September 22, 2025 • 29 mins
Surprise bonus episode! The audio’s a little different than our usual, but the laughs are still premium. We’re poolside swapping wild dating horror stories, talking about future faking, gym guys, and whether being a little delusional is actually part of finding your person. Plus, we revisit our Dominican Republic trip and weigh in on the never-ending “women just want free dinners” debate. Grab your headphones and vibe with us for this extra drop.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
What's up, beautiful people? Quick disclaimer, this is a bonus episode.
Me and my homegirl Grace were outside, literally by the pool. Okay,
so the audio isn't as polished as usual, but the
last and the stories were too good not to share.
So consider this your invite to sit with us pool
side while we talk dating, horror stories and cup seas
and chaos. Now let's get to the show. Sure, what's up,
(00:27):
beautiful people? As your girl story repeat? And this is
another episode of Chocolate Chip and Sip. And this is
the end of the summer recap, ladies and gentlemen. And
I know some of y'all was like, well, theymn girl,
where was you at for the summer? Don't worry about it.
We pick it back up here, all right. And because
we're picking back up in good spirits, I forget. It
was only right that I catch up one of my
favorite homegirls.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
So go ahead, introduce yourself to the people. Hey, y'all,
I'm Grace Tiana. I also have a podcast called Slightly Obsessed.
And we are here, y'all.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
Now we're gonna recap to someone who guys started to again. Okay,
that me and Grace went to the dr from a
birth day. Yeah, yeah, that was a great time. That's fine,
good memories. That's part of the trip. I love the
yacht and the boats Northland, playing with the monkeys. You
know that monkey pete on me. Yeah, monkey pee right
on my head. It's so cute.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
What's his name?
Speaker 1 (01:18):
I can't remember. Mickey go, Micky Noice, Mickey Mickey. Well,
my best part of the Dominican Republic Rick was a
Grace is Spanish, and then almost Grace getting drunk and
me having to dimn or carry her back friends of
the room. And uh, it wasn't really the carrying, It
(01:42):
was her yelling yes, just leave it, but I'm not
going to leave you in the middle of the promenade
and it's the Medical Republic. I'm not going to do it, Like,
excuse me, I'm not going to do it. But yeah, uh.
Speaking the summer though, I like to think that summer
is like pre cuffing season. It's like a draft. Right,
(02:03):
So how was your draft this summer? Did you get
any prospects? I definitely had some prospects.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
You know, he was dating and having fun, but then
you just just doesn't work. So, you know, I'm back
at the drawing board again. Yeah, just trying to see
how it goes, you know.
Speaker 1 (02:19):
Yeah, I think this was my uh this was definitely
my smallest uh pre cuffing season, uh draft picks, but
this was definitely the most eventful. Each one came with
the store, and I appreciate that. That'll take you about
the kickout. No, you did not what happened at the cookout.
So we're gonna call this one a cookout. Okay, old
(02:39):
boy invites me to a family cookout, right, and he
gonna pick me up. We get to the cookout and
it's a part so I'm like, okay, apartment where the
girl at? Like, I don't still know who. So I
see his mom. It's not a big thing. Me and
his mom have seen each other. Oh okay, I was
about to say, his mom already like that fast exactly.
(03:03):
It's not a big thing.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
So she like, yeah, you know, I'm happy it came.
I'm being myself. So she's like, that's right. We need
to be laughing and joking. We don't got to be
all sad. No, why wouldn't we be laughing and joking
at the cookout?
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Now? Mind joy? I said he invited me to a
family cookout, right, I got on festival jeene shorts a
crop top speakers, right. So we go inside and I see, like,
you know, his brothers and sisters. I never met them before.
You in the family for real, Okay, y'all. Why he
take me to his father's death bed like his father
(03:39):
is dying. No, no, he didn't, no, no he did not.
And the first day, like y'all, just this is not
the first day, y'all. But let me tell y'all how
my nigga can't read the room. Okay. Number one, it's
my mom's birthday, for y'all, who don't know my mom
passed away when I was for right. Number two, I
told him. Me and my dad just kind of had
(03:59):
a really weird conversation like that, just asks me to
move in with me, and I'm like, okay. Number three,
y'all know, I basically watched my grandma die, right, So
it's like ny can read the whoo. It's not the day, right,
So I'm like, okay, you know whatever, I'm still gonna
talk it out, still going to try to be in
the moment right right so timely and I'm like, hey,
(04:23):
do y'all mind if I pray for y'all. Y'all know
I love the Lord. This is my home the way,
all the way, right, all the way. So one of
his brothers is like, no, I'm Muslim. Oh And in
my mind, I'm like, you must have just took your
shata because like most especially, I feel like I don't
know about y'all, but at my church, like Muslims come
(04:45):
to my church, like we have members whose children with them,
Like it's not a big thing, Like it's not like pray, bro,
I'm not telling you that you gotta pray specifically Tate
Jesus yours too, whatever, And muslim still believe in Jesus.
But he's still you know what I mean. Mm hmm, y'all.
When I say I was, let's you say we're now
(05:05):
at I pray. Okay, now two hours past when I
thought I was gonna be eat, we drive to the
cookout in Delaware. He had to make a stop. We're
now four hours past. Another ye another steps, we're now
four hours past. Definitely not reading the room. When I
thought I was gonna be eating, No, I'm you're hungry, hangry, Okay,
(05:28):
I'm angry. Next word, watch what you say? Okay, and
pull up to the driveway and he's been playing his
phone this whole time. Pull up to the driveway and
his notification says, big.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
Booty Latina x x X like your message, I've been
thinking about you.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
Booty Latina x x X replied, what old baby, you
was thinking about me? What was you thinking? It popped
up in a car or where pop up the phone?
So we've all been looking at the whole ride. I said, oh, now,
mind you when we got from the nursing home, because
it wasn't an apartment complex, it was a nursing home.
When we got out the apartment, I'm like or like,
(06:08):
I really don't think you should have worant me here,
Like I think it was a very intimate time.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
It wasn't appropriate down on that level. We're not in
a relationship. We're just like, you know each other. Like,
I don't think it was appropriate cause then be texting
bitches when we get there.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
Like, come on, man, come on. So what do he say?
How did he respond to that? Well, that message was
oh that's what you got as old. That's all he
said was old. Oh that message was old. That was old.
(06:42):
She responded, just now, but that was old. Wow, that's
the nerve, the goal, the nerve. Cool. Yeah, goodbye, goodbye.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
Never t I thought I'm sure to get you up again,
didn't he absolutely?
Speaker 1 (06:59):
Text like last week, you know, I said, I'm gonna
be Roald with you. Bro, I'm not even there, like
I'm not. Oh his dad did die like a couple
of days ago. Oh dang dang.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
Yeah, yeah she was a part of that, but you
know now it's in the past. Sorry, bro, And that'd
be a problem. Like why they be just trying to
start on the wrong foot, Like what come on now,
Like that's not it.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
It's not even starting on the wrong foot. Why try
to be on that level with me when you still
tex another girl. That's what I'm saying. That's what I'm saying.
