S1 Ep 5 | Love Takes Flight: The Unforgettable Proposal feat. Ryan and Bradley | Coffee With Gays Podcast 💍🚁💥 - Coffee with Gays™: Every Sip Is A Story

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This bachelorette's the gay bars.
They really pissed me off.

Speaker 2 (00:03):
You, freaking, open your mouth and Prada comes out,
and so I'm between Bargain.

Speaker 3 (00:07):
Bradley and my mate.

Speaker 2 (00:14):
Welcome to Coffee with Gays.
I am Adam, this is Ryan,bradley is our special guest
today and our host is Blaine.

Speaker 1 (00:23):
Thanks.
So I mean to kick it off today.
I have to say this will beepisode five and it is all about
our amazing friends Ryan andBrad and their incredible
proposal, which is quitepossibly the most hysterical
thing I've ever seen, as well asone of the cutest things I've
ever seen, and we'll definitelybe posting that footage.

(00:45):
But also I just wanted to kindof like open it up and say
because we like to do a littleteaser now and a little game and
I'd like to say what's ourfavorite feedback that we've
gotten on the show, because, assomebody who's been very
involved in this project, I haveto say I've done a lot of
things in my life and I've neverquite taken on something this

(01:06):
difficult.
And for anybody that thinks thepodcast is easy to do, you know
what?
Come try it.
I'll listen to yours and I'llgive you feedback too.
But I've actually been enjoyingall the feedback and I just
kind of wanted to like open thefloor about what your favorite
piece of feedback we've gottenso far, because it has been
extensive.

Speaker 3 (01:22):
I learned that I got to speak up between these two,
but it's been very good lessonbecause it's something that.
I've been working on in general, I think even before the
podcast.
I'm loving it because it's beenreally helping me expand that
I'm very happy because you'vegot it going on for 20 minutes,
so you got that feedback.

Speaker 1 (01:41):
Yeah, that's edited down, by the way, it's a lot.
It's a lot.
I've had to spend a lot of mynights editing you down, but
that's OK.
I want to bring up one.
We just did the woke up episode, which we knew was going to be
controversial, and we are kindof sitting in our like.
We have a left person here I'ma centrist, I like to think and

(02:01):
Adam leans to the right.
And it's hysterical because,ryan, what was the feedback you
got on this episode?

Speaker 3 (02:07):
That he kind of gotten through the episode.
I wasn't here.

Speaker 1 (02:11):
Yes, and then you got .

Speaker 2 (02:12):
Somebody did say they were like oh my gosh, we see
your point of view and it's niceto have somebody that's direct
and on point with it.

Speaker 1 (02:19):
I think what we are striving to do is really explain
.
And funny thing, I was at mygrandfather's 90th birthday
party last week, right before wewent to Homo Sasa, and I got
more feedback from my family.
There was over 100 people there, including cousins, and I
didn't know how many people hadlistened to us from that.

(02:40):
Yeah, and I got a lot offeedback and it was all good.
But I think one of the mostinteresting things that I got is
a lot of my family is fromTexas and Oklahoma and they're
just not used to being aroundgay people a lot and they were
shocked that there is actuallymultiple different perspectives
on the world and from the gaypoint of view and I think that's

(03:02):
what we're here to do is give abalanced view of it.

Speaker 2 (03:04):
And for everybody that's listening.
There is multiple ways to hearus.
You can listen to us on YouTube.
There is Spotify, there isApple Podcast, there is Homo Up.

Speaker 1 (03:14):
I mean, there's literally every podcast platform
.
Iheartradio is another one.
Apple is great and we love areview too.

Speaker 2 (03:20):
We are bona fide yeah .

Speaker 1 (03:23):
I mean, it's been great to see those roll in and
we want feedback from everybodyelse, because maybe you're too
afraid to text us.
I have to say, one of thethings that you do have to have
is a thick skin, and I welcomeany and all feedback, because I
know I'm not perfect and thisstarted as just a hobby and fun
thing to do with our bestfriends.
That wasn't drinking at thebars even though I'm drinking

(03:45):
right now, ryan isn't but, yeah,we want to hear all your
feedback from what you'd like tohear and what you'd like us to
do differently.
And it's OK if you are harsh,we are fine with that.

Speaker 2 (03:56):
I'm just going to say that now I have to tell
everybody that We've had a lotof people give us feedback and
the nice part about it is thefunny thing is everybody starts
off.
I hope you don't get upset andI'm like just lay it out, like
just tell us, because withoutfeedback we can't get better, we
can't get any better.
So if you have any feedbackabout Blaine and Ryan not me we

(04:17):
are good to handle.

Speaker 1 (04:19):
I have to say, yeah, we've gotten some pretty harsh
feedback and I think, like yousaid, we're just growing and
learning here ourselves and itis definitely a journey which
has been really fun.

Speaker 3 (04:31):
And if they want to send me.
We want the comments, reviews,but if someone wants to email,
Do tell at coffeewithgayscom.

Speaker 1 (04:38):
I thought that was a fun little email.

Speaker 2 (04:40):
Or if you have a good topic that you would like for
us to cover, drop it in thecomments or send us an email.

Speaker 1 (04:47):
And I've got to say too, just so everybody knows,
I've learned my lesson.
I've edited this for the videopart of this for YouTube, which
we would love you to subscribeto our YouTube and channel,
which that has been a whole newplatform that I have to learn
and I didn't realize I may haveblew out the speakers on the
people listening on ApplePodcast, which is actually
pretty high, and I apologize forthat.

(05:08):
I was just trying to show thedifference between Pride Parade
in 2023 versus 2018.
It was definitely last year, Ican tell you that.
So heard, understood and willbe fixed in future.
Welcome, Bradley.
We are so excited to have Areyou nervous a little bit?

Speaker 4 (05:29):
So this is my first podcast.

Speaker 1 (05:32):
Your first podcast and your now-fiance, ryan, is
the content creator of therelationship and you have your
TikTok, which is what Ride WithRyan and Bradley and I hear that
it's really fun that he forcesyou to do all these different
little things that you do.

(05:52):
I mean, I forced you to dothings in homeless asset, like
that little Pride choke on itthing.

Speaker 4 (05:59):
We're telling you we're going to give in the
direction.

Speaker 1 (06:01):
So now we're here trying to make you more
uncomfortable.
It's really cute though hesmiles so cute though when he
does it, it's great, I love it.
Tell us a little bit how youguys met because, ironically, I
happened to know because I wasthere that day and we had talked
about your gay handshake momentand yeah, with Adam, I mean
that's where it started Mother.

Speaker 2 (06:22):
please turn off the.

Speaker 3 (06:25):
I picked my mom up from the airport a couple of
weeks ago.
And first thing she says when Ithrow up at the curb is Ryan.
No more gay handshakes.

Speaker 2 (06:35):
So for anybody who doesn't know what a gay
handshake is, basically whatI've been told is I'm a one
night stand, Diane, andfornication happens and it's a
one time.
So that's the gay handshake ofmy life.

Speaker 1 (06:49):
Gay handshake and you guys had just had a gay
handshake.

Speaker 2 (06:52):
So we had a gay handshake.

