Grief Connects Us Deeply with Becky Ellis

Becky Ellis shares about her dad’s experience as a Timberwolf in World War II and how that impacted him, then later her and the rest of their family. With her father sharing his story, she gained a deep understanding of who her father was. She was able to see him separate from her needs and desires. Becky says this uncovering was the “greatest moment of joy, the deepest moment of grief.” At 50, she finally got to see her dad for who he was, and she had compassion for him and what he endured. 

 

She’s learned the value of sharing stories over hiding secrets, and talks about how her relationships are different with her daughters than hers was with her dad.

 

Becky Ellis is a Timberwolf Pup. The daughter of a highly decorated World War II combat sergeant, she is a veteran of a war fought at home. She earned a BA in English Literature at UC Berkeley and has over twenty years of experience in the publishing industry. She teaches writing in Portland, Oregon, where she lives, plays, and has raised three daughters. Little Avalanches is her debut memoir. It was a finalist for the Oregon Book Award 2025. 

 

https://beckyellis.net

https://instagram.com/beckyellisauthor

Little Avalanches by Becky Ellis

 

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