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November 15, 2023 β€’ 48 mins

Gurl, join us on 'Coffee with Gays' as we spill the tea on social media fakes! πŸŽ‰ We're dissecting FaceTune fails, influencer lies, and those 'too perfect' online lives. 🀳✨ From 'Never Have I Ever' to diversity talks, we're keeping it real and hilarious. Ready for some truth bombs? Let's go! πŸŒŸπŸ”

Episode Highlights:

  • [00:00:12] Unmasking fake social media personas. πŸ“ΈπŸ€‘
  • [00:01:00] The craze of online feature exaggeration. πŸ€”πŸ’­
  • [00:01:26] Celebrating our diverse friend circle. πŸŒˆπŸ‘―β€β™‚οΈ
  • [00:02:42] 'Never Have I Ever' game insights. πŸ˜πŸ™ˆ
  • [00:06:19] The real impact of social media on self-image. πŸ€”πŸ’­
  • [00:07:00] Instagram's unrealistic beauty standards. πŸ“±πŸŒ
  • [00:09:05] The contrast between online images and reality. πŸŽ­πŸ‘€
  • [10:12] Hilarious catfish and FaceTune stories. πŸ™ŠπŸ˜‚
  • [14:01] The pressure to maintain a perfect online image. πŸ“ΈπŸ”„
  • [17:01] Masculinity in the digital age. πŸ”₯πŸ‘¨
  • [19:54] Navigating LGBTQ+ relationships. ❀️‍πŸ”₯πŸ‘¬
  • [21:01] The truth behind influencer lifestyles. βœˆοΈπŸ“Έ
  • [24:00] The dilemma of social media vs. personal relationships. πŸ’‘πŸš«
  • [28:30] Embracing authenticity in a filtered world. πŸŒŸπŸ’–
  • [30:00] Our public life as a couple and fashion fun. πŸ‘¬πŸ‘―β€β™‚οΈ
  • [32:00] Debunking 'perfect' relationships on social media. πŸ°πŸ’”
  • [35:00] Discussing materialism vs. love. πŸ’Έβ€οΈ
  • [38:03] Observations from local social scenes. πŸ»πŸ‘€
  • [39:09] Trends and party culture insights. πŸ‘’πŸŽ‰
  • [41:12] The gap between online personas and real life. 🎭πŸ‘₯
  • [43:00] The challenge of genuine interaction in the digital era. πŸ‘₯πŸ“±
  • [45:05] Expanding our journey to TikTok and YouTube. πŸŽ₯🌐
  • [47:00] Choosing real-life experiences over online presence. ✈️🌍

Tune in for a blend of real talk, laughter, and shade! πŸŒŸπŸŽ™οΈ

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
We're gonna be the loud ones.
We're willing to speak out.

Speaker 2 (00:02):
I'm not politically correct.
If you want the truth.

Speaker 3 (00:05):
I'll give it to you.
We're gonna start having thisone.
Maybe we'll just in true colors.
Hello, welcome everybody.

Speaker 1 (00:15):
Wait a minute.

Speaker 3 (00:15):
What.

Speaker 1 (00:16):
What, what.

Speaker 2 (00:17):
What's the matter To Coffee with Gays and your host
today?
Every day is Oprah with his.

Speaker 3 (00:26):
No card your words, because season two has no cards.

Speaker 2 (00:29):
So this is season two , episode two.

Speaker 1 (00:32):
Today we are talking about Today we're talking about
filtering out the phonies andwe're calling out all the fakes.
Really, we're probably gonnaget called out.
Look, I don't fake my socialmedia.

Speaker 3 (00:46):
I think we're pretty accurate, right?
Let us know.

Speaker 2 (00:49):
We're talking about the crazy people that face tune,
and especially the sloppy ones,overfilter.
Not just that, but they'll dobody changes and they'll.
Girls are known for makingtheir asses big, but they don't
realize that when they maketheir booties big like this girl
in the picture, she made thecar door jam go with her booty.

Speaker 3 (01:12):
I feel like Is that recent?
That's a recent one, because Ifeel like there's been a
movement against that.
To be more real, Forebid said.
Maybe with TikTok or I don'tknow.
Just trying to be a little morelike this is me, without all
the face tuning, because wedon't have to any longer be the
perfect Instagram model anymore.
I think there's both still theyexist.

(01:32):
Yeah, this podcast is all aboutdiversity and inclusion.

Speaker 1 (01:37):
First of all, we have addressed this on a previous
episode and now that you'vecalled it out again, it is
because our other friends don'twant to dedicate the time to
running a podcast and we willhave them as a guest because we
do have a diverse group offriends, just so everybody knows
, and we are happy to say that,coming up on a future podcast,

(01:59):
we're going to bring on alesbian we are, we're very
excited.
We actually just confirmed ourlesbian friend.

Speaker 2 (02:06):
It's going to be called Listen Linda, with
Lesbian Linda.

Speaker 1 (02:09):
With Lesbian Linda.
Remember that little kid goingListen, linda On the thing.
That's what we were talkingabout last night.
So we're very excited.
We're going to have her on theshow and she's super fun and
she's going to talk about thedifference between gays and
lesbians and how we haverelationships and stuff.
So we're going to do a littlebit of a difference.
Probably there's a hugedifference.
You know, though, we weretalking to him about it and they
were like really confused whywe'd have this as a topic, and

(02:31):
it took me about I don't knowwhat 30 seconds, and they're
like, oh yeah, we are just sodifferent.

Speaker 2 (02:37):
Absolutely Love Linda .
So this is going to be a riotbecause she's like me.
She'll just spit shit out andyou're just like where the hell
did that come from?
I'm really excited to meet her.

Speaker 3 (02:47):
I've never actually met her.

Speaker 1 (02:49):
She's really, really, really great.
Ok, so we're going to actuallystart.
I'm super excited about thatepisode.
We're actually going to startwith a game that Adam wanted to
play.
Because this is a part ofseason two, we're going to do a
little teaser.

Speaker 2 (03:02):
Never, ever, five finger version.

Speaker 1 (03:05):
Five finger version and we'll have to call it out
for our listeners as well.

Speaker 2 (03:08):
Yes, so we're going to, we're going to go around and
I will.
I will start, but I can't waitfor that.

Speaker 1 (03:14):
Ryan is very scared.

Speaker 2 (03:16):
Hold those fingers up as.

Speaker 3 (03:17):
I'm going to pull up all five as much as he can.

Speaker 2 (03:19):
So, mom and dad, I hope, hope you're not watching
this.
So first law never have I everbeen depied.

Speaker 3 (03:28):
Ryan's got a finger down, so it was actually just
one time Go.
Never have I ever done that.

Speaker 2 (03:35):
No, none of us have done that.

