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Dustin Steffey (00:19):
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Without being said and withoutfurther ado, let's chop it up
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and we are live, we're live,we're live.
Well, it's 2024.
We haven't heard from well anyof us since 2023.
It's been a minute, it's been alittle bit.
Bree's alive, still still Mannyis well, still Manny, and still
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me.
I tried to die, but it didn'twork.
Manny Midkiff (01:53):
So how does that
go, man?
You try to die and it don'twork.
Dustin Steffey (01:57):
I just I guess
I'm retarded.
I just don't know how to likedie.
You need to work on that, Iknow.
I know I need to fix that someway, somehow, bree, say
something, yeah what is going onwith you?
Bree Jackson (02:08):
Yeah, I can say
that.
Yeah, I can say that.
Dustin Steffey (02:12):
All right, all
right, in all seriousness, I am
here with Manny and Bree atSpeakeasy Tattoo.
What's up everybody.
We have a live audience of one.
Manny Midkiff (02:23):
Yes, M R Say
hello.
Dustin Steffey (02:27):
He's watching
the camera and making sure we're
good.
So I mean we're we're doinggreat.
We're good so far, but, yes,welcome back.
This is going to be the postfor the new year for the podcast
, and the reason we haven'tposted anything is I tried to
pull Batman right, like I triedto go on this journey to find
Raz Aguil or like train and likefind myself and figure it out.
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Here's what I found.
Manny Midkiff (02:51):
Look at the
bright side, man.
You're down what like 40 pounds.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Dustin Steffey (02:57):
I tried to find
myself and instead I lost myself
.
Hey, man, but no, we're back.
Everything's good Phone ringingin the background.
We know business is good.
Bree Jackson (03:07):
So, man, that's.
That's some good stuff, LikeSpeakeasy Tattoo.
Dustin Steffey (03:12):
So yeah, we're
in the new year, yes, definitely
in the new year.
Manny Midkiff (03:15):
Happy fucking
2024.
You know 2023 and 2024.
That's what I'm here to talkabout.
You know 23 wasn't too bad.
We did a pretty good convention.
Bree got hung by some fishhooks, which was pretty awesome.
Dustin Steffey (03:31):
More, more video
to come on more video.
Manny Midkiff (03:33):
She took first
place at her first real big
convention, which I was proud ofher to see.
That was good for the shop.
It was amazing.
You know 2024, though, man.
It's starting out rocky Wellwe'll get into that.
Dustin Steffey (03:45):
First and
foremost, I want to bring up
something I don't know different.
So we go into new years, right,right, and each new year
everybody does what we call aNew Year's resolution.
Yeah, what the fuck is a NewYear's resolution?
Good?
Manny Midkiff (04:00):
for I have no
idea, man.
I quit doing them a long timeago.
Dustin Steffey (04:05):
Same like, like.
Oh, I'm going to go to the gym.
So I go to the gym, right, Isee these people walking in and
then two weeks later theydisappear, they're gone.
Manny Midkiff (04:15):
I mean, that's
the whole point, man, you start
something, don't finish it, andthen you don't hold yourself
accountable.
Dustin Steffey (04:23):
And the point of
it is so you can say you just
did it, you know so then,instead of calling it New Year's
resolution, why don't we justcall it a New Year?
Like I'm not going to fuckingdo it.
Manny Midkiff (04:33):
A New Year's.
I don't know what you wouldcall that brie Anything, brie
anything.
Bree Jackson (04:37):
Come on, chime in.
No man, no resolutions thisyear.
Manny Midkiff (04:41):
None, not at all.
Bree Jackson (04:43):
I ended up
completing my last suspended
sentence, so I'm good.
Manny Midkiff (04:48):
Sorry, not this
year Great.
Bree Jackson (04:49):
This year's been
great for me.
Manny Midkiff (04:50):
Clean slate.
Bree Jackson (04:51):
Yeah, absolutely,
you know, I'm good.
Dustin Steffey (04:53):
Instead of
resolutions.
Honestly, I just I take asecond to write in my journal.
I like to write, guys, I'm acreative right, obviously, with
the podcast and everything.
So I wrote in my journal for2023 reflection.
Mind you, this year was like 10pages long, oh shit.
Yeah, 10 pages of like shit.
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And then I turned the page to2024.
And I was like, all right, I'mgoing to set goals.
Manny Midkiff (05:23):
So I goal set you
know, I think there's a
difference between resolutionsand goals.
Definitely Like resolutionsfeel fake Goals I feel are more
positive and like moreobtainable.
Bree Jackson (05:36):
You know what I
mean.
Manny Midkiff (05:36):
Yeah, yeah, like
a goal, a short term goal.
Like you know, for the New YearI'm going to save I don't know,
$200 a month, like that's afair, you know, a fair, fair
deal.
But like agreed, you know, Idon't know, just the resolutions
that we set ourselves up tofail, and then it like makes us
feel bad about ourselves.
So goals, and you know betterthan that stuff.
Dustin Steffey (05:58):
Yeah, so I, I
took this and I should have
brought it just as a visual aid.
But I took the page and I putpersonal goals and listed about
10.
Right, I then took the page,divvied it out and I did
business goals and I have likefive.
I couldn't get to 10 with thebusiness goals.
I got to five and then I puthow right, so so there's like
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some, some tangible measure forit and so far I mean it's going
okay.
I mean I have a little bit of astruggle with some of it right
now on the personal side, but sofar, so good.
So, yeah, what the fuckerresolution is good for?
Here's my answer Nothing,unless you're actually doing
something to enforce it.
Manny Midkiff (06:42):
Right, I would
agree with that.
Dustin Steffey (06:44):
It's just like
fake fake words in the air.
It's kind of like the fake newsFake news Fake Boy.
I got some fake news oh my God,well, we're getting, we're
getting there, but let's play agame first.
We're gonna play a fun game.
Manny Midkiff (06:57):
Okay, okay.
Dustin Steffey (06:58):
I named this
game myself.
I'm real creative.
Okay, what the fuck?
Okay, yeah, that's the game.
Bree Jackson (07:03):
So we're gonna
play.
Dustin Steffey (07:04):
what the fuck
that's my favorite word, perfect
, so Bree should be winning thisgame.
Manny Midkiff (07:09):
On landslides so
we're.
Dustin Steffey (07:11):
We're 21 days
into the new year without a day
off and her without a day off.
I think she should talk to herboss.
Anyway, 21 days in and there'sbeen some spend some shit.
That's gone on.
So we're gonna play a gamecalled what the fuck, and it's
going to consist of small,little statements, small, small,
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tiny, tiny ass statements.
I'm getting trouble here thatwe're gonna dive into later.
Okay, and how we're gonna playthis game is is we're gonna roll
like this, right?
So we'll start with me, okay,and then we'll move to Bree
Gotta get you to participate.
Bree Jackson (07:52):
Yep.
Dustin Steffey (07:52):
I got it, I got
it, I got it.
I'm gonna move to you, and thereason we'll start with me is
because kind of got to know howto play right.
Manny Midkiff (07:58):
Exactly.
Dustin Steffey (07:59):
Yeah, I'm gonna
make a statement that happened
within the last 21 days, right?
Manny Midkiff (08:05):
Okay.
Dustin Steffey (08:05):
And it's a what
the fuck statement, then I'm
gonna move on.
Let's go, and then it's gonnabe Bree, so my what the fuck
statement is going to be socialmedia.
I'm gonna just leave it at thatand then move forward.
I know it makes it broad onpurpose because we're going to
dive into this, so like socialmedia to me is what the fuck so.
Manny Midkiff (08:25):
I mean I don't
know if I feel the same way
about that the what the fuckwith social media.
I feel like it's a tool.
Dustin Steffey (08:31):
Actually well,
we'll dive into that, though,
because there are many ways thatsocial media can be used.
Manny Midkiff (08:37):
I guess I could
say what the fuck?
It's a tool, yeah.
Dustin Steffey (08:41):
But well, we
will dive into that later.
I mean I could have said shitass.
Relationships that aren't takenlike seriously, that's a what
the fuck.
That's a big what the fuck.
Yeah.
But I mean I'll start withsocial media.
That's better Bree.
Bree Jackson (08:56):
So you're what the
fuck is social media?
Dustin Steffey (08:59):
Yeah.
Like like we're gonna dive intowhy later, I'm just bringing up
, bringing up like little bullet, little bullet, yeah little
little fucking social media orwhat the fuck for you?
Manny Midkiff (09:11):
or is it like a?
It's fun, I sit on it in themorning.
Dustin Steffey (09:13):
I'm on the
toilet now on social media,
probably the one on talking bad,like scrolling through for 10
hours.
No.
Bree Jackson (09:21):
Social media for
me is like how the fuck how the
fuck?
Dustin Steffey (09:29):
Okay, okay A
couple of more.
Bree Jackson (09:30):
What is this?
Manny Midkiff (09:32):
Yeah, definitely,
I think it's a what the fuck.
It's a tool for me.
Yeah, all right, bree, you'rewhat the fuck.
What the fuck we went out oforder, my bad.
Bree Jackson (09:42):
No, because that
that would have helped me out a
lot, because this is reallybroad.
