406: Chatting about Nurturing Your Marriage in a Large Family with Andrew Paul

Andrew, a father of 10, shares his journey of balancing work and family life and the importance of seeking help and support as a father. He discusses the societal pressure on men to be strong and not show vulnerability, and how he decided to pivot and start helping other dads. Andrew emphasizes the importance of being present for his children and the positive impact it has had on their relationships. He also talks about the challenges of parenting in the age of social media and the need to limit exposure and create screen-free evenings. Andrew shares his insights on budgeting, supporting local farmers, and finding time for his marriage amidst a large family.

Takeaways

• Being a good father and provider doesn't mean sacrificing your own well-being and neglecting your family. It's important to find a balance.
• Men often struggle to ask for help and show vulnerability due to societal expectations. However, seeking support and guidance can lead to personal growth and stronger relationships.
• Limiting exposure to social media and creating screen-free evenings can improve family dynamics and mental well-being.
• Supporting local farmers and eating wholesome foods can have a positive impact on health and well-being.
• Finding time for your marriage is crucial, and being intentional about spending quality time together is key.

Sound Bites

• "In order to be a good dad and a good husband and provider was to work both ends of the clock."
• "The teacher is lot of times the one that gets the best lesson."
• "We limit their exposure. It's a critical... This one actually kind of gets me because I get sucked into that same vortex."

Helpful Links

• Facebook https://www.facebook.com/apknows?mibextid=ZbWKwL
• Website https://andrewpaulskoog.com/