Speaker 1 (03:36):
Yeah, thank God.
Ok, good, who?
That was the close one.
Ok, never have I ever cheatedon my boyfriend.
Shit, wait today.
Yeah, all of us.
Yeah, all of us have done that.
I know, I just wanted to callyou all out and myself.

Speaker 2 (03:51):
But wait a minute.
I need to also say in that thatI only cheated after he cheated
on me to get revenge.
Next cheater.

Speaker 1 (03:59):
Continue.
We've all cheated.
Continue moving on.

Speaker 2 (04:03):
Never have I ever Been engaged.

Speaker 1 (04:10):
That was a good one, ryan's down.

Speaker 2 (04:13):
Oh, you're engaged.
What the fuck are you thinking?

Speaker 1 (04:15):
I was thinking engaged to a man about.

Speaker 3 (04:19):
A group like a group sex that was more than 13.
I'm down.

Speaker 2 (04:25):
Oh, there we go.
I did that on the gay cruiseship.
There was 47.

Speaker 1 (04:29):
Never have I ever hired a sex worker?

Speaker 2 (04:33):
Shit Ryan and I went down on that.

Speaker 1 (04:36):
OK, can we, can we?

Speaker 3 (04:37):
talk about that for a minute.

Speaker 1 (04:38):
I'm just saying we don't need to go into details,
but put it down, ok.

Speaker 2 (04:45):
And never have I ever and this is even anything
sexual Never have I ever givenup a dog.

Speaker 1 (04:51):
OK, that's so not fair.
I gave up a dog the other week.

Speaker 2 (04:54):
Blaine has bullshitted that he gave up his
dog, that he just got like twoweeks before because the dog had
pit in him.
The percentage of pit that wasin that dog was point zero, zero
, zero, five percent.

Speaker 1 (05:07):
My building will not allow pit bulls.
Unfortunately, he was re-homedto a lovely home.

Speaker 3 (05:12):
Never have I ever had sex with a woman.

Speaker 1 (05:14):
Oh fuck, oh damn damn .

Speaker 2 (05:19):
Now we're down to one Well that was good, Ryan.
You've never had sex with awoman.

Speaker 3 (05:25):
I wasn't even out.
I didn't even come out of mymom's vagina either you remember
the platinum gay?

Speaker 1 (05:30):
Damn it.
Ok, continue.
We all have one finger up atthis point.
Well, I can just in this righthere and just say never have I
ever had sex in Mexico City inMexico City that was mean you
knew that I went to Mexico Cityand I was there for a month.

Speaker 3 (05:46):
What a man idea, no, so.

Speaker 2 (05:48):
Ryan.
Ryan went down.
Ok, Watch this.
Never have I ever datedsomebody who's been in a
relationship.

Speaker 1 (05:57):
Not fair.
Fine, my hand went down.
Adam wins the game.
Exactly, there you go.
I can't believe I thought I wasgoing to win that one.
Really, I was like not evenworried about it.
I knew Ryan was going to win.
Well, I knew Ryan was going togo out first for sure.

Speaker 3 (06:12):
You know what's funny ?
You know, if you'd asked methat, like even just a couple
years ago, I'd probably have atleast three fingers up.

Speaker 1 (06:17):
Yeah, I know you've really changed over the years.
It's been very interesting.
It's an evolution.
I think it's doing just fine.

Speaker 2 (06:24):
Somebody that would be in the Baptist Church.
Your life's just going downfrom here.

Speaker 1 (06:28):
You know that's how it goes, so everybody like OK.
Now on to today's topic.
We're talking about all thephonies, all the fakes on social
media.
I do think it really startedwith Instagram.
I have a lot of knowledge onthis, but, like these topics
come up because certain people,ms Bailey, feel very strongly
about them.

Speaker 2 (06:46):
So my my thing is is I Sit there and I watch people
post all of this bullshit.

Speaker 1 (06:54):
Yeah, wait, wait.
First of all, let's be honest.
I manage Ms Bailey social mediaand there is only two types of
content on his tiktok Hot dumb,jim bros and farm boys.
That's it.
So that's all he follows andliterally his Instagram is the
same and the dumb farm boys donot post.
Fetish is bullshit but yourInstagram is all muscle bros.

(07:16):
I think yours is too right,Ryan.

Speaker 2 (07:18):
When you pull up your search, what do you find?
Look at this, mine is allmuscle guys ass dick muscle guys
.

Speaker 1 (07:26):
So mine is half muscle guys, a DIY section.

Speaker 3 (07:31):
I'm seeing some like couples.
So you got gay couples, muscleguys, muscle guys and a puppy
for maybe every 50.

Speaker 2 (07:38):
Mine is muscle guys and tractors.
I.

Speaker 3 (07:42):
Don't have one tractor.
Every ten is a sauna, though Ido love a sauna.

Speaker 2 (07:46):
There was a gym guy who who Legit posts all these
pictures and with any of themthey basically work out and they
get in their cutting season andthey cut and when they're cut
they look the best for like one.
Cutting means we got behind youlike Parker.

Speaker 3 (08:04):
Yeah, if you're listening, we put up some new
artwork.
We got a hot.

Speaker 2 (08:07):
I'm not the most Best person to talk about how body
building.
Lots of first, but you gothrough your cycle.
You, you balk, which means youeat a lot, you put on a lot of
weight and a lot of muscle, andthen you go through your cutting
season where you cut and youliterally eat Oxygen for a
fucking in three months or sixmonth bases and you get down to

(08:29):
the skinny abs and all thatstuff.

Speaker 3 (08:31):
So you know how to do it.

Speaker 2 (08:32):
I know how to do it, it's just that I don't do it.
It's too much effort.
Yeah, so all of these guys whoare putting up these pictures
right that are in Thanks rightafter Thanksgiving.
They're like, oh, we just hadThanksgiving and then they have
a six pack bullshit.
They don't.
That was from like May, whenthey were cutting and they were

(08:53):
pushing their abs out To makethe abs stand out more.
There's also ab chiseling now,like cool sculpting.
No, they'll take a tool, likeif you're bodybuilding and
you're going to a show, they'lltake a tool and they'll cut into
your abs and make them press inso they're more defined like a
scalpel.
No, no, not a scalpel like likea, like a push tool thing, Weird

(09:15):
anyway.
So my frustration is you getthese people.
They're like, oh my god,they're so hot and I'm like they
don't look like that all yearround.

Speaker 3 (09:25):
But they're claiming they look like that you're all
around it's the persona, it'sjust like.

Speaker 2 (09:30):
It's just like the girls that say that they are on
all these trips but they're infucking Kansas, like in the
middle of a cornfield, postingall this shit.

Speaker 3 (09:39):
And it's all because it's been green screened behind,
so they didn't even go on thetrip.

Speaker 2 (09:43):
Yeah, well, sometimes they didn't go on the trip the
green screen it.

