Create The Best Me

Create The Best Me

We're an age-positive podcast that celebrates the richness of midlife and beyond. Hosted by Carmen Hecox, a seasoned transformational coach, our platform provides an empowering outlook on these transformative years. With a keen focus on perimenopause, menopause, and post-menopause, Carmen brings together thought leaders, authors, artists, and entrepreneurs for candid conversations that inspire and motivate. Each episode is packed with expert insights and practical advice to help you navigate life's challenges and seize opportunities for growth, wellness, and fulfillment. From career transitions and personal development to health, beauty, and relationships, "Create The Best Me" is your guide to thriving in midlife. Tune in and transform your journey into your most exhilarating adventure yet.

Episodes

December 4, 2025 48 mins

What if the therapy you’ve tried falls short, and old inner child wounds remain unhealed? In Inner Child Wounds Therapy Missed—Healed by Psychedelics, I sit down with Alexis Leigh, author of Pain Is A Portal to Beauty, for a vulnerable look at the life-changing path she took when traditional trauma recovery and counseling left her stuck. We dive into Alexis’s firsthand Ayahuasca experience, the rawness of dissociation symptoms from...

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Ever wondered what really happens when you quit sugar, especially if you’re dealing with menopause? In this episode, "I Quit Sugar for 30 Days: What Happened to My Menopause Belly," I open up about my honest, unfiltered journey giving up sugar and sweets for a whole month.

I’ll share how seeing my sister’s stunning transformation (just from giving up soda!) inspired me to finally face my own sugar habit. I dive into the re...

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Feeling stuck, restless, or questioning your path? The words “midlife crisis” gets tossed around a lot, but what if that unsettled feeling is actually an inner summons, a powerful call to realign with your purpose and values? In this episode, “Stop Calling It A Midlife Crisis (Do This Instead),” I talk with bestselling author and leadership strategist James Robbins about how to turn that discomfort into growth, creativity, and a mo...

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November 13, 2025 10 mins

Is parenting truly easier once your kids become adults? In this episode, I share my own story of why parenting adult kids is still hard even when they’ve grown into independent, capable people.

I share my experience supporting my adult child through a health crisis, the emotional rollercoaster of letting go of control, and coming to terms with the reality that the parenting role never really ends; it simply evolves. In "Why Par...

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November 6, 2025 36 mins

Is debt shame making you anxious about your finances and holding you back from building a better financial future? In “Stop Debt Shame With These 3 Easy Steps!”, I’m joined by entrepreneur, lifelong investor, and MillionElle podcast host Gokce Donat. Together, we get honest about debt shame, what it is, how to recognize its signs, and proven ways to move from embarrassment into action. 

Debt shame keeps too many wise, hardworking wo...

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Are you curious about facial fillers but afraid of looking “fake” or overdone? In this episode of Create The Best Me, I open up about my real-life filler journey, sharing my experience in “My Facial Filler Experience: Overcoming the Fear of Looking ‘Fake.’” If you’ve ever glanced in the mirror and wished for a refreshed, natural look, not a drastic transformation, this episode is for you.

I sit down with my trusted injector, Karina ...

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What do you say when someone you love is shattered by loss? In this episode of Create The Best Me, we go deep with grief recovery specialist and author Sylvia Moore Myers, diving straight into “A Grief Expert’s 7 Steps to Mend From Unthinkable Trauma.”

From the moment Sylvia shares the heartbreaking loss of her son and the extent of trauma that followed, you’ll hear a raw but honest conversation about resilience, forgiveness, and th...

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Ever wondered why your favorite cardio routine might actually be holding you back from feeling your best in midlife? In “Why Your Cardio is Secretly Working Against Your Hormones,” I sit down with Dr. Nathalie Beauchamp, functional medicine expert, chiropractor, biohacker, and best-selling author, to unpack the science of women’s hormones, metabolism, and inflammation as we age.

If you’re struggling with stubborn belly fat, unexplai...

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Are you struggling with thinning hair and wondering if a wig is your only option? Before you take the plunge, listen to “Thinning Hair? Watch This Before You Buy a Wig.” In this episode, I share my own journey with hair loss, offering honest, practical advice to help you regain confidence and find solutions that work for you.

