Why do so many men feel stuck—emotionally, spiritually, and relationally—even while doing all the “right” things?
In this vulnerable conversation, Kyle Idleman talks about the inner battles men face in silence. He explains why many men hide behind performance and productivity, how healing begins with connection (not accomplishment), and what it really looks like to take every thought captive.
Kyle and Jerrad dig into thought patterns that keep men stuck, the mental load of leadership, and why confessing weakness isn’t whining—it’s spiritual obedience. If you’ve ever felt alone, overburdened, or ashamed of not “being further along,” this conversation will help you breathe again.
What You’ll Learn:
- Why men around age 40 often face unexpected internal crisis
- How emotional connection—not productivity—defines your health
- What it looks like to take every thought captive in practical terms
- The healing power of confession and friendship
- How to recognize and break negative thought patterns
- Morning routines, prayer habits, and spoken truth as tools for renewal
Mentioned in the Episode:
- Every Thought Captive (Kyle Idleman’s new book)
- Galatians 6: “Bear one another’s burdens”
- The power of saying Scripture aloud to renew your mind
- Healthy male friendships and confession as healing rhythms
- The “+/- 3 of 40” principle: why men change between 37–43
Invite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com
Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
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