Speaker 1 (09:46):
I mean, I think the shocking thing for me it was the
person who we Met out the otherday, who we both follow.
We follow the person, yeah sowe follow.

Speaker 2 (09:58):
It was last night.
So we follow a guy who I Idon't think I've actually ever
met him in person and I'll thinkyou've ever actually met him in
person, but we follow hisInstagram.
Yeah, and his Instagram is verylike tone-balked, like muscle
and all that stuff.
When I saw him last night Iliterally thought that maybe he

(10:20):
had a twin brother.

Speaker 1 (10:21):
That was a skinny rail, like there's more meat on
a chicken bun than on his ass,see, I was shocked by this,
because the story that I seebecause I follow on Facebook as
well, the story I see was aboutan injury that he had and he's
felt very self-conscious Aboutit and he's been like coming
back from it.

Speaker 2 (10:41):
Which which, first of all, congrats, like it, like,
like I'm all about it, but Ifeel like a lot of those
pictures were Faced to, I meanthe fact that I was sitting next
to him yesterday and that's thesame person.

Speaker 1 (10:56):
No idea, it was at a bar in Dallas.
Yeah, I'm one of the gay bars.
We're at the gay bars and youknow like as well.
First of all, I had a lot oftequila, obviously.
You know me.

Speaker 2 (11:08):
You were with me when I chugged at margarita, so that
could have been a little bitbefore or after you're putting
your hand in the boys pants inthe bar.

Speaker 1 (11:14):
Excuse me, adam, that bro, do you hear this?
I don't think my mom listensanymore.

Speaker 2 (11:22):
She can't.
She's listening to yourmistakes.

Speaker 1 (11:24):
Wait, which guy did I put my hand down the pants?
I'm getting flustered.
Adam caught me.
Adam caught me.

Speaker 3 (11:33):
Why do they do have any of us done not?

Speaker 2 (11:36):
I faced, tuned, my burns, my acid burns that were
on my arm.
I did face to nose.

Speaker 1 (11:42):
Wait, wait, wait.
I'm gonna actually interjectsomething.
God, you know what you did do.
You did let us Photoshop youfor the coffee with gays
photoshoot because of all yourchins.
So we had to Photoshop you andyou let us do that.
So our designer did that.
Okay, I'm just gonna leave itin and then we'll see if people

(12:04):
hate you for it, but it's fine.

Speaker 2 (12:06):
Let me, let me take this back around.
Like I bought a pair of notalso rounder bums.

Speaker 3 (12:13):
Oh, the ones that kind of lift your butt.

Speaker 2 (12:16):
So I bought this underwear, and what the
underwear is for is to fill yourjeans in and make your butt
look big.
Well then, once I put them onand looked at it, I was like
nobody's gonna believe this shit.
Like somebody's gonna walk upat the bar and put their hand in
my pants and be like why isthere eight inches of padding in
your ass?
Like what the fuck is this?

Speaker 1 (12:34):
But girls do it too, with pushup bras and everything.
Was it really that much extra.

Speaker 2 (12:39):
Actually, it really wasn't that much.
It's just like a thin pad, butit's still like.
It made it look way more biggerthan what the normal looks, and
I was like I don't look great,but you went out and you tested
it.
I tested it out one night and alot of people made a lot of
comments and I was like thisisn't good, I can't do this
Cause, then you have to takethem home, take your pants off,

(13:00):
and it's not what they expected.
They're like what the hellhappened to this pancake ass?

Speaker 1 (13:04):
Have you either been in a situation when you met
somebody and it wasn't?

Speaker 2 (13:08):
You're looking at me because you know that, yes, I
have.

Speaker 3 (13:11):
No, everyone I've ever met looked exactly like
they portray me.
That's a lie.

Speaker 2 (13:16):
I had to a drastic point of that where the kid kid
he was my age, so I use thatword because I'm like he just
whatever.
So he's probably five 10.
In his pictures he looked likehe weighed maybe 140 pounds.
When I actually met him inperson he was five, he was five,

(13:41):
10 and probably 190, 200.
And I was like what in the hellhappened?

Speaker 1 (13:50):
Did you sleep with them?
No, no, how did you?

Speaker 3 (13:52):
meet.
What was the?
What was the?

Speaker 2 (13:54):
We were friends in social media and then he came
into town and he was like, oh,I'm going to be out tonight,
like let's hang out, like let'sgrab a drink.

Speaker 1 (14:01):
And then I met him and I was like and he had been
posting regularly, regularly,like old photos, like old photos
, okay, but we know other peoplethat do this and I gotta say
like I don't understand it.
I look, I've had times in mylife where I felt very
unattractive and I just didn'tpost.

Speaker 2 (14:23):
That's exactly what I know.
I just don't post.
That's why I haven't postedshit in the past six months.
How long have I been in thatrelationship?
The past eight months?

Speaker 1 (14:31):
Yeah, I think it's been a lot longer than that Boy
you, he know he listens.
You better get that date right,he's a great guy.

Speaker 2 (14:38):
relationship lead on my ass, though.

Speaker 1 (14:40):
No, you just typically don't post photos and
I think that that's better.
I don't understand, like, whyyou post like old photos to make
yourself, like feel better.
You're saying Adam does that,or just in general people.
I think we all know otherpeople that post photos from
like Maybe you're a realtor.
God damn you.
Adam.

Speaker 2 (14:59):
Realtor's are the worst.
They use pictures from 1960 andit's there.
They're 45 years old.
There was a girl in Baltimorethat she legit had.
She had a picture from when shewas like 27 and she was like
double D boobs like probably 115pounds turkey wedge.

Speaker 1 (15:23):
It's the LinkedIn effect because, like, I think
LinkedIn is like the worst place.
Like every time I see someonein person, like at a conference
or something, and I've seen themon LinkedIn, I mean this photo
is like from 20 plus years ago.
It's crazy, but realtors Ithink are Did a new photo, I
know, but realtors are reallybad about it for sure.
I actually like had this likerendezvous with this straight

(15:47):
realtor.

Speaker 2 (15:48):
You had a rendezvous with a straight realtor.
Honey, he ain't straight.

Speaker 1 (15:52):
Well, he wasn't straight, but you know.
Anyway, he was using like anold photo but he still was hot.
It just a little older, butit's beside this one.

Speaker 2 (16:01):
How many people have actually had the same experience
that I had, where you walk intoa situation and you're like who
the hell is this?

Speaker 1 (16:07):
But you guys were just meeting up to be friendly,
not to sleep together.

Speaker 2 (16:10):
Right, but still like , how many people do you think
sit there on Tinder and putthese pictures out and you've
really never had?

Speaker 3 (16:19):
this.
No, I literally can't eventhink of a time.

Speaker 2 (16:21):
Do you live under a rock?
Yes, I know.