Speaker 3 (06:53):
That's how we had this early last summer A group
of us was at brunch, house downhouse sitting, kind of south
Dallas Bish of Arts area.
I was meeting the accountantand some others.

Speaker 1 (07:06):
It turned into like we've talked about our brunches
in Dallas turned into big events.
So it kind of does.

Speaker 3 (07:12):
It was this week.
We were there, and then youwere there, and then Bradley was
there.

Speaker 4 (07:16):
I came to that brunch with Adam yeah, oh, you guys
had actually met on the Thursdaybefore that after Adam took me
to the log cabin Republicanevent.
The membership that he boughtme to get in there is probably

(07:37):
expired now, because I thinkit's only good for a year, right
.

Speaker 2 (07:40):
That was the funny thing.
So I took Brad to the log cabinRepublicans and I was like Brad
, here's some drinks, we'regoing to sign you up.
And he's like I'm not buying amembership.
And I was like, no, I bought itfor you.
Here you go.
And he was like damn it.

Speaker 1 (07:51):
I have to say that is one great thing about Brad that
I have learned this year.
We actually lovingly refer toyou for everybody who doesn't
know, because I literally thinkwe say this all the time he is
bargain Bradley and he has thebest deals out there, including
making people pay formemberships, because he
definitely won't be doing that,and I've learned to have my

(08:15):
tequila bladders with me everysingle weekend when we go do our
Sunday Sundays, and it saved mea ton of money.
I might actually be richsomeday because of it.

Speaker 3 (08:24):
Tequila bladders, basically, were just referring
to a flask.
The flask, it looks like aCapri Sun.

Speaker 1 (08:30):
Easier to transport for anyone that doesn't know.
Actually, what I will do is Iwill link it in the show notes
about what these are, becausethey are really great and they
mold to your pocket.
It's really nice, so I'll linkit.
We're doing this in brandtequila oh my god, yeah, they're
the famous bargain Bradleybladder for bringing your

(08:51):
tequila and saving money andjust topping off that Bloody
Mary when it's too soupy.
So, speaking of brunch, youguys met at brunch that day, but
that's not where it all kind ofstarted, so continue.

Speaker 4 (09:02):
So I waited approximately a week and a half
until things were completelyover with Adam and he was
already on to the next guy, notme.
And then, on a Sunday fund day,I saw Ryan at JR's, which is a
gay bar here in Dallas, and IFacebooked him my number, gave

(09:23):
him a message with my number.
He was texting me shortly after.

Speaker 1 (09:28):
Was it love at first sight?
I have to ask.
First of all, I am the.
I really just not.
I'm hopeless.
Romantic I am, but not really.
I'm actually more of a cynicwhen it comes to this.
So don't think I'm coming foryou, bargain Bradley.
But was it love at first sightat that brunch?

Speaker 4 (09:43):
Can't honestly say it was.
I definitely liked his energy.
He was wearing earrings thatday, which he never really wears
normally, but that's not mystyle personally.
No offense to anyone who likesto wear their earrings, but no,
I didn't immediately know atthat moment like I thought he
might be like a little bit overthe top for me it's not over the

(10:03):
top.
Our friend Michelle threw apool party, or actually, no,
that was Shannon's pool party atthe first one, shannon's
birthday party.
Our friend Shannon, thatapartment no, it was at the
house that she rented for herbirthday.
I feel like we connected alittle bit there.
And then definitely we bothwere in Austin for Splash,

(10:24):
memorial Day Splash.
Last year.
Splash happens at Lake Travisin Austin, say, clothing
optional state park calledHippie Hollow.
Normally, normally the statepark are your traditional
nudists, not necessarily gays,just people who enjoy being nude

(10:45):
.
Most of them you would prefernot to see nude.

Speaker 2 (10:48):
The new beach there by San Diego.
That's like off a cliff.
You got a hike down a cliff.
What is that?
Black Beach, yeah, black Beach,yeah, black Beach.
You got a hike down a cliff andit's like well, no wonder why
it's nude down there.
There's nobody.
It's going to be like against,it's going to be hiking down
there.
I'm like come on.

Speaker 1 (11:04):
So you guys went to Splash and it's a giant like
naked festival where you guysnaked together and who liked
who's dick more?

Speaker 4 (11:13):
So we actually weren't naked to Splash Most
people most people aren't there,this one talking to you into
getting naked at the very end,and we were hanging out on one
of those lily pads which is alarge phone float People carry
them behind their boat.
So we were naked for like 10minutes.

Speaker 1 (11:34):
I've got to say Ryan was definitely that child that
was just perpetually naked, likeI mean you have an aversion to
cloak for real.
I mean it's either a speedo,but you rock a speedo really
well, we actually.
What I will do is I will postin the video portion of this you

(11:55):
guys in your best speedomoments, because I think I have
a phone full of your speedo.

Speaker 2 (11:59):
Do we have a picture of you guys when you first were,
when you were as a right hippiehollow?
Oh, yes, there is.
Let's post that picture.

Speaker 3 (12:06):
So actually too, just to start like leading up to
hippie hollow.
So this was after you talkedabout.
You know, we met up at Shin'sbirthday party and then, you
know, I think there's a littleperiod between there we weren't
sure if I was kind of flaky orwhat was going on, and then I
heard you plan to go to hippiehollow for splash.

(12:28):
I knew that I was especiallyafter that whole party was
definitely like developed andyou know feelings and interest.
I mean, we were really on eachother at you know appropriate
way, at the whole party.
I mean, like you know, we werealready talking.

Speaker 2 (12:45):
Yeah, we were cousins it was already like saying that
we were together or somethinglike that.

Speaker 3 (12:50):
So that of course made it feel like I've gone a
little more.
But I was going down to splashseparately, so we weren't like
playing and meeting up downthere.

Speaker 1 (12:59):
But is that when you guys started like literally
never parting from each otherside?

Speaker 4 (13:04):
No Memorial Day.
We saw each other one more timebefore he went on AIDS Life
Cycle 2022.

Speaker 1 (13:11):
Oh, so you had a whole seven day break.
I must have been really hardfor you.

Speaker 4 (13:17):
And I picked him up from the airport when he got
back from that.

Speaker 1 (13:19):
Okay.
So we know how you two werelike.
Literally, you could not partthese people, these two guys
apart.
How are you like this whenyou're in a relationship?
Do you want to be together allthe time or do you like space?
I like space Girl, me too.

Speaker 2 (13:32):
With my boyfriend right now.
I love going home to him and Ilove having our nights together,
but during the day and it'swhat's kind of I think upsets
him is I don't text him a lotduring the day and I'm like I
don't want to, but we have verybusy jobs.
But I have had otherrelationships where they're like
you're not like talking to meall the time and I'm like who

(13:53):
does he actually have to do?

Speaker 1 (13:54):
I screwed up one of my biggest relationships over
that exact thing.
I was like look, I'm workingand I worked till this hour and
I can't text all day, and like Iforget to text and everybody
who spends with me knows that Ialways forget to text back I
mean, like you just have to textme, it's not like personal.

Speaker 2 (14:08):
Well, give me in the group chat.
So I'm like, give me the closenotes I got to know what the
hell's going on and give it tome in two sentences.

