Fix it Friday - Why Money Can’t Buy Happiness

Welcome to Fusion Fix-It Fridays, hosted by Jonathan Blau, CEO of Fusion Family Wealth. In today's episode, Jonathan dives into the timeless question: Can money buy happiness? While many may believe wealth leads to fulfillment, Jonathan challenges this idea by exploring how our brains are wired for the fleeting pleasure of material gain and why true happiness lies in far deeper sources of meaning. He’ll share insights from the 1700s by French philosopher Montesquieu, discuss the concept of “enough,” as illustrated by Joseph Heller, and offer advice on assessing your happiness beyond the pursuit of wealth. Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation that may change your thoughts about success and contentment.

IN THIS EPISODE:

• [1:14] Jonathan explores the dopamine rush that comes with buying
• [2:22] Montesquieu’s timeless insights on happiness and comparison
• [4:00] Jonathan’s formula for assessing your happiness
• [4:35] A thought-provoking example from Morgan Housel and Joseph Heller on the concept of ‘enough’
• [6:24] Jonathan offers final advice on why money can’t buy true happiness

KEY TAKEAWAYS:

• Money can't buy lasting happiness because our brains are driven by the dopamine rush from anticipating new possessions, not from the items themselves. This creates a cycle of constant desire for more, similar to an addiction, where the excitement of acquiring something new fades quickly, and we're left craving the next big thing. True happiness isn't found in material wealth but in deeper, more meaningful sources of fulfillment.
• Montesquieu's insight from the 1700s still rings true today: our desire for happiness is often less about achieving personal joy and more about being happier than others. Social media, particularly Facebook, amplifies this by showing only the highlights of others' lives, creating an illusion of greater happiness. We measure our success and happiness in relative terms, constantly comparing ourselves to others rather than finding absolute satisfaction or what truly brings us fulfillment.
• The principle of "enough" highlights that true happiness and contentment come from recognizing when we have reached a point of fulfillment rather than constantly striving for more. Joseph Heller's response to the billionaire hedge fund manager—emphasizing that he had "enough"—shows that contentment isn't measured by wealth or material success but by the ability to acknowledge and appreciate what we already have. Without this sense of enough, we will always move the goalposts, and money alone will never bring lasting happiness.

ABOUT THE HOST: Jonathan is the President and CEO of Fusion Family Wealth, founded in 2013 to focus on behavioral finance and guide clients toward rational financial decisions. A sought-after speaker in wealth management, Jonathan previously held senior roles in tax and estate planning at Arthur Andersen. He has a BS in Finance, an MS in Taxation, and an MBA in Accounting. Based on Long Island, Jonathan is active in the local business community, supports causes like the Middle Market Alliance and Sunrise Day Camp, and enjoys boating with his family.

RESOURCE LINKS 

Fusion Family Wealth - Website

Jonathan Blau - LinkedIn

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