Walking Out Family part 2

Walking Out Family – Part 2 continues Paul’s teaching in Ephesians by grounding all biblical family dynamics in the example and submission of Jesus. Submission does not begin with people—it begins with Christ Himself, who modeled perfect obedience to the Father through suffering, prayer, and reverence (Hebrews 5:7–9). Believers are called first to submit to God (James 4:7), resisting the enemy through willing alignment with the Lord. The brokenness introduced in Genesis 3 distorted the harmony between husbands and wives, making biblical submission a redeemed, Christ-centered posture rather than a product of the curse.

Paul then directs husbands to love their wives as Christ loves the Church—sacrificially, sanctifyingly, and tenderly. A husband’s leadership must mirror Jesus: giving himself up, nourishing, and cherishing. This Christlike love creates an environment where mutual respect can flourish, fulfilling the command that husbands love and wives respect (Ephesians 5:33). Marriage requires contending—actively fighting for unity, holiness, and covenant loyalty.

The message also emphasizes keeping peace in the family. Children are called to honor and obey their parents, while fathers must avoid provoking them and instead disciple them in the Lord (Ephesians 6:1–4). God’s design includes ongoing generational discipleship—teaching children diligently at home, in everyday life, and through intentional instruction (Deut. 6:6–7). Parents hold a sacred responsibility to pass on the works and wonders of God (Psalm 78:4). As Spurgeon warns, neglecting this calling is spiritually dangerous, but faithfulness in it often becomes the means by which God saves and shapes children.