I have a lot of what the fucks?
And I don't know to start.
Dustin Steffey (09:48):
So we're 21 days
in, so just limit it to your
first 21 days of social mediafor the year of 2014.
Bree Jackson (09:56):
What is a what the
fuck?
Dustin Steffey (09:57):
statement 20
years, 2024.
What the god damn, my, what thefuck is.
I don't know what year it is.
You went back like 10 years forall these old toys, okay.
Bree Jackson (10:11):
Let's go to Manny
and then come back to me Alright
.
Manny take it.
Manny Midkiff (10:14):
Like I said, the
what the fuck for me is?
It's a tool.
Holy shit, I can't believe thatI figured out some shit on
social media.
Dustin Steffey (10:20):
Okay, alright,
alright, 20 days.
So we're gonna piggyback offsocial still for you.
Bree Jackson (10:25):
Okay, I got one.
How the fuck did 2023 go sofast?
Manny Midkiff (10:31):
It did.
Bree Jackson (10:31):
A whole fucking
year that is.
Dustin Steffey (10:35):
Because, there's
so much that happened in the
last year.
That is so yeah, yeah, fuck.
That is a what the fuck?
So okay.
Bree Jackson (10:40):
Yeah, that's mine.
Dustin Steffey (10:41):
Alright, so my
next what the fuck I guess I
already dove into it would bebroad again relationships.
I'm just keeping it there.
Relationships, oh yeah, andthis could be business, personal
, whatever, but for merelationships.
Manny Midkiff (10:54):
Yeah, definitely
some.
What the fuck with thatbusiness side?
Dustin Steffey (10:57):
Yeah, I can tell
you that Yep and we'll dive in.
We will for sure Agree.
Bree Jackson (11:02):
Um, how about
economy?
Yeah, that's a big.
What the fuck?
Dustin Steffey (11:07):
Yeah, the what
the fuck we're going.
So this is an election year,right?
So we're going into an electionyear, so we're going to see a
lot of what the fuck here soon.
Manny Midkiff (11:15):
It's going to be
a circus side show.
Dustin Steffey (11:17):
It's going to be
fun.
Yeah, yeah, um.
Alright, I think we got enough.
What the fucks in?
Bree Jackson (11:23):
I think to just
kind of dive in, just a couple.
Dustin Steffey (11:26):
Yeah, we got a
couple, so we're going to dive
in to the big meat of it.
First, Just dive in to socialmedia.
Okay, I just, I might as welljust rip the damn bandage off,
right, we're going to dive intosocial media.
So here's.
Here's my take on it.
Social media has been aroundfor you'd say what about 15?
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My space days.
Bree Jackson (11:49):
I was just going
to say my space?
Dustin Steffey (11:51):
Yeah, so my
space.
I was what?
Middle school, and now I'm 35years old, so we're going to say
20.
I was still an adult.
Bree Jackson (11:57):
So I'm old as fuck
2006.
Dustin Steffey (12:00):
And we're in
2024 right now.
So we're going to, we're goingto call it 18 years Been around
for a minute.
It's been around for almost twodecades.
Yeah, all kinds of shit.
Manny Midkiff (12:09):
Yeah, stories all
the time.
Dustin Steffey (12:10):
Okay.
Manny Midkiff (12:11):
People doing
robberies and hosting it, people
putting their lives on it.
Those are bad things, you know.
Dustin Steffey (12:16):
So and that, and
that's the thing.
So I'm diving into social media.
Right, social media is a tool,you're right, you're absolutely
right.
It can be used for good.
It could be used for marketingbusinesses.
Manny Midkiff (12:28):
It could be used
for.
Dustin Steffey (12:29):
It could even be
used.
Some would say so, like when Igraduated high school, there
were a lot of people that I knewthat moved away.
Manny Midkiff (12:36):
So it's a good
tool to use to keep in contact
and keep connected.
Dustin Steffey (12:40):
Oh yeah, I mean,
the list goes on on the
positives.
Let's bring up some negatives.
Okay, social media, I think,has evolved over the last two
decades.
Right, it turned into bashing.
Well that, and you have more.
Bree Jackson (12:56):
A lot of bullying,
yes, a lot of behind the scenes
.
Yep Too afraid to say tosomebody's face or bring in like
a formal complaint.
It's all behind the screen.
Dustin Steffey (13:07):
See, see, and
this all goes back to when I was
in school, and probably you andprobably you I was bullied as a
motherfucker.
But watch this, there wassomething that I did do.
That was great, right?
So when, when, when I was inschool, I didn't have a screen
to hide behind.
If I had to go and take care ofsomething, it's getting on the
wrong fucking bus on purpose.
Beat the shit out of thatperson and then walk in your ass
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home.
Manny Midkiff (13:31):
I feel like there
was more consequences for your
actions than there are.
Dustin Steffey (13:36):
Now that is very
true, I mean we have.
So we have things like what mydaughter is going through in
school right now, right,restorative practices.
So we've taken our kids andwe've pretty much taken
everything that we learned askids and we've made it worse
than better.
And what I mean by that isrestorative practices, for our
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school system takes away theteacher's abilities to kibosh
anything and now they just haveto follow it based off severity.
So, like my daughter gettingbullied, it doesn't really
matter.
They have to put a consequencein place that fits the action.
So if she's being called a fatpig or she's being her hair
pulled or whatever, they'regoing to get called in the
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office and they're going to tellthe boy or girl don't do it
again until mom shows up.
Bree Jackson (14:28):
That's about it.
Don't do it again.
That's it.
Manny Midkiff (14:30):
That's all you
get.
Dustin Steffey (14:31):
That's it,
that's it.
Bree Jackson (14:34):
See, my daughter
comes home and she tells me some
boy is picking on her.
And I tell her to tell thatlittle boy, to tell his dad he's
got problems with your mom.
Manny Midkiff (14:42):
Hold on Stop.
Bree Jackson (14:43):
Guarantee.
Manny Midkiff (14:45):
You know, I don't
know, I'm older, I guess but
when we had problems with kidsand other just picking fights
and shit like, you had to standup for yourself, correct?
You had to take a physicalthing, you had to go up, you had
to take a lump in the eye andthen turn around and hit the
bully in the mouth.
You know how it is, though, andthen you guys are best friends
afterward.
Bree Jackson (15:03):
Your kindergarten
daughter comes home saying that
this boy is putting his handsaround her neck.
Manny Midkiff (15:08):
That's different
though.
Bree Jackson (15:09):
You tell this boy
to tell his dad that your mom
and him got problems now.
Because obviously this guy isdoing something at home that
this little boy thinks it's okayto put hands on a girl.
Manny Midkiff (15:20):
You're absolutely
right and he's doing it to my
daughter.
Bree Jackson (15:21):
Now you got
problems with me.
Manny Midkiff (15:23):
But, guys, that's
from a mom's perspective.
I never thought of that shit.
Dustin Steffey (15:26):
This is the
problem.
I mean, we have found theproblem with what's going on
with today's society, because Ipulled statistics and
bureaucracy and politicians Wellstatistically right now, when a
young adult turns 18, 30% ofthose kids stay living at home
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with mom and dad.
If you take that back to when Igraduated or you it was they
kick you out, it was 1716.
Manny Midkiff (15:57):
Yeah.
Dustin Steffey (15:58):
And the
statistic was about 5%.
Then now we're two decades in.
Manny Midkiff (16:05):
So definitely a
generational shift.
Dustin Steffey (16:07):
Correct, correct
.
And parents aren't as involvedanymore because of a few things
right, one being it's expensive,fucking live it just is
Especially right now it'sexpensive, the economy isn't
doing as well.
I mean, they like to think thatthe economy is doing well, but
it is not when gas is $5 agallon and you got to drive
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everywhere Uh-huh.
Manny Midkiff (16:29):
Major part of
your income goes to that.
Dustin Steffey (16:31):
I mean, you have
, I'm a single parent household,
right, yeah, two parenthouseholds are both working.
Bree Jackson (16:37):
I have two damn
jobs.
Picking up a second job.
Manny Midkiff (16:40):
Yeah, yeah, you
kind of have to.
Yeah, so it has to be two now.
Dustin Steffey (16:44):
So it's it's.
It's harder right now to raisea child or children.
Manny Midkiff (16:50):
What about?
Let's tie it to the socialmedia stuff.
Like you see, kids nowadayslike posting their dirt and
their garbage online and gettingcaught up.
You see that stuff.
Dustin Steffey (16:59):
It's funny, yeah
, but you see that with, you see
that with the.
Bree Jackson (17:01):
But then also like
with the education part, kids
bullying kids online, but it'soutside of school so that school
doesn't do anything about it.
Right, it's the same thing asbeing an adult.
You do it online, there'snothing, there's no
repercussions.
Correct?
There's no, you know anythingabout it.
That anybody can do, that'sjust like they could say
whatever they want and everybodytake it at face value and just
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run with that.
Is that?
Is that fair too?
Just because we're in the adultworld, you can't do nothing.
You can say whatever you wantand there's no repercussions.
Manny Midkiff (17:29):
No, I agree with
that.
Dustin Steffey (17:30):
No, and the
bigger issue I have with it is
people are tough when they'rehiding behind a screen.