Speaker 1 (14:13):
Well, yeah, I am the same way.
I need like definite space.
You guys clearly don't, becauseI don't think I've ever seen
you guys apart in the last year.

Speaker 3 (14:23):
Yeah, we're together all the time, but I think we
still find well, maybe I'llspeak to myself, I'll find the
like.
We find our ways.
Even if we're in the same house, we'll listen to his crime
shows and say her college, maybeI need to do something else
somewhere else in the house.
We still find ways to like haveour own time or be in our own
space.

Speaker 1 (14:42):
A little bit, but it's a different yeah.

Speaker 3 (14:44):
So I think that's good and it's definitely been
like a learning.

Speaker 1 (14:47):
I mean, we've talked about some of your past
relationships Like, was this?
Like new, a new thing?
Like was Brad the one that waslike, oh my God, I can't be
apart from him?
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (14:58):
No, I think this is the first one.
It's like I ever felt that,like this, I think that good,
easy, comfortable, fun, like all, all like the things to be.

Speaker 1 (15:08):
That's actually a good, a good segue, so that
might be a reason that youactually want to spend the rest
of your life with him.
What about you?

Speaker 4 (15:15):
So so same reasons.
You know, fun, easy going.
But also I've always felt likeI needed space before, and this
is the first time that I don'tfeel a little bit claustrophobic
if I'm around him, you know,for a week straight with no, no
like outings by ourselves.

Speaker 2 (15:33):
Now I have been on some journeys of past
relationships with Bradley wherehe has been very frustrated
with his partners at those times.

Speaker 3 (15:42):
And.

Speaker 2 (15:42):
I remember Bradley being like when am I going to
meet somebody?
And I just delivered him to you.

Speaker 1 (15:50):
So, as a couple, what I've always loved about you
guys is you both like literallyhave to be together all the time
, and we had a super fun 4th ofJuly 2022, when you decided to
ask Brad to be your boyfriend,which pissed off some people on
the trap, who will remainnameless.
It ended in firework for real.

(16:13):
We almost burned down yourparents' house, you drugged your
dog by accident with a weedbrownie and, yeah, this all
happened in Homs, south ofFlorida.
Last year.

Speaker 3 (16:27):
We did a couple like actual dates and really started
getting close after Memorial Dayweekend and he had asked me out
to be his boyfriend the morningafter my birthday fool party
and I said I'm really, I'mreally leaving that way, but I
think I need a little more time.

Speaker 1 (16:46):
Ryan was dating somebody else-ish.
Were you dating?

Speaker 3 (16:50):
No, I was just like an interest.
I mean, maybe I don't know.

Speaker 1 (16:55):
How many people you date at once.
It's Ryan we're talking about.
I mean, this is old Ryan.

Speaker 3 (17:01):
He was like that early stage just met him right
after so, but he was coming atthe fool party and it already
expressed clearly not liking theidea of me and to Bradley.
And then I had this revelationwhere I was like fuck that, no,
like I want to invite this guyover, and I think I cut together

(17:21):
a really nice text and he endedup coming over to the full
party.

Speaker 1 (17:25):
And the other guy left and I got to keep Bradley.
So that was your birthday.

Speaker 3 (17:28):
That was the birthday .

Speaker 1 (17:30):
And then you're like I need, I need Bradley to come
to Homeless Nasset with me.

Speaker 3 (17:33):
So Homeless Nasset kind of built up, because it was
actually the frame that set offfireworks there was some, you
know, we started.
Basically, my mom and I was hey, we want to get out of town
before the Delilah, me and your,you know your dad, and so on.
So can you just, you know, comeout and watch the house and say
, mom, can I throw a rage?
And she's like, absolutely, ofcourse, that's how my mom is.

Speaker 1 (17:54):
So I started inviting people.
We've now all hung out withCindy and Cindy is the coolest
mom and I love nothing more.
I just have to say she tried tosteal my man.
She's in love now with Adam'sboyfriend.
She asked me every time I wascoming on the boat did her boobs

(18:14):
look good?
And I was like you have amazingboobs and she can rock a bikini
and she's really amazing.
So she asked you to come watchthe house.
Yeah, that didn't go so well.

Speaker 3 (18:26):
So into the padding you know, people approved one of
the the game where.
Bradley was part of this, so wehad a whole group and then we
decided let's go out for the dayfor more.
You know, drive about an hourand a half away to stop at home
with Sasa and just go hang outwith them at the screens at the
boat and stuff.
So that's how we ended up athome with Sasa last year.

Speaker 1 (18:48):
And then we went into Manatee Pub, which, I have to
tell you, this was an amazingexperience.
Last time they would not let usin the first time because they
thought we had booze in our TacoBell cups which we definitely
did and I, of course, grew a fitand I was like I was trying to
get cash and beers for myfriends Hopefully it's fine.

(19:10):
I was very aggressive and thenwhen we came back we didn't have
the shirts on because we gaveall the shirts to your mom's
friends.

Speaker 3 (19:19):
Because I love them.
It said USA of Gay.
Yeah, usa of Gay.

Speaker 1 (19:24):
We didn't make you wear one this year, adam.
Yes, we'll definitely put thepicture of that one too, because
those were great and they lovedus so much after that moment, I
mean.
Well, they said that we had towear shirts, and then a very
lovely lady gave me a shirt.

Speaker 2 (19:38):
Not the one that was working the pizza.
No, not her.

Speaker 1 (19:41):
Donna gave me this amazing shirt.
It's a pink crop top.
I should have more than ittoday.
Now that I think about it, it'sonly a crop top on Blaine.
Yeah, anyway, it's a very cuteshirt.
I looked cuter in it this yearthan I did last year, but it was
wild and we had a really goodtime.
But then you asked them on thepatio and your mom had something
to say.
You should tell them that.

Speaker 3 (20:01):
Yeah, Well, I mean, obviously I've been planning.
I think once he was, this wasnow 4th of July.

Speaker 2 (20:07):
I was already building up.

Speaker 3 (20:08):
I wanted to ask him and for me it was really
important to do that with myfriends there, so it was really
cool, I think, to do it that day, fun day with friends, and so
when I talked about telling mymom, I kind of wanted to ask him
out.

Speaker 2 (20:23):
She takes me outside the Manatee Club and she's like
but, now, you can't say thatyeah, I was like oh, it's extra,
just him.

Speaker 3 (20:32):
And we were like, okay, of course.

Speaker 2 (20:34):
No more gay hands.
So let me ask you this, RileyWere you surprised when he asked
you?

Speaker 4 (20:39):
I actually think I was.
I didn't think it was going tohappen that quickly, because
it's only been about two weeksprior that he said he needed a
minute.

Speaker 2 (20:47):
You turned him down two weeks prior.
And then what made you jump thegun so quick?

Speaker 3 (20:53):
Maybe it was the tequila.

Speaker 2 (20:56):
The tequila talking, and we know how that goes.

Speaker 1 (20:58):
I got to say it was a super cute moment to witness
and it was a really funenvironment.
I mean we were like dancing andpartying in that bar.
I mean we really had changed it.
So literally, these people invery right wing, almost ass of
Florida who probably haven'tever seen a gay person well,
actually we learned about allthe gay people in their lives,
by the way, which I thought it'sjust hysterical.