If you’ve ever avoided events because of a bald spot, felt self-conscious about your part, or just want to l...

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Are you caught up in the thrill of chasing that elusive “spark” when dating, only to find yourself in another unfulfilling relationship? You’re not alone, and it might be time to see the spark for what it really is. In this episode, I’m joined by expert dating and relationship coach Bern Mendez, who specializes in helping women in midlife finally break free from painful dating patterns and attract genuinely available partners.

In “S...

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Have you ever found yourself in the shower, shampooing your hair, only to discover clumps of hair between your fingers? In this episode, “What I Did When My Hair Started Falling Out in Clumps,” I take you through my very real and sometimes overwhelming hair loss journey as a woman dealing with menopause, stress, and unexpected illness. If you’re experiencing sudden hair shedding, wondering if your hair will ever regrow, or just fee...

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Are you tired of relying on medications or receiving recommendations for surgery while your chronic pain lingers? In this empowering episode, I sit down with Stacey Roberts, a seasoned physical therapist, holistic nurse, and author of "The Pain Free Formula: Solving the Puzzle of Muscle and Joint Pain Without Surgery, Drugs, or Injections," to explore "Chronic Pain Relief Without Drugs or Surgery – Here’s How." ...

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Ever feel like life is just a blur of tasks, errands, and obligations? In “Stop What You Are Doing Now: How To Achieve More By Doing Less,” I sit down with Peggy Sullivan, a well-known advocate for intentional living and author of “Beyond Busyness.” Together, we dive deep into why constantly grinding doesn’t equal greater productivity or happiness, and how breaking the addiction to busyness can actually put you on the fast track to...

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Are you the one who’s always reliable, the steady hub for your family, workplace, and friends? If you find yourself exhausted, disconnected, or feeling invisible, this episode, "The Risks You Take When You Fail To Be Present For Yourself," is for you. I dive into how chronic self-neglect isn’t just about a busy schedule, but a deeper, slow-burning risk to your mental health, relationships, and sense of self.

I discuss open...

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This isn’t just a dream; it’s absolutely possible, no matter what life’s thrown your way. In this episode, I sit down with Michelle Hensley, a woman who lost everything in midlife but rebuilt her world from the ground up (literally with a van and some wrapping paper!). Today, Michelle is the powerhouse founder of the largest mobile gift-wrapping business in the United States, Nifty Package Company, and a coach for women ready to ma...

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In “Why Burnout Isn’t Just About Stress: The Betrayal No One Talks About,” we dive deep into the hidden roots of burnout, especially for midlife women. Burnout isn’t about being “bad at stress,” it’s about feeling betrayed by everything you were told would bring fulfillment: perfect homes, thriving careers, and peace at home. In this honest and revealing episode, I talk to Lora Cheadle, a former high-powered attorney, hypnotherapis...

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Taking care of your aging parents can feel overwhelming, but why caring for aging parents doesn’t have to suck the life out of you is at the heart of this week’s Create the Best Me episode. I’m joined by Howard Miller, a bestselling author and seasoned caregiver who has navigated the path of balancing work, family, and the growing needs of elderly parents, all while finding moments of laughter and gratitude amidst the chaos.

In our ...

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In “5 Signs You’re Not Living in the Present,” I explore the everyday habits and thought patterns that keep so many of us stuck in autopilot constantly multitasking, fixated on regrets, or worrying about the future. If you feel like your days are passing in a blur or the happiest moments slip by unnoticed, this episode is for you.

I break down the five biggest indicators that you’re not living in the moment and, more importantly, ho...

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What does starting over after divorce truly look like, especially when you’re navigating midlife, menopause, and a world that says your best days are behind you? Today, I sit down with artist, yogi, and author Chrystal Rae for an honest conversation about picking up the pieces, finding love again (for yourself and others), and embracing every new beginning.

In Starting Over After Divorce (What YOU Need to Know), Chrystal opens up ab...

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Is it possible to master a career change after 50, even if you haven’t touched your resume or LinkedIn in years? In this week’s episode, I sit down with executive career coach Lorraine Rise to explore exactly that. It’s a conversation designed for anyone who feels stuck or irrelevant in midlife but still wants work that lights them up.

“How Successful People Master Career Changes After 50” features Lorraine’s step-by-step strategies...

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