July 24, 2023 • 24 mins
A friend's surprise birthday party was the highlight of my week. It illuminated for me the power of friendship and the joy it injects into our lives. I was moved by the gratitude and happiness my friend expressed, reinforcing the significance of appreciating our friends and actively being a part of their lives. Discover how our friends not only make our lives more fulfilling but also act as mirrors, reflecting aspects of ourselves we might not even be aware of. They open doors to self-expression and self-discovery, providing us with invaluable insights into our own personalities.
Now, let's take a more profound look at the dimension of nurturing friendships. Have you ever thought about how friendships, much like flowers, need tending to bloom? My little brother, a loyal listener to my shows, embodies this for me. His constant presence and support are priceless, reminding me of the importance of being there for our friends, of listening, and nurturing these beautiful bonds. In the aftermath of the trials and tribulations of recent years, our relationships with our friends have proven to be a lifeline. Join me as we delve into the richness that friendships can bring to our lives and the profound impact we can have by being present and engaged in these relationships.
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Speaker 1 (00:04):
What up, what's going on.
So welcome back to you know,come on podcast.
So no, I'm over it.
I'm over it, but Maybe nottoday.
So Today I want to talk aboutfriends and friendship and how
(00:30):
important that is.
I had a good friend of mine, mylittle brother, say hey, you're
not, you're talking too short.
He's like yeah, no, 30 minutesshould be the minimum man.
Why are you pressuring me?
(00:51):
Why are you pressuring me?
But you can, I will adhere tothe pressure, but anyway,
friendship, so Like that that is.
I don't want to dive Intoanother serious topic, but I'm
(01:15):
like why am I getting all theseserious topics Throwing at me?
Like you should talk about this.
You can talk about that, but Iguess I will.
So friendship is is very it's anintimate issue and it's very
(01:36):
important, right, we think it is.
But we try to act like it's not.
But it is because of it's it's,it's another venue.
So the sound the board, if youhad like, like, come on, you
know, right, that's the name ofthe show.
It's like we know, we know whatthe real deal is.
We Utilize our friends as anoutlet, as outlets.
(01:59):
When we get older, weunderstand that.
Hey, our friends understand us.
It's like yo, we want toutilize our friends as venue To
(02:20):
Say stuff.
And our friends kind of gauges.
They're like, hey, that wasdumb, that was good, that was
whack, that was Very ingenious,that was this, that was that,
but, but, but, but, but, but,but, but, but anyway.
(02:46):
So, like this, this past weekendI went to a very, very good
friends surprise birthday partyand I, like his wife Text me.
She's like hey, you gonna cometo like we have a surprise
birthday party with plan of aham.
You should come.
But I'm like dude, I'm there.
Man Don't even like I'm there.
(03:10):
She's like, thanks, he beathappy, he would be happy.
And I'm like I didn't eventhink about how happy would be.
That is a thing, that isstraight up a thing.
And I thought about it.
I'm like one like, first of all, that's a good, she's a good
(03:31):
person, it's a good wife.
Second of all, like, yeah, hewouldn't be happy.
Third of all, I don't even knowwho would be there.
I'm thinking it's like he, Iwork with him.
So it's like people from work,which is like, yeah, you know,
like this poor, but it, it wasalmost perfect.
(03:53):
He, he had no idea, heappreciated it and it was like a
good, you know, jlb was a goodjob, like.
So Props to the wife, she, shedid a fantastic job and she had
a perfect setup, perfect, youknow, collaboration with people.
(04:16):
He had no idea I thought Iruined it because I pulled up
and I saw him pass by me.
She, she, she was trying tokeep him out Until it was time
to party and I have a I, I havea very recognizable vehicle Be
(04:40):
incognito.
I can't be incognito.
Yeah, it's like you see, yousee my joint, but he didn't.
So he was just focused.
He was focused on family stuffand it was a thing.
It really was a thing.
But I really, like, I'mlearning to appreciate things,
(05:01):
that are things.
And she was like, hey, justcome in after him.
Buh-bye, I gotta set up.
And it was, it was very good,so anyway.
So my point is friends are IApologize about clearing my
throat no, no, human, butfriends are Necessary.
(05:24):
Do things with your friends, dodo them do, whether or not you
working too much.
You have a huge family, don'thave time.
Like.
