Choose To Become With Lindsey Cacy

The parts of you you’ve been hiding? The ones you’ve labeled as too messy, too much, or not enough? They’re not your flaws—they’re your power. In this 100th episode of Choose to Become, I’m breaking down why shadow work is the key to emotional healing, self-acceptance, and finally feeling whole. We’ll talk about how cultural conditioning taught us to abandon ourselves, why softness is strength, and how to start reclaiming the parts...

This one’s for the woman who’s been feeling it all lately—the heaviness, the fear, the deep knowing that something has to change. In this episode, I’m talking about what it really means to be awake in a world that keeps trying to put you back to sleep. We’re living through massive collective upheaval—climate crisis, crumbling systems, rising polarity—and if you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or like you're going a littl...

Let’s talk about her—the woman who triggered you on Instagram. The one living the life you say you want but secretly side-eye. In this episode of Choose To Become, we’re getting real about jealousy—not to judge it, but to mine it. Because jealousy? She’s not the villain. She’s the mirror. And what she reflects are the parts of you that are craving more… but you’ve been too afraid to admit it.

We’re unpacking why your nervous sys...

In this episode of Choose to Become, Lindsey breaks down why waiting to be picked is a trap—and how reclaiming your power starts with strengthening your self-concept. If you've ever lost yourself trying to be chosen (by a partner, a job, a room), this is your reminder: you're not here to audition. You're here to own your worth. We unpack Pick Me energy, how it shows up in relationships and career, and why being celebrat...

In this fiery mid-year pep talk, Lindsey is calling you in with love—and a little side-eye. If you’ve been stalling, spiraling, or stuck waiting for the “right time” to begin, this episode of Choose to Become is your wake-up call. Lindsey unpacks the myth of readiness and why waiting for confidence, clarity, or perfect timing is just fear in disguise. Instead, she invites you to take imperfect, sacred action now—especially during t...

Feeling restless in a life that once felt like the dream? You’re not broken—you’re waking up. In this episode, Lindsey reframes the so-called midlife crisis as a midlife awakening and invites you to see your desire for more as a sacred nudge, not a red flag. Through personal stories, powerful questions, and a dose of tough love, she’ll help you explore what you really want next—and why it’s not too late to go after it. If you’ve be...

This week, Lindsey dives deep into the real work of healing: shadow work. She unpacks the danger of toxic positivity and why bypassing your pain in the name of “good vibes only” keeps you stuck. Instead, Lindsey offers a soulful and honest exploration of how facing your shadow—your unmet needs, suppressed emotions, and unhealed wounds—is an act of radical self-love.

If you’ve ever felt guilty for not feeling “high vibe” enough or pr...

In this vulnerable and deeply personal episode, Lindsey reflects on her evolving relationship with forgiveness through the lens of grief, healing, and motherhood. What starts as a tender moment of reflection becomes a powerful exploration of what it really means to forgive—not to excuse or forget, but to reclaim peace and choose release.

She speaks candidly about parenting through pain, breaking generational cycles, and learning to ...

In this quick but potent pep talk, Lindsey dives into the messy middle of rebuilding self-trust—especially for the women out there questioning themselves a little more than usual lately. If you’ve been second-guessing your intuition, struggling to keep promises to yourself, or wondering when confidence will finally kick in, this one’s for you.

Lindsey reminds us that self-trust isn’t a destination—it’s a relationship. One that gets ...

This episode explores the often-overlooked difference between true healing and performative growth. Lindsey unpacks how the hustle of healing can become just another way to avoid discomfort—and how consuming endless self-help content without real integration keeps us stuck. Through candid reflection, she invites listeners to slow down, get honest, and make space for the quiet, unseen work of transformation. This is a call to stop p...

In this special Mother’s Day Pep Talk, Lindsey gets real about the unseen weight of motherhood—the mental load, the exhaustion, the identity shifts, and the way it can feel like too much and not enough all at once. This is your reminder to breathe, to acknowledge your worth, and to stop minimizing what you carry. Whether you're a mom, know a mom, or are mothering yourself through something hard—this one’s for you.

You’ll hear tr...

In this episode of Choose to Become, Lindsey explores a foundational (but often overlooked) principle of manifestation: creating space. Whether you're calling in new relationships, opportunities, or habits, nothing new can land if you're still cluttered—physically, mentally, or emotionally.

Through personal stories and grounded tips, Lindsey unpacks how letting go of old identities, patterns, and commitments makes room for grow...

In this week’s pep talk, Lindsey reminds us that joy is not a reward — it’s a birthright. She unpacks the guilt that can come with feeling good, especially in a world full of pain, and invites listeners to let joy coexist with grief, struggle, and healing. Joy isn’t a betrayal — it’s a form of resilience. This episode is a call to let yourself feel good again, without guilt.

Your Weekly Pep Talks were created to be a quick dose of g...

In this episode of Choose To Become, Lindsey explores the gap between knowing and doing. She shares why self-awareness alone won’t change your life—action will. If you're stuck in cycles of complaining or self-sabotage, this one’s for you.

Lindsey breaks down the difference between venting and staying stuck, and why taking ownership of your choices is key to personal growth. Through honest reflection and practical encourage...

In this very first weekly Pep Talk, Lindsey invites you to find stillness in the storm. When the world feels heavy and uncertain, it's easy to feel unsteady—but you have the power to ground yourself. Through gentle reminders and real talk, Lindsey encourages you to pause, breathe, and reconnect with your inner strength. You don’t need all the answers right now. What matters is choosing how you show up, trusting your wisdom, and sta...

In this raw and heartfelt episode, Lindsey shares the deeply personal journey of grieving her brother, Joshua. A year into the process, she reflects on how loss has reshaped her—emotionally, spiritually, and physically. With honesty and compassion, Lindsey opens up about the unexpected waves of grief, the pressure to keep moving, and the ways we try to cope—even when those tools begin to hurt more than help.

She explores how grief t...

In this episode of Choose to Become, Lindsey explores what self-care really looks like after surviving burnout and operating in survival mode for too long. She reflects on her journey of slowing down, confronting guilt, and learning to receive care as a form of healing.

Together, we unpack the mental and emotional toll of constantly doing, the pressure to prove our worth, and the importance of rest, joy, and nervous system repai...

This episode explores the deeply healing practice of self-witnessing—the simple yet powerful act of being present with oneself without judgment. Through honest reflections, insights from the yoga mat, and a look at the emotional barriers that keep people from being fully seen, Lindsey invites listeners into a thoughtful conversation about authenticity, presence, and connection.

The episode examines how the fear of being “too much” o...

In this episode of Choose To Become, Lindsey gets real about living boldly—without regrets or holding back. She talks about what it looks like to move through fear, take intentional action toward your dreams, and make choices that actually feel right for you—even when life gets messy.

Lindsey shares practical tips and honest reflections on how to stop playing small and start living with more courage and intention. You’ll hear re...