Speaker 2 (21:22):
This place is a dive, like it is.
They smoke in the bar.
It's a dive bar Like.
I walked in there this year andI was like fuck are we?

Speaker 1 (21:32):
As a former smoker, I literally cannot believe still
there is any place ever that hassmoking in the bar, and I
totally forgot.
In this year they did too.
It's wild, but we were dancing,singing like highway to hell
with them by the end of thenight I just chose the most
romantic location I could thinkof, and that's the place.

(21:54):
I'm definitely inserting thevideo of the highway to hell
because then I feel likeeverybody can you know and get
ready for it because it might beloud.
So turn down your car stereo,bradley, when you're listening
on Apple Podcast.
But yeah, I've got to say likeeverybody was like so accepting,

(22:22):
they were so excited that youguys were boyfriends, and then
they kept coming up to ustelling us about every gay
person in their lives, includingthe pizza lady, by the way, her
husband, who you did not meetbecause he was hospitalized,
apparently this year or about tobe.
He has a lesbian and two gaysons and also has 12 kids.

Speaker 2 (22:46):
If I remember right, he's got 12 kids.

Speaker 1 (22:49):
Are you really shocked.
You got a list into thetimeline and I really wish I was
a little more sober or hadwritten it down.
I went to Ryan and I saidtimeline on these 12 kids with
the baby mamas and then with thewoman he's with didn't have a
kid.
She also didn't have any teeth,but she didn't, and neither did
he, and they were so nice.

(23:10):
But we learned about all of hisgay kids.
And then I was like thetimeline is like really weird.
You must have had like threebaby mamas at the same time.
I mean really there was no wayto do these masks for how long
they had been together.
It was really shocking.

Speaker 2 (23:23):
Sounds like a gay relationship.

Speaker 1 (23:25):
So here, a year goes by, okay, and you still haven't
left his side.
Let's be honest.

Speaker 4 (23:32):
So it moved in together in January.

Speaker 1 (23:34):
I think the biggest problem in your relationship has
actually been the coffee withgays podcast.
I do you know how many timeswe've been here and Brad's like
well, gotta get Ryan back.

Speaker 2 (23:45):
I mean it's time.
Well, I mean, these things doyou take eight hours in a day.
So I can understand that,because people are not prepared.

Speaker 1 (23:54):
I'm sorry.
Who is late today, bitch?

Speaker 2 (23:56):
when we say late, I mean you were an hour late today
47 minutes late today I calledyou and let you know it's gonna
be an hour late and I saidplease have everything set up.
So when I walked in, I can sitdown and we can roll, but we are
not gonna be there, we're gonnamove over and, furthermore,
that's the relationship.

Speaker 1 (24:15):
Well, I know I said I wasn't gonna yell, but I have
to say we had to go over today'scontent so that we have a nice
organized flow and we're notjust going off the handle, which
is a lot of feedback we got onepisode one and two.
That's why this will be edited.
I'm done with Mrs Bailey thetalent.

Speaker 2 (24:35):
So a year later, you organized a trip back to home,
assassin.

Speaker 1 (24:40):
Basically, ryan came to me a few months prior.
I mean, you've really beenplanning this for a while.
I will say that's somethingthat's super cute about Ryan.
I think he's just such aplanner and everything that,
like, I really can't evenremember the first time.
Okay, you wouldn't think it.
Why, with this engagement, hehas been hemming and hawing over
this I think since January.

(25:01):
Would that be accurate?

Speaker 3 (25:03):
Even sooner, I think.
One thing that like now, youknow, like last summer there was
a lot of songs.
I'm not going to steal yoursong.

Speaker 1 (25:12):
If you guys steal my song, which will remain nameless
for my future husband, but Iwill bitch.
Nobody stealing my Christiansong.
That is my song.
Christian, I love you with.
No, you have a song.
No, you have a thousand countrysongs that you can have and you
got like what?

(25:32):
Like Reba McIntyre, you loveboth.
Love Reba McIntyre, huge fans.

Speaker 3 (25:38):
She's got a huge catalog, the point is that
summer last year home assassinstarted getting some songs
together and just very naturallyended up naming the playlist
wedding.
I was like you know what I'mjust going to like, let myself
name this.
I don't really know why, butwhatever you know, I'm going to
go with it and kind of startthis, kind of started adding to
that playlist and then ourrelationship kind of kept.

(26:01):
You started it.
Then I mean at least the songplaylist it's a little psychotic
Cause you're in like let'sstart it down.
Just saying it was feelingstowards that which was blowing
my mind, Cause, like I felt,like, can I accept that, you
know, like am.

Speaker 1 (26:17):
I ready.
I have to ask Brad, I have toask him did he share the
playlist with you and were youlike, okay with?

Speaker 4 (26:23):
it.
So I knew that he had aplaylist, but he did not tell me
what it was titled until just acouple months ago.

Speaker 1 (26:29):
Okay, cause I probably would have brought it.

Speaker 2 (26:32):
So I want to ask this did you guys have the marriage
talk Like previously?
Was it like a month ago, twomonths ago, like?
And who was like hey, if we dothis, I am proposing not you
Like?
How did that come up?

Speaker 1 (26:49):
This is great because I think, especially like the
straight listeners, are superconfused by how we date each
other and who asked the question.

Speaker 2 (26:58):
Well, it's not only who asked the question, but the
whole break out, because it'susually the man asked the female
.
So not calling you the female,brad, but how did that go down?

Speaker 1 (27:10):
I would actually say you're the butcher one too.
So how did it go?

Speaker 4 (27:13):
After the initial me asking him out and him not being
ready.
Yes, we've talked about it,probably since late in the
summer.
You know made mention of, youknow, getting married, more so
after the beginning of the year,after we were actually living
together.

Speaker 2 (27:30):
Now, are you two lesbians?
I thought I'll move fast, Damngirl.
I just backed you up anddropped the shirt up.

Speaker 1 (27:39):
Do you think we have to clarify this for people like?
There is a term you halllesbian?

Speaker 2 (27:43):
you hall lesbians and that's because you hall
lesbians.
God help us.
Any lesbians listen to this.

Speaker 1 (27:49):
No, they'll agree with you.
I actually had my bestgirlfriend that we went to Pride
with, as she is a you halllesbian, and she's like damn,
I'm a new lesbian and I'm a youhall lesbian.

Speaker 2 (27:59):
So what are you hall?
Lesbian is basically you meetsomebody and then you move right
in together and then next thingyou know you're getting married
Dogs cats, furniture,everything it sounds like my
relationship.
It sounds like yourrelationship.

Speaker 1 (28:13):
It was definitely your relationship, so are you a
lesbian?

Speaker 4 (28:17):
No, I wouldn't say that we still.
I mean, we stayed togethermostly, but we lived separately
for more than six months, orabout six months.

Speaker 3 (28:25):
Are you really separate?

Speaker 1 (28:29):
I distinctly remember you had your condo, which is in
our gay neighborhood and Ryan'shouse is a little further out.

