Coach Lee

Coach Lee

Coach Lee is a world-renown relationship coach who helps people get an ex back after a breakup, save a marriage, and become more attractive. Lee has coached people in relationships since 2000. His website is and includes hundreds of articles and videos. Lee has lectured at Pepperdine University and others, is a TED educator on the science of breakups, and has been interviewed by major media including The New York Times, USA Today, The Today Show, New York Post, Men’s Health, L.A. Business Journal, Cosmopolitan, Daily Mail, Metro UK, Bravo TV, Yahoo Lifestyle, Glamor, and MSN among others. Lee uses real-life experience with breakups along with his work for 20 years providing relationship-recovery coaching. He has multiple certifications for relationship coaching & consulting. Get information on his Emergency Breakup Kit & Emergency Marriage Kit at SUBSCRIBE to this podcast as well as on YouTube at so you don’t miss videos on saving relationships, keeping love strong, and the science of attraction. INSTAGRAM @RealCoachLee


September 20, 2023 10 mins

Welcome to today's episode, entitled "How to Win Your Spouse Back." This is a special installment that focuses on reigniting the love and commitment that may have waned in your marriage - especially if one spouse wants to leave. With actionable advice, expert insights, and real-life stories, Coach Lee can help you navigate the complicated journey of winning back your spouse's heart. If you're dealing with misunderstandings, anger, ...

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Navigating the complex world of post-breakup dynamics can leave anyone feeling like they're walking on eggshells. One minute you're trying to move on, and the next, you're noticing peculiar behavior from your ex that makes you wonder if there's more to the story. In this intriguing video, "Signs My Ex Wants Me Back," we're delving into five telltale signs that might indicate your ex has a change of heart. From subtle online interac...

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September 1, 2023 7 mins

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In this enlightening podcast, acclaimed relationship expert Coach Lee delves into a pressing question that often plagues struggling couples: "Is Separation the Key to Saving My Marriage?"

With his extensive experience and profound insights, Coach Lee offers a thorough examination of the potential ramifications of taking a break from your spouse when your relationship is on sha...

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Being broken up with by a loved one can be an emotionally challenging experience, leaving one yearning for a second chance at love with him or her. Rekindling a romantic relationship with an ex can indeed be a difficult task, as it requires careful consideration of past mistakes and a sincere effort to rebuild trust.

However, there is potential for reuniting with an ex through the effective use of the no contact rule. By understand...

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July 3, 2023 19 mins

Coach Lee answers the question, "Should I reach out to my ex?"

He does so with the assumption that you want your ex back after they broke up with you. Breakups can be emotionally painful, leaving us longing for the comfort and familiarity of the relationship. During moments of vulnerability, the temptation to reach out to your ex can be overwhelming.

In this podcast, Coach Lee, explores several compelling reasons why reaching out t...

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Want your ex to come to you after they broke up with you? Coach Lee explains how you can do that. Get information on Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at


Breakups can be painful and challenging, leaving you longing for the connection you once had with your ex-partner. While there is no guarantee that every relationship can be revived or that your ex will come back to you, it is possible to create an ...

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In this enlightening and insightful video, Coach Lee delves into the complex reasons why your ex might be reluctant to rekindle the flame of your past relationship. With careful consideration and empathy, he explores five common factors that could be influencing their decision. By gaining a deeper understanding of their perspective, you'll be better equipped to navigate the path towards healing and personal growth.


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Coach Lee explains why your ex is watching your social media, Instagram stories, Facebook, etc. If you are wondering what it means and if you should watch your ex's social media, Coach answers those questions. If your question is, "Should I watch my ex's stories?" Lee answers that as well. Get more information on Coach Lee's Support Community at Or get Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at http://myexbackcoa...

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Coach Lee shares the best relationship advice that you've never heard. In the five tips Coach Lee shares, you'll learn from his twenty-two years in relationship coaching. Most of the advice and tips on the list aren't talked about often if ever but can help relationships to be strong and to survive life's challenges. Apply the lessons from this video and your relationship will be a better one because of it. Get more information on ...

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April 8, 2023 9 mins

Will anxiety ever go away, end, or stop? Coach Lee answers this question and explains what you can do when anxiety comes on you. Lee explains what causes anxiety and what can be done to be able to feel better, function, and to prevent as many future instances as possible. To join Coach Lee's Support Community, go to


Anxiety can be a challenging and distressing experience.


Here are some strategies that...

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March 30, 2023 15 mins

Coach Lee answers the question, how to know if your ex is still in love with you. Just because someone broke up with you does not mean that they are no longer in love with you or that such love is permanently lost. In this video, you'll learn what to look for to help you know if your ex is still in love with you. Coach Lee mentioned two important resources in this video and they are the Emergency Breakup Kit which you can get at ht...

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March 22, 2023 15 mins

Coach Lee explains your ex's brain during no contact and even gets into the hormones produced at certain stages of no contact. Theses hormones are cortisol, adrenaline, oxytocin, and/or vasopressin. Men and women produce certain hormones at different levels during stress and anxiety. Coach Lee explains the stages that an ex goes through while you are using the No Contact Rule and also explains how their hormone production can be a ...

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March 17, 2023 10 mins

Coach Lee explains what your ex must know for sure about you in order to come back to you and the relationship. If you want to get back together with your ex, you need to make sure that they know certain things about you that you might not have even thought about yet. Coach Lee explains in this powerful video. Get more information on his Emergency Breakup Kit at and his Emergency Marriage Kit at http://...

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March 17, 2023 11 mins

This video provides help for those struggling with no contact anxiety and nervousness while using the No Contact Rule. If you are trying to get your ex back after a breakup, you have probably heard Coach Lee talk about the No Contact Rule. When you apply that, it can cause anxiety and emotional difficulty. This video will help you to address and overcome anxiety in that situation. Coach Lee provides several strategies to help you c...

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Learn ways and how an ex tests you after a breakup and what you should do about it if you want to get back together and reunite with your ex. If your ex is testing you after a breakup, it's important to be aware of what's going on and to respond in a way that feels healthy and appropriate for you. You don't have to engage with their tests if you don't want to, and it's okay to set boundaries and protect your own emotional well-bein...

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Coach Lee speaks to those who feel that their ex is never coming back after breaking up with them. If you are struggling after being broken up with and fear that your ex is gone for good, this message is for you! Get more information on Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at and his Emergency Marriage Kit at


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February 3, 2023 12 mins

Coach Lee explains how you can show your ex that you have changed if you are using the no contact rule. It can seem difficult to show your ex anything if you are not in contact with them, but there are important things to consider and ways that you can show them that you have changed even if you aren't in contact with them. Timing, however, is key in revealing these changes and there is definitely a right way and a wrong way to sho...

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January 24, 2023 10 mins

Coach Lee explains what your ex needs in order to come back to you and the relationship. Often times people don't understand the dynamics of a breakup that cause someone to continue to want to be broken up. It's important to understand how your ex sees you and how they feel in order to have the best chance to reunite with them. There are some cases where moving on is best, but there are also many times when a broken relationship ca...

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Learn what caused your ex's feelings to fade to the point that he or she wanted to break up with you. Many people don't understand that feelings fading had a cause and that, if the cause (or causes) are understood, reunion is possible and the fading phenomenon can be prevented in the future with your ex or with someone else. What does it mean when an ex says that their feelings ...

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This is what makes an ex change their mind and want to get back together again. Most people don't understand this concept and struggle to get their ex back or to determine if a reunion is likely. Coach Lee explains what can cause an ex to change their mind and heart so that they want to rekindle the relationship with you. Get more information on Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit at


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