Navigating Conflict in Relationships

In this episode, host Adam is joined by Katherine Bahcall, licensed Professional Counselor and a leader in recovery and care ministries, to discuss the often difficult but essential topic of conflict. Together, they explore how Christians can navigate conflict both personally and professionally, drawing from biblical wisdom and counseling experience. From conflict avoidance to the role of justice and mercy, they unpack practical steps for handling offense and sin while keeping Christ at the center. This conversation is a powerful reminder that while conflict is inevitable, the gospel gives us a redemptive framework for reconciliation.

In This Episode

[01:16] Katherine’s Journey into Counseling

[05:00] Understanding Cultural Approaches to Conflict

[07:32] Peacemaking vs. Peacekeeping in the Church

[10:12] Evaluating Offense vs. Sin

[13:21] The Importance of Self-Examination

[17:25] Approaching Conflict with Humility

[19:02] Justice, Mercy, and Trusting God

[24:39] When to Own Your Part and When to Call Out Sin

[28:00] Forgiveness as a Defeat of Evil

[30:22] Enabling vs. Confronting Sin

[31:26] Navigating Workplace Conflict

[37:00] Leading Up: How to Handle Conflict with a Boss

[44:00] The Role of Community in Conflict

[45:20] Closing Reflections on Conflict and the Gospel

Resources Mentioned

• Summer Training Series: Navigating Conflict Resolution with Katherine Bahcall
• Rethinking Leadership Episode with Alan Hooten
• The Peacemaker by Ken Sande
• Ray Ortlund's Episode

Scriptures Referenced

• Matthew 5:9 — “Blessed are the peacemakers...”
• Matthew 18 — Guidelines for addressing sin in community
• James 4 — Conflict stemming from desires at war within us
• Proverbs 27:6 — “Faithful are the wounds of a friend...”

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