That was very, very refreshing.
Like you millennials like tosay, I'm a Boom gut punch.
(05:46):
I'm a jab at you millennials.
Could you keep making up stuff.
But it's a thing Just spendtime with your friends and
understand them and learn themand Be a part of their life.
You know what I'm saying.
Like it was really nice to justgo there and Meet new people
(06:13):
and and my friend is a, he's a,he's a teacher, he teaches, he's
a coach, a teacher, and a lotof folks that were there were
his students and it's like yousee your friends in a different
light.
It's like, hey, I admire thisperson because they do something
Other than you know what youknow before.
(06:34):
And I know him for from work orfor work, and he does other
things, like I do other thingsbut nobody cares about what I do
.
It's all good.
But it's like, hey, respectwhat they have going on outside
of what you know of them to be.
And and he, you know he has alot of pretty decent network.
(06:57):
I'm gonna hate on him a littlebit and if he listens to this
he's, he's gonna know he's.
Why is it like, yeah, we, wehave good banter, he's gonna be
like it, you know what, whatever, but Just be there, just be
there.
So anyway, I have.
I have other friends that youknow.
Do I have dumpster diver typefriends, man, it's like yo get
(07:22):
get.
I have other dumpster diverfriends.
I have friends that I am, Ihave.
Well, I love all my friends.
It's no big deal but that'sjust.
But this was a great, a greatparty.
I am.
(07:42):
I'm completely happy that he wassurprised and he, he, he.
I was gonna see he deservedthat.
What.
What is the derv?
He did that, he did they that.
He deserves that and I'm gladthat I was a part of it and in
uh Is a little um, you know, wedon't, we're not next door Davis
(08:09):
, yeah, I drive through the thenight and Rocks and alligators
and all that stuff, but I'll doit.
It was fun.
It was very, very, very, veryfun.
So what I am saying right nowis hey, if you are, I Am not a
(08:31):
spring chicken, I am a fallchicken, if you will.
But I love that like, adhere tothat, embrace it.
The relationships that we havedeveloped, initiated, nurtured
(08:54):
Progress in like be, be in thatmoment, be in that moment.
And I didn't.
I Like, I always am kind of in amoment if you will, but Not
like, not really.
I'm always thinking about thefuture, but it's like hey, do do
(09:16):
that, do that like Just do it,don't think about, hey, I don't
have any gas, or like I'll thinkof an excuse, yeah, I have to
be at work my seven o'clock.
It's like nobody really caresabout work.
(09:38):
We act like we do but we don't.
But just be there, becausethose are the moments, those
literally are them and um, IExperienced that and I
appreciate him, I appreciateeveryone that set it up his wife
is the people that were a partof it because I had fun and that
(10:06):
was very, very, very refreshingto me.
It was very, very, very Just agood Sunday, you know, and I
like what I did prior to that.
I had, I had, I had a greatSunday.
I'm in a good person and justLike understand that people are
(10:27):
all we have and you got to divein, you really do.
But I Think I went down arabbit hole, but anyway, so like
have other friends is Is, thatis a.
You need to do that.
It's a staple and I wouldcharge all of you, all, all 10
(10:48):
million of my subscribers, tonurture your friendships.
Don't be mean, don't be a badperson, don't be mean.
If you are, I'm coming afteryou and I'm a wolf.
I'm tell you that right now.
I am, I am a wolf, so I I Ican't even deny it to.
(11:13):
I Can't even deny it I am, butthere's that.
So, friends, friendship, this isit's supposed to be about,
friendship, today's episode.
And we're all the same.
We all have the same questions,we all have the same, you know,
(11:38):
like Thoughts.
One, one issue hey, can men andwomen be friends?
The answer is yes, done it.
Yes, mature people can doanything.
You have to be mature.
It's not like.
So it's like hey, can men andwomen be friends if they had a
(12:00):
some type of relationship,relationship prior?
Blah, blah, blah, blah.
Yes, can men and women befriends if they didn't ever?
Yes, they can, they can.
You know why?
Because if you, if you take astep back, look at the person,
look at the person and not havesome yeah, I'm about to, I'm
(12:21):
about to like straight up, jackthis up not have some sexual in
the window, not have some sexualclimbing in the window.
I don't, I don't even know ifthat's the right.
Whatever, maturity, maturityand logic wins in the end.
