performance. Jesus reminds the watchers and th...

The moment that voicemail played in the dark car, everything we’d been holding back broke open. Grief hit like weather—sudden, total, impossible to outthink—and what followed became a lesson we didn’t know we needed about how to let emotions move without letting them take the wheel. We walk through the days around losing a beloved stepfather, from sleepless nights on a pull-out couch to a birthday that didn’t quite fit, and the str...

Hungry crowds, tired disciples, and one audacious question: where should we buy bread? We walk through John’s vivid retelling of the loaves and fish to see how Jesus moves a community from cost-counting to courageous offering. The setup is familiar—scarcity, pressure, and a crowd too big to feed—yet John’s details shift the lens: Passover timing, barley loaves fit for peasants, and a child who steps forward while adults do the math...

A scoop of creatine goes down the wrong pipe and suddenly there’s panic, coughing, and no air. That small scare becomes the clearest picture of modern life: we’re breathing in more tragedy than our souls can process. Violent headlines, viral clips, and hot takes pile up until anxiety becomes the soundtrack of the day. We don’t just hear about suffering anymore; we watch it in graphic detail, on demand, and often before we’ve even h...

What would you trade for “the whole world”—and how would you know if the price was your soul? We dive into Jesus’ most piercing question and discover it’s not about a distant afterlife, but about the texture of our days: what we attend to, what we ignore, and how small trades add up to a life that quietly withers. We tell the truth about our bargaining—more status for less presence, more security for less courage—and we hold it nex...

A river, three rocks, and a kiss—sometimes the smallest acts carry the most weight. We mark twenty-five years of marriage at Minnehaha Falls with a simple, handmade ritual and open a wider conversation about how ordinary people can create sacred time on purpose. From choosing stones to naming a trait, a memory, and a love, we show how tangible actions can honor the past, shape the present, and gently bend the future.

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A charcoal fire, the smell of fish, and a question that won’t let go: Do you love me? We walk the shoreline with Peter from the night of denial to a dawn of restoration, and we discover why Jesus asks three times—not to shame, but to heal, reframe, and entrust. The tension is familiar: there’s the self we intend to be and the self that shows up when fear hits. Instead of pretending the split isn’t there, we name it, then watch how ...

What if prayer didn’t feel like a performance, but a place to breathe? We’re sharing a three-part rhythm built around a single word—here—that makes space for presence, release, and direction. It starts with “Here I am,” a small, courageous act of showing up to God as we are. From there, we imagine the steady reply—“Here I am”—and rest in the reality that we are not alone. No fancy language, no spiritual gymnastics, just real presen...

What if your soul is carrying more than it was made to hold? Between constant headlines and endless scrolling, we’re all feeling the weight of a world that never powers down. Today we slow the tide and step into John 14, where Jesus speaks straight to anxious hearts. Philip asks for a sign—“Show us the Father”—and Jesus answers with a deeper invitation: to see Him, listen to Him, and be kept by His Word when everything else shakes....

What if church wasn’t a product but a countercurrent—something that pulls us out of the cultural river and teaches us to live differently? We open up a candid look at why a healthy church community still matters: not as a perfect institution, but as a living alternative to polarization, loneliness, and consumer thinking. Drawing from Israel’s origin story—justice for the vulnerable, honest measures in business, a sexual ethic that ...

What if the most peaceful season of your life still made room for worry—and that became your greatest teacher? Coming back from a seven-week sabbatical, I share the highs and hiccups: hiking the Dolomites on breathless trails, a tense comedy of errors while driving in Germany, simple joy with my granddaughter, and the quiet ways God showed up when the plans didn’t. Along the way, Jesus’ piercing question—“Why worry?”—moved from a v...

Ever wondered why rituals matter? In this thought-provoking exploration, Ryan dives into the transformative power of church community and how it fundamentally shapes who we become.

Drawing from Aristotle's wisdom that "we are what we repeatedly do," they unpack how our regular practices—whether exercise, complaining, gratitude, or worship—slowly mold us into particular kinds of people. The episode reveals th...

In this episode, Pastor Ryan unpacks the powerful story of the bleeding woman in the Gospels—the moment she reaches out to touch Jesus’ garment and is instantly healed. What seems like a simple act of desperation is actually a profound display of faith, courage, and restoration.

Ryan explores how Jesus’ question, “Who touched me?”, isn’t about ignorance but about bringing her healing into the light—transforming private pain into pub...

Ever wonder why church still matters in our digital age? This episode tackles the profound human need for meaning and belonging that church uniquely addresses. Through personal stories and thoughtful reflection, we explore how the church provides a tether to something larger than ourselves in an increasingly disconnected world.

The Latin word for religion—"religio"—literally means "to be tethered to somethin...