Less is More: Why Micro Weddings Offer a Richer Experience

In this episode of Cut the Cake, we dive into a topic that keeps circling back—micro weddings. These intimate celebrations may be small in guest count, but they’re big on impact. Whether you’re planning one, considering scaling back your guest list, or just curious about the trend, we’re unpacking what makes a micro wedding so different from a standard wedding—or an elopement.

We share what we’ve seen on the ground—from logistics to design—and how these beautifully intentional events can still be rich in experience (without the huge price tag). You’ll hear our thoughts on how to navigate costs, guest expectations, and the misconception that smaller means simpler (hint: it doesn’t always).

From the kinds of venues that suit a micro wedding, to how your run sheet might shift, to the creative decisions couples are making with more breathing room in the budget—we cover it all. Plus, we chat through what’s worth investing in, and when having a planner is still totally worth it.

And of course, we share some personal stories that prove micro weddings aren’t just a budget option—they’re a vibe all their own. For couples wanting an intimate, immersive, and incredibly memorable day, this one's for you.

Key Takeaways:

• Micro weddings are not elopements—they typically involve up to 30 guests and still include traditional elements, but with more space for personalisation.
• Scaling back doesn’t mean scaling down on experience—you can create more impact per guest by reworking your budget intentionally.
• Unique venues like private homes, boutique stays, or restaurant takeovers are perfect for micro weddings and often create an unforgettable guest experience.
• Planning still matters—especially if you want the day to feel seamless (and not like a last-minute dinner party).
• Intimacy doesn’t make it less special—in fact, the smaller guest list often makes for deeper connections and a more relaxed vibe.

About Melanie
Mellyrain Creative is a wedding planning and styling company and we specialize in designing luxe countryside weddings across regional Victoria. As the head wedding planner and stylist at Mellyrain Creative, her team continues to grow and assist in styling design as well as wedding day coordination and execution of styling set ups at weddings all over Victoria. Prior to weddings Mel worked in sport and entertainment events in Melbourne and she is obsessed with her golden retriever pup Duncan who you’ll see on the gram from time to time. Mel love's to call country Victoria her happy place so when she's not working, you’ll still find me exploring new places, mostly something with mountains as a backdrop.

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About Tania
Tania is an award nominated, coffee obsessed lover of love, and all round stationery nerd... & that is why she started the Event Wanderer Co. After years wrangling Ballkids at the Australian Open, she stepped into the world of weddings and turned her hand to design, combining a love of stationery with today's modern design and printing techniques to bring her biz baby to life. Tania's speciality is all things stationery and signage and also understanding the stress that event and wedding planning can bring and she's here to help you navigate the chaos of the journey.

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