(12:41):
So the answer is yes, I Canlook at a woman and say, hey,
I'm this woman I'm proud of,blah, blah, blah.
You know I, I know her fromthis, we've been through this.
She's she's doing this.
The answer is completely yes.
People say no, but that's nottrue.
That is not true and I I'llcharge any, anybody, anyone.
(13:06):
You know one of my 10 millionsubscribers.
You know rather not that's youor I charge anyone that's
intellectual or not intellectual, a realist, a faked, anyone to
challenge me on that.
(13:26):
Men and women can be friendswith and without sexual
relations.
People normally say, hey, yeah,men and women can't be friends
because it's just one personthat likes the person more than
the other.
But that's not true.
Won't you take a step back andlook at each other objectively
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and look at each other as people, which you will do when you get
older, you will do when youbecome more mature.
You can be friends because it'slike, it's about progress.
It's like, hey, what are youdoing?
Say you are a female and thenyou are friends with a male and
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this male is like a I don't know.
Say he's an architect andyou're like a photographer and
you're like, hey, what do youthink about this?
We use each other as resources,not saying that in a negative
term.
But you can be friends because,yeah, it'll benefit you, but in
(14:44):
a sense, but you're learning.
But it's like, hey, I'm nottrying to like this, maybe that
was a bad example, but you knowwhat?
Scratch that, I don't care.
But I'm right, men and womencan be friends, just like men
and men can be friends.
Just like women and women canbe friends.
It doesn't mean, like peoplesay, well, women and women can
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be friends because they canrelate to each other more and
the same thing, men and men canbe friends because they can
relate to each other.
But it's like, yeah, that'strue, you can relate and that is
a basis for friendship.
But understanding also could bea basis for friendship.
So it's like I'm not going tobe like, hey, I'm not going to
(15:30):
be friends with you because youdon't like the Jets, which
happens to be my favorite team.
I'm going to talk to you allabout that.
We'll wait until hard knockscome out.
Yeah, they're hard knocks, butthat's not the issue.
It's a rabbit hole.
But yeah, I don't want to talkabout that right now.
(15:57):
But anyway, yeah, we know thatsex on sex can relate.
Because of that, they have thatin common.
It's like, hey, we have this incommon, blah, blah, blah, blah.
But people are people.
People are dumb.
People are not dumb.
You can understand what theother person is thinking
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relating to, so you can befriends with them and you can.
I hate to use the word use, butyou can use that.
You could say, hey, like Iunderstand, you know this, so I
want to use it as this blah,blah, blah, blah, blah.
So don't give me that.
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Like men and women can't befriends because one person likes
the other person.
If one person likes the otherperson, then they absolutely
should not be friends.
They shouldn't.
And friends is not like.
Friends have mutual interestsis what I'm saying, and it
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doesn't have to be sex.
I'm out of here, that's, that's.
That was an ingenious moment,so there's that.
But so what else?
So, like I, I wanted to talkmore about the friendship deal
(17:30):
and just growing intofriendships.
It's very important.
Like I have, I have differentfriends.
I have some friends that areclueless and just want to be
like yo.
Like yo, man, gotta be at workin 15 minutes.
(17:52):
I have other friends Like I,like last episode of talk to my,
talk to you about my friendthat gave me advice about
talking about guns.
I love that dude to death.
So it's like hey, but I'm gonnamake, I'm gonna.
I need that type of person as afriend.
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But, however, we're gonna fight, we're gonna poke jabs, but at
the end of the day, if I didn'thave that person as a friend, I
probably wouldn't be who I am.
So I'll hate on him, talk abouthim jabs, those gut punches,
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but at the end of the day, Idon't.
I actually really don't careabout what he says, I just care
about that he's there and that'swhat we need to do.
You know what I mean.
And I'm charging you Whoeveryour friend is your bestie,
don't call them your bestie.
Show them that they are yourbestie.
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And you know, I'm makingfriends every day, reluctantly,
because I'm at that point it'slike, hey, my friend is in my
house, my couch, my better house, my evening meal, if you will.
(19:29):
But what I'm charging you all todo is respect your friendships,
nurture them, because all wehave is people.
All we have is people.
It's not.
We don't have plants, we don'thave animals.
People get animals forcompanion, but you're just
taking care of something else.