I don't get it. You're trying to take me serious
or not.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
Like no, and if it's not cool, just bring me
to the fucking cookout.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
And that's it, right. And you could have said afterwards,
you could have said meet me here, anything on anything, anything,
and then yeah, here we are, here we are, and
here we are. What about you any interesting?
Speaker 2 (07:56):
Well I had a similar situation, not so much. We
went to dinner. It was good, then we you know,
it was in the car, listen to music, you know,
just talking and then Force's phone's connected to the you know,
the radio.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
Then out of nowhere. What you're doing, babe? Yeah? Well
actually it was a call first. Wait, it was a
call first.
Speaker 2 (08:12):
And he kind of rejected it, and I just like,
let me not even make you more uncomfortable.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
Let me just look, and I you know, I was
just like okay. Then the text came through and then nothing.
It was just silence.
Speaker 2 (08:21):
But you know, like what I'm gonna say, Yeah, you're
not my man, so I'm not gonna be all upon you.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
But come on now, car players. I mean every time he.
Speaker 2 (08:30):
Was trying to have me hook up my phone, like no,
what you see he was trying, but I said no.
Speaker 1 (08:35):
I mean, I ain't got too much dare anyway. But
I'm just saying.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
I'm just saying, like, come on now, at least put
your notifications on silent or do something like you know
we're dating, so okay, you dating other people, but are
we going.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
To be exclusive soon? Like what's going on? You gotta
be honest and open of what you're doing. Sat The
problem that like period in between when you like just
getting to know each other, still trying to lock in,
but you're not really locked and you know, it's so
like the game is spickled. It is like that did
you have feels? But you know you ain't spposed to
have films, So now you gotta act like you're like
(09:09):
I haven't.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
Met and I seen it.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
I'm like, all right, he's at my man, let me
just be quiet on this.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
And then the text what you're doing, Like it's like
like I think eleven fifteen, eleven thirty at that, like
it's going all that time of night, y'all be texting
like at night nights?
Speaker 1 (09:24):
Why she texted you this time of night? Who That's
what I'm saying, That's what I would be thinking. That's
what I'm saying. But that's what I'm saying. That was
going through my mind.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
But you know, like I said, we're dating and kind
of you're not I think yet, but still like what's up?
Speaker 1 (09:36):
Like you can't be talking to me and think that's
gonna slide? Like no. So well, in more recent news, uh,
my latest draft pick has been doing really well. Okay, however,
yesterday he said something, oh man, he was like, yeah, girl,
(09:59):
mind you we we I haven't been intimate or anything yet. Okay.
He was like, I'm gonna give you comteous, so don't
nobody else want you? Tell us? Oh, I know y'all
think no, he said, tell us. I'm gonna look y'all
in your face when I say this matter. Some of
(10:20):
the stuff y'all think sound cute, don't sound cute. When
y'all say stuff like you know I'm gonna get you pregnant,
that is a threat. I am threatened. Another one. I
am threatened. Yeah, I am threatened it right away. This
is harassment. I know y'all think like it's so funny.
You know, I'm gonna get you pregnant. I'm gonna give
(10:43):
you commteas, so don nobody else want you.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
Let's look, I've never heard that that that's what that's
that's wild to me, he said.
Speaker 1 (10:48):
I said what he said, Well, I mean, at least
it's something that you can get rid of. It's not like, no, no,
it's a silver lightning in the gray cloud. That's what
he said. Every time y'all talk yourselves out a pussy
every time, every time it is you know, you know,
just when.
Speaker 2 (11:07):
We all was there maybe thinking about it, maybe not
be there, but thinking about it here you're here, you
go saying some stuff like that. Yeah no, it's new
to me and never heard that one.
Speaker 1 (11:17):
Wow yeah wow. So yeah, and he's gonna carry on
like everything's fine. Huh oh yeah No, I'm not gonna
sit up here and at all. How I cracked the
funk up when I heard it. I laughed. I laughed
really hard. And I think that's part of my problem.
I got some growing up to do, right, what accountability
(11:38):
because I acknowledge that's good.
Speaker 2 (11:41):
At least you acknowledge that'sledge that.
Speaker 1 (11:44):
But I told him, I said, don't say that to
nobody else. Don't say that to nobody. I thought it
was funny, but it's gonna be somebody who's not gonna
think yeah, yeah, I may look at you like what
like you got the wrong one two and three? You know.
So I saw something online recently and I wanted your
(12:06):
take on it. Have you heard of this term future faith? Well,
apparently this is when like somebody will go real hard
about how they see a future with you and they
just want so much, like but it's it's just so fast.
I think it's to me, it kind of sounds similar
(12:28):
to love bombing, but it says hold on one second.
Future faking was that mine of your future? Faking is
a manipula tactic where a person makes exaggerated promises about
a shared future with no intention of following through. It
is a form of deception often used to keep someone
(12:48):
emotionally invested in a relationship, but also can occur in
work or family situations. Hmm, you know, I never heard that.
Where did that come from? This is this? This is
just popped up. My time has a new thing. So
this would be like, you know, promising to get married
or moving together start a family someday, or if a
boss promise you a promotion and you never get it
(13:11):
and that's just what it is. Yeah, well, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (13:14):
I don't like love bombing, so I don't know about
that one.
Speaker 1 (13:18):
Yeah, I agree, because anytime it just start talking in
like future a little bit too fast? Yeah, bro, do
you even know I can kart will? Yeah? She's pretty
good at it. Yeah, she pretty good at it.
Speaker 2 (13:27):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
Do you even know what type of chocolate I like?
In my period?
Speaker 2 (13:32):
Like?
Speaker 1 (13:32):
Come on, now, do you know any of the intricacies
that really make me me? You know?
Speaker 2 (13:36):
My favorite movie, the favorite TV show, like do you
know how the worst?
Speaker 1 (13:41):
The Major Pain? Right? Do you even care? No? You know?
So it's like I hear you, yeah, but I don't
like that. I hate it. I hate it because to me,
it seems it seems like you're saying what you feel
like I wire.
Speaker 2 (13:55):
That's not it, and it don't work every time, I
just go silo on the phone, or I just don't,
I don't.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
I'm good for it. I got silent. I don't, No,
I don't respond, say nothing. Then they come back with
something else. Oh, you're still there? Yeah are you? I'm
still here? Yeah, I'm here that Hey, what's up right? Yeah?
And then say something else again.
Speaker 2 (14:13):
I never met a girl like you, and oh I
can see a future with you a family.
Speaker 1 (14:19):
Now, guys, get there. I'm not saying that these aren't
things that I would like to hear, right, I just
would like to hear it in an appropriate time.
