Friendships that Strengthen - The Life of David

Pastor Chris Baldwin continues our series Life of David with a powerful message on the kind of friendships God uses to shape our future. In this fourth week, we move from David’s anointing as king (1 Samuel 16) and his victory over Goliath (1 Samuel 17) into one of the most meaningful relationships in Scripture — the covenant friendship between David and Jonathan (1 Samuel 18–23). A biblical covenant friendship is more than casual connection; it’s a God-centered, mutual, and enduring relationship marked by loyalty, sacrificial love, and a shared desire to pursue God’s purpose together — even through hardship. Jonathan laid down his own claim to the throne, choosing to strengthen David’s calling and stand by him when Saul turned against him. From these passages we learn that true, Godly friendships: Help us in our time of need (1 Samuel 20:18-23) — they show up when life is hard and offer protection and encouragement. Correct us when we need it (Proverbs 27:5-6; Ecclesiastes 7:5; Proverbs 27:17) — real friends speak truth and sharpen us toward wisdom. Push us toward God’s call on our lives (1 Samuel 20:35-42) — they remind us who God says we are and help us walk in obedience. We also see how to cultivate these kinds of friendships ourselves: See what God sees, not what man sees — Jonathan recognized David’s future as king and surrendered his own claim (1 Samuel 18:4; 23:16-18). Be selfless, not selfish — Jonathan risked his own standing and even his safety to protect David (1 Samuel 20:27-34; 1 Corinthians 13:4-7). Center relationships on Jesus — friendships rooted in Christ endure and strengthen both people (Ecclesiastes 4:9-12). Practical next steps: join a small group, serve on a team, or simply invite someone to lunch and begin building intentional, Christ-centered connections. This message reminds us that none of us step fully into our God-given calling alone. We need covenant friendships that strengthen, challenge, and guide us toward all God has planned.