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August 21, 2025 54 mins

Hot take: there’s nothing wrong with your desire—it just has a flavor, babe. Join Aimee and Angie Enger as they spill the tea on spontaneous vs. responsive desire, why ‘low libido’ is a total myth, and how to turn frustration into exploration. It’s time to stop feeling broken and start owning your unique, sexy blueprint.


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Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Self-Intimacy and Desire

01:11 Understanding Desire Types

02:56 Exploring Arousal and Sensation

06:16 Personal Experiences with Desire

07:56 The Impact of Life Changes on Desire

11:37 Desire Types and Their Misunderstandings

14:08 The Role of Communication in Relationships

17:51 Shame and Societal Expectations

21:33 Creating Safe Spaces for Conversations

23:40 Navigating Different Desire Types in Relationships

27:15 Exploring Myths of Desire

29:08 Cultural Conditioning and Its Impact

33:04 Understanding Desire Types

38:11 Communication in Relationships

42:21 Nervous System and Trauma

44:38 Self-Assessment of Desire

49:29 Reconnecting with Desire

51:40 Coming to Completion

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