You say gotta get back homebecause my dog is bar up, and
(19:50):
that's great, but that dog isnot gonna give you advice, he's
not gonna give you advice butnot gonna comfort you when your
boss yells at you.
They'll just be there for youto take care of.
And that is a key core thing wedo as humans.
(20:12):
It's like, hey, we find comfortin taking care of things.
And there's humans that denythat, which is fine.
But I don't know.
Yo like I need, yeah, I need to.
Like I'm not gonna say I needto run for all of his, but how
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am I like I'm a genius in my ownregard?
That's crazy.
All right, I'm just like makingup stuff, but I would charge you
all nurture your friendships,listen to your friendships,
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understand them, pull thosepeople in that you need to pull
in, because we don't have thatmuch time, we really don't and
it'll mean a lot to them, it'llmean a lot to you and you'll
find things like very refreshing.
And like I have I talked aboutmy little brother.
(21:17):
Like he's, this dude islistening to my shows.
He's like, hey, he's giving meadvice on my shows.
It's like that's priceless.
You know, I appreciate that, Ireally appreciate that.
It's like you know what, thankyou.
So I'm gonna nurture thatfriendship, the people around
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you.
Just observe the people aroundyou and appreciate them for what
they are.
And I'm trying to actuallyapologize if this show is a
little bit more serious likethis is the third serious show
in a row.
(22:00):
Two, two, three, four fit inthe.
I don't care, just spittingthat knowledge.
Catch me in the corner, notspeaking like girls face, give a
shout out to the W and you knowthis.
(22:28):
This that's real, integral tome, is real.
I Just think we should like Ihave a.
You know what, you know, Idon't care, I'll just spit it
out.
Whatever yo, treat your friends,treat the good friends your
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good friends, treat them likegood friends.
Do it, do it for me, do it forme and do it for you.
Secondly, do it for me firstlyand Do it for me secondly.
But hold the people close.
We've all gone through stufflast couple of years, five years
, six years.
Has has been Horrible.
(23:11):
It's been like drinking bleach.
So we should learn Right.
All we have is people, and Iwill continue to say that.
I'm gonna say that every othershow.
Oh, I probably won't, but I'mgonna say that, I'm gonna say it
every other show now, thepeople that you, and it's not
(23:31):
about just entertaining you,it's about, it's about being a,
a base for you.
The people that are a base foryou, that you know you learn
from, you rely on.
Yo hold those people close, nottrying to be too serious, but I
(23:53):
am being too serious because itmatters.
So do that.
Um, what else?
So, anyway, let me know whatyou think, and that's all I got.
See you.
What up, what's going on.
So welcome back to you know,come on podcast.
So no, I'm over it.
I'm over it, but Maybe nottoday.
So Today I want to talk aboutfriends and friendship and how
(00:30):
important that is.
I had a good friend of mine, mylittle brother, say hey, you're
not, you're talking too short.
He's like yeah, no, 30 minutesshould be the minimum man.
Why are you pressuring me?
(00:51):
Why are you pressuring me?
But you can, I will adhere tothe pressure, but anyway,
friendship, so Like that that is.
I don't want to dive Intoanother serious topic, but I'm
(01:15):
like why am I getting all theseserious topics Throwing at me?
Like you should talk about this.
You can talk about that, but Iguess I will.
So friendship is is very it's anintimate issue and it's very
(01:36):
important, right, we think it is.
But we try to act like it's not.
But it is because of it's it's,it's another venue.
So the sound the board, if youhad like, like, come on, you
know, right, that's the name ofthe show.
It's like we know, we know whatthe real deal is.
We Utilize our friends as anoutlet, as outlets.
(01:59):
When we get older, weunderstand that.
Hey, our friends understand us.
It's like yo, we want toutilize our friends as venue To
(02:20):
Say stuff.
And our friends kind of gauges.
They're like, hey, that wasdumb, that was good, that was
whack, that was Very ingenious,that was this, that was that,
but, but, but, but, but, but,but, but, but anyway.
(02:46):
So, like this, this past weekendI went to a very, very good
friends surprise birthday partyand I, like his wife Text me.
She's like hey, you gonna cometo like we have a surprise
birthday party with plan of aham.
You should come.
But I'm like dude, I'm there.
Man Don't even like I'm there.