Right, I mean, I can say justabout anything I want and have
no repercussions.
Manny Midkiff (17:43):
I say come say it
to my fucking face.
How about?
Dustin Steffey (17:46):
that With your
chest.
Manny Midkiff (17:47):
And come say it
to my face, I got a waiver too,
by the way I just here's.
Dustin Steffey (17:51):
Here's how I
feel.
Like I mean, I've always been alike get the facts first person
Right.
Like you can't sit there and onsocial media just say whatever
the hell you want without havingfactual facts.
You can make assumptions allday long.
Fine, it's a free country.
Make make your assumptions, buthave some evidence.
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The last time, the last time Ichecked when you make
assumptions and you don't haveany tangible proof or evidence,
you look like a fucking idiot.
You can hurt other people'slives.
You can.
Bree Jackson (18:22):
I've always been
the person.
You talk shit, you get hit.
It's real simple.
Manny Midkiff (18:30):
I see a shirt
talk shit, you get hit.
Dustin Steffey (18:32):
I love that
shirt I see shirts on everything
.
I also want to point out thatsocial media, now more than ever
, has given like tremendousaccess, and here's what I mean
by that.
So we'll take it relationshipwise right For businesses more
access to be able to market tomore people broader and get more
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door swings.
Manny Midkiff (18:57):
So back in the
day it was the radio station and
newspapers and magazines rightnow it's internet, you're in
control of your audience.
Yes, yes, so definitely a lotdifferent Yep Now with personal
relationships.
This is where it gets a littlehairy right Sticky, yes.
Dustin Steffey (19:12):
Because you have
more access on social media.
Now we're talking about onlyfans.
Manny Midkiff (19:18):
Snapchat models
all this shit.
Dustin Steffey (19:22):
People think
that they have more options.
And now that old school way ofthinking where you have monogamy
and commitment and all thatstuff, it's out the window
because they're like well, I canjust get better anyway.
All I have to do is go onFacebook or whatever, whatever.
Bree Jackson (19:36):
Just delete my
messages.
I could talk to whoever I wantto at any second and it's gone.
There's no evidence.
Manny Midkiff (19:42):
But like, what's
funny too about it is a lot of
those relationships are fuckingfake.
They're not real, they're not.
I can't go touch this person.
There's something between us.
It's fake.
It's a fake long distancebullshit relationship.
Dustin Steffey (19:54):
Look at the
generations.
Right now, though, there is nocommitment anymore, there is no
monogamy, there is no importanceinto trying A lot of the
younger crowd it's to the pointwhere, like the two years, even
in their profession and they'redone they know everything and
move on to the next thingthere's no, like loyalty.
(20:15):
I mean, here's a good one.
So, like red flag, green flag,are you ready for this?
Manny Midkiff (20:19):
one let's go,
let's go.
Dustin Steffey (20:20):
Is this a red
flag or green flag?
You're in a committedrelationship and you're sending
nudes to someone.
Manny Midkiff (20:28):
That's a green
flag for me.
I was just going to say that'sa green flag.
My question would be why aren'twe marketing and selling these?
Dustin Steffey (20:36):
All you had to
do was tell me we could just
sell.
I guess I should be a little.
Let's go into business together, I guess, I guess.
Manny Midkiff (20:41):
I should be
Follow me on lonely fans.
Dustin Steffey (20:43):
Lonely.
I guess I should should be alittle more explicit, like
you're in, I understand.
Manny Midkiff (20:49):
I understand.
Dustin Steffey (20:51):
You're in a very
real committed relationship and
your partner send nudes tosomeone else.
Something like that.
Manny Midkiff (20:56):
Like that's,
that's that's like that breaks
the bond, that breaks thethere's no trust.
It breaks the trust ExactlySecurity and the relationship.
That's a fucking now if thisperson is going to be doing this
freely, then the next step iseasy.
I mean it's just, it's just Idon't know and like no one's
going to stop the other personfrom cheating Again.
It's a trust thing.
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You know what I mean?
Yeah, so like, have the fuckingballs to be trustworthy.
Bree Jackson (21:21):
It's even past,
like going to the extent of
sending nudes out like once.
Once that happens is alreadydone.
Manny Midkiff (21:27):
There's only like
five nudes of me on the
internet, and I'm only five.
Dustin Steffey (21:31):
Only five.
There's like zero of me, butthere's five of man.
Manny Midkiff (21:35):
So it's mostly
nipple shots for me it's an
implied nudity.
Dustin Steffey (21:39):
So I'm just
saying, like this social media
stuff has given access to justabout everything and there is no
regulating like what to do.
Like I get it for the businessside, I get it for the good, I
get it for networking, I get itfor all of that.
But guys, there's so much morebad that needs to kind of there
needs to be consequences forsome.
Manny Midkiff (22:02):
I remember
reading some article about how
it was my space at the time, Ithink it was, and it was right
before Facebook and they weretalking about how my space has
caused more divorces and, likeany other, that's where it
started.
Dustin Steffey (22:17):
That's where it
started.
So it's like I don't, I don'tknow like.
Am I against social media?
No, we all use it.
Yes, I use it to market thedamn podcast.
Use it to market like tattoos.
Manny Midkiff (22:29):
Bree looks at a
Ticker piercings all day.
Bree does print Albertpiercings.
She said I do because I do.
Dustin Steffey (22:35):
I mean some dark
pictures.
I gotta go.
I catch her all the time, man,I catch her, it's like daily I
walk in.
Manny Midkiff (22:41):
I'm like god damn
it, bree yeah yeah, check this
out, manny.
Dustin Steffey (22:46):
No, no, but we
all in one way, shape or form,
have been a part of the negativeside of social media and it's
not OK and that just that kindof ties me into kind of like
relationships and stuff rightnow.
So like they come in all shapesand forms you know they do and
color.
Manny Midkiff (23:05):
And color they do
.
Yeah, your business, yourfamily, your personal, you know
your kids' relationshipsdifferent than other, dynamic.
Dustin Steffey (23:12):
Everything's
different you know, manny, we're
21 days into the new year, likewhat's been going on for you,
like with the business and stuffright now, what?
Manny Midkiff (23:19):
are you seeing
what turned out to be?
What started out as a big fuckyou 24, actually turned out to
be really fun.
You know OK, I'm not going tomention any names, but our shop
recently in our small town ofFurnley Nevada, our shop me I
just got accused of robbinganother tattoo shop in town.
Dustin Steffey (23:41):
I don't see it.
I've never like I know you as ahuman right.
That's just not like what youwould do.
No, not what she would doeither.
Manny Midkiff (23:50):
The kicker why
we're talking about the social
media is because this clowndecided to blast it all over
social media before getting hisfacts straight.
He got robbed in the morningand then by the midday he's
blasting out that speakeasytattoo robbed him.
That's some clown shit, rightthere, that's just some Some
specifics regarding speakeasytoo.
Bree Jackson (24:10):
Yeah, yeah, it's
not just like a general blanket,
but like the kids and the kids'kids, oh yeah.
Manny Midkiff (24:16):
They tried to
come after everything and then,
within a couple days, just shutthe fuck up.
So, like I said, I got afucking waiver man, you can come
see me, you know what I mean.
Bree Jackson (24:25):
It was overnight
man.
Manny Midkiff (24:26):
It was taken down
by like 1159, that same day
that it came out, and then acouple days later I had cops to
my house, cops in my shopquestioning everybody all
because some little jealous punkass, that's what it was from,
you know.
Dustin Steffey (24:38):
So I saw this
transpire right, so I kind of
sat in the background, saw ittranspire, kind of read the
comments.
This is why I hate social media.
Bree Jackson (24:49):
I didn't comment.
No, I know, I know I do notwork.
Dustin Steffey (24:51):
Hey, I'm going
to go ahead, I'm going to go
ahead.
Bree Jackson (24:55):
I'm going to go
ahead and bring this full circle
.
Dustin Steffey (24:58):
Ok, like, I
watched it in the background and
I was like well.
The first response was well, Iwasn't I invited, I'm just
kidding no because that's notwho any of us are, but, like we
all, go off families and you gorunning stuff.
Manny Midkiff (25:11):
Yeah, exactly, I
go off four kids, it's like well
, the fuck do I want to rob thisdude man?
All I want to do is tattoo, gohome, smoke my joints, tattoo
the next day.
That's it Right.
You know?
Dustin Steffey (25:20):
I don't know
None of his junk, none of his
garbage, and I saw the postingof what was like taken and stuff
and I was like why would Mannydo that?
He has all of that.
Bree Jackson (25:29):
We have all those
things.
Manny Midkiff (25:30):
Yeah, I got my
own, plus they're fucking better
.
You know what?
Bree Jackson (25:32):
I mean yeah, so
like.
Dustin Steffey (25:34):
Like I don't
it's owned out right.
I don't, I don't understandlike that right there all in
itself.
Here's where it went sidewaysand where I get pissed off right
.
Bree Jackson (25:43):
This is where I
get the fucking piss.
Dustin Steffey (25:46):
You have all the
fucking idiots that chime in.
Yeah, ok, here's the fuckingdeal.
