In this enlightening conversation, Jill Barnett Kaufman shares her expertise on co-parenting, drawing from her personal experiences and professional background as a therapist and divorce coach. She discusses the complexities of navigating co-parenting relationships, especially in high-conflict situations, and emphasizes the importance of communication, boundaries, and supporting children through the emotional challenges of divorce. Jill also highlights the evolving landscape of divorce support, including the rise of mediation and coaching, and offers valuable advice for those considering remarriage and blending families
Learn more about Jill Barnett Kaufman’s coaching, therapy and mediation work at: https://www.divorcecoachjill.com/
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Keywords
co-parenting, divorce, parenting strategies, high conflict, communication, family dynamics, support groups, healing, boundaries, remarriage
Key Takeaways
Co-parenting requires a shift from couple dynamics to a colleague-like relationship.
Respect and communication are key in co-parenting.
The BIFF method helps manage communication with high-conflict individuals.
Setting clear boundaries is essential in co-parenting.
Journaling and support groups can aid in emotional healing.
Children should not be burdened with adult conflicts.
Encouraging children to maintain relationships with both parents is crucial.
Awareness of parental alienation and narcissism is increasing.
People are seeking alternatives to traditional divorce methods.
Take time to understand yourself before entering a new relationship.
Sound Bites
"You have to respect each other."
"The BIFF method is a great tool."
"Journaling is really good."
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Co-Parenting Challenges
03:45 Transitioning from Partners to Co-Parents
06:18 Navigating High Conflict Situations
08:14 Setting Boundaries in Co-Parenting
10:26 Supporting Children Through Divorce
13:07 Communication Strategies for Co-Parents
15:17 The Importance of Collaboration vs. Parallel Parenting
17:32 Recognizing and Avoiding Manipulative Behaviors
19:55 Trends in Co-Parenting and Divorce
22:18 Advice for Remarriage and Blended Families
24:24 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
29:14 Outro
29:56 Disclaimer
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