Episode 59. Self-Control is a Superpower (You Just Forgot You Had It)

In this raw and relatable episode of The Collective Perspective, Jeff and Travis get real about something most of us don’t want to admit: we’ve got a self-control problem — and it’s showing up everywhere.

Whether it’s flipping out in traffic, clapping back online, losing it with your kids, or snapping during a live gig when your gear starts acting up (yes, even the light in this episode gave us attitude), self-control is that hidden skill we know we should have… but rarely do.

This isn’t a TED Talk on mastering emotions — it’s a grounded conversation about recognizing your breaking point, owning your triggers, and laughing at yourself along the way. From production malfunctions and tech stress to everyday moments where we let impulse win, this episode unpacks how faith, emotional awareness, and humility play into keeping your cool in a world that thrives on outrage.

We’re not offering a 10-step fix. We’re handing you a mirror and saying, “Same, bro.”

If you’ve ever yelled at a paper towel dispenser, snapped during soundcheck, or sent a text you immediately regretted, you’re not alone — and this one’s for you.

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Chapters

• (00:00:00) - Introduction to the Collective Perspective Podcast
• (00:00:35) - Diving into Self-Control
• (00:01:35) - Practical Examples of Self-Control
• (00:02:52) - Self-Control in Daily Life
• (00:09:30) - Self-Control in Relationships and Parenting
• (00:15:23) - Martial Arts and Self-Control
• (00:17:50) - Philosophical Insights on Self-Control
• (00:19:15) - Conclusion and Viewer Engagement