None of you and I eat, thisincludes myself even to.
None of you knew anything thatwas going on.
You just chimed in blindSpeculation.
You want to be part of someRight?
You just blindly chimed in.
(26:07):
And that's not OK, because nowyou and a little ball and the
little ball bearded prick.
Manny Midkiff (26:15):
that set it all
off.
That's the biggest problem.
Only thing big about that,fuckers, is little attitude.
That's about it.
Bree Jackson (26:20):
So here I don't
even come to show them here's
where?
Dustin Steffey (26:23):
here's where I
get a little frustrated.
I get frustrated at the sensethat people don't do their
research Right.
So let's let's put some thingsto bed right now.
Let's do it.
We're in northern fuckingNevada.
So for those of you that do notknow the laws when it comes to
tattooing in northern Nevada,here they fucking are right now
and you can do your research.
Do not research Las Vegas.
(26:45):
That's southern Nevada for allof us.
Manny Midkiff (26:46):
That's what they
were doing.
Yeah, yeah.
Dustin Steffey (26:49):
Yeah, so that
for all of you right here, let's
divv us out for a second.
We are the Republic of northernNevada.
Manny Midkiff (26:56):
No, we're not.
We carry guns.
Yeah, shit, kick your boots.
We are not.
Dustin Steffey (27:01):
Southern Nevada.
Manny Midkiff (27:01):
So I got boots on
.
Now, I never wore fucking bootsas it stands.
Dustin Steffey (27:05):
As it stands
right now and these two are here
to correct me, but I've done myresearch.
As it stands right now, inorder to tattoo in northern
Nevada, the only thing that youneed is your like health
inspecting license.
Manny Midkiff (27:22):
Bloodborne
pathogen and the health
inspection.
Which is right there on thefucking wall right there.
Bree Jackson (27:26):
you know, we
operate under a business license
.
Dustin Steffey (27:29):
Correct, so this
is where it gets.
You don't have to have abloodborne pathogen, god damn
right.
This is where it gets a littledifferent.
Watch this so, just like acontractor, if, if the general
contractor has his contractinglicense or hers, because we are
in 2024, him or her, ok, pretty.
John then every employee thatworks under that business and
(27:50):
business license is coveredunder that general contractors
license.
So just for all of the fuckinghaters out there, just so you
know, in order to tattoo innorthern Nevada, as long as
subject A has his license,everybody underneath can tattoo
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under his license.
The only thing that everybodyneeds separately is their
bloodborne pathogen.
Yes, and the inspections fornorthern Nevada, so for all the
business license oh yeah, yeah,and a business license.
So for all the ignorant peoplethat did not do their research
first, shame on you.
Your comments are null and void.
(28:31):
I'm sorry, not sorry, goodbye.
Bree Jackson (28:33):
And not many of
the piercers out there have an
education in the health carefield and have a CPR and first
aid certified license on top ofthat.
So if anything happens, Iautomatically know how to spot
that out.
So I know what's going on.
And that just goes along withmy 16 years of piercing
experience in a tattoo shop andeverything else that goes on Six
(28:53):
, god damn One, six.
Manny Midkiff (28:55):
Wait, how old are
you, fuck?
I'm 31.
Don't say that 31.
Don't tell us you should.
She's like 48, 26.
She's like 40?
, 50.
No, I should have just keptfacing.
Bree Jackson (29:04):
I've been piercing
longer than I've not been
piercing.
Is she lying Emory?
Just so everybody knows so saywhat you just said.
The audience says no, no liesto yourself.
Manny Midkiff (29:12):
Emory can be the
internet guy.
Like Emory, pull it up, right?
Dustin Steffey (29:16):
Yeah, hey, we
need a fact check over here,
please, please, pull it up.
Emory, listen Absolutely.
I hope you do, so I'm going tomove on now that we got the
license thing out of the way.
So about three quarters of yourguys' comments, goodbye.
So now for the other Dismissed,dismissed.
Goodbye.
Now for the other quarter Setout.
I get it.
Everyone, everybody, has theirown preference of who they want
(29:38):
to go to and you know what?
I'm OK with that.
He's OK with that.
Manny Midkiff (29:42):
She's OK with
that Are you subjected?
Hold on, you know what's crazy.
Like, check this out.
Like this is from here.
You know what?
You know?
I don't bullshit.
Yeah, dude, I actually tried tobefriend this little fucking
dude.
We tried to like, like, likehis word, like he does actually
cool shit.
Yeah, he's just a little bitch,that's it.
Bree Jackson (30:02):
I don't know what
to say I can honestly say that I
did not try to befriend withanybody.
You never do that.
Manny Midkiff (30:08):
He's a little
different.
Bree Jackson (30:09):
No, I meant to go
down there.
No, because I'm a legit persontoo.
I meant to go down there andsay face, because, hey, we both
peers, hey, what's up.
Dustin Steffey (30:16):
Befriend dude, I
did.
Bree Jackson (30:17):
And I dropped the
ball because I was extremely
fucking pregnant and thehigh-risk pregnancy I was going
through some shit of my own.
She saw me, said what's up, Idon't know who.
This is OK.
We talked.
I ran into her like three othertimes I could never remember
who she was and she alwaysrecognized me and I'm like oh
hey, who the fuck was that?
I'm like ah, and I kept havingto think of who she was, because
(30:38):
I could not remember thisperson and I felt bad because I
see so many people and I'm sobusy I'm like that was maybe a
client and then I'm like no,that was the other piercing.
Manny Midkiff (30:47):
That's the other
piercing place, so she felt like
you might have brushed her off.
Bree Jackson (30:51):
I think maybe she
thought we were closer than what
we was, but the first thing shedid was talk shit about my boss
.
To me and I'm loyal as amotherfucker I'm like I don't
know what you saw, but that'snot me.
Manny Midkiff (30:59):
I never talked
shit, I never said nothing, I
never did threaten nothing and Inever would have.
Dustin Steffey (31:02):
Yeah, Nothing.
So I have nothing againstpeople having their loyalties.
I have my loyalties whether itbe where.
It's a good thing, man, it's agood thing, yeah whether it be
where I get tattooed, whether itbe what I eat.
Manny Midkiff (31:13):
Who's your
fucking friend at that?
You know what I mean.
Like loyalty goes a long way,yeah.
Dustin Steffey (31:17):
So I'm not
hating on anybody who made
comments just based off ofloyalty.
However, this all goes back todo your fucking research, so you
don't sound ignorant as hell,because I'm sorry.
Out of all the comments onthere, not one of those
motherfucking comments soundedsmart at all None of them.
I'm sorry.
So that's everyone.
Bree Jackson (31:35):
So Except for the
ones that are like oh, we
reached out, they opened it,didn't get back to us.
Everybody in the shop hasaccess to our face page and
we've gone through so manyartists Some of the people that
had access opened it and then wedidn't see it.
The actual artist didn't see it.
They left.
We didn't see it because it wasalready red.
So the only people that had anyjust in that was like oh, I
(31:56):
messaged, the owner saw it.
The owner didn't see it.
It was anybody in the shop thathad access to it had seen it
opened.
It didn't respond to it.
Past that, you still didn'tknow what the fuck you're
talking about.
Dustin Steffey (32:07):
So I still stand
by my statement.
That's everyone else.
With that being said, though,let's be realistic for a second.
Here we live in a small damntown.
Manny Midkiff (32:16):
Yeah, we do.
We're just tiny as fuck.
Dustin Steffey (32:17):
We just do so,
everybody's going to know
everything one way, shape orform.
Bree Jackson (32:22):
I'm small town
famous.
Yeah, just so everybody knows.
Manny Midkiff (32:25):
So you know you
want to make me the fucking bad
guy.
Guess what?
I'll be the bad guy and youknow what?
It's been a spiking business.
So social media would turn outto be negative, which initially
I was like fuck, here we go.
You know we put out some satire, some bullshit, some videos,
some shit talking.
But it wasn't really shittalking, exactly.
And I know they got the cluebecause they shut the fuck up
(32:46):
real quick.
Bree Jackson (32:47):
We laughed off a
serious situation.
Manny Midkiff (32:48):
We laughed it off
, you know.
Bree Jackson (32:50):
Instead of us
going out and like accusing and
rebuttal and all the shit thatcould have happened we stacked
our chips.
We laughed it off and we'relike, hey, you know no big
fucking deal, Whatever, We'lldeal with the cops.
We'll say this whatever Laughedit off, made some posts that
were relevant to the situation,but then were the fucking
assholes the half ass apology.
(33:10):
That was acceptable, but nowwe're fucking assholes just for
making a serious situationserious.
Dustin Steffey (33:15):
We're going to
get into the apology part
because I do want to addressthat Like.
Manny Midkiff (33:19):
I really do like
an half ass, apology I just want
to address it from a businessperspective.
Dustin Steffey (33:24):
We will get into
that.
Manny Midkiff (33:25):
OK, you take that
Because my words aren't nice.
Dustin Steffey (33:27):
No, I will
address that from my perspective
, which is outside of everything.
Manny Midkiff (33:32):
A neutral party.
Dustin Steffey (33:33):
Before we
address that, I want to put to
bed a couple things.
