conVersate After Dark

conVersate After Dark

Welcome to ConVersate After Dark where we have open and thought provoking discussions that are sure to be provocative, stimulating and enlightening.

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June 12, 2026 44 mins

On this episode of Conversate After Dark, we get into the stuff people feel but don't always say out loud. We open with doing nice things for yourself, why it's so hard for the dependable one to set a boundary, and the difference between saying no and just backing away from people.

Then it gets fun. We trade our worst date stories: the drunk date who got tossed from a Charlie Wilson show, the night a date pulled over to conf...

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Are finances tearing couples apart before they even get started? Marvin and Tay get into the real conversations people avoid: loaning money to family, who should have a say in how your partner spends, and whether marriage actually benefits men or women. Plus, would you stay in a relationship just because your family loves your partner? And what happens when your ex is still treated like family? This episode hits every nerve. Subscr...

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Once trust is broken, can you ever really get it back? Mar B and Tay go deep on rebuilding trust, lying in relationships, what it means to be equally yoked, dating someone without a strong male role model, and whether asking your partner to cut off opposite-sex friends is controlling or just smart. Plus a would you or wouldn't you that gets real very fast. This is Conversate After Dark — no filter, all the way Black.

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Masturbation, Mental Health, and Relationship Boundaries: The Conversation Nobody Wants to Have

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What would you do if your sex tape leaked online? Marv and Tay go there — and don't stop there. This episode covers Ray J's wild claims, Klay Thompson fumbling Megan Thee Stallion, Tory Lanez, and the real reason couples stay silent about what they want in the bedroom. Are you a pleaser or a controller? Can two pleasers actually work? Plus, would you date someone who refuses to meet your people after 6 months?

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In this episode of Conversate After Dark, we dive into real conversations about relationships, intimacy, and boundaries.

We break down:
• How important alone time is in relationships
• Clingy vs independent partners
• Does porn negatively impact intimacy?
• Can good sex actually save a bad relationship?
• Revenge sex, toxic habits, and relationship truths
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On this episode Tay and Marv talk about the viral clip of the man sleeping his car to avoid his wife, and can you be with someone who does not think sex is important. 

Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.

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It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”
No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.

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On this episode Tay and Marv talk about is it weird to manifest a marriage.

Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.

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It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”
No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.

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On this episode Tay and Marv talk about apology languages and when does liking social media pictures go too far?

Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.

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It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”
No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.

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On this episode Tay and Marv talk about should you be going to the club if you're in a relationship?

Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.

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It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”
No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.

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On this episode Tay and Marv talk about should you tell your friend or not if you catch their partner cheating on them?

Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.

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It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”
No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.

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On this episode Tay and Marv talk about marrying too young and dating someone who is immature. 

Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.

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It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”
No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.

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On this episode Tay and Marv talk about the importance of matching energy, and when should you take the relationship public. 

Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.

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It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”
No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.

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December 10, 2025 57 mins

On this episode Tay and Marv celebrate 100 episodes of conVersate After Dark

Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.

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No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.

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On this episode Tay and Marv talk about age differences and does who your partner used to date matter?

Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.

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It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”
No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.

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On this episode Tay and Marv talk have on their special guest Dr. VicTORIEus aka Dr. Torie Williams to talk about ACES also known as Adverse Childhood Experiences and how they can impact your relationships.  

Make sure you follow Dr. Torie on IG @dr.victorieus

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On this episode Tay and Marv talk about using AI to help you date, and the new way of ghosting....


This week on ConVersate After Dark, Tay and Marv ask the real questions.

Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.

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It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”
No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.

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On this episode Tay and Marv talk about can you be too transparent when entering a relationship, and how would you handle hearing about an abusive ex passing away?


This week on ConVersate After Dark, Tay and Marv ask the real questions.

Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.

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On this episode Tay and Marv talk can you stay friends with a friend with benefits once the benefits end?


This week on ConVersate After Dark, Tay and Marv ask the real questions.

Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.

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It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”
No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.

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On this episode Tay and Marv talk about how do you handle your partner changing on you. 


This week on ConVersate After Dark, Tay and Marv ask the real questions.

Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.

Tune in and tell us what you think.


It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”
No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.

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