Speaker 2 (14:28):
Yes, it's always the time in the place, like get
to know me first, get to.
Speaker 1 (14:32):
Know what kind of chocolate I like? You know what
I mean? Because then that makes me think you just
be out here saying that to everybody. Yep, what makes
you different? And that don't make you different. That even that,
what do you see in me that's different? Right?
Speaker 2 (14:42):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (14:43):
Absolutely? Mm hm m b. That's why y'all. Yeah, nothing
as bad as the first take, but we're saying we're
so warm. So you said nobody ever try to do
that to you before? What, Well, yeah, that happened a lot.
That's what it is. Definition that happened a lot.
Speaker 2 (15:03):
I get that all the time, you know, And it's
kind of hard because a lot of times, a lot
of guys are intimidated by me, so they feel like
they have to say what they need to say to
make it sound good. But I'm just like a plain
I'm simple, Like you know, just tell me real stuff.
Don't tell me what you think I want to hear,
because that's gonna turn me off.
Speaker 1 (15:21):
And it does every time every time. Like you know what,
I I don't think y'all understand how simple women really are,
like because y'all take that and be like, oh, women
say they want one thing and then they don't want it,
and it's like, no, it's not it me personally. I'm
(15:41):
a woman who wants flowers. I'm a woman who want
to I'm a woman who wants you to use your
words and how you feel for me and how you
see a future with me in the correct timeline and
if I like you, yeah, exactly? Are you on too strong?
I don't even know that things that I want from right, Yeah,
you say things like that to me. It just doesn't
resonate when you do things like that for me, it
(16:03):
just doesn't because that's scared me because when we start
taking it to the next level, next step, like what
you really wanna act like like, whoa.
Speaker 2 (16:10):
I'm the breaks exactly, I'm the break exactly. So no,
mm hmmm, I don't like that at all.
Speaker 1 (16:21):
So what's your goal to if a guy like tries.
Speaker 2 (16:26):
I mean, like I said, I'm gonna just go silent
or just go ghost like, No, I'm good for it.
I'm not gonna be honest like you know, I'll say something,
I'll try to change the subject or I'm good for that.
Speaker 1 (16:35):
Try to change the topic, you know, try to get
to know him a little more.
Speaker 2 (16:39):
Or just talk about his goals and future to see
if we really can like align. But as soon as
he starts doing that, like and he keeps doing it,
it's just too much.
Speaker 1 (16:47):
It's just it's honestly, no, no question. Do you think that.
I feel like we'll say that like, oh, that's true,
that really happens, right, But I feel like there are
some things that men say it's true, what really happens
that I don't know about you. I really I don't
want to give. But like when men say, like, oh, someone,
(17:08):
some women just take advantage of me for free dinner.
I don't feel bad for men taking advantage of for
free dinner.
Speaker 2 (17:15):
Because I've been here and I got a lot of
homeboys playing that really funny.
Speaker 1 (17:19):
I ain't gonna lie listen, and I don't. I don't
mean to be mean when I say this. I mean
to be real because every woman I know who has
ever faked interest in a man to get a free dinner.
Speaker 2 (17:33):
YEP, it was blatantly obvious.
Speaker 1 (17:36):
It has to get a free dinner. She only answered
your calls and text when she's hungry, exactly what you're doing.
I'm hungry. Yeah, that's probably gonna be the first thing
she's gonna start with that, I'm hungry. What you eat
all day? Oh?
Speaker 2 (17:48):
What you eat every time you hit this girl up?
She say, I'm hungry. I'm just going through it right now.
Oh ya, I'm just trying to figure out how my
rent through that hold on. Never hit you to say, hey, king,
how are you.
Speaker 1 (17:59):
To sleep at night? Yeah? What you dream about? You know?
And my problem is at least Stoney maintained a high
end buy relationship before she said I'm in a buying
any I don't even be taking her no more, y'all
be allowing it. So I don't feel bad for a
man who says, like, Yo, she only hit me, and
(18:22):
she her part, and you take her. Don't forget that part.
Speaker 2 (18:30):
I mean, that's all he got, though, you know, the
chance to see her maybe maybe a little chance to
talk to her, that's all him.
Speaker 1 (18:36):
It's wrong, it's still on him. But if a woman
only has time to see you when she's hungry, she
is really not interested. I not tighten up. There ain't
no tighten up. That wan that too.
Speaker 2 (18:50):
But you better, you know, gotta just see what's out here,
and that's happening these days.
Speaker 1 (18:56):
I ain't for it. Do you think you know?
Speaker 2 (19:04):
I tried, but it's hard because every time I tried,
you know, I feld out they were talking to other
girls and stuff, and it's.
Speaker 1 (19:11):
Kind of hard.
Speaker 2 (19:12):
Like I was talking to other girls, no, because it
becomes a little weird, especially like.
Speaker 1 (19:18):
The same gym, because that's not okay.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
Well yeah, the same gym. Okay, the same gym, the
same gym, that's crazy. I mean I think I think
I've talked to a few gym guys.
Speaker 1 (19:27):
Would you recommend?
Speaker 2 (19:30):
Maybe it just depends because sometimes I'll be in my
zone and I don't want to be bothered, and so
you know, if I see you, then they're gonna want
to work out and be all in your face. But
I don't know, you know, I mean I could do it,
but I don't really do it.
Speaker 1 (19:45):
Like a lot. I don't know. I think I've dated
guys in the gym, but I think I want to
date one of those oh D gym guys like that
we not eating no trash at food, Like come here,
you work out in my mouth? Like I think that's
what I'm missing. What am I guess saying? I'm would
(20:08):
that be? Like?
Speaker 2 (20:09):
Well, man, okay, Like I want one of them, the
men that be in the gym writing in a notebook.
Speaker 1 (20:17):
Have you got one like that? No? No, I never had.
I never had. I've had guys who were like consistent
in the gym and guys who were like in good shape.
But I've never had like a write in a notebook
strict diet like I never had that. Yeah, I never
had that, Niata, I don't know you think you were
like that? Yeah, man, y'n tell you why I'm sick
of prepping all the time.
Speaker 2 (20:39):
Yeah, I don't know, but it's hard no prepping. I'll
be eating it for dinner, eating eat it all the time,
and I'd be like down to nothing, like.
Speaker 1 (20:48):
I need somebody else who's going to mill prep on
top of that, Like, baby, I need you to tell
me how to get these last little bit of like
rolls off. Like, what's the secret, bro? You know? Okay,
mm hmm. Some more push ups, sit ups? You know.
Chere's of that? Mhm, chere's of that. Okay, here's the gym, bros.
And don't bring your funky asses in the gym because
(21:10):
we're getting close to New Year's I'm not here, please.
Speaker 2 (21:14):
We beat her every day, Okay, we beat her every day,
all right, putting in at work, getting that body together.