So the first thing, foremost,is we live in a small town.
These businesses, these allthese small businesses here,
they're all struggling, ok, likewe all are struggling here
because of said economy.
Yeah.
So I just want everybody toknow, like for everyone that
(33:54):
supports all the smallbusinesses, all of them, every
last one of them, gas stationyeah, I don't care, if they're
good Everyone had whatever like.
Thank you for supporting ourtown.
Bree Jackson (34:05):
Yes, because that
thank you.
Dustin Steffey (34:06):
That goes a long
way and that, for those of you
that know, that's like thebloodline of our town.
So thank you for that.
Thank you so very much.
Thank you for the loyalty, thesupport, all of that stuff.
We would not thrive withouthaving people to support.
Manny Midkiff (34:22):
I want to add to
that too, and the people outside
of Fernley from the neighboringtowns and cities.
Thank you, too, for traveling.
I know it.
I know it's a lot of nothing todrive through Nevada.
And thank you for coming outhere and getting tattooed by us
and our crew, getting pierced byBree.
We really appreciate it.
Dustin Steffey (34:37):
Yeah, and for my
15,000 followers just not
trying to brag or anything, thatis global.
Just in case anyone wants tothrow shit my way or throw dirt
for my 15,000 people thatalready know who I am.
Thank you for supporting me.
So anybody that wants to throwshade my way, go for it, because
(34:59):
I have about 15,000 people thatwill throw it the opposite.
Manny Midkiff (35:02):
That brings up an
interesting point to me too,
because social media, again,it's a motherfucker, because
whether you hate it or like thecontent, when you click on it,
guess what?
Bree Jackson (35:12):
Positive it's
positive.
Manny Midkiff (35:13):
It's a positive
click.
So good job and thank you.
I appreciate you guys.
Bree Jackson (35:17):
So attention is
still attention.
Dustin Steffey (35:19):
So, for all of
the people that are in Australia
, I love you guys.
All the people that are inEngland good, I have a lot of
England people.
I love y'all.
All my Canadians, I love y'all.
Manny Midkiff (35:32):
And then you have
any cockney speaking fans from.
Dustin Steffey (35:34):
No no, no.
Bree Jackson (35:35):
Damn dude, I love
cockney.
Yes, I was going to be likethat's tight and then most
importantly, which is my home toeverybody in the US.
Dustin Steffey (35:43):
I appreciate it.
I know it's been far too long.
I mean, I'm a podcast with twodamn awards.
Let's go like throw it my way,because guess what Quit dying
dude I know.
All I have to say is my podcastis making it right, so whatever
like let's have fun.
Still doing it, it's artisticability and it's the drive with
(36:04):
it.
So I just want to thankeverybody and then, like zoning
it back into the home, dirtfirmly like thank you for
everything that you do for thesmall businesses.
I hope that we continue tosupport the small businesses,
but in a positive manner, youknow we had so many people that
were positive.
Bree Jackson (36:23):
I ran into people
on the store.
Dustin Steffey (36:25):
Yes, we do
Dispensaries local places.
Bree Jackson (36:27):
People came in the
shop personally to pay their
respects.
Manny Midkiff (36:31):
It was awesome to
see you, dude.
What's?
Bree Jackson (36:32):
going on.
I know this isn't true and thatthat made a fucking big deal
out of like, oh my God, what thefuck is this out of?
Fucking nowhere?
And then so many people didshow up.
Manny Midkiff (36:41):
I got warm,
tingly feelings when people came
in and said I don't believe it.
Bree Jackson (36:45):
Yes, and it was
and so many people laughed about
it.
I'm like what the fuck is this?
And we're like you don't knoweither.
I don't know.
Dustin Steffey (36:52):
I just want to
point out that many gets warm,
tingly feelings all the fuckingtime, all the time 24 seven.
Bree Jackson (36:58):
Yeah, and I'm a
hugger.
Dustin Steffey (37:03):
Right, I'm a
hugger.
Manny Midkiff (37:06):
Anyway, Dustin
was just too far and we're
getting out.
Bree Jackson (37:10):
Air hug.
Dustin Steffey (37:12):
So I just here's
the deal, like whoever you
support it doesn't, it doesn'tmatter.
Manny Midkiff (37:17):
It doesn't matter
.
Dustin Steffey (37:18):
Support them,
it's a small business, yeah like
, we want everybody to besuccessful, because you know
what that's going to just makeour town bigger.
Manny Midkiff (37:26):
Yes.
Dustin Steffey (37:26):
All right, but
here's the deal.
Let's, let's just play a tinybit of logic into this.
Right now, how many tattooshops are there in firmly right
now?
There's four of them.
Manny Midkiff (37:36):
Name them out.
We have Speak Easy, we haveTats and Flats, we have elevated
arts and then we have PurpleOrchid.
Bree Jackson (37:44):
Ok, so we have
four.
And that's not the people thatare not operating in a shop with
a license, correct, correct.
So we're not saying that.
Dustin Steffey (37:51):
Yeah, we have
four legit established legit
brick and mortar.
Yes, tattoo businesses.
Manny Midkiff (37:57):
Storefront.
All of you can come in and sitdown.
Dustin Steffey (37:59):
Here is the
biggest.
Here's the biggest question I'mgoing to propose to everyone to
think about on their own, andthey can comment on any one of
our socials later.
The biggest thing I'm going topropose is why do you not see
any other issues between any ofthe other ones?
I'm going to just leave it atthat.
Do not comment.
You don't need to.
Do not comment, you don't needto.
I'm going to just leave it atthat.
(38:20):
Like, why is it that there's anissue between one versus the
other but none of the other ones?
Leave it at that.
Manny Midkiff (38:30):
OK, what do you
mean?
One versus the other?
So the one is friends with theothers?
Dustin Steffey (38:35):
No, I'm saying
like what's happened in the last
21 days, right, we haven't seenthat with any of the other ones
.
Bree Jackson (38:41):
Well, what I want
to say?
That I can't do anything elsebecause I can't keep my
motherfucking mouth shut.
Motherfucker.
We do help other other smallbusinesses and other tattoo
shops.
That's all I have to say aboutit.
Manny Midkiff (38:53):
We refer to the
other shots.
Bree Jackson (38:55):
La Fiesta burned
down.
We partnered up with anothershop, we donated the entire day
tips, everything, everythingwent to the same time you want
to hear something funny.
Manny Midkiff (39:04):
Somebody was
asked and didn't want to help.
I don't know who that was.
Neither, that's a funny thing.
You talk about your communityand support.
Bree Jackson (39:12):
Immunity is the
keyword.
Dustin Steffey (39:14):
So, one
community guys, One team, one
dream.
Bree Jackson (39:18):
One team one dream
so I know if my house is on
fire.
I want my neighbor to call thefucking cops the fire department
.
Manny Midkiff (39:25):
I want one team,
one dream for a man's like four
plans.
Bree Jackson (39:28):
I get it.
Dustin Steffey (39:28):
If I were your
neighbor, I'd probably you are
my neighbor, dude.
Sit down, that's right, goddamn it.
Manny Midkiff (39:32):
If I was your
neighbor, if I was your neighbor
out of been calling on you.
Bree Jackson (39:37):
But it's serious,
you know.
Dustin Steffey (39:39):
Um no, I just, I
just want everybody to just
like fucking chill, Daddy chill,Like you know like what the
fuck ever like chill.
Like understand, like shithappens right, like we
unfortunately were in the middleof that right.
Well, I wasn't, they were.
So I wasn't in the middle of it.
Bree Jackson (40:00):
Yeah, I was on the
front page, Reasonably.
Dustin Steffey (40:02):
we're in the
middle of it, but all three of
us here do empathize with whatdid happen and we hope that
whatever happened like it getsresolved, and we're going to
leave that to the policeofficers.
Bree Jackson (40:13):
I'm glad it wasn't
our shit.
Yeah that's all I got to saybecause it could have easily
been us.
It could have easily beeneasily.
Manny Midkiff (40:21):
So, with that
being said, there's there has
been a string of littlerobberies in our town for the
past.
I think he said the monththat's what I was informed of.
Bree Jackson (40:29):
I think they said
five, I think he said five total
since early January.
Manny Midkiff (40:33):
So basically,
homeboy just pinned them all on
me.
Dustin Steffey (40:36):
That's what he
did Right, exactly by throwing
my name in there.
Manny Midkiff (40:39):
He accused me of
all these different robberies.
And that's some punk shit.
Dustin Steffey (40:42):
So this is where
we bring it full circle.
Do you fucking research.
Be logical and don't point thefucking finger.
Bree Jackson (40:48):
That's it.
Manny Midkiff (40:49):
Pretty simple.
Dustin Steffey (40:50):
That's it.
Like, don't be stupid, yeah,okay, you're only making it
worse for you.
Manny Midkiff (40:57):
Yep, that's it.
That's it.
I can tell you was going to geta whole lot worse, yeah.
Dustin Steffey (41:02):
Yeah, I just
again.
I hope that everything getstaken care of in hash Hours for
me.
Well, no, but I do hope there'slegal repercussions to the
things you do.
Yeah, yeah.
