Needing New Friends and How Hobbies Can Influence Your Love Life

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Ever wondered how your hobbies could potentially impact your love life or social interactions? Find out how two contrasting pastimes - gun collecting and gardening - can shape perceptions and discussions, especially in dating scenarios. We'll be unraveling the complexities of how sharing our interests, no matter how unconventional, can define our interactions while maintaining our unique individuality. It could be a debate on guns, or swapping gardening tips, your hobbies can be a surprising ice-breaker or a deal-breaker!

Additionally, we'll be revealing how gardening is more than just a green thumb game. With a little help from our friends and their seasoned advice, anyone can bloom into a gardening enthusiast. And it's not all serious talk - we'll spice things up with a fun, light-hearted debate on pizza toppings! After all, who knew hobbies could be so all-encompassing? So, brace yourselves for an episode brimming with humor, passion, and some unconventional wisdom on navigating social landscapes. Let's dive into the fascinating world of hobbies!

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:09):
Fly me to the moon, let me play among the stars, let
me see what spring is like onJupiter and Mars.
In other words, hold my hand.

(00:30):
In other words, baby, kiss me.
What is going on?
I was in my old blue eyes mood,frank the ledge, how's it going

(00:50):
?
Audience.
So today I was thinking about it.
Why do I?
I was thinking about my friends.
I'm like man, I need newfriends.
Like, why do I even talk to myfriends, man, I'm like I love
them to death, actually all ofthem.
But I get, we're all you know,we're older and Jen X is not

(01:14):
going to revisit that, you know.
Say how Generation X is thebest.
It even rhymes X is the best, xbest.
If it doesn't, it does, butanyway.
So I have this one friend.
Let's call him stupido.

(01:41):
Well, that'll be his aliasstupido.
This guy told me.
So you know, as we all are, I'mlooking for love, all that stuff
, and for love in all the wrongplaces.
But he's like hey man, and he'sa gun enthusiast, very

(02:07):
responsible one.
Love him to death.
We talk about, we talk aboutguns a lot.
I'm a you know gun owner,responsible gun owner and all
that stuff had my days.
But he's like hey, and I alsoguarded.
So like which?
That is a hobby of mine andit's new to me.

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I learned a lot, got it done,plantin' stuff from seed.
I'll talk about it later.
I'll give him my like what I'veseen, my experiences, because
it was an experiment, and it wasan experiment that went pretty
well.
So I'll talk about that later,but anyway, so I'm like yeah,
man, I'm, you know, dating again, you know, out in the jungle,

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and he's like, and he's like andI'm like, you know, I talk
about my gardening because it'sjust close to me, it's something
that I'm doing right now andI'm learning and loving.
He's like yo, that's why Don'ttalk about gardening.
Like, why not talk aboutgardening?
He's like that's not and he's avery machismo friend.

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So I get it and it's like we'reover that.
We are in the phase where youdo what you like to do.
Don't do something because itmakes you look whatever.
He doesn't do that.
He's completely not like that,but he has his hobby.
So it was hobby versus hobby.

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Basically, he's like man, youneed to talk about guns.
I'm like so you're telling me,if I meet a lady, a nice lady,
for dinner or whatever, that Ishould talk to her about
collecting guns.
He's like, yeah, I'm like, sohow do I do that without

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sounding like a psychopath?
He's like, oh well, you're justsaying that because guns have a
negative content?
Of course they do, because it'snot guns only hurt and kill.
But it's not even about that.
You and I know a lot about it.
I know it's a hobby and it'snot a bad hobby.

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You collect, just like cars,just like shoes.
You can collect them.
It's not a big deal.
But the fact of the matter is,when he said what I talked about
was lane like garden, likegarden is lane.

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It's like so you're telling me,don't talk to a woman at dinner
about what I'm growing and canpotentially help both of us.
I should talk about the newestAR.
I'm like I can respect thatbecause you like it.

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You know what?
I will put an ad out in thepaper if people still do that
for new friends.
Genx are looking for newfriends that make sense.
But I'm like hey, I love myfriends.
I'm just kidding, I'm joking,but he really told me that he's

(05:26):
like you talk about good.
Did he try to pull out astatistic?
And I love that.
I'm talking about him right nowhe's like he's going to be so
bad and we're going to fight andwe'll make up.
And it's like whatever we fightevery three weeks, it's like
clockwork.
We fight about pizza toppingstoo.
I don't know how many of youall, hey audience, how many of

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you all have friends that youfight about pizza toppings.
I know there's a like Americais split.
Half of Americans like olives.
The other half does not.
So you can't tell me you don'thave a friend or no person that
does not like olives.
I love olives, so there's that.

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But anyway, so like he,legitimately, he pulled out a
stat.
He's like, hey, what is the?
And he, and I know his, his, uh, I know how he operates.
So he's going to ask me aquestion where the answer
benefits him.
So he's like what's the pop,the highest population, that are

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new gun owners that are buyingguns.
And I'm like, well, you'reasking me that.
Well, you're saying thatbecause it's going to be women,
right, but that does not meanthat has, that has nothing to do
with talking to a stranger thatyou asked to have dinner about
guns.
I'm not going to be like, hey,I think.
Well, I know, since womenthere's there's more women

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buying guns.
Now I'm going to talk to youabout guns.
They'll talk about guns on afirst date.
If I met you at a, at a youknow gun convention or something
like that, you know all betsare off.
Got it, because we have commoninterests is about common inches
.
Gardening Everyone, even if youwanted to or not, you have

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experienced some form ofgardening like that's the thing.
If you kill the plant, keptlive.
That's gardening.
Oh, I'm not talking about.
I Need to talk to you about howto properly plant pumpkins or
Squash or whatever.

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Or you know what I mean, likesaffron.
Hey, give me some advice aboutgrowing saffron.
I'm not talking about like deepdive and it's like hey,
gardening some people, this iswhat happens.
Hey, I got it.
And people say, oh, you knowwhat, I have a black thumb.
Oh, you know what, I have agreen thumb.
I keep this alive.
You can relate to it.
I'm not gonna be like hey.
So you see that you know thenew shotgun.

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The velocity of thebrah-brah-brah is like brah.
What do you think about that?
It's like what do you?
Why would I say like I'm a, I'ma nurse, like, which doesn't
mean you're not a gun owner, butyou know what I'm saying?
You don't.
You don't lead with the bleed,if you will.
And so back to my point.
I need new friends, man, need Ido?

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So?
I'm out there like, hey, if youare a regular person that gives
regular advice and it's halfwaydecent, edit, hit me up.
Friendship applications arebeing accepted right now like

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background check, not evennecessary.
Well, I'm not gonna say thatcuz I'm not gonna let you in my
house if, for If you have toomany misdemeanors, I'll be like
hey, you just stand outside, wethere, we stand outside, put
your hands in your pockets, donot move your hands, and we'll

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discuss stuff, what, while youare across the streets anyway,
audience, that's all I got.
Oh.