Speaker 1 (21:21):
We know, we see the same faces, we see the
new faces. Nope, mm hmm, no, don't try it. Mm hmm. Hot,
take what being delusional is a part of cuffing season
and finding your person. You have to be you have
(21:44):
to be. You gotta know what you want. You have
to be some level of delusional to participate in okay
and find your person. I agree, y'all that. Let me
say that again. You have to be a certain level
of delusional to participate in cuffing season and eventually find
your person. I believe that. Okay, I can agree with that.
(22:06):
I can. And I don't mean just like a oh,
stare up at the moon.
Speaker 2 (22:11):
I hope my person is staring at the same time
and one day our souls will connect.
Speaker 1 (22:15):
I mean none of that. I mean so delusional that
you are willing to uphold your standards and boundaries until
you find sad person.
Speaker 2 (22:25):
You are willing for your legs to shake from standing
to business.
Speaker 1 (22:30):
Okay. You are willing to let mister six foot four
four six foot four, gold chain wearing pretty smell hav
so smelling, smelling good, established jobs and property. You're willing
to let him go. No, no know why, because you guys
do not have the same values and you.
Speaker 2 (22:53):
Know and can see that he's not the man for you.
It's not gonna work. So you gotta be strong. You
gotta be strong, you gotta refer what you want. Okay,
here for a week and for a week.
Speaker 1 (23:07):
So, yeah, I'm delusional, I say. I about to say
I'm delusional, and I'm not here to say it, and
I'm happy. I'll be honest with yourself. That's that's the point.
You got to know what you want. You know, I'm
so delusional that the guy who took me to the cookout, well, yeah,
I'm so delusional. I real time quote myself stepping out
(23:27):
and saying, what the fuck am I doing here? I
do not need to be here right his name and
your phone cookout? God? God, we know, you know we
be nicknaming the guy. You know we do that.
Speaker 2 (23:41):
We don't know that.
Speaker 1 (23:43):
When y'all do something, we do nickname you. Okay, If
I go to my phone right now, I can show
you the wildest Literally, the last three text message I
got are from buff Bop Square friends. Wait what lex Luthor?
What Hey? It's I mean we have them? Like, what's
(24:04):
the craziest name of your phone? I don't know, let
me see, don't pick up.
Speaker 2 (24:14):
I don't like you on the blacklist. I want you
to know I'm singing not to pick it up. So
I'm not gonna put you on the black list. I'm
gonna saying it, don't answer, and don't put you on
red too, for sure. You know, you know that's what
we do. Like I gotta put you on red like
because you.
Speaker 1 (24:27):
Don't get it. Like even if I haven't talked to
you a week or two, you still don't get it.
I got those two still hitting me up years later.
I'm like, really a year later? Yeah, So what tips
do you have because we're entering you know, cuffing season,
bole season, sweater weather and the thing. Are you okay
(24:48):
real fast? How are you laying? Pumpkin spicnegar? That's hard?
I like something hard? Slice? Okay, that's good. It is
good though, it's good, but space is good too, Like no,
not epsidarider. I think I edited vinegar in there. Yeah,
I think you did. That's all. I'm like, what are
you talking about? But no episode, it's just apple cider.
(25:11):
Yeah is good. Yeah, is good, but pumpkin spices I
like it better the winners though. We're leaving you know,
pre coughing draft season and we're entering the actual where
uh what tips do you have for people that might
get a little weak and want to respond to that
text from personal?
Speaker 2 (25:32):
You know, you gotta stay strong, you gotta you gotta
find something to do, favorite show, movie, hobby. I'll be
in the gym, so you know that's where i'd be at.
You know the gym also helps mental illness, helps everything,
helps everything. Yeah, help the fast time. And you look
good too, you know.
Speaker 1 (25:52):
Uh. My suggestion will be stop junking off. Okay, I'm
gonna go into this liow only season and teed I
think up. Okay, I'm speaking from experience. That's I said, whoa.
I said whoa.
Speaker 2 (26:07):
It got to a point where I said, I'm abusing that. Yeah,
I said the saint right, I said, no, there.
Speaker 1 (26:13):
Supposed to be so U go outside and touch brass.
Don't touch your ass. Okay, I'm just saying, like y'all
raughing when I say this, and that's because y'all know
what's true. It is Okay, some of us will sit
in house and because the the snacks is fired, the
(26:33):
alcohol is free, the prime braider is low. You might
have let weed and the flying too. Okay, we will
sit there sin sear ourselves up instead of going outside
and socializing. So if you want to find your person, it.
Speaker 2 (26:45):
Ain't down here. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I forget. Get on
about that house. Get on about that house, y'all. Get out, guys,
get out. You know, like you said, cuff and season
is about here.
Speaker 1 (26:56):
Ya, You're not to go so fast. Matching pajamas is huh.
I ain't been in mes pajamas for six years? Neither neither.
Speaker 2 (27:05):
Yeah for me, Like yeah, about seven in my in
my mind, that music started playing.
Speaker 1 (27:15):
I really want today. That's the thing. I take a
little cute pictures. I'll be looking out there, I'll be
hating on the law, but I'm like, oh that's cute,
look at that.
Speaker 2 (27:27):
Okay, that's you too, but sigurely granted, like next next.
Speaker 1 (27:32):
I saw this post last year and and and I'm
standing on it. But if I ain't in mentioning dramas
this season, I'm gonna start showing my d ms. None
of y'all niggas gonna be in mess pajamas. Okay, I
be hating. You've been in my d ms all year.
And then you pop up and match your pajamas with
(27:52):
your punky little girls, or you pop up taking some
some some some woman on a date from balent Time's day.
How cow Now I already know they're gonna spend it like,
well it could have been you, if you know, because
you already had you had it, you had it.
Speaker 2 (28:08):
Yeah, he was already doing it all along, trying to as,
trying to spin us like, come on, now, you know
they're gonna be in matching pajamas, all booed up by dinner.
Speaker 1 (28:17):
Get out of here. I'll be in matching pajamas and
be broken up before Valentin's Yeah, will absolutely every time,
every time. So yeah, tell peoplehere they can find you.
Speaker 2 (28:27):
Grace all right, I'm on Instagram, Facebook, Grace Siana, also
on TikTok, on YouTube, Slightly sus podcasts or Grace Siana.
Speaker 1 (28:38):
And yeah that's me, guys follow me. Yeah, yes, stay
tuned for more adventures. I'll be getting on Grace Neurves
for the rest of I like, so, yes, we'll see
your prop up.
Speaker 2 (28:49):
What's the next venture? What's the next venture? Let me
video the rodeo audio d what's the other thing? It
was some Halloween. It was something Halloween or something costumer
were soon within the next Yeah, we're gonna be here.