Bree Jackson (41:15):
You know what I
mean.
Like we're not, we're not onthat thug shit.
Manny Midkiff (41:18):
You know what I
mean.
Bree Jackson (41:19):
We're sitting
behind the keyboards and stuff
like I don't have to go knock onyour fucking door and make a
statement, you just write itdown at the local police
department and you have all theevidence that you have and then
they're screwed because they youcan't talk out of line on
things that you don't know about.
Is defamation, that slander,that's libel.
Manny Midkiff (41:36):
Those are all the
things.
It's not freedom of speech.
Bree Jackson (41:39):
That is not when
it impacts and impedes a
business and cops are showing upand artists are having to stop
and go and talk to the copsoutside.
Manny Midkiff (41:48):
That's what it
comes to work, dude.
What kind of shit is that?
Dustin Steffey (41:51):
Artistic ability
and freedom of speech is what
we're doing right now.
We're not pointing any fingersright now, we're just voicing
what the right way to do thingsis.
Manny Midkiff (41:59):
The things I'm
saying fit the bill and you're a
rat, then that's you.
You know what I mean.
I mean it fits the bill andwhere to outfit man.
Dustin Steffey (42:07):
We're way
different in 2024 than we were
back in the 50s.
Right Like I, I miss the oldschool, like gentlemen, gentle
lady.
Manny Midkiff (42:18):
Like hey, you
know what?
Dustin Steffey (42:21):
I still hold a
fucking door open for men, women
and children when I come in andout of places.
Yeah, yeah.
Manny Midkiff (42:28):
So, I still help
old ladies with groceries If
they look at me funny because Ilook mean, but you know they're
like no, don't rob me, I'm like,I'm here to help you.
Bree Jackson (42:37):
This is more
expensive than your groceries.
Dustin Steffey (42:39):
What are you?
Bree Jackson (42:39):
talking about.
Dustin Steffey (42:41):
Yeah, I just it
baffles my mind.
We're 21 days in and all thedrama like we're not drama
people.
So let's, let's like, moveforward, let's move forward,
let's move on.
Whatever dislikes anybody hasof anybody like, I don't fucking
care, it's a business, we'rerunning a business, that's it.
I don't fucking care.
If you don't like me, go cryabout it in your nobody likes me
(43:05):
See.
Bree Jackson (43:06):
I still get
business because I'm good at
what I do.
Manny Midkiff (43:08):
If he was smart.
Don't come talk to the business, come talk to me in person.
But you ain't smart.
Dustin Steffey (43:13):
I mean that
would.
That's the difference between1950 and now.
You would go and talk to thedamn business and squash it.
But no, instead we have to makestatements like boy stalking or
driving around or cutting linesor whatever, like he did.
He did try to stalk me it wasfunny, it was funny.
I mean, I listen, I read allthe comments and I just think
(43:35):
it's all childish.
Manny Midkiff (43:36):
I didn't read
shit.
I didn't read none of thecomments.
Bree Jackson (43:38):
I was invested.
Dustin Steffey (43:39):
I didn't I mean
nothing else.
Manny Midkiff (43:41):
Too busy making
artwork, man.
You're too busy making moneyToo busy making money, yeah, to
pay attention to single day off.
Everything I'm talking abouthappened directly to me.
All this other shit, it'shearsay to me, you know
everybody is entitled to anopinion.
Dustin Steffey (43:56):
Everybody's
entitled to an, everybody.
Here's where it's going to geta little money.
Whether it's right or wrong isa different story.
You can have your opinions, gofor it, but guess what?
You better back it up.
Manny Midkiff (44:06):
if you think
you're right, fucking right in
the era of Google, you betterback that shit up in the cloud
in the cloud in the cloud.
Bree Jackson (44:15):
See you.
Walmart is on site, though, youknow so out of the fucker in
that place.
Dustin Steffey (44:22):
This leads me to
something else that I read that
I kind of want to like I wash,I want to.
Jeff's not here.
Manny Midkiff (44:28):
OK, but.
Dustin Steffey (44:29):
I want to say we
got someone new with speak easy
.
Manny Midkiff (44:33):
What she said who
the fuck is Jeff?
That's what she just asked.
He's all who the fuck is, soyou might have to tell her who
Jeff is.
You don't know who Jeff is.
Bree Jackson (44:40):
I don't know who
the fuck Jeff is.
Do you know who Jeff is?
Manny Midkiff (44:43):
I feel like I've
heard the name, but you have to
you?
Bree Jackson (44:45):
don't know either.
Manny Midkiff (44:46):
Break me in
because I'm lost to get a smoke
to joint.
Come on, Run me by hey maybe Igot the name wrong.
Dustin Steffey (44:52):
Jeff, jeff, who
fucks.
Jeff, who do you apprentice?
Bree Jackson (44:58):
As Joey I was
going to say Jeff Joey.
Manny Midkiff (45:01):
I started the.
He fucked you up, joey, he justfucked you up when you see him,
when you see him handle it.
Bree Jackson (45:08):
It wasn't me.
I knew his name.
Manny Midkiff (45:10):
He said, Jeff, I
was a little fuck is.
Bree Jackson (45:11):
Jeff, no, I was
like no, no, no, no.
Manny Midkiff (45:15):
Joey, man, joey,
we're going to edit that out.
Dustin Steffey (45:19):
No, we're not.
No, we are going to keep thatin there, because I, she's all
who?
Manny Midkiff (45:23):
the fuck is, jeff
.
I knew your name.
She whispered it to me that.
Dustin Steffey (45:27):
No, so we did
add someone new on who is doing
awesome work, and something thatcame up and in in all of this
was the fact that the shop, thisshop specifically doesn't take
the time to help people that arenew out.
I'm sorry in advance if youguys felt that was one of you.
(45:49):
That isn't what was intended.
Based off of my discussionswith Manny, based off of my
discussions with Abel, based offmy discussions with Brie, if
that's how you felt, we aresorry, but guess what, that
isn't what it is, and so I wasgoing to give Manny the stage to
actually clear a couple thingsup on.
What does having an apprenticelook like?
(46:12):
How does that look for?
Like a customer that walks in?
Do you announce it, do you?
Manny Midkiff (46:16):
hide it Like what
?
How does it?
So an apprentice is trying tomake their stripes, they have to
do a lot of training and somestuff on the side before they
even get, you know, get to theneedle phase.
But then when they come in andthey're trying to earn their
stripes, you tell people hey, Ihave an apprentice, you know
like, it's your choice, it's upto you.
You know what I mean.
And they have to sign a waiverwith the person's name on it and
everything.
(46:36):
So you know, like there's nohiding it.
So all of that is nonsense.
Ok, you know all of that isnonsense.
It's not fair to customers tohide that, to be like oh yeah, I
got a great tattoo artist andthey're like six months in.
You know, I can tell you Joeyhas done a formal apprenticeship
.
Joey comes from, I'm not gonnasay where.
(46:59):
He comes from an area.
Bree Jackson (47:01):
Across the border.
I mean listen, wow Listen, Icame from the state line the
state line.
Manny Midkiff (47:07):
She pulled your
beard.
Bree Jackson (47:08):
I came from there
too, but listen.
Manny Midkiff (47:11):
I'm a fucking
Fertuckian now.
Man, I love this place.
I can't lie, I hate where Icame from.
I love this place here and Ithink Joey's feeling the same,
but he does some amazingtraditional work.
So if you guys wanna see somecool shit, come see him.
American tradition he rocks atit.
And hand-painted artwork, oh mygod, which is very impressive
(47:32):
to me.
Bree Jackson (47:32):
It's so cool.
Manny Midkiff (47:33):
He's handing it
out to some of the businesses
out here that he's been drawingfor the last two weeks.
Dustin Steffey (47:38):
Yeah that's
awesome, cool.
So some good positive moves,guys, happening out of here.
One more positive that I wannabring up because I wanna make
sure we're thorough.
Right, we're gonna run somespecials out of.
Manny Midkiff (47:50):
Speakeasy.
Oh yeah, we have been runningthem, but please tune in.
We run them.
It's Friday, saturday usually.
When we do it, we're trying todo more of a once a month type
sale and we're looking intogetting some cool merchandise.
So stay tuned.
Oh, and I wrote a book.
He did.
I wrote a children's book.
Bree Jackson (48:09):
Very impressive.
Dustin Steffey (48:10):
More to come on
the book.
We will have a separateinterview on the book.
Manny Midkiff (48:14):
I'm gonna have
some for sale.
My auction's some off too.
It's hella funny man.
I'm buying one, I'll gift youone.
Dustin Steffey (48:20):
I also wanna
spotlight something.
My arm is in fucking pain, butthis was done with a
non-licensed person right nextto me.
Non-licensed, non-licensedperson, and it turned out Anubi
never done it.
Bree Jackson (48:35):
This is my first
tattoo in my life, right here,
this thing first time Turned outphenomenal.
Dustin Steffey (48:39):
It's amazing.
I literally sat down forprobably about five 10 minutes
to discuss what we wanted to doand this is what came of it, and
it was great.
So I just want you all to knowthere's a lot of good stuff
coming out of here Promo's.
Take a look at that.
What do we got in the piercingworld?