Speaker 4 (28:36):
We maintained our own places to go back to if we
should want to, did you?

Speaker 2 (28:42):
So instead of you hall lesbians, they're the
several lesbians.

Speaker 1 (28:45):
Zero lesbians.
They just went between theirtwo homes.

Speaker 2 (28:49):
But that's awesome that you can do that, because
then that means that you two arevery well connected.
So that's amazing.

Speaker 1 (28:55):
I could never say that much from one person.

Speaker 2 (28:58):
Well, nobody could stand still and living with you
24-7.

Speaker 1 (29:02):
I got to say I was really happy to spend so much
time with Matt and homeless assaand I give that boy a lot of
credit for dealing with youevery single day.
And, if you can, find someoneif you can find someone, then I
definitely can.
There's hope because thatwaving thing, your stuff, I just

(29:25):
I couldn't the loudness I meanwow.

Speaker 2 (29:28):
That is the pot calling the kettle black with
the loudness.

Speaker 1 (29:32):
Cleans the kitchen, helps you cook.
He doesn't say anything likemean and all.
He's just like really justsuper helpful and sweet.
So if you can find it, I cantoo.
I told him if you, because youfound an angel.

Speaker 2 (29:44):
I told him if you keep it together, I give him 500
bucks.

Speaker 1 (29:47):
Well, 500 bucks, 500 bucks an hour, that's what I say
for you.

Speaker 3 (29:52):
We know, if you get your heaven, who's coming after
it.

Speaker 1 (29:55):
Your mom.
Yeah, he's already got a secondin line, cindy.
Cindy's coming for Matt.
Like you've got a competitiongirl, you better treat him right
.

Speaker 2 (30:04):
And if it ain't Matt then it might be Mike, so go out
.

Speaker 1 (30:07):
Yeah, Mike, your dad likes him too.

Speaker 3 (30:10):
He's the most flame-point one out of this
group, really.

Speaker 1 (30:14):
I mean, I got your dad saying gr.

Speaker 3 (30:17):
I know, but.

Speaker 1 (30:19):
I got his dad saying gr.
Like literally the straightest,most Florida man you can meet
is saying gr now and he wore aSpeedo.
And he wore a Speedo, which wasreally, really amazing.

Speaker 2 (30:31):
We all jumped on a flight, went to home, assassin.

Speaker 1 (30:35):
I got to back it up just a little bit.
There were two engagement times.
We had AIDS Life Cycle and wehad home assassin.
Florida and Ryan could notdecide when it was.
Did you think it was going tobe an AIDS Life Cycle, Brad?
I thought there was a chance.
I mean seven days in a tentwith someone.
You should know that.

Speaker 4 (30:52):
I mean, we hadn't hit our official one year yet, so I
wasn't completely surprisedwhen it didn't.
But that was one of the optionsthat I kind of had in the back
of my mind.

Speaker 2 (31:03):
Now, were you in small state and couldn't pitch a
tent when you were on the AIDSLife Cycle, or did you have to
have somebody else help you?

Speaker 1 (31:09):
I still don't understand that.
By the way, like just theshowers, it's just something
like oh no, I couldn't do it.
I couldn't.
Oh, it's in the sweat, maybeit's actually kind of hot.
It is Really, brad, you like todo.

Speaker 4 (31:20):
Actually, I got to say so everything was really
easy, besides the biking.

Speaker 1 (31:24):
Seven days biking 800 , 600 miles with like 587 or
whatever the hell the line is.
But I mean you must know then.

Speaker 3 (31:33):
And then you did kind of know I'm not going to lie, I
feel like it was a bit of a.
It was a test, right.
We're going to see like howwe're going to be together
biking together 545 miles, and Imean he never really biked
before, Early on he got thespike.
He did hardly any trainingrides.

Speaker 4 (31:51):
And he showed up and killed it and it was amazing.

Speaker 3 (31:54):
So we didn't kill each other.

Speaker 1 (31:55):
We were like the opposite of that.
I think you need to explain toothat, like people train for
this for six, seven months and Iam now an honorary Funky Monkey
Rody, I guess, since I've nowbeen to two of these- that's his
group, that he bikes with soFunky Monkeys.
We love you.
They're also supportive too, bythe way.
Hey, rody, I am, I'm a Rody, Idon't want to do it, I am a

(32:17):
crony.
I set up charcuterie at the endof the ride and have a little
go.
Oh, you can do it there, butyou can't do it here.
Not for you.
The Funky Monkeys all day long.
Yeah, they're not hangary,they're not rude, they're like
actually really nice when I showup with charcuterie, but
whatever, you just bitch aboutit.
And so, anyway, after that, youdefinitely were like I'm ready,

(32:41):
I'm ready, we're going to dothis in Homosassa.
La was definitely not probablythe right vibe for it.
Obviously, you guys had justgotten back.
So then I thought it was supercute.
And then I got super excitedabout Homosassa because I knew
it was probably happening.
But you still have reservations.

Speaker 3 (32:55):
Oh, we're going to smell some tea.
I mean it's life cycle likemaybe come like our thing or
maybe my thing, whatever, butlike that was a great event and
I think there's also a part ofme that I'm going to speak up
for Brad here.

Speaker 1 (33:09):
It's going to be your thing.
I don't think Brad's idea offun is seven days of the bike
ride.

Speaker 4 (33:15):
I mean, you guys did train like not seven days every
year, but I would definitely doit with them again, and when I
do it again, I want to take anewbie along with us as well.
So one of you decide.

Speaker 1 (33:27):
I'm going to do it.
I said I'd do it in 20.
What are you doing?
2025?
I'll do it.
I'm terrified to bike on thoseroads, but it's fine, I'll do it
.

Speaker 2 (33:36):
I'll do it.
It's a low bed.

Speaker 1 (33:38):
Yeah, you'll be taking the bus all time, for
sure.
Actually, how about you and Ido it together and then I'll
take the bus?

Speaker 4 (33:46):
And they have so many snacks.

Speaker 2 (33:47):
She would love it, I'd have a little blood sugar in
the mouth.
No, it was one on one, I'd bedead.

Speaker 1 (33:52):
Can you imagine his sugars on that ride?
It did the crash in the wholetime.
This diabetes over here.

Speaker 3 (33:58):
I'm a king of crashing.

Speaker 1 (34:01):
I'm a king of crashing.
Let's talk about the proposal.
So you've been planning it fora long time, for real, but you
really did not have the bestplan.
How did you have to admit?

Speaker 3 (34:12):
it.
I feel like you're right, Ifeel like you'd kind of been on
my mind but honestly, the planwasn't really a plan until very
last minute.

Speaker 1 (34:18):
So you had the wedding play let's, but no
proposal plan.

Speaker 2 (34:22):
Yes, you can say that Told you it's good shooting.

Speaker 1 (34:26):
Tell everyone.
Actually, I thought it wasreally cute.
I have to say, as theoverbearing Christianer, mom and
gender of this crew, I was likeRyan, what is your plan?
Like what?
How are you going to propose?
Like, where are we doing this?
We need to have five cameraangles, which, by the way, even
very handy, I have to say.

Speaker 2 (34:45):
And if you haven't seen the footage, you may want
to watch it because it's quitehysterical with what happens we
are going to propose to it forsure.