Speaker 1 (16:25):
Well, you just met somebody right from.

Speaker 2 (16:27):
Did Brad look like his pictures?

Speaker 3 (16:29):
I met Bradley in real life, like in real life.

Speaker 2 (16:32):
No shit, I introduced you.

Speaker 1 (16:34):
How many people have you met from like social media
that you haven't seen before?
Several, I don't know.
Like last week they always looklike everything, so you just
met somebody.

Speaker 3 (16:41):
And we recognize each other.
It's like, oh hey, we followeach other on Instagram.
We met and he looked exactlylike he does on Instagram.

Speaker 1 (16:47):
Maybe you know what it is, because Ryan's an
authentic person and you're kindof just a shithead.

Speaker 2 (16:52):
I attract the chaos.

Speaker 1 (16:54):
It really follows, adam.
For some reason it does.
Isn't there a saying like wheresometimes you just have to look
in the mirror when it's?

Speaker 3 (17:02):
Oh, you know who told me that.

Speaker 1 (17:04):
Who?
A drag queen?
A drag, oh God, oh, ooh, that'sa really good point.
Yeah, there you go.
And then that drag queen neededto be looking in the mirror too
.

Speaker 2 (17:14):
But I also find it with social media, like things
is like, and especially with thegay guys that they want to like
, look all like macho and stuff.
So there's a guy that we bothfollow on Instagram.
He is very attractive, he is soattractive and he's like and
he's muscular, he's built Like,he's just a really good looking

(17:37):
guy and you would think that hewould be the guy that would walk
up to a bar and be like heylike, let's grab a drink and
like.
But he posted something on hisstory and literally he was like
hey girl, what's going on?
And my boner went from fullstaff to literally I was a
female, she was a female Foranybody that doesn't know.

Speaker 1 (17:58):
I think we took that episode down because it was the
first one.

Speaker 2 (18:02):
I've named my penis, store it a little out of a joke
of this.

Speaker 3 (18:06):
So there's actually four characters in the room.

Speaker 1 (18:11):
What do you name yours, by the way, ryan?
Now that we're going to take amid-show break to ask Ryan what
his is name, is King Kong.

Speaker 3 (18:20):
I've never named him.

Speaker 1 (18:21):
If anybody's seen Ryan's Instagram, he's got a lot
of speedo pics.

Speaker 3 (18:26):
My mom calls me.
She's like I'll post it.
I swear.
10 seconds later I get a phonecall from my mom.
Ryan, I can see your religion.
I'm like mom, let me be me.

Speaker 1 (18:38):
But your mom is also proud of how large your member
is.

Speaker 3 (18:42):
Well, she's like where did that come from?
And I was like I think the twoof you could like got together
Like this is you two.

Speaker 1 (18:49):
I feel like your mom has, like this immense pride
that she'd birthed a son with agiant penis.

Speaker 2 (18:54):
What do you call your penis?

Speaker 1 (18:56):
I don't have a name for my penis, little Jimmy.

Speaker 2 (19:00):
He may be small, but he's sincere.

Speaker 1 (19:03):
He's small, mighty.

Speaker 3 (19:06):
It's not smuggler.
Have you seen his penis?
No, god, no, I throw up.

Speaker 1 (19:10):
I haven't seen Plains penis either I feel like we
have, not you and me.
I thought we were at the Fourthof July thing, weren't we?
No, two years ago, when wealmost set the house on fire?
Yeah, but it was just a wildtime.

Speaker 2 (19:25):
The only reason why I've seen Ryan's is because we
fornicated one time.

Speaker 1 (19:29):
Okay, well, there you go.
A gay handshake is what we callit.

Speaker 2 (19:33):
Fornicated on the dining room table.

Speaker 1 (19:35):
But you're Is it on the dining room table.

Speaker 2 (19:36):
No, it was on the dining room table.
That's from a movie.

Speaker 3 (19:39):
What movie I was like from what?
I remember is in the bed.

Speaker 1 (19:42):
Ryan doesn't even remember you guys fornicating,
by the way, because he thoughtit was on the dining room.

Speaker 3 (19:46):
No, I do remember, it was very good.
It was very good.
I don't remember.
Oh my God, really, really, youwere wasted.

Speaker 2 (19:53):
We fornicated my house.

Speaker 3 (19:54):
In the same bed.
You sleep with Matt now.

Speaker 2 (19:56):
Actually the different mattress, Because
remember, when we broke up hestole the mattress from me.

Speaker 1 (20:00):
Oh, my goodness.

Speaker 2 (20:01):
This is why we call it coffee with gays, because the
coffee is steaming right now atplay.

Speaker 1 (20:05):
Boyfriends might be steaming later.

Speaker 3 (20:07):
I remember going to like a comedy show and like the
comedian was like made a jokeabout that because gays that are
friends.
Like chances are you'veprobably slept with 90% of your
friends.

Speaker 2 (20:17):
Who of our friend group?
Have you slept with Blaine?

Speaker 1 (20:20):
The reality is I don't sleep within friend groups
.
I don't believe in it.

Speaker 3 (20:25):
I don't.
I've gone through like phaseswhere, like, I thought I didn't
want to and then I thought itwas good, because it's like
you're going to sleep withpeople.
Then like, why not be likefriends and people you trust and
look out for each other Likethe core?

Speaker 1 (20:37):
friend group I don't sleep with, but you're actually
the only one I've slept with.

Speaker 3 (20:41):
Oh okay, same.
So look, yeah, one and done.

Speaker 1 (20:44):
And now we moved on, and now we're going to move on
to that next section.

Speaker 2 (20:48):
What's up next, Oprah ?

Speaker 1 (20:50):
Because I think, I think one of like the
interesting things that you hadjust said is you were talking
about, like the altering ofphotos, and I actually.

Speaker 2 (21:01):
So let's post this photo here, where the girl has,
like, made her booty look biggerand pushed it into the door jam
, the door jam of the car.

Speaker 1 (21:11):
It's also like really , really bad.
But I have to tell you, I usedto date an influencer, who we'll
just call him the influencer,and he had an Instagram account,
who is a travel Instagramaccount.

Speaker 2 (21:22):
So let me ask you it was places where he traveled to.

Speaker 1 (21:25):
Yes, where he actually traveled to.

Speaker 2 (21:28):
So this is where I get pissed off with these
traveler things.
How many of those photos werebullshit where he was sitting in
his living room and they wereall real.

Speaker 1 (21:38):
100% of them are real .
The difference is what peopledon't understand is you speed
them post every single daybecause it's a point, or
multiple times a day, but thetrip like, let's say he went to
Morocco, for example, he went toMorocco for three days, but he
would post for like two months,so he would edit photos, so it

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looked like he was in Moroccotwo months.
And the funny thing is, when wewould go to different parties
and everything, everybody wouldtell us like, oh my God, you've
just been like traveling Just inJamaica yesterday and he went,
did go to Jamaica or Morocco orwherever he went, but these were
very short, like weekend tripswhere he filmed a ton of content
and then he pushed it out andpeople thought he never lived in

(22:22):
LA.
So they would always ask uslike oh, how hard is it for you
to like?