Speaker 1 (29:01):
We locked that now, y'all, we locked that she can't
go nowhere down cut and then follow me on the
grammar asked for me P P E A at chocolate
chip and sip And if you don't remember anything else,
please remember all right, y'all, thanks for hanging with his
(29:23):
pool side for this little bonus. Don't judge the audio,
judge dimnity story. Okay, we'll be back next episode, but
studio quality or even working as love y'all. Peace,
What's up, beautiful people? Quick disclaimer, this is a bonus episode.
Me and my homegirl Grace were outside, literally by the pool. Okay,
so the audio isn't as polished as usual, but the
last and the stories were too good not to share.
So consider this your invite to sit with us pool
side while we talk dating, horror stories and cup seas
and chaos. Now let's get to the show. Sure, what's up,
(00:27):
beautiful people? As your girl story repeat? And this is
another episode of Chocolate Chip and Sip. And this is
the end of the summer recap, ladies and gentlemen. And
I know some of y'all was like, well, theymn girl,
where was you at for the summer? Don't worry about it.
We pick it back up here, all right. And because
we're picking back up in good spirits, I forget. It
was only right that I catch up one of my
favorite homegirls.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
So go ahead, introduce yourself to the people. Hey, y'all,
I'm Grace Tiana. I also have a podcast called Slightly Obsessed.
And we are here, y'all.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
Now we're gonna recap to someone who guys started to again. Okay,
that me and Grace went to the dr from a
birth day. Yeah, yeah, that was a great time. That's fine,
good memories. That's part of the trip. I love the
yacht and the boats Northland, playing with the monkeys. You
know that monkey pete on me. Yeah, monkey pee right
on my head. It's so cute.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
What's his name?
Speaker 1 (01:18):
I can't remember. Mickey go, Micky Noice, Mickey Mickey. Well,
my best part of the Dominican Republic Rick was a
Grace is Spanish, and then almost Grace getting drunk and
me having to dimn or carry her back friends of
the room. And uh, it wasn't really the carrying, It
(01:42):
was her yelling yes, just leave it, but I'm not
going to leave you in the middle of the promenade
and it's the Medical Republic. I'm not going to do it, Like,
excuse me, I'm not going to do it. But yeah, uh.
Speaking the summer though, I like to think that summer
is like pre cuffing season. It's like a draft. Right,
(02:03):
So how was your draft this summer? Did you get
any prospects? I definitely had some prospects.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
You know, he was dating and having fun, but then
you just just doesn't work. So, you know, I'm back
at the drawing board again. Yeah, just trying to see
how it goes, you know.
Speaker 1 (02:19):
Yeah, I think this was my uh this was definitely
my smallest uh pre cuffing season, uh draft picks, but
this was definitely the most eventful. Each one came with
the store, and I appreciate that. That'll take you about
the kickout. No, you did not what happened at the cookout.
So we're gonna call this one a cookout. Okay, old
(02:39):
boy invites me to a family cookout, right, and he
gonna pick me up. We get to the cookout and
it's a part so I'm like, okay, apartment where the
girl at? Like, I don't still know who. So I
see his mom. It's not a big thing. Me and
his mom have seen each other. Oh okay, I was
about to say, his mom already like that fast exactly.
(03:03):
It's not a big thing.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
So she like, yeah, you know, I'm happy it came.
I'm being myself. So she's like, that's right. We need
to be laughing and joking. We don't got to be
all sad. No, why wouldn't we be laughing and joking
at the cookout?
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Now? Mind joy? I said he invited me to a
family cookout, right, I got on festival jeene shorts a
crop top speakers, right. So we go inside and I see, like,
you know, his brothers and sisters. I never met them before.
You in the family for real, Okay, y'all. Why he
take me to his father's death bed like his father
(03:39):
is dying. No, no, he didn't, no, no he did not.
And the first day, like y'all, just this is not
the first day, y'all. But let me tell y'all how
my nigga can't read the room. Okay. Number one, it's
my mom's birthday, for y'all, who don't know my mom
passed away when I was for right. Number two, I
told him. Me and my dad just kind of had
(03:59):
a really weird conversation like that, just asks me to
move in with me, and I'm like, okay. Number three,
y'all know, I basically watched my grandma die, right, So
it's like ny can read the whoo. It's not the day, right,
So I'm like, okay, you know whatever, I'm still gonna
talk it out, still going to try to be in
the moment right right so timely and I'm like, hey,
(04:23):
do y'all mind if I pray for y'all. Y'all know
I love the Lord. This is my home the way,
all the way, right, all the way. So one of
his brothers is like, no, I'm Muslim. Oh And in
my mind, I'm like, you must have just took your
shata because like most especially, I feel like I don't
know about y'all, but at my church, like Muslims come
(04:45):
to my church, like we have members whose children with them,
Like it's not a big thing, Like it's not like pray, bro,
I'm not telling you that you gotta pray specifically Tate
Jesus yours too, whatever, And muslim still believe in Jesus.
But he's still you know what I mean. Mm hmm, y'all.
When I say I was, let's you say we're now
(05:05):
at I pray. Okay, now two hours past when I
thought I was gonna be eat, we drive to the
cookout in Delaware. He had to make a stop. We're
now four hours past. Another ye another steps, we're now
four hours past. Definitely not reading the room. When I
thought I was gonna be eating, No, I'm you're hungry, hangry, Okay,
(05:28):
I'm angry. Next word, watch what you say? Okay, and
pull up to the driveway and he's been playing his
phone this whole time. Pull up to the driveway and
his notification says, big.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
Booty Latina x x X like your message, I've been
thinking about you.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
Booty Latina x x X replied, what old baby, you
was thinking about me? What was you thinking? It popped
up in a car or where pop up the phone?
So we've all been looking at the whole ride. I said, oh, now,
mind you when we got from the nursing home, because
it wasn't an apartment complex, it was a nursing home.
When we got out the apartment, I'm like or like,
(06:08):
I really don't think you should have worant me here,
Like I think it was a very intimate time.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
It wasn't appropriate down on that level. We're not in
a relationship. We're just like, you know each other. Like,
I don't think it was appropriate cause then be texting
bitches when we get there.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
Like, come on, man, come on. So what do he say?
How did he respond to that? Well, that message was
oh that's what you got as old. That's all he
said was old. Oh that message was old. That was old.
(06:42):
She responded, just now, but that was old. Wow, that's
the nerve, the goal, the nerve. Cool. Yeah, goodbye, goodbye.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
Never t I thought I'm sure to get you up again,
didn't he absolutely?
Speaker 1 (06:59):
Text like last week, you know, I said, I'm gonna
be Roald with you. Bro, I'm not even there, like
I'm not. Oh his dad did die like a couple
of days ago. Oh dang dang.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
Yeah, yeah she was a part of that, but you
know now it's in the past. Sorry, bro, And that'd
be a problem. Like why they be just trying to
start on the wrong foot, Like what come on now,
Like that's not it.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
It's not even starting on the wrong foot. Why try
to be on that level with me when you still
tex another girl. That's what I'm saying. That's what I'm saying.
