Consenting Adults

Consenting Adults

Life STARTS at 40, and is fabulous well into your 50’s and beyond, despite what society says about being “over the hill.” The 40+ adult is more open, experiments more, and has finally embraced the living part of life. Consenting Adults explores this new frontier. From open marriages to swinging, ethical non-monogamy, sex workers, and chasing that libido, every day people reveal what really goes on behind closed doors and how they’re enjoying sex and life more than ever. When it’s a normal way of living for many, is it still “freaky?” Frank, funny, thought-provoking conversations with Emmy Award-winning journalist and host of Consenting Adults, Leyna Nguyen.

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October 18, 2021 24 min

Jewels talks about being a femdom which is something she does outside her marriage. She and her husband are in an "open-minded" marriage where this strong, confident woman found herself feeling insecure and dealing with jealousy at times. She learned how to cope with those feelings, and talks about dominating men--why some strong men are turned on by being dominated even if it's as simple as being directed to wear panti...

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Guests Deb Kondratczyk and Eric Vonheim have had lots of experience with online dating and share what works and what doesn't.  Leyna shares her own personal experiences with it, and some funny disastrous dating stories.  From a love-at-first-sight to how to blow your chances in seconds, this is not an interview show but a friendly, funny conversation between three people with different views and experiences. This was originally...

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October 11, 2021 24 min

Ready to wrap your head around something totally different? A second generation polyamorous, hyper-sexual kinkster who works with couples, talks about their relationship with 4 partners; a spouse, a girl friend, a casual partner, and "a little one." One of them is asexual. JonnyAce talks BDSM and kinks like medical staples.  Leyna asks for clarification of "queer" and they discuss labels like frey-sexual.  Let's...

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October 4, 2021 24 min

Two married business professionals enjoy lifestyle experiences just short of swapping. From voyeurism, exhibitionism, parallel play with other couples, and FFM action, this couple's sex life is sizzling hot despite no swapping.  They call themselves "not quite swingers" and say there are many in the lifestyle with the same play profile.  

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September 27, 2021 23 min

A married couple starts exploring both of their bisexuality, with the wife going from being weirded out to being turned on by seeing her husband with a man. Not only does she enjoy watching, but participating with him.  They say the openness and acceptance has not only made their sex life hotter, but it's also enhanced their marriage.

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A couple who became very close to a yoda couple find themselves "single again" and a bit loss after their couple split up, but are getting back into the swing of things.  She prefers not just same-room sex but a more constant connection with her husband even when they have sex with others. Shane and Erin help define sex terms like the difference between a hotwife and a vixen and other nuances in the lifestyle.  Our special ...

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It takes time and work in the lifestyle to meet people, first online then in person.  This DTF couple has a system down for sifting and sorting through swingers so they don't waste time on couples who aren't ready to play.  Isis and Eros prefer separate beds or even separate rooms because people have different rhythms and styles in bed.  They admit to making a lot of mistakes in the beginning and regret the opportunities th...

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A woman is introduced to the lifestyle by a boyfriend but after they break up, she stays in as a unicorn. She likes to hook up with couples, some of them just traveling through California and she requires the female to want bisexual play.  Natalia talks about what draws her to couples.

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August 30, 2021 27 min

A firefighter and his businesswoman girlfriend are a real BDSM couple who enjoy a dominant/submissive relationship both in and outside the bedroom. There's a difference between pleasurable and punishment spankings but it's a fine line. They discuss forced orgasms, toys, ball gags, choking, and other activities that make 50 shades of grey --  red. This couple now wants to get into swinging and that's how they found Conse...

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Some things you can't learn in a book, like how you're going to feel watching your partner have sex with someone else, whether you're ok playing separately, or how bisexual you really are. This sexy librarian and her husband found they prefer a relationship over just sex, and playing separately is surprisingly enjoyable. They immersed themselves in the lifestyle and learned specifically how to enjoy better orgasms and a...

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August 16, 2021 27 min

What's the difference between a hotwife and a cuckold relationship?  Can you be a cuckold couple without the humiliation aspect? Mae and her husband are cuckold newbies. She finds MFM threesomes uncomfortable and is finding her voice as a cuckoldress. They may not be the typical cuck couple but they're having a lot of fun trying to figure it out.

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Sophia is a stay-at-home mom who sets up dates for her husband and enjoys hearing about his sexual exploits. She's bisexual and finds it difficult to find other "real" bisexual women in the lifestyle. Having had her share of pillow princesses, she's looking for other women to share with her husband who also want to please her as much as she enjoys pleasuring them.

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August 2, 2021 23 min

A woman with past sexual trauma says the lifestyle makes her feel desired and confident. She feels sexier now over 50 than she did in her 30's.  She has picked up healthier habits, takes better care of herself and is a different woman!  Natasha hooked up with a bouncer at the sex club in her first experience and ended up having sex with 5 men that night. She's now exploring other activities and is literally training for ana...

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David Webb --divorced, single, and lonely, was looking to find hotwives because he wasn't looking for a relationship. He ended up falling in love with the first hotwife he slept with and is now in a poly triad with her and her husband. He talks about how single males should show respect for the husband, what kind of photos to use, and shares the good, bad, and embarrassing; like his problems retaining an erection. David and his...

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July 19, 2021 26 min

A doctor and his wife experiment with role-playing and BDSM and end up in the lifestyle as swingers, but they're not in it just for the sex; there has be an intellectual connection.  They also re-define bisexuality after experiencing pleasure with the same sex without emotional attachment.  The good doctor explains the difference between the G-spot and A-spot and how to reach and stimulate them.

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July 12, 2021 21 min

They married as high school sweethearts but got curious about what it's like to be with other people. After 7 years of monogamy, these young swingers found they like group sex, orgies, and some BDSM that includes choking. She also has a praise kink is bisexual.

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July 6, 2021 24 min

Rarer than a unicorn is the cuckquean in the lifestyle. Taylor talks about how she enjoys degradation and denial and what turns her on about seeing her partner with someone else beyond the compersion aspect. She describes herself as a submissive first, an unapologetic black-only slut second, and a cuckquean third. Leyna's favorite take from this interview is why Cuckquean isn't spelled cuckQUEEN. 

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June 28, 2021 26 min

Forget what preconceptions you may have about swingers. Guest Erin Kaley talks about how she and her fiance are finding like-minded people who are also happy, smart, and successful, to share sexy experiences in non-monogamy.  Erin also talks about their struggles with jealousy and how embracing it to understand it has made their sex life hotter and more fulfilling as they add more partners.

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June 21, 2021 27 min

He isn't the stereotypical cuckold.  Strong and confident, Gian explains why letting the woman take control requires courage and confidence, and what turns him on about "cleaning up" after his woman has been with someone else.  He talks about the changes he sees in his girlfriend's body after she's been with a well-endowed man and why in the end--it's the cuck who wins.

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June 14, 2021 27 min

A woman's seemingly innocent game of footsie with a flirty female co-worker opens the door to non-monogamy. Both on their second marriage, Jess and Jeff find that having more sex is great... and having it with more people is even better.  She's now free to explore her bisexuality and he's happy to go down that road with her.

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