Speaker 3 (22:26):
was he trying to like create that perception, though,
or he?

Speaker 1 (22:29):
has a lot of great photos.
He was posting every day.
So like the perception is thathe's posting every day.
But I think also what peoplejust don't realize is like
behind the scenes it's notactually enjoyable what's being
posted.

Speaker 2 (22:40):
It's got to be exhausting.

Speaker 3 (22:42):
So you correct them and just be like oh, it was only
there for a week.
I'm just still sharing myphotos.

Speaker 1 (22:46):
No, he would be like and he was traveling enough, but
like there were these littletrips.
But he would never like saylike, oh, I was just there for
like two days or three days.
It just did a lot of content.

Speaker 2 (22:55):
See, I just think that that just makes him a liar.

Speaker 1 (22:58):
Well, but that's your point of the whole point of
this episode.
He is kind of like, kind oflike pushing a persona that he
lives internationally barely inLA, like oh, I'm just here in LA
for this party and it did comeoff like that when I knew he was
on the couch with me all thetime editing his photos.

Speaker 2 (23:15):
That's where I come into that.
I'm like you're just a bullshit, you're just bullshit, you just
your liar, your bullshit.
And and you're exhausting atthat point, and why would I want
to be even around you?
And that's where I think thatthe influencers now are selling
themselves short, because one tobe dating this and you know
this firsthand it's exhaustingas fuck.

(23:35):
You don't want to date somebodywho's an influencer because
they're like, oh, instead oftaking a cute picture together,
oh no, I got to get a goodlighting, I got to look like
this.

Speaker 1 (23:44):
Well, no, no, first of all, let me, let me insert
this it's about my brand.
That was the line.
Oh yeah, he'd say that all thetime, like I'd be like.
He's like, just so you know,you'll never be on my Instagram
because it's about my brand, andI was like okay, that's fine, I
totally understand that, andyou still stayed with him.
We lived together for fiveyears.

Speaker 2 (24:02):
Hold the fuck on.
He said you will never be on myInstagram because it's his
brand.
Do you know what that means tome?
You're not good enough for me.
You know why?
On this episode, we're going tohave a breakdown of Blaine's
life.
Did you not sit there lookingat yourself in the mirror and

(24:23):
say I'm not going to stand forthis?

Speaker 1 (24:25):
Well, I was in love and I understood, like I
understood, like he never hadanybody but him on his Instagram
.
If he had had other people, Iwould have felt different.

Speaker 3 (24:34):
Like it wasn't even his friend.

Speaker 2 (24:36):
But if you become, like your, part of each other's
lives when you're in love rightwhen you're in love you put the
things out there that you love.
So, like mine is my tractor ohmy God that will tell me for

(24:57):
this but like if he loved you,he would have no problem putting
you on that Instagram.

Speaker 1 (25:07):
I didn't even get a story.
I mean, that was so, that wasso like not even a story, and
that actually used to likereally bug me.
But I got to tell you.
I got to tell you about thetrips, you guys because I never
look, I've never been one tocare about, I've always been
successful on my own right.
So I never, like have ever,wanted anyone to give me

(25:27):
anything.
But he used to be like, oh,like, you know, we can't really
penalty, no, nobody's.
First of all, like anyboyfriend I've ever dated has
really given me anything.
Please, it's usually the otherway around.
Let's be honest, I've neverbeen one, that's just what it
usually is what.
But in this scenario I was like,oh, this would be really nice
because we could travel, he canget some like things, and I

(25:48):
honestly I'm from the digitalmarketing realm, I've helped him
a lot in his business andhelped him build a business, get
clients, like be out on his own, so he could really pursue his
dream of this.
And we went on a couple oftrips.
I remember our first trip, myfavorite one, was the first time
I got any kind of view intothis world.
He took me to this Michelinstar restaurant in Boston

(26:10):
because we were there to seeMilan Rouge Preview, which, by
the way, was so amazing.
I was so excited and he took meto this dinner, amazing dinner.
They brought all this food andhe's sitting there like taking
pictures of it with his cameraand blah, blah, blah and he's
gonna like, post it.
Yeah, basically.
But two hours later I wasn'tallowed to eat it.

(26:31):
I was like, can I have ameatball?
He said, don't touch it.
And I was like, oh my God, twohours he was taking photos of
everything and I was so.
I was so angry.
I hadn't eaten all day and thenthey brought me a $200 bottle
of wine.
I drank the wine, I got superwasted and I got so mad.
And then by the time we finallydone like taking all these
pictures of those stupid food,it was all cold.

(26:54):
And he's like, oh, they'll justremake it for us.
I'm like, I'm not doing that,I'll eat the cold food.
Was it a schedule?

Speaker 3 (26:59):
He should have scheduled, like you, schedule, a
photo shoot for that.

Speaker 1 (27:01):
Oh well then that was because that was at the
beginning of our relationship.
Let's fast forward to the lasttrip we took together, because I
refused to travel with himagain.

Speaker 3 (27:10):
He coordinated that with a restaurant to do a
dedicated time.

Speaker 1 (27:12):
Like, hey, we're doing this deal and I'm like,
come get that no, but he pushedit to me as I want to take you
to dinner and I'm getting it forfree.

Speaker 2 (27:18):
But isn't this the same guy who would walk into
places and be like, oh, I'm aninfluencer, so this isn't your
best?

Speaker 1 (27:25):
Well, he did that.
He did that a couple of times.
He didn't say influencer, hejust said I have a following.
And we did meet some peoplethat way.
Anyway, they liked me betterthan him.

Speaker 2 (27:34):
but I'll be over here .
They liked me better than theyliked you.
I'm the one for the friends,and none.

Speaker 1 (27:41):
He would basically make a schedule on an in-cell
spreadsheet with like 15 minutebathroom break.
With what 15 minute bathroombreaks?

Speaker 2 (27:50):
Oh, I know all about that.

Speaker 1 (27:52):
You're out of that schedule, but it was like very
serious.
And then can you imaginetraveling anywhere you travel to
like everything isn't about thehistory or anything, it's all
about the photo op.
That's what it was like.
And literally the last time weever went on the trip together
was in New York.
He had me at the vessel and hetook a picture of me and because

(28:12):
my photo wasn't as good as hisphoto of me, he started
screaming at me and I said hirea fucking photographer.
I'm fucking done.
I said I'm sick and tired ofyour fucking Instagram, I can't
do it anymore.
And she's like was sick of it.
It was just like the beginningof the end for us.
It was just exhausting.
I fell asleep five minutes ago.
I mean, dating these people islike crazy.