I don't get it. You're trying to take me serious
or not.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
Like no, and if it's not cool, just bring me
to the fucking cookout.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
And that's it, right. And you could have said afterwards,
you could have said meet me here, anything on anything, anything,
and then yeah, here we are, here we are, and
here we are. What about you any interesting?
Speaker 2 (07:56):
Well I had a similar situation, not so much. We
went to dinner. It was good, then we you know,
it was in the car, listen to music, you know,
just talking and then Force's phone's connected to the you know,
the radio.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
Then out of nowhere. What you're doing, babe? Yeah? Well
actually it was a call first. Wait, it was a
call first.
Speaker 2 (08:12):
And he kind of rejected it, and I just like,
let me not even make you more uncomfortable.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
Let me just look, and I you know, I was
just like okay. Then the text came through and then nothing.
It was just silence.
Speaker 2 (08:21):
But you know, like what I'm gonna say, Yeah, you're
not my man, so I'm not gonna be all upon you.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
But come on now, car players. I mean every time he.
Speaker 2 (08:30):
Was trying to have me hook up my phone, like no,
what you see he was trying, but I said no.
Speaker 1 (08:35):
I mean, I ain't got too much dare anyway. But
I'm just saying.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
I'm just saying, like, come on now, at least put
your notifications on silent or do something like you know
we're dating, so okay, you dating other people, but are
we going.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
To be exclusive soon? Like what's going on? You gotta
be honest and open of what you're doing. Sat The
problem that like period in between when you like just
getting to know each other, still trying to lock in,
but you're not really locked and you know, it's so
like the game is spickled. It is like that did
you have feels? But you know you ain't spposed to
have films, So now you gotta act like you're like
(09:09):
I haven't.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
Met and I seen it.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
I'm like, all right, he's at my man, let me
just be quiet on this.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
And then the text what you're doing, Like it's like
like I think eleven fifteen, eleven thirty at that, like
it's going all that time of night, y'all be texting
like at night nights?
Speaker 1 (09:24):
Why she texted you this time of night? Who That's
what I'm saying, That's what I would be thinking. That's
what I'm saying. But that's what I'm saying. That was
going through my mind.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
But you know, like I said, we're dating and kind
of you're not I think yet, but still like what's up?
Speaker 1 (09:36):
Like you can't be talking to me and think that's
gonna slide? Like no. So well, in more recent news, uh,
my latest draft pick has been doing really well. Okay, however,
yesterday he said something, oh man, he was like, yeah, girl,
(09:59):
mind you we we I haven't been intimate or anything yet. Okay.
He was like, I'm gonna give you comteous, so don't
nobody else want you? Tell us? Oh, I know y'all
think no, he said, tell us. I'm gonna look y'all
in your face when I say this matter. Some of
(10:20):
the stuff y'all think sound cute, don't sound cute. When
y'all say stuff like you know I'm gonna get you pregnant,
that is a threat. I am threatened. Another one. I
am threatened. Yeah, I am threatened it right away. This
is harassment. I know y'all think like it's so funny.
You know, I'm gonna get you pregnant. I'm gonna give
(10:43):
you commteas, so don nobody else want you.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
Let's look, I've never heard that that that's what that's
that's wild to me, he said.
Speaker 1 (10:48):
I said what he said, Well, I mean, at least
it's something that you can get rid of. It's not like, no, no,
it's a silver lightning in the gray cloud. That's what
he said. Every time y'all talk yourselves out a pussy
every time, every time it is you know, you know,
just when.
Speaker 2 (11:07):
We all was there maybe thinking about it, maybe not
be there, but thinking about it here you're here, you
go saying some stuff like that. Yeah no, it's new
to me and never heard that one.
Speaker 1 (11:17):
Wow yeah wow. So yeah, and he's gonna carry on
like everything's fine. Huh oh yeah No, I'm not gonna
sit up here and at all. How I cracked the
funk up when I heard it. I laughed. I laughed
really hard. And I think that's part of my problem.
I got some growing up to do, right, what accountability
(11:38):
because I acknowledge that's good.
Speaker 2 (11:41):
At least you acknowledge that'sledge that.
Speaker 1 (11:44):
But I told him, I said, don't say that to
nobody else. Don't say that to nobody. I thought it
was funny, but it's gonna be somebody who's not gonna
think yeah, yeah, I may look at you like what
like you got the wrong one two and three? You know.
So I saw something online recently and I wanted your
(12:06):
take on it. Have you heard of this term future faith? Well,
apparently this is when like somebody will go real hard
about how they see a future with you and they
just want so much, like but it's it's just so fast.
I think it's to me, it kind of sounds similar
(12:28):
to love bombing, but it says hold on one second.
Future faking was that mine of your future? Faking is
a manipula tactic where a person makes exaggerated promises about
a shared future with no intention of following through. It
is a form of deception often used to keep someone
(12:48):
emotionally invested in a relationship, but also can occur in
work or family situations. Hmm, you know, I never heard that.
Where did that come from? This is this? This is
just popped up. My time has a new thing. So
this would be like, you know, promising to get married
or moving together start a family someday, or if a
boss promise you a promotion and you never get it
(13:11):
and that's just what it is. Yeah, well, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (13:14):
I don't like love bombing, so I don't know about
that one.
Speaker 1 (13:18):
Yeah, I agree, because anytime it just start talking in
like future a little bit too fast? Yeah, bro, do
you even know I can kart will? Yeah? She's pretty
good at it. Yeah, she pretty good at it.
Speaker 2 (13:27):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
Do you even know what type of chocolate I like?
In my period?
Speaker 2 (13:32):
Like?
Speaker 1 (13:32):
Come on, now, do you know any of the intricacies
that really make me me? You know?
Speaker 2 (13:36):
My favorite movie, the favorite TV show, like do you
know how the worst?
Speaker 1 (13:41):
The Major Pain? Right? Do you even care? No? You know?
So it's like I hear you, yeah, but I don't
like that. I hate it. I hate it because to me,
it seems it seems like you're saying what you feel
like I wire.
Speaker 2 (13:55):
That's not it, and it don't work every time, I
just go silo on the phone, or I just don't,
I don't.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
I'm good for it. I got silent. I don't, No,
I don't respond, say nothing. Then they come back with
something else. Oh, you're still there? Yeah are you? I'm
still here? Yeah, I'm here that Hey, what's up right? Yeah?
And then say something else again.
Speaker 2 (14:13):
I never met a girl like you, and oh I
can see a future with you a family.
Speaker 1 (14:19):
Now, guys, get there. I'm not saying that these aren't
things that I would like to hear, right, I just
would like to hear it in an appropriate time.
Speaker 2 (14:28):
Yes, it's always the time in the place, like get
to know me first, get to.
Speaker 1 (14:32):
Know what kind of chocolate I like? You know what
I mean? Because then that makes me think you just
be out here saying that to everybody. Yep, what makes
you different? And that don't make you different. That even that,
what do you see in me that's different? Right?
