Create The Best Me

Have you ever wondered why saying “no” can feel so uncomfortable, or why enforcing boundaries sometimes makes you feel like the bad guy? In this episode, we’re digging into “How to Say No Without Feeling Bad.” I sit down with emotional resilience coach, retreat leader, and author Jen Febel to uncover why people pleasing is so common, why “being nice” isn’t always so nice, and, most importantly, how you can set boundaries with confi...

Are you tired of feeling shackled by student loans, credit card debt, or the endless cycle of living paycheck to paycheck? In this episode, I dive deep with U.S Army Veteran, financial coach, fintech manager, and opera singer Veronica Deraleau to reveal real-world strategies to crush debt and stop living paycheck to paycheck, no matter your starting point.

Veronica’s story is proof that massive change is possible. She paid off $100,...

Are you ready to go beyond your inner critic? In “How to Listen to Your Intuition and Trust Yourself,” I sit down with executive coach and author Jules Kuroda to explore the often-misunderstood voice of intuition and the powerful journey back to the deeper self, Jules calls your “N8 Self.”

If you’ve ever wondered whether there’s more to life than your daily routine, felt uncertain after a big transition, or struggled with trusting y...

Ever find yourself thinking, “Isn’t midlife supposed to be more fun?” You’re not alone, and that’s exactly why today’s episode, “How You Reclaim Pleasure in Midlife,” is such an important listen. I’m joined by the fabulous “pleasure queen,” Natty Frasca, a coach for midlife women dedicated to helping us rekindle joy, purpose, and playfulness as we navigate this pivotal chapter of life.

In this conversation, Natty and I break down wh...

Are you still believing menopause means the end of vibrancy or that hormone therapy is just too risky? In "Menopause Myths Busted: The Truth About Hormones," I sit down with renowned hormone expert Dr. Prudence Hall, who has over 40 years of experience, to unravel everything you thought you knew about menopause, hormones, and aging.

This episode digs deep into menopause myths, the truth about hormone therapy, and why your ...

The Hidden Effects of Unresolved Sexual Trauma is something most people hope never to face, yet countless survivors find that trauma they thought was buried resurfaces in unexpected, and often disruptive, ways. In this episode, I sit down with somatic psychotherapist and author Erika Shershun, who specializes in helping survivors understand and heal from the hidden effects of unresolved sexual trauma. Drawing not only from her clin...

Are you feeling lost in midlife, wondering, “Now what?” In “Not Stuck—Growing: Find YOUR Midlife Purpose,” I explore what happens when old milestones no longer bring fulfillment and why that sense of restlessness isn’t failure; it’s a powerful call to grow. If you’ve ever felt like you’re stuck after 50, I want to show you how this can be the start of your most meaningful chapter yet. 

In “Not Stuck—Growing: Find YOUR Midlife Purpos...

In this episode, I dive into a topic we rarely talk about but need to—hidden mold and mycotoxins in our homes—with special guest Seth Jones. Once a globe-trotting DJ and music producer, Seth’s own encounter with building-related illness led him to found Superstratum and dedicate his life to protecting people from the invisible (and often misunderstood) dangers lurking in “perfect” homes.

Together, we bust the myth that only old, mus...

Have you ever promised yourself that change would start “tomorrow”—whether that’s working out, tackling spring cleaning, or finally building a good habit? In “Transform Your Life Today: Small Steps, Big Results,” I’m sharing my proven, step-by-step approach to stop procrastinating and create the transformation you deserve—starting right now.

This episode is all about making change simple, sustainable, and realistic. You’ll learn exa...

On this week’s episode, I’m joined by the inspiring Rhiah Kujat—environmentalist, actor, trauma therapist, and the author behind Life’s Poetic Glossary. Our conversation is all about how to “Free Yourself from Family Patterns & Embrace Sacred Intimacy.”

We dig into the roots of family and cultural conditioning that shape who we think we’re supposed to be and discover why the most sacred act of intimacy might just be with yoursel...

Ever felt stuck right on the edge of a big change—whether it’s a new career, a dream adventure, or chasing something you’ve always wanted, but just couldn’t move forward? In this episode of Create The Best Me, I, Carmen Hecox, get real about the hidden reasons we hold ourselves back and the simple truths that can finally set us free.

I share my own story of hitting a life-altering setback while working toward my degree, and the crit...

In this episode, I chat with Dr. Lenka Schulze to explore the transformative power of intuition during midlife changes. We delve into understanding intuition as the language of our soul and how it reignites in midlife. Dr. Schulze highlights the cosmic influences we encounter around age 50, like Saturn’s return and Chiron’s return, and how these astrological events can cue significant personal reflection and growth.

Dr. Schulze shar...

In this episode, I'm thrilled to sit down with Jennifer Robin Wilson—a leadership coach, business consultant, and former CEO—to uncover her unique journey to overcoming burnout. While many might dream of a long vacation as a remedy, Jennifer shares why that wasn't her solution and offers insight into a path you might not have considered. Whether you're a woman in midlife contemplating a career shift or just feeling t...

What drives someone to transform their darkest moments into a beacon of hope for others? In this enlightening episode of "Create The Best Me," I, Carmen Hecox, sit down with the inspiring Judy Henderson. After spending thirty-six years in prison for a crime she didn't commit, Judy emerged not only free but also determined to champion the battered women's syndrome defense. Her new book, "When The Light Finds...

Join me and Neelam Kaur as we dive into the world of makeup artistry with tips and tricks that can transform your beauty routine. It's all about glowing skin, expertly selected shades, and making you feel fabulous. We’re cutting through the clutter and tackling common beauty challenges with easy solutions. Ever struggled with raccoon eyes or cakey concealer? Neelam’s got you covered. And if you've ever had a magnetic lash...

In this episode, Carin Luna-Ostaseski takes us through her inspiring story of identifying a gap in support and resources for women experiencing perimenopause and menopause. We discuss natural strategies and products that have helped Carin and many others to ease symptoms and embrace this life stage. From cooling wearable fans to mindful meditation practices, we cover practical advice to help you confidently navigate through menopau...

Join me as I share a personal and emotional account of losing our beloved family pet, Foxy. I'll walk you through the journey from her vibrant life to the endearing bond she shared with my daughter, Jasmine, and her transition alongside my father's memory. This episode acknowledges the profound impact of losing a pet and offers solace to those who have experienced or are experiencing similar emotions.

5 Key Lessons:

1. Unc...

Join us as Evalee Gertz shares her journey from the competitive world of dance to creating a product that truly makes a difference. We'll explore the life-changing benefits of quality sleep and how a silk sleep mask can elevate your nighttime routine, improve recovery, regulate hormones, and help you wake up feeling truly refreshed. Whether you're a light sleeper, a chronic migraine sufferer, or just looking to optimize y...

In this episode, I explore the intricate world of menopausal depression. We'll discuss the physiological changes, the psychological impacts, and the proactive steps one can take to regain control. By sharing personal anecdotes and referencing the wisdom shared by previous guests like Jennifer Hill and Dr. Val Cacho, I aim to equip you with tools to better manage and understand your experiences.

5 Key Lessons:

1. Understanding M...