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October 11, 2021 12 mins

“The best measure of your parenting is your child’s happiness.”

—  Allison Villa


Have you ever stopped to think about what lessons you have learned in parenthood? 


Recently, I’ve celebrated a huge milestone in my life; 10 years of motherhood. 


In today’s episode of Couplehood, I took some time to reflect on what I’ve learned in my 10 years of parenting and what I would tell myself 10 years ago when I began my motherhood journey. 


As you listen, I encourage you to reflect on your own parenting journey and write down the lessons that you’ve learned along the way.


I find it helpful to find compassion for my younger self, as a new mother, and I hope that you share that grace with yourself as well.


In‌ ‌this‌ ‌episode of Couplehood,‌ ‌you’ll discover:‌

  • What the true measure of your parenting is
  • How your childhood plays a role in your children’s childhood
  • What to do when you make a mistake as a parent
  • How important your relationships with your partner and your friends are in your parenthood journey 


“Our children are our mirrors and they reflect our own inner-child wounds that may still need healing. Let your children be your guide to keep going inwards and understanding yourself.”

—  Allison Villa

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Highlights:‌ ‌

01:36  You can’t get an A in parenting 

02:57  Repair ruptures 

03:50  Make time for yourself

04:38  Grief and growth 

05:10  Make your own choices

05:55  Your children’s childhood is their’s

07:46  Prioritize your couple

08:40  Friendships will change

09:30  Vacation

10:54  Change direction 


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