(03:10):
She's like, thanks, he beathappy, he would be happy.
And I'm like I didn't eventhink about how happy would be.
That is a thing, that isstraight up a thing.
And I thought about it.
I'm like one like, first of all, that's a good, she's a good
(03:31):
person, it's a good wife.
Second of all, like, yeah, hewouldn't be happy.
Third of all, I don't even knowwho would be there.
I'm thinking it's like he, Iwork with him.
So it's like people from work,which is like, yeah, you know,
like this poor, but it, it wasalmost perfect.
(03:53):
He, he had no idea, heappreciated it and it was like a
good, you know, jlb was a goodjob, like.
So Props to the wife, she, shedid a fantastic job and she had
a perfect setup, perfect, youknow, collaboration with people.
(04:16):
He had no idea I thought Iruined it because I pulled up
and I saw him pass by me.
She, she, she was trying tokeep him out Until it was time
to party and I have a I, I havea very recognizable vehicle Be
(04:40):
incognito.
I can't be incognito.
Yeah, it's like you see, yousee my joint, but he didn't.
So he was just focused.
He was focused on family stuffand it was a thing.
It really was a thing.
But I really, like, I'mlearning to appreciate things,
(05:01):
that are things.
And she was like, hey, justcome in after him.
Buh-bye, I gotta set up.
And it was, it was very good,so anyway.
So my point is friends are IApologize about clearing my
throat no, no, human, butfriends are Necessary.
(05:24):
Do things with your friends, dodo them do, whether or not you
working too much.
You have a huge family, don'thave time.
Like.
That was very, very refreshing.
Like you millennials like tosay, I'm a Boom gut punch.
(05:46):
I'm a jab at you millennials.
Could you keep making up stuff.
But it's a thing Just spendtime with your friends and
understand them and learn themand Be a part of their life.
You know what I'm saying.
Like it was really nice to justgo there and Meet new people
(06:13):
and and my friend is a, he's a,he's a teacher, he teaches, he's
a coach, a teacher, and a lotof folks that were there were
his students and it's like yousee your friends in a different
light.
It's like, hey, I admire thisperson because they do something
Other than you know what youknow before.
(06:34):
And I know him for from work orfor work, and he does other
things, like I do other thingsbut nobody cares about what I do
.
It's all good.
But it's like, hey, respectwhat they have going on outside
of what you know of them to be.
And and he, you know he has alot of pretty decent network.
(06:57):
I'm gonna hate on him a littlebit and if he listens to this
he's, he's gonna know he's.
Why is it like, yeah, we, wehave good banter, he's gonna be
like it, you know what, whatever, but Just be there, just be
there.
So anyway, I have.
I have other friends that youknow.
Do I have dumpster diver typefriends, man, it's like yo get
(07:22):
get.
I have other dumpster diverfriends.
I have friends that I am, Ihave.
Well, I love all my friends.
It's no big deal but that'sjust.
But this was a great, a greatparty.
I am.
(07:42):
I'm completely happy that he wassurprised and he, he, he.
I was gonna see he deservedthat.
What.
What is the derv?
He did that, he did they that.
He deserves that and I'm gladthat I was a part of it and in
uh Is a little um, you know, wedon't, we're not next door Davis
(08:09):
, yeah, I drive through the thenight and Rocks and alligators
and all that stuff, but I'll doit.
It was fun.
It was very, very, very, veryfun.
So what I am saying right nowis hey, if you are, I Am not a
(08:31):
spring chicken, I am a fallchicken, if you will.
But I love that like, adhere tothat, embrace it.
The relationships that we havedeveloped, initiated, nurtured
(08:54):
Progress in like be, be in thatmoment, be in that moment.
And I didn't.
I Like, I always am kind of in amoment if you will, but Not
like, not really.
I'm always thinking about thefuture, but it's like hey, do do
(09:16):
that, do that like Just do it,don't think about, hey, I don't
have any gas, or like I'll thinkof an excuse, yeah, I have to
be at work my seven o'clock.
It's like nobody really caresabout work.
(09:38):
We act like we do but we don't.
But just be there, becausethose are the moments, those
literally are them and um, IExperienced that and I
appreciate him, I appreciateeveryone that set it up his wife
is the people that were a partof it because I had fun and that
(10:06):
was very, very, very refreshingto me.