Speaker 1 (34:53):
So about a week before you finally got it all
together.

Speaker 2 (34:56):
Well, we were.
It was the last podcast that wedid remember and we were
talking about, you know, becauseI had asked, because you guys
told me you better be there forhome assassin, and I was like
why?

Speaker 1 (35:08):
You tried to like back out.
I was going to murder you.

Speaker 2 (35:14):
I wasn't putting too much together and I wasn't
thinking about it.
And then I remember Ryan.
Ryan was like you need to bethere, you need to be there.
And I was like, oh, I thinkthis is happening.
So then we talked at the lastpodcast and I was like is this
going to be the proposal?
And you were like yes, and Iwas like how are you going to do
it?
And you were like I don't know.

Speaker 1 (35:34):
I think we need to talk about this quick and then
fast forward.
The funny thing is, when I waslike grilling him about this, I
think on a Sunday, sunday, he'slike oh, I bought this show, I
bought blood and did this and Iwas like, wow, you got that
together really quick Becauseyou didn't have a plan.
And I've been waiting now forAIDS Life Cycle on the
Homostaster, which I almostcanceled in June, and I'm like,

(35:55):
when is this happening?

Speaker 3 (35:57):
Yeah, homelessness.
So, like you said, you know,like Nobody knows that.

Speaker 1 (36:00):
Homelessness is scallop capitalist.

Speaker 3 (36:02):
Scalloping scallops is the capital of the world,
although we didn't find anyactual scallops, but I'm going
to differ.

Speaker 1 (36:11):
Okay, this is a very Florida or Texas thing where
everything is the capital of theworld.
I mean literally my grandpa'stown, carthage, texas, is like
the best small titty.
You know, titty titty, the bestsmall titty in the world.
And I definitely disagree.
Like Carthage Texas.

Speaker 2 (36:30):
The best little whorehouse in Texas.

Speaker 1 (36:32):
Yeah, and in Homelessness I allegedly is a
scallop capitalist.
I have a very good friend whosefamily does scalloping and
outside of New Jersey To helppeople understand what
scalloping is basically.

Speaker 3 (36:44):
we're going out in the Gulf with my mom and dad's
boat and we had the circle gearand the idea was you're going
out maybe like three to six footdeep water.

Speaker 2 (36:54):
You kind of go out of your snorkeling and you're
looking for these scallops.

Speaker 3 (36:57):
You go down and you catch them.
So I got the idea.
I think, once it really startedcoming together, it's going to
be Homelessness and the idea ofdoing it while scalloping.
So we're getting all thesescallops and I thought oh,
there's going to be one in theyou know I'll get put the
special one in the bucket.

Speaker 1 (37:13):
With all the scallops that we were supposed to get
With all these scallops.

Speaker 3 (37:17):
And there's going to be that one special scallop and
I'll be like oh my.
God Bradley, look at this one.

Speaker 1 (37:21):
Let's talk about why we didn't find a scallop.
I have a beef with Mike that wehave to talk about.
We'll make him a listener, buthe didn't keep, like driving
through the cupcake island.
First of all, anybody from theSouth knows you always get weird
directions when you go anywhere.

Speaker 2 (37:40):
Mile marker four go after the bird's nest To the
right we couldn't find thebird's nest.
And then look to the right andthere's an island that looks
like a cupcake.
We look to the right and it'sjust a whole bunch of fucking
islands.
And I'm going that not onelooked like a cupcake.
And I go well, that was thething is.
I'm like, okay, well, who wantsto say what one looks like a

(38:02):
cupcake?
Because I ain't doing that,because I'm going to get in
trouble.

Speaker 1 (38:05):
I picked one, but clearly your dad was just like.
I'm done with this.

Speaker 3 (38:10):
You haven't sure.

Speaker 1 (38:12):
He's like we're just dropping anchor here and I was
like, okay, cool.
And then I decided to get inthe water.
I was like, oh, I was like it's10 feet down.
It's only four foot and I'mlike it's deeper than that
Because the grass is so longhere and it literally like I was
like dying swimming down withthe scuba gear right, and I
tried for a very long timebecause I'm like we are going to

(38:34):
make this proposal happen.

Speaker 2 (38:35):
We are Ryan Watt.
We have to back up a little bit.
So I flew my drone down fromMaryland for this specifically.
Well, I shipped it.
I shipped it.

Speaker 1 (38:48):
So and this is the first time that I was flying
this you know what I'm going tosay that's one, because I have
to say, like this one's sittinghere doesn't know what to do and
we're like we have to get allthe camera angles, we have to
have something edited.
It's a beautiful video, like afull proposal.

Speaker 2 (39:04):
So we shipped.

Speaker 1 (39:05):
I shipped the drone down, got it to Hermos, asma
charged it up, we got on theboat Ryan starts circling for I
was circling, first trying tofind all these damn scallops and
I'm like there's no scallops,and then Mike is just clearly
not going to move the boat.
But between me being in therewith this plan and setting up

(39:25):
three camera angles that I hadbrought, and tripods, by the way
, I brought all of our gear andyou had the drone I get out of
the water and then Ryan, it's inthe water.

Speaker 2 (39:35):
There was no plan, okay, but there was a code word.
So let me let me first startoff with that.
So we we had 30 minutes withthis drone to fly it into the
air and at 30 minutes the droneis done.
So we launched the drone at ata point in the golf and it took

(39:57):
off.

Speaker 1 (39:58):
So, ryan, told you to mind the time when we were back
at the house and because thedrone only has 30 minutes.

Speaker 2 (40:07):
I already launched it Because I thought I thought we
were going for it.

Speaker 1 (40:10):
Anyway, Ryan gets in the water.
We have no clue, we had no codeword.
And then I just hear him like,well, we got to do this and
Ryan's in the water, just floddydoddy and I'm going, we got to
do this.

Speaker 2 (40:26):
And then next thing, you know, the alarm of the drone
starts going off and it's likebeater, beater.

Speaker 1 (40:33):
In the video, you can hear it.
And it is so loud.

Speaker 2 (40:35):
I am sweating, going, oh shit, not only is this
battery going to die, but can Iland this back on the boat?
And I'm like, oh my God, isthis going to work?
So I am flying it.
I am, I am stressed, I amnervous and I'm like we got to
do this.
And then you hear Blaine.

(40:56):
He's like why am I ready yet?
We can't do it right now?
And I'm like what?
And he's pulling up Drive onall these phone, 35 cameras,
some center from 20 years.
I'm like what the fuck are youdoing?
Get the cameras and let's rollwith this.
And then Matt starts goingright, we got to go.

(41:17):
So then Brad swims in and getsup on the ledge and I'm like,
all right, we got to go thisone's coming back.

Speaker 1 (41:25):
Finally, I'm trying to get the tripod down because
nobody gave me the code word.
I mean, it was literally likethat and you were just sitting
there like this, do your thing.

Speaker 4 (41:33):
To be fair, you were filming something the whole
weekend before that, so I reallydidn't think that much into it.

