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July 16, 2025 10 mins

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Do you find yourself putting everyone else first, even when it hurts you? Self-abandonment is when we ignore our needs to please others. ⁨Esther shares her top tips on how to recognize it and to heal.  

This podcast episode outlines the concept of self-abandonment, its signs, consequences, and how to heal from it. Practical exercises are provided to reconnect with oneself and practise self-compassion. 

Chapters

00:00 Understanding Self-Abandonment
01:48 Signs and Consequences of Self-Abandonment
05:27 Healing from Self-Abandonment
06:51 Embodiment Exercise for Self-Compassion

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To learn more about how to set and maintain healthy boundaries:  

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uqmJmRLqNIM

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