It was very, very, very Just agood Sunday, you know, and I
like what I did prior to that.
I had, I had, I had a greatSunday.
I'm in a good person and justLike understand that people are
(10:27):
all we have and you got to divein, you really do.
But I Think I went down arabbit hole, but anyway, so like
have other friends is Is, thatis a.
You need to do that.
It's a staple and I wouldcharge all of you, all, all 10
(10:48):
million of my subscribers, tonurture your friendships.
Don't be mean, don't be a badperson, don't be mean.
If you are, I'm coming afteryou and I'm a wolf.
I'm tell you that right now.
I am, I am a wolf, so I I Ican't even deny it to.
(11:13):
I Can't even deny it I am, butthere's that.
So, friends, friendship, this isit's supposed to be about,
friendship, today's episode.
And we're all the same.
We all have the same questions,we all have the same, you know,
(11:38):
like Thoughts.
One, one issue hey, can men andwomen be friends?
The answer is yes, done it.
Yes, mature people can doanything.
You have to be mature.
It's not like.
So it's like hey, can men andwomen be friends if they had a
(12:00):
some type of relationship,relationship prior?
Blah, blah, blah, blah.
Yes, can men and women befriends if they didn't ever?
Yes, they can, they can.
You know why?
Because if you, if you take astep back, look at the person,
look at the person and not havesome yeah, I'm about to, I'm
(12:21):
about to like straight up, jackthis up not have some sexual in
the window, not have some sexualclimbing in the window.
I don't, I don't even know ifthat's the right.
Whatever, maturity, maturityand logic wins in the end.
(12:41):
So the answer is yes, I Canlook at a woman and say, hey,
I'm this woman I'm proud of,blah, blah, blah.
You know I, I know her fromthis, we've been through this.
She's she's doing this.
The answer is completely yes.
People say no, but that's nottrue.
That is not true and I I'llcharge any, anybody, anyone.
(13:06):
You know one of my 10 millionsubscribers.
You know rather not that's youor I charge anyone that's
intellectual or not intellectual, a realist, a faked, anyone to
challenge me on that.
(13:26):
Men and women can be friendswith and without sexual
relations.
People normally say, hey, yeah,men and women can't be friends
because it's just one personthat likes the person more than
the other.
But that's not true.
Won't you take a step back andlook at each other objectively
(13:51):
and look at each other as people, which you will do when you get
older, you will do when youbecome more mature.
You can be friends because it'slike, it's about progress.
It's like, hey, what are youdoing?
Say you are a female and thenyou are friends with a male and
(14:23):
this male is like a I don't know.
Say he's an architect andyou're like a photographer and
you're like, hey, what do youthink about this?
We use each other as resources,not saying that in a negative
term.
But you can be friends because,yeah, it'll benefit you, but in
(14:44):
a sense, but you're learning.
But it's like, hey, I'm nottrying to like this, maybe that
was a bad example, but you knowwhat?
Scratch that, I don't care.
But I'm right, men and womencan be friends, just like men
and men can be friends.
Just like women and women canbe friends.
It doesn't mean, like peoplesay, well, women and women can
(15:07):
be friends because they canrelate to each other more and
the same thing, men and men canbe friends because they can
relate to each other.
But it's like, yeah, that'strue, you can relate and that is
a basis for friendship.
But understanding also could bea basis for friendship.
So it's like I'm not going tobe like, hey, I'm not going to
(15:30):
be friends with you because youdon't like the Jets, which
happens to be my favorite team.
I'm going to talk to you allabout that.
We'll wait until hard knockscome out.
Yeah, they're hard knocks, butthat's not the issue.
It's a rabbit hole.
But yeah, I don't want to talkabout that right now.
(15:57):
But anyway, yeah, we know thatsex on sex can relate.
Because of that, they have thatin common.
It's like, hey, we have this incommon, blah, blah, blah, blah.
But people are people.
People are dumb.
People are not dumb.
You can understand what theother person is thinking
(16:22):
relating to, so you can befriends with them and you can.
I hate to use the word use, butyou can use that.
You could say, hey, like Iunderstand, you know this, so I
want to use it as this blah,blah, blah, blah, blah.
So don't give me that.
(16:43):
Like men and women can't befriends because one person likes
the other person.
If one person likes the otherperson, then they absolutely
should not be friends.
