Controversy and Chaos

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In Episode 68, we’re diving into what it really means when birds of a feather flock together. Is it really a problem for married people to hang out with their single friends, or is that just society projecting boundaries? We also tackle the layers of morality; are your values truly your own, or are they ju...

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! We’re kicking things off with a special announcement: we're having a baby! Then we dive deep into the Random Question of the Day: Is trauma bonding always toxic, or is there some nuance? We also share our hot takes on the Offset and Cardi B divorce saga, especially that spicy spousal support request, ...

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In this episode, we’re kicking things off with a spicy random question: Should you still marry him if you hate the engagement ring? 👀 Then we dive into a real conversation about how your partner’s family dynamics can impact your relationship—and even how you show up as a parent. From navigating in-laws to...

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In this episode, we’re reflecting on the chaos, clarity, and curveballs of our 20s and the lessons that came with them. Now that we’re thirty, flirty, and thriving (or at least trying to), we’re spilling all the gems we’ve picked up along the way. Plus, the Random Question of the Day will have you thinking...

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In this episode, we’re diving into two big questions: Is it ever okay to lie to protect someone’s feelings? And why are Black women constantly under a microscope, especially in professional spaces? From navigating honesty to unpacking the workplace bias black women face, we're getting down to the real...

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! This week, we’re talking about soft life. Is it peace, luxury, or just having your bills paid on time? We also get into the timeless debate—should you post your man early or keep him in the drafts? Posting your man early, is it bold or just dumb? From childhood core memories to social media etiquette and t...

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In this episode, we’re getting real about the pressures of womanhood—the silent competitions, the “strong Black woman” label, and why some of these so-called flexes just aren’t giving. We also dive into a necessary convo on the innocence of Black boys, the softness they deserve, and how society fails to pr...

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! We’re doing our makeup and running our mouths again; the tea is hot!  While we blend our concealer and fight with these lash clusters, tune in as we chat about concerts, social media drama, Celeb drama, and everything in between. If you love a little mess with your mascara, pull up. We’ve got plenty to say...

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! We’re diving deep into the realities of womanhood in this episode. First up, was monogamy really designed for women, or is it just another system built around men’s lack of self-control? Then, we get raw about the first time we realized the ...

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In this episode, we’re getting real about protecting our kids. From schoolyard bullies to online trolls, we share how we’d handle it as parents and reflect on our experiences growing up around envy and mean girls. Plus, we stroll down memory lane with college party stories, debate if Gen Z is doing too muc...

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! Episode 58 In this episode,  We dive into a few hot topics and random thoughts. Grab your makeup bag, your drink,  and your opinions it’s about to get messy in the best way! 

Timestamps:
💅🏾 0:18 - Nail Check
💼 2:08 - Working for a Nonprofit vs. Corporate
😬 7:05 - Random Question: O...

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! Episode 57, we’re diving deep into the dating pool—spoiler alert: it’s shallow! 😩 Are people missing out on their perfect match because they’re too busy chasing their “type”? We break down unrealistic preferences, attraction vs. connection, and whether being too picky is holding you back. Plus, we touch o...

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! Episode 56 is a classic random rant dump, and we’re getting into everything! From hair talk to Bravo drama, Cecred’s Ulta deal, and why Black Brits stay beefing with us. We’re also handing out Auntie Cards (Ciara, come get yours), discussing Megan Thee Stallion’s tequila, and side-eyeing The Rolling Stones...

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In Episode 55, we’re getting into everything that makes us side-eye society. Why do rich people feel the need to control how poor people use their food stamps? The deep-rooted daddy issues that show up in women’s dating choices, and the beauty standards that keep feeding low self-esteem. And let’s not forg...

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In Episode 54, we’re diving into the great debate—what’s too much when it comes to dressing for church? Style with Sense: Every Outfit Has a Time & Place, using Jayda Cheaves and Talitha Jane as case studies, we break down the fine line between fashionable and a little too outside the pew. We also get ...

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In Episode 53, we're pulling back the curtain on motherhood—the good, the bad, and the downright exhausting. We get real about our personal experiences, navigating postpartum depression, and how motherhood can make you feel like you’re losing your spark. We also chat about Paris Fashion Week, Pharrell...

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! Join us for a GRWM (Get Ready With Me) session where we spill the tea on everything from the return of MAC Cosmetics (nostalgia unlocked!), the wild Popeyes x Don Julio collab (yes, that’s real), and the internet drama you didn’t know you needed. Our main topic? A full review and recap of WAGS to Riches—be...

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! Whew, y’all… we are officially in FAFO season, and the first nine days of Trump’s new term already got us side-eyeing the whole country. 😒 In this unfiltered convo dump, we break down what these changes mean for minorities (spoiler: it’s not looking good), the most valuable life advice we’ve ever received...

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In Episode 50, we’re putting our spin on marriage talk! Were we ready when we said “I do,” or were we just out here winging it? 👀 We’re unpacking growing pains, debating if love is enough to walk down the aisle, and spilling the tea on how to spot someone who’s marriage material (hint: it’s not just vibes...