(28:34):
Being one is like really evencrazier.

Speaker 2 (28:36):
If anything, if anybody's ever said it any
better to thine and self be true.
Who said that?
Adam, this is Shakespeare, thisis Shakespeare.
I really kind of hope shedidn't get it.
So to anybody that knows me is,I'm a die heart Reba McIntyre
fan and I love the song Fancy,and in the song Fancy she's

(28:59):
which year an album came out orsomething.

Speaker 3 (29:02):
Right, yeah, you, because he swears he's the die
heart.

Speaker 2 (29:07):
Bradley knows his facts very, very, very well.
With Reba I am very slip, soanyway.
So I met this guy at a bar andhe had a tattoo on his chest and
he had a tank top one and itsaid to dine and self be true.
Were you with me, with us?
And I walked up to him and Isaid oh my God, you love Reba

(29:29):
and he goes what?
And I said you love Reba todine and self be true.
Here he goes.
No, dumbass, that's Shakespeare.

Speaker 1 (29:43):
I can't believe.
You thought that that wasactually every big quote.
Did Reba ever say that?
I know it's all be true girl,but it was originally a
Shakespeare quote.

Speaker 2 (29:54):
She handed me a heart shaped locket.
That said to thine himself betrue, and I shivered as I
watched a roach crawl across thetop of my high heels shoe.
It's stupid rubbing off on Ryan.
Now, that's the only reason whyI know it.

Speaker 1 (30:06):
Shakespeare is because I was humiliated and I
was like, oh my god so I guess,like continuing on this like
line, speaking of Bradley, youguys have become a little bit of
a Couple thing and you evenhave like a couple Instagram.

Speaker 2 (30:24):
Well, not a couple thing, they are a couple.

Speaker 1 (30:27):
We are a couple and we don't.
We don't want to share, but isit like all your photos on your
Ryan Hines account?

Speaker 3 (30:32):
I'm mindful that, because I was like we don't
posting in every photo, just meand Bradley.

Speaker 1 (30:36):
How?
With my influencer, I wasn'tallowed because of his brand.
But with Ryan's account it'slike him and Brad and matching
Speedos, let's be honest, I'mtrying to do more photos of like
just me also.
One of you guys not beenboyfriend, twins and and because
that's a whole other thing.

Speaker 2 (30:53):
Boyfriend twins is a whole nother thing on social
media.

Speaker 1 (30:57):
I think it can be a whole other episode.

Speaker 3 (30:59):
It's nothing that we like plan to do, but yeah, we
were saying that, no, it's justkind of like slowly, it's just
not happening your, your closet,slowly meshes with like, like
you'll have like a speedo andit's like have you noticed this
honey?

Speaker 2 (31:14):
It's too gays in one closet.
What the fuck you think isgonna happen?

Speaker 3 (31:17):
Like if I need something to wear, I just go
over to his closet because wecan share clothes.
So then I think that's whereit's starting to happen.

Speaker 1 (31:22):
You have one closet between the two of you right I
have two closets, but we yourpatterns, though It'll be like
different same pattern,different colors.

Speaker 2 (31:30):
now, last night, I was in the leopard floor.

Speaker 3 (31:33):
I said you look good, you're gonna wear them.
I'm gonna have to fight themall off of you, but you're gonna
wear it.

Speaker 1 (31:37):
Can I tell you I saw a guy at At Woody's wearing that
shirt last night and I almosttook a picture with him and said
it to you guys, but then Ididn't want him to get.
Yeah, probably was very happythat yeah, it was a very big
departure from.
We'll post a photo of it in theYouTube, of what Bradley was
wearing in the car, because itwas actually really cute.
She's going to be wearingleopard.

(31:58):
I actually really liked it.
But let's go back to Adam andthe fact that they share a
closet with Matt.
Please.

Speaker 2 (32:04):
You like you always look like trash and Matt looks
amazing because not always wearsmy shit, and then I have to
scrounge all around me.

Speaker 3 (32:12):
I've never seen you wear marine layer.

Speaker 2 (32:15):
I wasn't asking you.

Speaker 1 (32:17):
You guys are definitely not boyfriend twins,
like Matt has style you.

Speaker 2 (32:21):
Matt wears metal, wear a lot of like he'll wear.
He wears all my underwear.
My underwear is gone.
He wears most a Lot of myshorts.
He's got a big booty so like helike last night's where my
jeans, my jeans, my shirt, hisshoes so I think he had on that

(32:42):
was his word the shoot well, Iwouldn't know, because I
actually didn't go out lastnight because I decided to
Prepare for coffee with gays andthen these two decided to go
out and get wasted.
I'm glazing.

Speaker 1 (32:57):
That's true.
I just wanted to be at onepoint were you upset because you
weren't invited?

Speaker 2 (33:01):
I?

Speaker 1 (33:01):
was invited.
I was invited.
I think I'm an asshole.
Yeah, you, everybody does thinkyou're an asshole.
By the way, the viewers havespoken you're an asshole.

Speaker 3 (33:08):
I tried to prepare during the week because we had
one topic in mind and then wegot here and decided we were
doing a different topic.

Speaker 2 (33:13):
So what was the top of your?

Speaker 3 (33:15):
very tail relationship.

Speaker 2 (33:16):
Well, that was actually supposed to be part of
this, because here's the thingis Let me, let me, let me go on.
This is I feel like a lot offemales sit there and they look
at a lot of guys and they'relike, oh, he's so hot and he
looks like this and this is whathe does.
And then, in this whole Thing,they get to the dinner table and
find out they don't lookexactly like that, they don't

(33:39):
exactly do that job, they don'tgo on all these trips, they
don't have this lavish life thatthey portray, because it's all
bullshit actually.

Speaker 1 (33:49):
Let's talk about women for a second here, because
I think it I disagree with youa little bit, I think you think
the women are?
the ones that I'll tell you whathappens.
I know exactly what happenshere.
And there's this girl.
I followed her name.
Uh, her, her handle's likenebula, I think.
Nebula, anyway, she's a contentcreator.
She's got 7.8 million people ontiktok.

(34:09):
So like I get it, like you knowshe's a content creator, but
like she's, yes, and she's sucha great example.
And I feel like these girls andyou know we live close to
southern Methodist University,right and I think these girls
come out of college and theyfind that like finance bro and
they're like, oh, I'm gonna takehim, put a ring on it, and you

(34:33):
know they're always taken.
You know the ones.
And you're like you look atthat guy.
And we were at the straightbars last night or yesterday
afternoon.
Actually, we were at Katietrail ice house and was that
tequila social.
All the straight bros in thereare texas, a&m, ut, smu and
every like college.
You can imagine in texas andall those guys, if they didn't

(34:55):
have rings on their fingers,they had girls right there and
they were gonna lock them downand they were gonna create that
life.
That is like the perfect littleLife.
The guys were gonna walk thegirls.
No the girls are gonna lockthose guys down.
Those guys, those guys are likedumb Cattle out there and these
girls have got assholes andthey like rope them in.

