So… your kid just got an ADHD diagnosis. You’re overwhelmed, half-relieved, half-panicking, and 100% Googling “what do I do now.”
Take a deep breath, grab your caffeine of choice, and pull up a seat at the Chaos & Caffeine table — because this is the episode every ADHD parent needs.
In this raw, real, and laugh-through-the-tears guide, host Danielle, ADHD mom and chaos navigator, walks you step-by-step through what actually happens after the diagnosis. From decoding ADHD itself to navigating 504 plans, finding the right treatment, and building a community that gets it — this is your roadmap for raising a neurodivergent kid in a world that still doesn’t fully understand them.
This 90-minute episode blends science, storytelling, and soul — the practical tools you need, with the emotional permission you didn’t know you were missing.
You’ll learn:
☕ What ADHD really is (and why awareness alone isn’t enough)
☕ How to build school support that’s legally sound and emotionally sane
☕ The truth about ADHD medication — no shame, just facts
☕ How to find your people (and why that changes everything)
☕ Why “that mom” — the advocate, the squeaky wheel — is a freaking hero
Whether you’re newly diagnosed or deep in the IEP trenches, this episode will leave you feeling informed, empowered, and a little less alone.
Because this journey isn’t about fixing your kid.
It’s about understanding them — and realizing you were never broken either.
🎧 Listen now — and don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and join the Chaos & Caffeine community for more unfiltered ADHD parenting talk.
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