They shouldn't.
And friends is not like.
Friends have mutual interestsis what I'm saying, and it
(17:04):
doesn't have to be sex.
I'm out of here, that's, that's.
That was an ingenious moment,so there's that.
But so what else?
So, like I, I wanted to talkmore about the friendship deal
(17:30):
and just growing intofriendships.
It's very important.
Like I have, I have differentfriends.
I have some friends that areclueless and just want to be
like yo.
Like yo, man, gotta be at workin 15 minutes.
(17:52):
I have other friends Like I,like last episode of talk to my,
talk to you about my friendthat gave me advice about
talking about guns.
I love that dude to death.
So it's like hey, but I'm gonnamake, I'm gonna.
I need that type of person as afriend.
(18:14):
But, however, we're gonna fight, we're gonna poke jabs, but at
the end of the day, if I didn'thave that person as a friend, I
probably wouldn't be who I am.
So I'll hate on him, talk abouthim jabs, those gut punches,
(18:45):
but at the end of the day, Idon't.
I actually really don't careabout what he says, I just care
about that he's there and that'swhat we need to do.
You know what I mean.
And I'm charging you Whoeveryour friend is your bestie,
don't call them your bestie.
Show them that they are yourbestie.
(19:07):
And you know, I'm makingfriends every day, reluctantly,
because I'm at that point it'slike, hey, my friend is in my
house, my couch, my better house, my evening meal, if you will.
(19:29):
But what I'm charging you all todo is respect your friendships,
nurture them, because all wehave is people.
All we have is people.
It's not.
We don't have plants, we don'thave animals.
People get animals forcompanion, but you're just
taking care of something else.
You say gotta get back homebecause my dog is bar up, and
(19:50):
that's great, but that dog isnot gonna give you advice, he's
not gonna give you advice butnot gonna comfort you when your
boss yells at you.
They'll just be there for youto take care of.
And that is a key core thing wedo as humans.
(20:12):
It's like, hey, we find comfortin taking care of things.
And there's humans that denythat, which is fine.
But I don't know.
Yo like I need, yeah, I need to.
Like I'm not gonna say I needto run for all of his, but how
(20:33):
am I like I'm a genius in my ownregard?
That's crazy.
All right, I'm just like makingup stuff, but I would charge you
all nurture your friendships,listen to your friendships,
(20:55):
understand them, pull thosepeople in that you need to pull
in, because we don't have thatmuch time, we really don't and
it'll mean a lot to them, it'llmean a lot to you and you'll
find things like very refreshing.
And like I have I talked aboutmy little brother.
(21:17):
Like he's, this dude islistening to my shows.
He's like, hey, he's giving meadvice on my shows.
It's like that's priceless.
You know, I appreciate that, Ireally appreciate that.
It's like you know what, thankyou.
So I'm gonna nurture thatfriendship, the people around
(21:40):
you.
Just observe the people aroundyou and appreciate them for what
they are.
And I'm trying to actuallyapologize if this show is a
little bit more serious likethis is the third serious show
in a row.
(22:00):
Two, two, three, four fit inthe.
I don't care, just spittingthat knowledge.
Catch me in the corner, notspeaking like girls face, give a
shout out to the W and you knowthis.
(22:28):
This that's real, integral tome, is real.
I Just think we should like Ihave a.
You know what, you know, Idon't care, I'll just spit it
out.
Whatever yo, treat your friends,treat the good friends your
(22:48):
good friends, treat them likegood friends.
Do it, do it for me, do it forme and do it for you.
Secondly, do it for me firstlyand Do it for me secondly.
But hold the people close.
We've all gone through stufflast couple of years, five years
, six years.
Has has been Horrible.
(23:11):
It's been like drinking bleach.
So we should learn Right.
All we have is people, and Iwill continue to say that.
I'm gonna say that every othershow.
Oh, I probably won't, but I'mgonna say that, I'm gonna say it
every other show now, thepeople that you, and it's not
(23:31):
about just entertaining you,it's about, it's about being a,
a base for you.
The people that are a base foryou, that you know you learn
from, you rely on.
Yo hold those people close, nottrying to be too serious, but I
(23:53):
am being too serious because itmatters.
So do that.
Um, what else?
So, anyway, let me know whatyou think, and that's all I got.
See you.
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