🎙️ EP. 223 – Stop Chasing Strategies — Start Being Her
Main Character Reminder: You don’t need another plan. You need a new identity.
✨ RECAP: THIS SUMS IT UP
In this transformational episode, Letitia Hopkins dives deep into the truth behind why you're not stuck—you’re just misaligned. If you've ever felt like you’ve tried all the strategies and still feel like something’s missing, this is your wake-up call.
Letitia unpacks the difference between chasing strategy vs. embodying identity, why Main Character Energy isn’t a vibe—it’s a decision—and how to finally become the thermostat in your life, not the thermometer.
This conversation will activate your soul, call you into your next era, and remind you that the strategy you’re searching for is already within you. 👑 You are her. Let the world adjust.
🔥 What You’ll Learn (Takeaways)
You are not stuck because you’re doing it wrong—you’re just doing it from the wrong identity
Main Character Energy is a decision, not a vibe
You can’t attract overflow while embodying lack
The power of being the thermostat of your life
Why strategy only works when it matches your self-concept
The shift from performance to permission
The moment you stop chasing and start being… everything changes
📚 Chapters
00:00 – Embodying a New Identity
03:57 – The Strategy Spiral and Its Pitfalls
09:50 – The Power of Being vs. Doing
16:15 – Main Character Energy and Self-Love
17:48 – You Are the Strategy
20:00 – Empowerment Through Sharing and Connection
💃 Main Character Move – The Self-Love 2-Step
Here’s your challenge for this week:
1. Embody Your Next-Level Identity Now Pick one small action your future self would take— and do it today. → Say no to what drains you. → Say yes to what activates you. → Rest boldly. Post confidently. Set the boundary.
2. Journal This Prompt: 🪞 “Who is the version of me who already lives the life I want— and what brave thing would she do next?” ✨ Now go do that brave thing.
💌 Let Me Pour Into You Real Quick
My Beautiful Friend,
You’re not confused.
You’re not behind.
You’re not broken.
You don’t need a better plan.
You need to remember who you are.
You are the strategy.
You are the brand.
You are the answer.
You are the moment.
The version of you with the love, the money, the ease, the peace?
She’s not far away.
She’s already within you.
She’s just been waiting for you to trust her.
Be her now.
Let the world adjust.
*Listen to the full episode for your full cup & overflow.
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