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June 12, 2025 33 mins

Intentional intimacy doesn't leave you guessing - it comes with clarity, care, and damn good boundaries. In this episode, Aimee and Dakota unpack what it means to stop settling for crumbs and start owning your yes, your no, and your worth.


If someone can't hold your "no," they don't deserve your "yes."


Part of being healthy? Don't be a d*ck.


Connect with Dakota Ramppen

https://www.getrealwithdakota.com/

https://www.instagram.com/getrealwithdakota/

https://www.tiktok.com/@grwdakota_

https://open.spotify.com/show/3Gl2gUCoogXP1e8eBas1Px?si=0cfa8210490f4567


Connect with Come Talk with Aimee

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https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee


Chapters

00:00 Welcome and Intro to Dakota

00:48 Challenging Societal Norms Around Sex

01:30 Understanding Boundaries and Personal Desires

03:35 The Role of Safety in Sexual Relationships

06:41 Navigating Sexuality and Self-Worth

10:08 Intentional Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

13:50 The Journey of a Lover Girl

19:23 Embracing Queer Joy and Community

21:19 Creativity in Pleasure and Relationships

25:43 Be Gentle with You 28:50 Coming to Completion - Just To Be Queer

31:53 Come Again, Come Again, Come Again

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