(35:15):
They're like he's hot, he's gota finance degree, he's it works
with Deloitte.
I'm gonna rope them in and I'mgonna create the light.
They go buy that house and thenall of a sudden, they start
posting on Instagram and thenthey become this girl, like I
said, like nebula and then flashforward Five years later.

Speaker 2 (35:30):
They really find the real person in them, and then
they're going what the fuck dateI near?

Speaker 1 (35:35):
Yeah, and then guess what?
That usually ends up in divorce, which, by the way, we're at
the divorce age and I'm gonnatell you, I've already Been
invited to multiple not evenmarried yet we're already at a
divorce.
Well, on the gay side no, I'msaying like on the straight side
I've already been invited tosecond and third marriages Two,
three marriages.
A couple of kids, like myfriends from college, are on

(35:55):
their like second and thirdmarriages.

Speaker 2 (35:58):
We're in our mid 30s and we've already surpassed
Three divorces.

Speaker 1 (36:02):
I mean, I guess I basically had a few divorces,
but I just never got married.

Speaker 2 (36:05):
Maybe miscarriages or abortions after a late night at
the gay bar.

Speaker 1 (36:14):
You're talking about like a gay abortion, and people
don't know what that is.

Speaker 2 (36:18):
There's what's called it.
There's a regular abortion, butthere's a gay abortion.
We'll talk about that anothertime.

Speaker 1 (36:23):
That is a nasty topic .

Speaker 2 (36:26):
Oh my god, there's little johnny.
You know what?

Speaker 1 (36:30):
Adam will talk about.
Adam will talk about that inhis youtube short and on his
Tiktok but I mean, the dick hasto go somewhere.

Speaker 3 (36:37):
It's gonna go in a hole.
They're gonna like shoot a loadand the load's gonna come out
and toilet and ryan just said it.

Speaker 1 (36:43):
I hopefully my mom is not listening to this.

Speaker 3 (36:47):
Or you're gonna keep it and and then.
And then it's like hot to tellhim hey, I still have anyway.

Speaker 1 (36:54):
I do think that, uh, women like tend to like, really
like lockdown men like that.
I think it's like I can see ithappening to.

Speaker 2 (37:01):
But they're doing it for their financial gains, and
that's another thing thatabsolutely Infuriates me.
You're in love with the, the,the image of what he can give
you.
That's what you're in love with.
You're in love with the, theactual image of what you have
there.
So, so for anybody that's outthere listening Come on, be a

(37:22):
better person like, don't be aactual gen z bullshit, ryan,
that table of people that we sawat katie chile ice house the
other day.

Speaker 1 (37:32):
So we literally were at katie chile ice house the
other day, yesterday, yes, andthere was a table of exactly
what I'm talking about women whohave tied down these poor men
right out of college.
The table right next to usthere's a couple, a gay couple
no, they were not gay, you guyssaid that and you were missing
their wives, but they tied downthese men right out of.

(37:54):
I can tell you they were broManson.
They they tied down these menright out of college.
There's baby strollerseverywhere, and they're all at
katie chile ice house, which Ithink is kind of cute, I guess,
though I do question, like Idon't know, drinking everybody
drinking with their babies andthen driving home With their
babies in the car.
I think that was probably likereally inappropriate.

(38:15):
But um, yeah, like you know,again, like trying to be the
cool mom ryan, as many of timesdriven with babies in him being
drunk.

Speaker 3 (38:26):
I do not drunk drive drink.
I'm gonna turn this off.

Speaker 2 (38:31):
And second of all, why is the fucking crackle so?

Speaker 3 (38:33):
down Bradley's, the one that's influenced this.
Okay.

Speaker 2 (38:36):
Yeah Well, he drinks and drives.
You have the babies in you.

Speaker 1 (38:39):
Okay, we're going to rewind way off topic.
We saw a bunch of like exactlythis type, quintessential.
They probably all went to SMU,ut, whatever.
That's such a.

Speaker 3 (38:50):
Dallas thing though.

Speaker 1 (38:51):
Well, it is a Southern girl thing.

Speaker 3 (38:54):
I do think it's a Southern girl which is good,
because the girl I just had myAirbnb guys from Russia and so
she could very much noticebecause we went to the rodeo and
she's like I just feel sounprepared, like I come to Texas
and all these girls are justlike put together, they all have
their boots, I'll have theirmakeup on, like they all, like
this, they're like they all lookthe same, like they all, and

(39:15):
she was like, so she really wasable to notice that.

Speaker 1 (39:18):
Did she notice that they were wearing white boots?
Because I saw girls and whiteboots yesterday.
Just white boots, all of themblonde, like they all just can I
just do a PSA on this, becauseI know I didn't explain it the
last time we talked about it?
Any woman wearing white bootsin Austin, dallas, anywhere in
Texas, anywhere in Nashville,anywhere in Kentucky, I really

(39:40):
don't care where the fuck you goin the South If you wear white
boots, just stop it, justfucking stop.
No, we're over it.

Speaker 3 (39:46):
I wanted to wear white boots.
To make fun of them, I have toreturn the white boots I got you
.

Speaker 1 (39:50):
We're over it and we don't think it's funny, we don't
think it's cute and we actuallyare making fun of you.
It's not cute anymore.
It's annoying because we knowyou're in a pack of other girls
that are being just as annoyingas you.
And if you go to Nashville, youknow what I'm talking about,
Because we went to Nashville asa group and I have never met so
many drunk bachelorettes in myentire life wearing white boots.

(40:13):
And literally yesterday, by theway, we saw him at Katie Trail
Eyes House in Dallas and I tooka picture of those white boots
and guess what?
She was in a horde of drunkbachelorettes and they're just
as annoying.
Remember that girl that raninto me and literally runs into
me right in front of the streetand she was like oh, and I was
like back out of my way.

Speaker 2 (40:33):
Could you imagine running in a plane?
Six foot four, what do you?
What are you?
A hundred and five, two hundred200 pounds, six foot four.
Yeah, and she ran into me fullspeed ahead.
I'd be like God, damn damn Boom.

Speaker 1 (40:47):
They didn't even know what happened to her.
And she was like and she toldme to get out of the way I was
like, bitch me.
I was like, oh, I can't.
A girl in white boots, you areliterally trouble.
We all know it.
Just stop.
It's just stop.
It's just like no, I can'thandle it anymore.

Speaker 2 (41:02):
This all goes back to these girls and their persona,
because it's not who they trulyare.
They just want it for their funweekends taking pictures and
being.

