Are we to blame for our kids' ADHD? In this spicy episode of Chaos & Caffeine, your ADHD parenting bestie Danielle Kelly dives into the viral Diary of a CEO interview with Erica Komisar, where she drops a parenting bomb: that ADHD might be caused by daycare and parental choices. Uh, what?
Danielle unpacks the science (yes, real studies), the myths, and the emotional toll of blaming parents—especially moms—for their children's neurodivergence. From the genetic roots of ADHD to the nuances of daycare quality, this episode calls BS on shame-based parenting narratives and offers facts, compassion, and a whole lotta sass.
🧠 Evidence-based insights on ADHD genetics
🏫 What the science really says about daycare
💥 Why guilt isn’t helping anyone
🔗 Product of the Week: Real support from BondingHealth.com
💬 Affirmation of the Week + Parenting pep talk
Whether you're new to this ADHD parenting ride or knee-deep in IEP meetings and emotional outbursts, this episode is your reminder that you’re not alone—and you’re definitely not to blame.
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👜 Product of the Week: Bonding Health is a comprehensive support platform designed specifically for parents navigating the challenges of raising children with ADHD. Recognizing that traditional treatments often focus solely on behavior or medication, Bonding Health emphasizes the crucial aspect of emotional regulation.
Parenting Simply by Adina Soclof — a gentle, doable intro to positive parenting with rave reviews from parents, bloggers, and experts alike. Check the show notes for the link and why I recommend it to every ADHD parent I coach.
Could Therapy be the Answer? TalkSpace —because let’s be real, even superheroes like you need a sidekick. Get connected with a licensed therapist and start feeling like the rockstar parent you are.
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