Putting It All Together // How Can I Hear God Speak to Me, Part 4

Over the last few weeks on the program, we’ve been discovering how it is that God speaks to us today and how we can get about hearing Him when He does speak. The question is – when it’s something big or important – how can we make sure that we’ve heard Him right? Because the last thing we want to do, is to get it wrong, right?

 

The Counsel of Others

It’s great to be with you again today in this last message in the four part series that I have called, “How Can I Hear God Speak to Me?" And today we are going to take a look at how God sometimes speaks to us through the people around us.

Just the other night I was asked to spend some time facilitating a discussion amongst the elders, the church council, of a particular church, not far from where I live. It seems that what had been going on was that there was conflict amongst some of the leaders and that’s not good. Leaders of God’s people shouldn’t be in conflict – they should act in unity.

The Apostle Paul, writing to his friends at the church in Philippi said this – Philippians chapter 2, verse 2:

Make my joy complete: be of the same mind, having the same love and being in full accord and of one mind.

We were chatting about the fact that God has made each one of us differently – Romans chapter 12 – some of us are prophets, others servers, others teachers, encouragers, givers, leaders, carers. And I can tell you, a leader is going to have a totally different view of the world compared to say, an encourager or a carer – that’s because leaders are wired one way, the encourager is wired another way and the carer is wired yet another way, on the inside. That’s the way it is, because we are different. We see things differently and often, that’s the source of conflict.

Now, in this meeting, one of the elders of the church; an older man with a great deal of wisdom asked the sixty four million dollar question. He said, "Okay, so we are all different, with different points of view – then how are we meant to discern the will of God, out of all those different views?" And that my friend, is a very, very good question.

One of the things I’m prone to do is to race out and just do things – without listening to the advice of other people. It’s because my personality type is the "leader". I’m an action person. I work on the theory that if I make ten decisions today and get just seven of them right, I’m way ahead than if I only made three decisions but got them all right.

And my good friend Keith Henry, with whom I co-authored the book, “My Personality GPS”, he makes this point about leaders – he says that one of their natural weaknesses is they often fail because they don’t listen to advice. Those detail people – you know the sort – they analyse everything to the "enth" degree – those detail people naturally drive me nuts because they slow me down. I want to get on with things and they want to analyse things first.

But you know what I have learned? I have learned that without those detail people, I am going to fail at things because God is in the detail. The detail matters! And part of my growing up; my process of maturing is to value and to listen to the detail people because they are really, really, really important to me.

And I have come to realise that often God will speak to me through the gifts and the abilities of other people, even – let me say – people who in the natural have a tendency to drive me nuts. I love that – God has such a great sense of humour in dealing with our own immaturity.

Okay, what does God’s Word have to say on this issue – this answer to the sixty four million dollar question? When there are all these different perspectives, how are we supposed to discern God’s will? Well, there are a few fantastic bits of wisdom on this very thing in the Book of Proverbs – Proverbs chapter 15, verse 22, says:

Without counsel plans go wrong, but with many advisers they succeed.

Proverbs chapter 18, verse 2:

A fool takes no pleasure in understanding, but only in expressing personal opinions.

Proverbs chapter 20, verse 18:

Plans are established by taking advice; wage war by following wise guidance.

Isn’t that great stuff? What God is saying to us here is that, if we rush off in a fit of pride because we think we know best, well, there’s every chance that our plans will go off the rails. But if we humble ourselves, instead of being more interested in our own opinions and listen to the advice of others, that’s how our plans are going succeed. I have to tell you this is something I have had to learn and I have learned it the hard way and the more I have learned it, the more I have succeeded.

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