Identifying the Underlying Pattern

It’s not the popcorn. It’s not the wine. It’s the pattern underneath.

In this audio-only Crown Yourself episode, I break down how escapism, unfinished projects, and self-sabotage are symptoms of deeper belief systems—and how conscious awareness collapses healing timelines. Learn to identify hidden patterns, reclaim intuition, and finish what truly matters.

 

Enjoy, sovereigns!

 

Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube.

Quotes:

“It’s not about the popcorn. It’s not about the wine. It’s about the pattern underneath it.” ~ Kimberly Spencer

 

“Once you heal the pattern, the behavior no longer has power.” ~ Kimberly Spencer

 

“Your body will always tell you the truth before your mind catches up.” ~ Kimberly Spencer

 

Moments of Note:

⏱️ 00:00 — Why This Episode Exists: A Raw, Audio-Only Transmission

Behind-the-scenes context, car recordings, and why simplicity creates truth

⏱️ 02:10 — The Instagram Insight That Triggered Shadow Awareness

How shadow work reveals what you’re trying to avoid—not what you’re doing wrong

⏱️ 04:30 — Full Moon Energy, Emotional Triggers & Why Old Patterns Surface

Why heightened emotions signal readiness for healing

⏱️ 06:15 — It’s Not the Popcorn: How Escapism Distracts From the Real Issue

Food, Netflix, wine—why behaviors are never the actual problem

⏱️ 08:45 — The Hidden Belief Behind “I Have to Finish This”

How unconscious rules drive compulsive behavior

⏱️ 11:20 — NLP Explained Simply: Chunking Up to Find the Root Pattern

How to identify the overarching belief behind repeated behaviors

⏱️ 14:10 — Why You’re Finishing the Wrong Things (And Avoiding the Right Ones)

How unfinished soul-aligned projects create internal pressure

⏱️ 17:00 — Intuition vs. Compulsion: How to Tell the Difference

Why ego pushes and intuition whispers

⏱️ 19:30 — Physical Symptoms as Emotional & Spiritual Feedback

Why your body reacts when your consciousness resists growth

⏱️ 22:10 — Safety, Visibility & the Fear of Finishing What Matters

How success triggers subconscious protection mechanisms

⏱️ 24:40 — How Awareness Collapses Healing Timelines

Why mastery isn’t about discipline—it’s about precision

⏱️ 27:10 — The Fastest Way to Course-Correct and Reclaim Momentum

Turning insight into aligned action

⏱️ 29:00 — Final Integration: Finish What Your Soul Already Started

A closing invitation to sovereign leadership and conscious completion

 

Transcript:

For a full episode transcript, you can find it here.

Sharables:

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📺  YOUTUBE TIPS PLAYLISTS:  

 

The Crown Yourself Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MZwctt-09Yk&list=PL2ClsckBxxujcpec_c4m-haGSeWZkfNmP 

 

Becoming the Queen-B(usiness) of Yo’ Biz: 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GEircICw4o0&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhTAZNjo3wKa84gAgJAgpBB

 

Podcasting Queen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fWLm9j9TSPE&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhIznCt03xcCIR-caCZBads 

 

Conscious Leadership Queen:: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R35hokbpIJI&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhJqGJuF9kqCg-UfBwZzI_o 

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