Speaker 2 (14:42):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (14:43):
Absolutely? Mm hm m b. That's why y'all. Yeah, nothing
as bad as the first take, but we're saying we're
so warm. So you said nobody ever try to do
that to you before? What, Well, yeah, that happened a lot.
That's what it is. Definition that happened a lot.
Speaker 2 (15:03):
I get that all the time, you know, And it's
kind of hard because a lot of times, a lot
of guys are intimidated by me, so they feel like
they have to say what they need to say to
make it sound good. But I'm just like a plain
I'm simple, Like you know, just tell me real stuff.
Don't tell me what you think I want to hear,
because that's gonna turn me off.
Speaker 1 (15:21):
And it does every time every time. Like you know what,
I I don't think y'all understand how simple women really are,
like because y'all take that and be like, oh, women
say they want one thing and then they don't want it,
and it's like, no, it's not it me personally. I'm
(15:41):
a woman who wants flowers. I'm a woman who want
to I'm a woman who wants you to use your
words and how you feel for me and how you
see a future with me in the correct timeline and
if I like you, yeah, exactly? Are you on too strong?
I don't even know that things that I want from right, Yeah,
you say things like that to me. It just doesn't
resonate when you do things like that for me, it
(16:03):
just doesn't because that's scared me because when we start
taking it to the next level, next step, like what
you really wanna act like like, whoa.
Speaker 2 (16:10):
I'm the breaks exactly, I'm the break exactly. So no,
mm hmmm, I don't like that at all.
Speaker 1 (16:21):
So what's your goal to if a guy like tries.
Speaker 2 (16:26):
I mean, like I said, I'm gonna just go silent
or just go ghost like, No, I'm good for it.
I'm not gonna be honest like you know, I'll say something,
I'll try to change the subject or I'm good for that.
Speaker 1 (16:35):
Try to change the topic, you know, try to get
to know him a little more.
Speaker 2 (16:39):
Or just talk about his goals and future to see
if we really can like align. But as soon as
he starts doing that, like and he keeps doing it,
it's just too much.
Speaker 1 (16:47):
It's just it's honestly, no, no question. Do you think that.
I feel like we'll say that like, oh, that's true,
that really happens, right, But I feel like there are
some things that men say it's true, what really happens
that I don't know about you. I really I don't
want to give. But like when men say, like, oh, someone,
(17:08):
some women just take advantage of me for free dinner.
I don't feel bad for men taking advantage of for
free dinner.
Speaker 2 (17:15):
Because I've been here and I got a lot of
homeboys playing that really funny.
Speaker 1 (17:19):
I ain't gonna lie listen, and I don't. I don't
mean to be mean when I say this. I mean
to be real because every woman I know who has
ever faked interest in a man to get a free dinner.
Speaker 2 (17:33):
YEP, it was blatantly obvious.
Speaker 1 (17:36):
It has to get a free dinner. She only answered
your calls and text when she's hungry, exactly what you're doing.
I'm hungry. Yeah, that's probably gonna be the first thing
she's gonna start with that, I'm hungry. What you eat
all day? Oh?
Speaker 2 (17:48):
What you eat every time you hit this girl up?
She say, I'm hungry. I'm just going through it right now.
Oh ya, I'm just trying to figure out how my
rent through that hold on. Never hit you to say, hey, king,
how are you.
Speaker 1 (17:59):
To sleep at night? Yeah? What you dream about? You know?
And my problem is at least Stoney maintained a high
end buy relationship before she said I'm in a buying
any I don't even be taking her no more, y'all
be allowing it. So I don't feel bad for a
man who says, like, Yo, she only hit me, and
(18:22):
she her part, and you take her. Don't forget that part.
Speaker 2 (18:30):
I mean, that's all he got, though, you know, the
chance to see her maybe maybe a little chance to
talk to her, that's all him.
Speaker 1 (18:36):
It's wrong, it's still on him. But if a woman
only has time to see you when she's hungry, she
is really not interested. I not tighten up. There ain't
no tighten up. That wan that too.
Speaker 2 (18:50):
But you better, you know, gotta just see what's out here,
and that's happening these days.
Speaker 1 (18:56):
I ain't for it. Do you think you know?
Speaker 2 (19:04):
I tried, but it's hard because every time I tried,
you know, I feld out they were talking to other
girls and stuff, and it's.
Speaker 1 (19:11):
Kind of hard.
Speaker 2 (19:12):
Like I was talking to other girls, no, because it
becomes a little weird, especially like.
Speaker 1 (19:18):
The same gym, because that's not okay.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
Well yeah, the same gym. Okay, the same gym, the
same gym, that's crazy. I mean I think I think
I've talked to a few gym guys.
Speaker 1 (19:27):
Would you recommend?
Speaker 2 (19:30):
Maybe it just depends because sometimes I'll be in my
zone and I don't want to be bothered, and so
you know, if I see you, then they're gonna want
to work out and be all in your face. But
I don't know, you know, I mean I could do it,
but I don't really do it.
Speaker 1 (19:45):
Like a lot. I don't know. I think I've dated
guys in the gym, but I think I want to
date one of those oh D gym guys like that
we not eating no trash at food, Like come here,
you work out in my mouth? Like I think that's
what I'm missing. What am I guess saying? I'm would
(20:08):
that be? Like?
Speaker 2 (20:09):
Well, man, okay, Like I want one of them, the
men that be in the gym writing in a notebook.
Speaker 1 (20:17):
Have you got one like that? No? No, I never had.
I never had. I've had guys who were like consistent
in the gym and guys who were like in good shape.
But I've never had like a write in a notebook
strict diet like I never had that. Yeah, I never
had that, Niata, I don't know you think you were
like that? Yeah, man, y'n tell you why I'm sick
of prepping all the time.
Speaker 2 (20:39):
Yeah, I don't know, but it's hard no prepping. I'll
be eating it for dinner, eating eat it all the time,
and I'd be like down to nothing, like.
Speaker 1 (20:48):
I need somebody else who's going to mill prep on
top of that, Like, baby, I need you to tell
me how to get these last little bit of like
rolls off. Like, what's the secret, bro? You know? Okay,
mm hmm. Some more push ups, sit ups? You know.
Chere's of that? Mhm, chere's of that. Okay, here's the gym, bros.
And don't bring your funky asses in the gym because
(21:10):
we're getting close to New Year's I'm not here, please.
Speaker 2 (21:14):
We beat her every day, Okay, we beat her every day,
all right, putting in at work, getting that body together.
Speaker 1 (21:21):
We know, we see the same faces, we see the
new faces. Nope, mm hmm, no, don't try it. Mm hmm. Hot,
take what being delusional is a part of cuffing season
and finding your person. You have to be you have
(21:44):
to be. You gotta know what you want. You have
to be some level of delusional to participate in okay
and find your person. I agree, y'all that. Let me
say that again. You have to be a certain level
of delusional to participate in cuffing season and eventually find
your person. I believe that. Okay, I can agree with that.
