Convos & Cocktails with Lesego Tlhabi

Convos & Cocktails with Lesego Tlhabi

A podcast by Lesego Tlhabi focused on having the conversations we, as black women, want to have... but often don't. Pour a cocktail and let's get talking!

Episodes

November 8, 2023 30 mins
Just me, myself and I having fun on the last episode of the season.

An episode where I answer some audience questions, some personal, some Instagram Monday style, and all completely fun!

I would just like to say thank you for the support this season. I have loved all the feedback and it's been so wonderful how much I have enjoyed creating this and how much you have all enjoyed it. I hope I get to do a season 3 because this is a l...
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Talking weight loss surgery and the journey therein

Joining me in studio this week is my gorgeous guest, Lungile Thabethe, who opened up about the journey to and through weight loss surgery, the empowerment in making the not-so-popular choice and what the response has been both externally and internally.

We discuss self-confidence, the difference between elective surgery and other options and what it all entails.

Enjoy!
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October 18, 2023 54 mins
As promised, we brought in my guest, the ever-honest, raw, and hilarious, Legato Sengadi, to discuss what is happening in the world of dating from the women's perspective. The what the f*ck is going on in mjolo dives into the "other side" as we laugh and lament on dating in Mzansi and beyond.
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October 11, 2023 57 mins
Join me and my incredible guest, Dr Katlego Lekalakala who is a Medical Doctor and founder of the online safe space for young moms, Clueless Moms, is in to answer some questions (including some from our audience) about the joys and sometimes hardships about being a new mom. This refreshingly honest and intimate conversation is a must-listen for all moms who often feel unheard and don't always know where to go for support or communi...
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Using her own incredibly close relationship with her mother-in-law and as a mother-in-law herself, WIPHOLD Founder and Executive Director, Gloria Serobe takes on a new role as author.

Her book 'An Ode To My Mother-in-Law, Winnie Serobe' is an ode of love, honour and respect to her mother-in-law, whom she referred to as Mama.

Join us as we dive into an inter-generational and open conversation about the mother & daughter-in-law rel...
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A candid conversation about the stepmom/daughter relationship.

I sit down with my stepmom to have an open and honest conversation about the often difficult relationship between a stepmom and step daughter. The media portrayal and depiction of this relationship is often negative and at best, difficult.

We explore the difficulties but also ultimately, break the stereotypes around this blended family dynamic. Join us for a candid d...
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September 20, 2023 56 mins
An in-depth conversation on moving through grief.

In this episode, we sit down with Louisa Zondo who is the author of ‘Dearest MaRiky: A Mother’s Journey Through Grief, Trauma and Healing’, a memoir she wrote after losing her son, South African rapper Riky Rick, to depression. We spoke about grief, the importance of community support, and the arduous journey navigating ever-constant grief.
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September 13, 2023 50 mins
You asked and we answered! Our guest for our second episode is our ever-so-spicy and
knowledgeable sex coach @ndi_hot_ne. We focused once again on self pleasure, our
orgasms and exploring kinks. Ndileka | X.com
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September 6, 2023 69 mins
Why le le so? The Joburg dating scene with dope ass guest, Sipho Muchi.

Join my dope ass guest, Sipho Muchi, and I in studio as we discuss, Why Are Men? “Why le le so?” As one viewer so concisely asked. We had a hilarious convo about what’s going on ngaphandle in the wild hedro world of dating.
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August 11, 2022 55 mins
The last episode for season 1 featuring me 😀

A reflection on the past season and some of the amazing conversations I had with my guests, as well as a fun Q&A for that extra zag-a-zaa.
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July 28, 2022 62 mins
The most important conversation of my life.

My gorgeous and all-round phenomenal woman that is my mom and I sit down and answer some audience questions as well as have a frank conversation about our relationship from childhood until now.
Thank you for doing this with me, mama ❤️
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July 21, 2022 54 mins
An honest chat about stepping into your full being.

Join me as I chat with my guest Ayabonga Ngoma about the power and freedom of Becoming. We use their journey of discovering what it means to be Non Binary in a binary world to unpack what it means to finally be able to live as oneself fully and the impact it has on those who can experience that and be inspired by it. Connect with Ayabonga
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In this episode, I'm sitting in and sipping on Aperol Spritz with Atlehang Ramathesele, a woman in media, and owner of Blossom Ink Media.

Join us as we talk media, owning a business as a woman, and importantly, friendship. Connect with Atlehang · Blossom Ink Media Website
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June 30, 2022 41 mins
It’s never to late to pivot, re-route and start again.

In this episode we speak to NAACP Award-winning filmmaker, Phumi Morare, about the courage to look at your career and life and decide to completely change your path and start over.

Starting off in a successful career in finance, Phumi decided to leave everything she knew and the comfort of her career and take the leap into filmmaking at 30 years old.

Having already achieved ...
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A round table of singles spilling about the highs & lows of dating in JHB

Our guests: Thulane Hadebe, Tessa Twala

In the first episode of this Sex and the City (of Gold) series, I catch up with Toolz and Tessa where we all weigh in on our perspectives on the dating scene in Joburg.

This episode we spill on where we’re all at romantically and then get into interracial dating.

Grab a negroni and let’s sip and spill! Connect with...
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June 16, 2022 42 mins
In this episode, I am joined by the incredible mind that is Lwando Xaso of Including Society. We talk about the ever-present racism in South African schools and why we are still dealing with this problem in 2022. Connect with Lwando · Including Society Website
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June 9, 2022 48 mins
Tinder Swindler - but make it local.

In this episode, I speak to the ever bubbly Shandukani, who spills the tea and gives us lessons on her experience dating an international fraudster who uses dating apps to lure intelligent and independent women in an attempt to scam them.
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June 2, 2022 53 mins
The incredibly talented Black Wendy joins me to chat about body image.

Join me as I sit down for a reflective and hilarious chat with everyone’s fave, Wendy Gumede as we discuss issues of fatphobia in the industry, in the dating scene and in society in general and how that contributes to body image and learning to love the skin.
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May 14, 2022 49 mins
Intimacy Coach Ndileka Mhlauli helps us demystify the female orgasm.

In this episode, we get to know certified sex and intimacy coach, Ndileka Mhlauli, who also answers all your questions on the female orgasm and pleasure principles.
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