I'm not good with those.
Bree Jackson (48:58):
So that's all you
I was just gonna say, and I'm
funny.
Dustin Steffey (49:01):
She thinks she's
funny.
Bree Jackson (49:02):
I am funny, I'm
funny, I'm funny.
Manny Midkiff (49:04):
What we got on
piercing is we are once a month
sale, once a month sale.
We're gonna be doing adiscounted rate I'm not gonna
say what yet or some kind ofspecial gear towards piercing
and tattooing, whether it beflash or even custom pieces that
we're working on the market.
We're gonna try to discountthem just to get more out.
We've been pretty busy but, wejust want to move.
Dustin Steffey (49:25):
And then stay
tuned for some updates on the
website.
So remember, go towwwspeak-easy-tatco that's
T-A-T-T-C-Ocom and take a lookat the portfolios that are there
.
Manny Midkiff (49:42):
We're gonna
update the website to make sure
oh, revamp, yeah, we gottarevamp this, yes.
Dustin Steffey (49:46):
I've been
waiting on the owner to do a few
things, oh shit.
Manny Midkiff (49:50):
I don't wanna
hear shit.
Dustin Steffey (49:52):
More to come on
that.
We all have a YouTube that isgoing to be posting here soon
too, where we can actuallyinclude you all on some of the
journeys of some of thesetattoos.
I probably am gonna post somethings from each one of them and
there's a surprise videothat'll be posted soon.
Manny Midkiff (50:09):
Yes, thank you.
Oh yeah, we got a cool one.
It's a cool one.
Dustin Steffey (50:11):
Soon we are
making edits on it, so soon.
I know the hype is there.
Manny Midkiff (50:17):
Listen, it's not
for the faint of heart.
I'll tell you that it's not.
No, no.
Bree Jackson (50:21):
Only real piercers
, do it.
Dustin Steffey (50:22):
Yeah, it's true,
yeah, real reels.
Manny Midkiff (50:27):
It's like a club,
yeah, yeah.
Bree Jackson (50:29):
It's a fight club.
You don't talk about it.
Manny Midkiff (50:32):
It's first real
fight club.
I know a piercer that knows apiercer.
Bree Jackson (50:34):
Hey, what's the
first real fight club?
Don't talk about a fight club.
Don't talk about a fight club.
Dustin Steffey (50:39):
So, yeah, some
good things coming out.
I want you all to know that inmy world.
So we'll shift gears a littlebit.
Still going on my journey, guys, still trying to kind of
artistically figure out where Iwant the podcast to head for
2024.
I think we'll run some limitedseries, more than likely
partnership with here,partnership with another
(51:02):
business that's happening, sodoing some Another cool one
coming down the pipeline.
Yes, and that again, we willprobably do some community
events as well too, because Ithink that will be a big deal.
And I just getting back to thebasics of who I am Like the
price is right.
Manny Midkiff (51:19):
Man, spend new to
your cats and dogs and we
should do a fundraiser for them.
I agree.
Dustin Steffey (51:24):
You know what
just came up in my head when you
said the price is right, thathappy Gilmore scene.
The price is wrong bitch.
Bree Jackson (51:32):
Every says, I
wouldn't that game.
Dustin Steffey (51:38):
But no, I'm just
dealing with me right, Like I'm
trying here to not let myartistic flame extinguish you
know what, though, that's a hardplace, because it does do it.
Bree Jackson (51:53):
Sometimes, when it
does, then you have to find a
new muse dude.
Dustin Steffey (51:56):
Yeah, so this
has been my artistic flame for
the last two, three years.
Manny Midkiff (52:01):
I can tell you
that the shit that happened
recently, over the past week,has sparked some major fucking
creativity for me, man.
Like I'm up.
I have literally been up at 3and 3 30 in the morning every
day this week working onmaterial drawing, coming up with
story lines for my book Allkinds of children's book, Just
in case you didn't get it thefirst three times.
Dustin Steffey (52:22):
It's a
children's book.
We'll make it colorable too.
Manny Midkiff (52:24):
Yes, yes, it'll
be colorable, but it has sparked
creativity, man, and, like Itold, you, the other day is.
It's like hitting streaks andrallies.
Man, it feeds, everyone canfeed off it.
You know, I definitely see thisone is her ideas.
Like all of a sudden it's likehey, manny, you know, and you've
been like that too.
Like, hey, what if this, youknow, it's just kind of like
(52:44):
Yours and my ideas are like inthe works, right.
Dustin Steffey (52:47):
So, like
throughout this whole year,
you're going to see a shift.
I think this year for thepodcast, just so you all know,
is going to be like finding thatfucking niche that works.
Okay, it's still going to bebusiness, but there's going to
be more substance to it.
I think it's going to be morecontent yeah, yeah Down the
pipeline.
Manny Midkiff (53:05):
Merchandise, like
I said, all kind of goods.
Dustin Steffey (53:07):
I think for me
my biggest win is just the
partnership with the smallbusinesses and stuff.
I think that's where my talentis and that's what this median
is for.
So more to come on that withspeak easy.
Please be on the lookout on thewebsite and on the socials for
the deals and the flashes.
I have some ideas that aregoing through to them.
Manny Midkiff (53:28):
So more to come
on that, if you don't know the
story, go on to Instagram andcheck out the cool little videos
.
Dustin Steffey (53:35):
Yes, and
whatever conclusions you draw
from those videos are your,yours, not ours.
Bree Jackson (53:40):
So I work seven
days a week, so anytime you want
to stop on in, I'm usually here, and if I'm not, email me,
because I'll get down here intwo seconds.
Manny Midkiff (53:50):
You mean every
day?
We have a piercer in this townthat's actually open fucking
every day.
Bree Jackson (53:54):
Oh shit, I'm
getting exhausted.
I'm going to caveat.
I'm going to caveat that youknow I did.
Dustin Steffey (53:59):
Hey, I'm going
to caveat that, though, with the
fact that, like you all got tobe patient.
Like she has kids, ok, like sheain't going to be coming down
here, like, hey, I got to callyou now.
Bree Jackson (54:11):
No, I don't have
two minutes down the street.
You know what?
Manny Midkiff (54:14):
She does come in
at some weird ass times to
accommodate customers becausethey have weird, weird hours.
Dustin Steffey (54:20):
I get it but
like I've seen some of the post
guys like let's be reasonablehere.
Bree Jackson (54:24):
Let's get good to
me, I'm good to you, that's all
that matters.
Dustin Steffey (54:27):
I'm terrible to
her, and so she went hard on
this.
Bree Jackson (54:29):
I did.
It's really hard.
You can fuck yourself, go allthat blood in there.
Manny Midkiff (54:32):
I know I was
horrible.
Dustin Steffey (54:35):
Oh, my arm Cut
it off.
Bree Jackson (54:36):
I'm going to snag
it.
I know I forgot to say it too.
Dustin Steffey (54:40):
But no, I want
you all to be on the lookout.
More to come.
Yes, we are going to have a newexciting business coming here
soon and I'm excited, superexcited, to announce that one.
Manny Midkiff (54:50):
We will soon
enough, you know what I'm still
chirping off of is why my greenhat is black.
Dustin Steffey (54:56):
So, for those of
, for those of you that don't
know, we are a professionalpodcast, so we have a green
screen.
We have lighting, we haveeverything, so his we got props
His his bus.
Manny Midkiff (55:05):
Look at half of
my shirts missing.
I'm looking at the screen likemy logo is missing.
Bree Jackson (55:09):
What the heck,
it's just Burglar eyes.
Manny Midkiff (55:14):
Oh, it's burglar
eyes.
Watch it, my studio.
Bree Jackson (55:16):
From the bush.
Sorry guys, anyway, sorry Guys.
Dustin Steffey (55:21):
I don't know
what the fuck just happened, but
it just Anyway, I need a minute.
Anyway, I'm really excited thatwe introduced Jeff.
I mean Joey, joey, kick him inthe nuts when you see him.
Joey, I love you.
Buddy Fuck is Jeff.
Manny Midkiff (55:38):
I love that that
was awesome and I even read it
on the notes.
So I was like I saw Jeff and Iwas like, oh, maybe it's like
advertising.
Dustin Steffey (55:45):
Right.
Bree Jackson (55:46):
Maybe, maybe he's
advertising.
Manny Midkiff (55:47):
a friend, it's
fucking Joey.
Bree Jackson (55:49):
He was there
yesterday with you I hate you
guys, whatever.
Dustin Steffey (55:53):
Hey, listen, I'm
not perfect, all right, so
let's just whatever we'rekeeping that anyway.
Biggest takeaways today, justso we zone in on everything is
Do you have to pick up.
Oh, I'm going to.
So I'm going to bring this upprofessionally, sorry.
Zip it Biggest, biggesttakeaways today are Do your
(56:17):
research.
Please Don't point fingersunless you absolutely are
certain, because there arerepercussions.
You may not have seen them yet,but there will be and there are
always.
It doesn't matter, there arerepercussions to everything.
So please do your research.
Try to use social mediaresponsibly.
Yeah, for every buddy thatchimes in like, do your thing.
(56:41):
I mean freedom of speech.
