If your kid is falling apart over homework, school emails feel like personal attacks, and you’re constantly wondering if you’re failing as a parent… stop right here. This episode of Chaos & Caffeine brings you the straight-talking, research-backed, and soul-soothing advice of Scotti Weintraub—ADHD parent coach, educator, and founder of Reframe Parenting.
With over 17 years of experience in education and a Master’s in flipping school stress on its head (okay, not technically, but still), Scotti helps overwhelmed parents understand what’s really going on when their neurodivergent kids struggle with school. From IEP and 504 plans to executive function meltdowns and Sunday night homework spirals, we unpack the WHY, the WHAT, and the “what-the-actual-heck-do-I-do-now?”
You’ll learn:
- Why traditional schools often fail neurodivergent kids
- How to advocate without burning bridges—or burning out
- What “reframing” actually means (hint: it’s not toxic positivity)
- How to support your child’s nervous system and your own
- Scotti’s favorite scripts and mindset shifts that change everything
This isn’t a feel-good fluff fest. This is a practical, empowering deep dive that will have you nodding, crying, and screenshotting quotes like your life depends on it.
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