(22:06):
I can. And I don't mean just like a oh,
stare up at the moon.
Speaker 2 (22:11):
I hope my person is staring at the same time
and one day our souls will connect.
Speaker 1 (22:15):
I mean none of that. I mean so delusional that
you are willing to uphold your standards and boundaries until
you find sad person.
Speaker 2 (22:25):
You are willing for your legs to shake from standing
to business.
Speaker 1 (22:30):
Okay. You are willing to let mister six foot four
four six foot four, gold chain wearing pretty smell hav
so smelling, smelling good, established jobs and property. You're willing
to let him go. No, no know why, because you guys
do not have the same values and you.
Speaker 2 (22:53):
Know and can see that he's not the man for you.
It's not gonna work. So you gotta be strong. You
gotta be strong, you gotta refer what you want. Okay,
here for a week and for a week.
Speaker 1 (23:07):
So, yeah, I'm delusional, I say. I about to say
I'm delusional, and I'm not here to say it, and
I'm happy. I'll be honest with yourself. That's that's the point.
You got to know what you want. You know, I'm
so delusional that the guy who took me to the cookout, well, yeah,
I'm so delusional. I real time quote myself stepping out
(23:27):
and saying, what the fuck am I doing here? I
do not need to be here right his name and
your phone cookout? God? God, we know, you know we
be nicknaming the guy. You know we do that.
Speaker 2 (23:41):
We don't know that.
Speaker 1 (23:43):
When y'all do something, we do nickname you. Okay, If
I go to my phone right now, I can show
you the wildest Literally, the last three text message I
got are from buff Bop Square friends. Wait what lex Luthor?
What Hey? It's I mean we have them? Like, what's
(24:04):
the craziest name of your phone? I don't know, let
me see, don't pick up.
Speaker 2 (24:14):
I don't like you on the blacklist. I want you
to know I'm singing not to pick it up. So
I'm not gonna put you on the black list. I'm
gonna saying it, don't answer, and don't put you on
red too, for sure. You know, you know that's what
we do. Like I gotta put you on red like
because you.
Speaker 1 (24:27):
Don't get it. Like even if I haven't talked to
you a week or two, you still don't get it.
I got those two still hitting me up years later.
I'm like, really a year later? Yeah, So what tips
do you have because we're entering you know, cuffing season,
bole season, sweater weather and the thing. Are you okay
(24:48):
real fast? How are you laying? Pumpkin spicnegar? That's hard?
I like something hard? Slice? Okay, that's good. It is
good though, it's good, but space is good too, Like no,
not epsidarider. I think I edited vinegar in there. Yeah,
I think you did. That's all. I'm like, what are
you talking about? But no episode, it's just apple cider.
(25:11):
Yeah is good. Yeah, is good, but pumpkin spices I
like it better the winners though. We're leaving you know,
pre coughing draft season and we're entering the actual where
uh what tips do you have for people that might
get a little weak and want to respond to that
text from personal?
Speaker 2 (25:32):
You know, you gotta stay strong, you gotta you gotta
find something to do, favorite show, movie, hobby. I'll be
in the gym, so you know that's where i'd be at.
You know the gym also helps mental illness, helps everything,
helps everything. Yeah, help the fast time. And you look
good too, you know.
Speaker 1 (25:52):
Uh. My suggestion will be stop junking off. Okay, I'm
gonna go into this liow only season and teed I
think up. Okay, I'm speaking from experience. That's I said, whoa.
I said whoa.
Speaker 2 (26:07):
It got to a point where I said, I'm abusing that. Yeah,
I said the saint right, I said, no, there.
Speaker 1 (26:13):
Supposed to be so U go outside and touch brass.
Don't touch your ass. Okay, I'm just saying, like y'all
raughing when I say this, and that's because y'all know
what's true. It is Okay, some of us will sit
in house and because the the snacks is fired, the
(26:33):
alcohol is free, the prime braider is low. You might
have let weed and the flying too. Okay, we will
sit there sin sear ourselves up instead of going outside
and socializing. So if you want to find your person, it.
Speaker 2 (26:45):
Ain't down here. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I forget. Get on
about that house. Get on about that house, y'all. Get out, guys,
get out. You know, like you said, cuff and season
is about here.
Speaker 1 (26:56):
Ya, You're not to go so fast. Matching pajamas is huh.
I ain't been in mes pajamas for six years? Neither neither.
Speaker 2 (27:05):
Yeah for me, Like yeah, about seven in my in
my mind, that music started playing.
Speaker 1 (27:15):
I really want today. That's the thing. I take a
little cute pictures. I'll be looking out there, I'll be
hating on the law, but I'm like, oh that's cute,
look at that.
Speaker 2 (27:27):
Okay, that's you too, but sigurely granted, like next next.
Speaker 1 (27:32):
I saw this post last year and and and I'm
standing on it. But if I ain't in mentioning dramas
this season, I'm gonna start showing my d ms. None
of y'all niggas gonna be in mess pajamas. Okay, I
be hating. You've been in my d ms all year.
And then you pop up and match your pajamas with
(27:52):
your punky little girls, or you pop up taking some
some some some woman on a date from balent Time's day.
How cow Now I already know they're gonna spend it like,
well it could have been you, if you know, because
you already had you had it, you had it.
Speaker 2 (28:08):
Yeah, he was already doing it all along, trying to as,
trying to spin us like, come on, now, you know
they're gonna be in matching pajamas, all booed up by dinner.
Speaker 1 (28:17):
Get out of here. I'll be in matching pajamas and
be broken up before Valentin's Yeah, will absolutely every time,
every time. So yeah, tell peoplehere they can find you.
Speaker 2 (28:27):
Grace all right, I'm on Instagram, Facebook, Grace Siana, also
on TikTok, on YouTube, Slightly sus podcasts or Grace Siana.
Speaker 1 (28:38):
And yeah that's me, guys follow me. Yeah, yes, stay
tuned for more adventures. I'll be getting on Grace Neurves
for the rest of I like, so, yes, we'll see
your prop up.
Speaker 2 (28:49):
What's the next venture? What's the next venture? Let me
video the rodeo audio d what's the other thing? It
was some Halloween. It was something Halloween or something costumer
were soon within the next Yeah, we're gonna be here.
Speaker 1 (29:01):
We locked that now, y'all, we locked that she can't
go nowhere down cut and then follow me on the
grammar asked for me P P E A at chocolate
chip and sip And if you don't remember anything else,
please remember all right, y'all, thanks for hanging with his
(29:23):
pool side for this little bonus. Don't judge the audio,
judge dimnity story. Okay, we'll be back next episode, but
studio quality or even working as love y'all. Peace,
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