Right, but just know that, like, if you're not trying to sound
ignorant, if you're not tryingto sound like a dummy.
Yeah, like, just if you'retrying to be educated and
intelligent about it, do yourresearch please, because slander
is very real, defamation ofcharacters very real and it's.
It's just, it's not an OK thing, right?
(57:03):
Like you don't see me slanderin everyone.
You don't see half the peoplethat have businesses here
slander in anyone, because weall care about the businesses.
So do your research.
And lastly and this is where itbrings it full circle If you're
wrong, and it's you're wrong.
Apologize.
So let's, let's just dive intoit.
(57:24):
I read the apology.
I read it If you want to callit.
Manny Midkiff (57:30):
I can reread it
if you want Just the apology
part.
No, I'm not.
I'll leave the names out.
Dustin Steffey (57:33):
No, we're good,
I'm going to address this.
Bree Jackson (57:35):
Unfortunately.
Dustin Steffey (57:36):
I'm going to
address this.
Ok, yeah, we, I read it.
I'm not going to call it anapology, because it was a long
drawn out story of pointing thefinger still, and then a little
tiny snippet that shows that youdon't really even care about
the apology part.
Ok, here's the deal.
You're wrong, that's it.
(57:58):
You're wrong, that's it, you'rewrong.
Bree Jackson (58:01):
You brought
families into it also that had
nothing to do with that.
You brought artists into itthat have no affiliation with
the shop other than just comingin, two weeks ago.
Manny Midkiff (58:11):
So many, so many
things.
Bree Jackson (58:12):
An artist has been
here for a year and a half.
That is quiet and it's stilllike under the blanket of
speakeasy, and then speakeasy'sfamilies also were brought into
it.
Manny Midkiff (58:21):
But the funny
thing is he did it with the
intent to think he's gonna harm.
That's the best part, and all Ido is backfire.
Bree Jackson (58:28):
That's the funny
thing If that's fired up being a
mom, though that's still here'sthe deal don't bring my
significant other into it.
Don't bring, don't bringchildren into it that I refer to
as children like 21, 22, 23, 24.
Dustin Steffey (58:41):
That's a child
to me high school kids
Absolutely.
Bree Jackson (58:44):
That's
unacceptable.
Dustin Steffey (58:45):
Here's.
Here's the deal.
I don't Care, like I don't care, that all that shit happened,
right?
I don't care, I do and I don'tright, I wish.
Manny Midkiff (58:55):
I get what you
mean I wish it didn't happen,
because that's unfortunate.
Bullshit aside, yeah, that'swhat we're left with, yeah
that's.
Dustin Steffey (59:01):
It's unfortunate
that this happened.
Okay, and I hope to god that,like you, guys are good,
families good, everything's allright.
My kid goes school with yourkid, all right.
So I know you.
Here's the deal.
If you're gonna apologize, manup, woman up, apologize.
Hey, dude, I don't like you,but I was wrong.
(59:21):
Okay, like cuz, that's gonna goa long way.
Anyway, like we all know, youdon't like them.
You made it clear.
But here's the deal.
You were wrong.
Be so, be professional andHappen.
Sign the waiver right.
Like.
Here's the deal.
Like, let's not be trashy, likeFirmly already has enough of a
reputation of being trashy.
(59:42):
We're not a trashy little town,we're a good town.
Manny Midkiff (59:46):
So firmly don't
need rats when people snitching
on everything, we just don'tneed it.
Dustin Steffey (59:51):
We need to come
together in a time like now and
we need to do the right things.
That's it.
Do the fucking right thing youobviously have a clientele base.
Bree Jackson (59:59):
We have a
clientele base.
Don't try and muddy up what wegot by false accusations.
It's just, it's ridiculous.
So keep yours, we'll keep ours.
Manny Midkiff (01:00:08):
Do your tattoos
your three times a month and
then go home.
Dustin Steffey (01:00:11):
I Listen, I
don't know anything that y'all
do I I know more about thisbusiness because I'm invested in
this business, but what I doknow is how to run a business
appropriately.
In the way that you handlethings was not appropriate and
it inconvenienced a lot ofpeople, not only the businesses,
but how about our officers thatare confused your resources,
your local resources, on a, youknow, dealing with crap, you
(01:00:35):
know, and they can be doingsomething else.
Yep.
Bree Jackson (01:00:37):
They could have
already had a lead by now if
they weren't misguided.
Dustin Steffey (01:00:41):
Yeah by being
directed to towards us, that's
right and Lastly, the last thingI'm going to bring up is, again
something you brought up don'tinvolve family, don't involve
kids, don't involve like anyone.
If you all have an argumentLike, you all go fight, club it
out somewhere else, like, butdon't involve the families,
because I'm pretty certain ifyour family was involved, like
(01:01:03):
your guys is the same, you guyswould feel the Same way.
Keep the kids out of it.
Keep names out of your mouth.
Significant others like, justlike, just if you have an issue.
If you, if you have an issue,deal with it, deal with it, man,
deal with it at any point intime.
I mean, that's, that's all Ihave.
Like I I don't know how Moreprofessional to say it like
(01:01:26):
nobody wants to hear this like.
So let's, let's move forward.
Uh, that being said, closingremarks I, I want to give you
Like an opportunity just to kindof, if you want to go through
Some things that you want to dogoing into the new year, what
what we're thinking about forthe community, maybe a little
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bit stuff like that, and then Iwanted to kind of revert to you
as well, too, for your piercingside and stuff, and then I'll
close this out like I had kindof mentioned man, I love animals
, I love cats, I love dogs, Ieven like birds.
Manny Midkiff (01:02:01):
Some people don't
like them, I like birds.
But like I've been involved inthe veterinary side for my whole
life, you know, with the familyand everything you know, I want
to give back to it.
I know there's people whostruggle to take care of their
animals.
Get them spayed, get them fixed.
We don't need more runningaround.
You know, one guy hit the otherday right down the street from
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the shop.
Dustin Steffey (01:02:22):
I was in the we
tried to save him.
Bree Jackson (01:02:23):
Dude, yes, I was
in the vehicle and he died later
.
Manny Midkiff (01:02:26):
Somebody hit him
dude.
So like that kind of stuff, youknow, like man, that bothers me
, you know, and I want to beable to like help and if
somebody can't, afford it.
Maybe there's a little fun thatcan help them.
You know, and we've talked to,the.
Dustin Steffey (01:02:37):
We're gonna be
doing some community events here
soon, so keep looking at thewebsite, dude, I want to.
Manny Midkiff (01:02:43):
I'm going on
merchandise.
Like you know, I really want tohave some cool merchandise is
in the works.
We're, we're getting there.
And then, of course, contentman and cool tattoos.
We got.
Dustin Steffey (01:02:51):
We got content
to lork.
I'm excited.
Brie piercing side.
Bree Jackson (01:02:55):
Um, one more thing
.
On that one, I know me andanother um Participant are going
to be working together to alsogive back to the community in a
different way.
Um, community service gettingin with other things that like
Events or programs that they gotgoing on.
We're still looking into to seewhich ones that we want to
apply and get into.
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But that's going to also begoing on.
It's going to be a differentway because, you know, the
public stresses me the fuck out,not because I'm a certain way,
just because I have a horriblesocial anxiety, and that's
something I've struggled with myentire fucking life.
But, um, I'm, I'm a good personat heart and I will always be
that.
But you fuck around, that'sjust what you get.
Do like I'm very blunt and stuff, but, um, the piercing side of
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it I give, I give back, I'm amom first, I'm a mom first
before anything else.
So take that into considerationalso with all the bullshit that
goes on.
Um, piercing side, I want to dolike a, a sale once, once a day
, one day a month, just somekind of discounted special.
We have titanium jewelry, we'reconstantly buying new stuff,
(01:04:03):
we've got an anodizer, we canchange colors, we do custom
orders and everything like that.
So if you have certain sizegauge, a diameter, type of
jewelry, something that you'relooking for, we want to get that
in there.
Manny Midkiff (01:04:15):
So and more
custom your ear curations like
your body period.
Bree Jackson (01:04:19):
That's what.
That's what I won first placeon best piercing in Arizona out
of state First time I've everbeen out of state to a
convention, to, and I won firstplace for that.
So that's like a huge, hugething for me.
So, uh, we're definitelyworking on that.
We're going to revamp a bunchof stuff.
We're going to get a special,get a bunch of um our inventory.
We've we've had and we built uptrying to move out to get all
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the new stuff back in so we cankeep um the rotation of uh, what
, what, what the community wantsnew things, new stuff coming
out.
Every year there's a new, brandnew piercing that's coming out.
Something, yeah, yep.
Manny Midkiff (01:04:53):
You gotta, they
gotta, start asking you about
debris, the piercing.
Dustin Steffey (01:04:59):
In closing, I
just wanted to thank everybody
for listening, welcome us backand, uh, thank you to Manny.
Thank you to brie for beingspecial co-hosts for the the end
of the year episode, right, uh,there's a lot more to come down
the pipeline.
I'm excited to get to it assoon as I can and give you guys
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more of that quality contentthat you all were looking for.
So, again, I appreciate both ofyou.
Thank you for coming on Again.
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