Speaker 2 (41:38):
Whenever you're getting a tripod out, so
literally, you have Brad gettingonto the boat, you have Ryan
out in the water, you've gotMatt and Blaine ruffling around
trying to get shit together.
I've got this dam remote goingand I'm sweating going.
Fuck, this thing's gonna crashand I'm like it's gonna crash in

(42:01):
the golf.
So Ryan starts swimming back up.
Brad sits there and decides I'mgonna get back in the water and
I'm like don't get in the water, don't get in the water.
And I'm like, oh my God, Ican't do this, like I can't do
this.
And then Brad gets back out ofthe water and Ryan comes up and
I have to run to the front ofthe boat because I'm going shit,

(42:23):
this guy, dan Jones, gonna landin the golf because it was
trying to find it home.
We had moved on so that was thething is it kept saying
Returning to home, whichreturning to home was about a
mile and a half away, and itwould just launch its ass as
fast as it could to get back,because I was down to like 6%

(42:43):
battery and I am sweating going.
I've got this damn $1400 dronethat's going to land a mile and
a half way and I don't even havethe footage.

Speaker 1 (42:52):
You know, what's funny about this is you actually
told me even though I'veactually flown Jones before, you
said I Play the drone becauseit would land in the ocean.

Speaker 2 (43:02):
I said you will crash my drone into the ocean.

Speaker 1 (43:04):
You're not flying my drone and I said how do you know
you're not gonna crash in theocean?

Speaker 2 (43:08):
and I said I won't so today.

Speaker 3 (43:10):
So Ryan, there's one and gets in the boat and if you
watch the video, yeah, it's likesome chill tropical house music
playing.
We're like getting togethergirl so got on the boat and then
said Found the only the onescallop that I need to find, the
only one that matters, andthat's when I pulled out the.

Speaker 1 (43:32):
It was a very good line, because I was freaking out
that we hadn't bought scallops.

Speaker 2 (43:36):
Matt, matt talked about Matt, talked about you
this I'm just gonna buy scallopsand put them in a fucking
bucket.

Speaker 1 (43:40):
We were gonna do that and I was like, oh my god, I
didn't think we actually needscallops, but that was a very
good line.

Speaker 2 (43:46):
Let's give the two parts of that.
So, while Ryan is Slowlytalking about his love for
Bradley in the most slow waythat he possibly, can?

Speaker 3 (43:55):
I was intentionally slow because I was like, wait,
I'm supposed to take my time forthis.
We're getting like the idea ofit, like I didn't want to go too
fast.
And I didn't maybe find yourealize just how slow I was
going.

Speaker 1 (44:07):
Brad, did you realize how slow Ryan was going?

Speaker 4 (44:10):
I thought he was just trying to think about his words
.

Speaker 2 (44:13):
Oh honey, while he was thinking about his words, me
and Mike are at the front ofthe boat trying to catch a
fucking bird.

Speaker 1 (44:17):
Really were they ran to the front I was filming and I
was sitting there like Ryan,fucking say it Now because we
had talked a lot about yourspeed, which you had written out
, yes, and you didn't use itpart of it, like in the moment
were you completely nervous.
I tell yeah.
I mean I think that was as anobserver.

(44:39):
For me that was the cutest part, because I think Ryan is such a
confident, like you know, he'sreally never nervous about
anything you could literallytell he was so nervous, which is
the cutest thing, whichprobably only Bradley could do,
and where, you know Bradley, Ithink just that they're smiling
like that felt a little bit.

Speaker 4 (44:57):
I was a little bit nervous once I knew what was
happening speaking of nervouspeople in that book While
they're proposing.

Speaker 2 (45:06):
The damn drone launched out to go return to
home and I was Fighting it withthe wind and it trying to return
and I started to fly it backand I was like, oh my god, we
got this and it went right up tothe boat and then a Don't ride
on Ryan's.
We lost power and the bitch hitRyan in the head.

(45:29):
Watch that video.

Speaker 4 (45:32):
Oh.

Speaker 3 (45:41):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (45:46):
These are my favorite comments I've seen on social
media so far, because we didlaunch just a little preview of
it.
When are you okay?
I Mean that was.
It was a really hard hit.
I didn't.
That thing was going full speed.
If anybody has ever flown adrone, like a drone is very hard
to fight.

(46:06):
I'm gonna give this one, eventhough you are a lovable idiot
and of course you would do thisand hit Ryan in the middle of
his proposal.
But it was frickin hysterical.
But like those drones, whenthey die, I mean they just fall
out of the air.
They're just that the weight?

Speaker 2 (46:22):
is that matter that batteries heavy as hell?

Speaker 1 (46:24):
drones heavy there's four blades and that whole thing
came right down on your head.

Speaker 2 (46:29):
That was the crazy part is how in the hell of all
places did it land great on yourhead like it.
It died legit great over topyou and he's like.

Speaker 3 (46:42):
I mean I knew you had a drone bed, no idea.
Also happened with batterydying.

Speaker 2 (46:47):
I'm in there.

Speaker 3 (46:48):
I'm trying to get my words out and I hear and I'm
just assuming always flying likethe drone around us getting put
into this.

Speaker 2 (46:59):
I'm on the front of those looking like a moped.
I.

Speaker 1 (47:04):
Would hit you on the head.
You don't know what's happened.
This one, very Impressively,dives in from the front of the
boat, swims to grab the drone,which everybody has asked this
question as well.
What happened to the drone?
It is still alive.
We are.
You're gonna have it at yourwedding.
It's the.
While we don't have it alive,the battery is at the bottom of
the ocean.

Speaker 2 (47:24):
I knew that it hit the water, that it was toast.
There's no way that that thingwas coming back up.
But what I was afraid of isthat Card coming out of the
camera and I was freaking outand I was trying to get it up as
fast as possible in the mix andit was still it was going on.

Speaker 1 (47:41):
Your recovery was impressive and I think people
are asking, like what was your?
What was the after number one?
What did?
Were you thinking, or did youeven know what happened?
Because I mean, a drone hitsyou that heavy like out of
nowhere and then you just said,well, you're going viral, yeah,
and then you actually finishedthe proposal.
Very well, yeah.

Speaker 3 (48:00):
I honestly just see you and, like you, know what
happened.
Like you said, just that tunnelvision and that was in the
moment.
It's like whoa and then keepgoing like it was actually.

Speaker 1 (48:09):
You know what I have to say.
I think the drone up a lot ofpeople have said Was the drone
objecting to your marriage, butI actually think it saved your
proposal because it means youget concise and ready to go.
Yeah, and I did remind you toask him to actually marry you.

Speaker 2 (48:29):
So what did you think that happened?
Like?
What were you like?
What the hell is this shit?

Speaker 4 (48:33):
No, I, I was facing it.
I saw it the last second thatwas falling.

Speaker 1 (48:39):
And you just like.
It's amazing how Brad justdoesn't have necessarily a
reaction to it the whole time.
He's just going like and he'slike for you guys and he's like
for you guys.
Yeah, I mean you said yesbefore he even asked you to
marry.
So there's that.
I mean that's a big resoundingyes, it's pretty obvious, so it
was happening.
Yeah, we don't have the copywith gays insurance plan yet.
Clearly this is dangerous.