Speaker 3 (41:11):
I've been in so many country concerts.
I've seen so many white boots.
It's just over.

Speaker 1 (41:15):
It's done.

Speaker 2 (41:17):
So here's what I'm going to get back to the whole
world is there's nothingauthentic in a lot of the people
today, like they're not reallythemselves.
They're not authentic people,it's all bullshit.

Speaker 1 (41:31):
Yeah, and I have to say one thing I do love about
TikTok and I've been posting alot more on TikTok and we are
working on our own TikTokpersonas, by the way you can
follow all of us.

Speaker 3 (41:42):
That's basically Blaine telling us to do that.

Speaker 1 (41:45):
Well, I've started my little Blaine bitches segment,
which I've actually reallyenjoyed doing, and he's up to
three followers.
Which I have way more than that,thank you, but it you know I
had that thing go viral aboutOprah that I bitched about.
But you know, I think actuallyone of the things I love about
TikTok I'm a huge fan of TikTokand I think part of it, like, my

(42:08):
influencer refused to do TikTokbecause funny story he actually
was terrible on video, hisvoice was not good and so he
didn't like to do TikTok becauseof that and because he was so
used to photos and I think we'recoming into a point where
people are just being more realEdit the photos.
Yeah, you can edit the photosand you can't edit the videos.

Speaker 3 (42:28):
It's very still, but when you're in a video it's very
raw, raw and real Like this.
I know we're putting ourselvesout there.

Speaker 2 (42:37):
And I think that this also goes to another part of
this, of when people that are inthose you know facade and
they're when they come toactually be live with people, I
think they can't handle it.
Like, there's a lot of peopleon Instagram who have you, I do
better in person than I do onany social media ship, because I

(42:58):
like, well, I don't care.
When I don't have the energy ofthe, I just don't give it, I
don't care, I don't care aboutit, like I don't care what
people think about my life, butin like face to face, I think
there's a lot of people thatfall short of that and they're
like, ooh, how do I, how do Iactually engage when I've never

(43:19):
engaged in my life?
How do I sit down and have aconversation, an intelligent
conversation coming from thewords, my own of the group?
How do I have an intelligentconversation with other people
around me?

Speaker 1 (43:30):
Funny story Everybody in our group chat calls Adam
Rosen Island because he's sodumb.

Speaker 2 (43:36):
It's not that I'm dumb, it's because I also.
I can be off that chat forthree hours and I look at how
many and I look and there's 700messages and I go give me the
cliff notes.
What the hell's going on.

Speaker 3 (43:52):
And I love getting either you or Ronald gives a
good summary.

Speaker 2 (43:56):
So this is another thing.
You guys all know this I don'tlike the text.
I rather call you.
I don't want to text, I want tocall you.
I'm like what's going on?
What's happening?
What do I need to do?
What's this so anyway?
So back to the topic.
It's I think a lot of peopleare going to fall short in this
later in their life becausethey're putting everything,
they're putting all their editedstuff on social media and

(44:18):
they're not going to know how tointeract with people and give
the true you know their own trueself.

Speaker 1 (44:23):
Well, I hate Mark Zuckerberg more than anything.
I think Instagram is a bigfailure.
It's a big flop.

Speaker 2 (44:27):
Facebook owns.

Speaker 1 (44:29):
Instagram, boo Boo, whatsapp as well.
Oh really, yeah, wow, this isan Adam learning moment.
Yeah, so Mark Zuckerberg is oneof the most evil people in the
world, in my opinion.
So, yeah, I'm really rootingfor his failure and for its
downfall and I'm really glad.
But I think TikTok, you know,really helps you like get to

(44:52):
know new people, and that's whyI'm really engaged in the
platform.
We'll be pushing out a ton ofnew content on it on our
personal ones and Coffee withGays as well.
On TikTok, we're going to comeup with many series and we're
also doing YouTube shorts, whichis also a video.
Yeah, you don't know yet, butwe're going to be leaning into
YouTube shorts.
We are just leaning to this.

(45:13):
So both Adam and Ryan will joinme in doing YouTube shorts on
our YouTube channel at Coffeewith Gays.
Yeah, so subscribe to ourYouTube channel Five cents an
hour.
Here we go.
It's actually really fun andI've got to say I have noticed
this and it's funny aboutputting yourself out there in
life.
The people on TikTok are likesuper nice and I feel like

(45:36):
really like supportive andengaging not always, but
sometimes.
But the people on YouTube arefucking harsh.
I mean, they are wild.

Speaker 2 (45:48):
Check our comments below.

Speaker 1 (45:50):
Yeah, the comments.
I love it.
A good comment section.

Speaker 2 (45:54):
I get into some serious comment like so so, so
let me also go off on this onetoo.
This is funny because, you see,this is another thing of like
edited and BS stuff on Instagram.
You will see a lot of TikToksand Instagram that will post
things that are not true just tofire up the audience to get

(46:17):
comments.
Did you ever notice that Are?

Speaker 3 (46:20):
we going to tell about Reba again?
We're not talking about Rebaagain, are we?
Or fake birthday?

Speaker 2 (46:27):
We did that last time we did that last episode.

Speaker 1 (46:33):
Ew, gross.
I mean it's gross, but kind ofhot.
Well, okay, I mean anythingelse to add on this one?
No.
I think, you know I got to sayI do feel like I'm going to
close this one out by sayingI've had probably my biggest
traveler yet and I've been allover the Caribbean, I've been to

(46:56):
Europe, I've been to SouthAfrica, which is all across the
world.
Yes, Never seen a photo of thatI mean you've seen it in our
group chat, but you haven'tactually seen it really on
social media because I reallynever posted anything.
I think at the time I just likereally was just living in the
moment and I think we should alljust like encourage everybody
to live in the moment.
And I have those pictures and Ikeep saying to myself like I'm

(47:20):
going to like post these, butI'm working on projects like
this and you know my agency, solike it just hasn't been a
priority for me.
Maybe someday I'll get thosephotos up, but I just don't care
that much.
As I used to, I used to have topost every time in the moment.
But I really want to say like Iactually just really just
enjoyed those trips and it wasreally honestly the best

(47:41):
memories of my life.
And my grandfather is 90 yearsold and I just got to spend some
time with him after an accidentand he said this thing to me
where he was like you know,grandson, I've lived a really
great life.
And he and I said you know,grandfather, you're like
seriously a lot of people can'tsay that and he's had a lot of
great experiences and a lot ofgreat things and I think that's

(48:02):
what we can all hope for at theend of life.
You know like that's what Ihope for.

Speaker 2 (48:06):
As the most amazing woman in the world ever said to
thine own self.

Speaker 1 (48:10):
be true, so cheers to that Cheers to that, to thine
own self be true.

Speaker 2 (48:16):
Cheers.

Speaker 1 (48:18):
Cheers Too far away for a cheers.
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