(49:05):
Dangerous like Industry thatwe're in, especially with
Loveable idiot over here flyingdrones.
I would have been a betterdrone player.
I'm just saying I was right,you were wrong, but at least I
captured the moment in threedifferent cameras.

Speaker 2 (49:19):
You have to watch the video.
If you haven't seen the video,you have to watch it because it
is hysterically Funny.
Like I've showed it to peoplewho don't even know us and they
just cry laughing.

Speaker 1 (49:30):
I will make sure that we have the full proposal
because actually a lot of peoplewere like, love, the drone hit,
super funny.
But now they want to see thewhole thing.
It is actually really good.
Have you seen it yet?
With the, with the drones in it, it's yeah, it's about four
minutes and it's um, it'sactually really beautiful.
It's like the whole boat andthe pan out.
Have you seen it yet?

(49:50):
I haven't seen it.
I haven't seen your proposalvideo yet.
That's one thing I gotta say.
If I ever do Get engaged off allyour journey, well, maybe hit
me in the head, I don't know, Ihave to.
I like it better.
I like a perfect proposal gonewrong.
Um, but yeah, I would.
I would want all those angles,like, I would want all those
angles.
So that's why I was like, oh mygod, we have to get all the

(50:12):
angles, and Mainly not just forlike content, but really for you
guys, because I think it's likeamazing, it's a great proposal
video and a lot of people haveasked me about it because you
guys are so cute.

Speaker 4 (50:24):
We'll let you guys do our wedding video too.

Speaker 1 (50:26):
I mean speaking of the wedding I've not talked
about anything like this shit.
I think I'm planning yourwedding more than you are a week
from yesterday, bradley.
Why isn't it?
Where's my invitation and whatside of the aisle am I gonna be?
I don't know.
I'm gonna find out.
I mean, how do you decide thatit's gonna be?
Is it gonna be in Dallas?

(50:47):
Is it gonna be like abroad?

Speaker 2 (50:49):
Who knows, they may want to just go to the
courthouse and say screw it andhave a party.
That's what I would do.
And then you're out of it.

Speaker 1 (50:55):
I do hate the wedding ceremonies sometimes, except
for the shorter ones.
Well, it depends.
You got a bridezilla that shewants, like you know, the
two-hour.
Oh, my god, one of my friendsdid that to me.
It was the two-hour plusCatholic one.
It was a lot.
Yeah, it was a lot.
It's just like I think, likedon't spend a lot of money on

(51:16):
that part and like spend moneyon the party because that's what
we're all about, yeah, sowhere's the party.

Speaker 4 (51:22):
She's gonna have enough to make you cry before
the party exactly.

Speaker 1 (51:25):
I mean you have like a lot of friends, right, you're
probably like one of the kingsof Dallas, I would say.
I've been here a long time,here a long time.
I mean he's got a lot of people.
It's gonna be a big one.

Speaker 4 (51:36):
The important people will be there.

Speaker 1 (51:38):
I hope we're gonna be there, anything that, like one
of my girlfriends that I've beenfriends with for a very long
time, I was in the bridal partyand, because of somebody else,
was regulated down to an usherso that the other person and I'm
sure you rock that extraposition.

(51:58):
Me sitting people down.

Speaker 2 (52:00):
Are you kidding?

Speaker 1 (52:01):
me.
That is like my worst nightmare.
So I don't want to be an extra.
If I'm an usher, I just want tojust be at the party.

Speaker 2 (52:07):
You know what?
Some people on the fuckingpodcast probably saying bitch,
you're lucky for anything.

Speaker 1 (52:11):
Are you?
Because here's the deal I'vedecided after my best friend's
wedding I will never be a bestman again.
Done, done with best man.
You have to do too much.

Speaker 2 (52:22):
Well, you have to have a best friend to have be a
best man.

Speaker 1 (52:24):
So it's I had a best friend and I'm done, I've done,
I've been best man a few timesand I'm done, I'm done with it,
because you have to deal witheverybody else and you know to
like hey for everything and thenget everyone to reimburse it.
It's just, it's too much work,I'm done, I'm too old for that.

Speaker 2 (52:38):
Well, Cheers, cheers to the engagement.

Speaker 1 (52:43):
We're very happy with you.

Speaker 2 (52:45):
I love you guys.

Speaker 1 (52:47):
One other question.
I think we should give someadvice From you guys to our
listeners.
So like, what's your advice,like you know, about finding
love.

Speaker 3 (52:57):
I hadn't really said that before, but I think it is
true.
I mean, I wasn't like dating orlooking, and then I happened.

Speaker 1 (53:04):
So and you're also like a wild Child or wild angel
or something like that, rightlike and I agree like describe
me as free spirit.
Yeah, I mean, you went fromdating to a relationship to
engaged, and like a little overyour nap, I would say.
So what you're saying is forthat last 14 months, yeah, so

(53:29):
for that last single girl Me,there's still hope.

Speaker 2 (53:33):
Here's my advice to you work on yourself, hey, and
once you work on yourself, I amvery happy, I will say, being
single, and I am fine with it.

Speaker 1 (53:43):
Okay, if I'm allowed to be a bitter bitch.

Speaker 2 (53:47):
Say girl don't sound like.

Speaker 1 (53:48):
I just think they're the cutest couple in the world
and I want to be a bitter bitch,but that's just me and that's
my personality and that's mycharacter.
So there you go.
They have a spare bedroom.
There you go.
It'd be better than moving inwith you, Well cuz I feel you
throw a flip flop to you, that'sfor sure.
That's great and I'm gonna saythis has been really fun seeing
you guys, like you know, growand you know, become Brian and

(54:11):
Bradley, or ride with Ryan andBradley, I should say, and, brad
, I can't wait to get you inmore content, okay.

Speaker 3 (54:18):
I think I just have to film it.

Speaker 1 (54:19):
I I'll just film you because I really do think that
choke on it pride thing wasreally funny.
So they're like happy day orwhatever, and we'll just like if
you follow us on tick tock,you'll be seeing a lot of
homeless ass.
The content I got a lot of shitfrom you too.
Oh god, yeah, I just have you,like I don't know, eating
pineapple, trying to stop adiabetic coma and stuff.

(54:40):
So, yeah, oh, and the best partis yours by, and I think it's a
very good segue into kind ofOur next episode, which I know
I'm super excited about.
It's actually something I'm soexcited about that we're re
recording it because I Didn'tlike the first one.
So, for everybody with thosecomments yes, we're kind of
redoing it, but it's aboutchosen family and who we love,

(55:03):
who we choose Because we havefamily and then we have, like,
chosen family and I think thatthat's something like really big
in our community.
So we're excited to talk aboutit.
Check us out next time.
Check us out next time.
Make sure to subscribe onYouTube and watch the video
version of this, because youknow it is a.
You know a lot of his fingerwaving.
You know how many times I'veseen your finger.

(55:24):
I'm wrapping it up here.
So here's Cheers.

Speaker 3 (55:31):
Bradley.

Speaker 1 (55:33):
Healing with us today .
Barney Bradley, we love you andgirl, don't break that mug.

Speaker 3 (55:39):
How about we have that kind of budget as soon to
be done.

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