Damage-Free Discipline | Discipline Teenagers, Reparent Yourself, & Heal Relationships

Damage-Free Discipline | Discipline Teenagers, Reparent Yourself, & Heal Relationships

If you’re a frustrated mom of teenagers and you’re ready to stop worrying that you’re going to drive your kids away, lose your mind, or end up being a pushover, it’s time to start building the skills that will help you do discipline differently—without crushing spirits, killing connection, or creating resentment. I’m Tunisha—life coach, educator for over two decades, author of The Real Pain of Stress: What to Do When Bubble Baths Won’t Fix It, and mom to a teenage boy just stepping into the empty nesting stage. This podcast is for moms who want to lead their kids with God’s wisdom. I share what I’ve learned to reconnect with my teenage son after realizing I had turned into my parents (with a little something extra). I’ve developed skills that got him to be more responsible AND break generational patterns of emotional trauma and I want to share how we healed our relationship and the principles that transformed our home.

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May 18, 2025 17 mins

If you’ve been wondering what the best parenting approach actually is—this episode gives you a clear answer.

I’m breaking down what made the biggest difference in how I lead my home, what Scripture says about avoiding extremes, and why correcting your child’s behavior isn’t enough to break cycles.

 

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If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Why is my child pulling away from me?” or “Why won’t my teenager talk to me anymore?”—this episode is for you.

I’m sharing the story of how my own son almost cut me out of his life—and what I had to confront in myself to stop the damage and start healing our relationship. This isn’t about blame or shame. It’s about being honest with ourselves as moms about the environment we’ve created, the patterns ...

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It's graduation season and now it's real. You have to turn your child out into the world and you want to make sure they're prepared. The things they need most, aren't what you think. In this episode, I share 3 things your kids need to know before they leave.

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You raised them with values. You prayed. You showed up. But now your child is distant, rebellious, or making choices that don’t look anything like what you imagined—and you’re left wondering what went wrong. In this episode, we’re talking about what to do when the relationship with your child feels strained or unfamiliar, and how the story of the prodigal son gives you a model for parenting through disappointment, grief, and contro...
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I ran into a big problem and the old me would have completely lost it. In this episode, I'm going to share the wisdom I've gained from the Bible that keeps me from freaking out and how it applies to motherhood.

Next steps: It’s time to give your kids a childhood they don’t have to heal from.

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You love your kids. You’ve changed your ways. You’ve even been saved.

But deep down, you still carry guilt over how you used to parent—and you wonder if it’ll ever go away.

In this episode, we’re talking about what guilt really is, why it still shows up (even after you’ve been forgiven), and how to finally stop letting it control how you see yourself as a mom.

You’ll learn how to move forward with peace—without pretending the past ...

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You say you want to lead your kids well—but have you ever asked what’s been leading you?   In this episode, I talk about what shifted when I stopped parenting based on how I was raised, what I thought “good moms” do, or what other people expected—and started letting God lead me for real.   If you're a Christian mom who wants to parent with clarity, authority, and peace for everybody in the house, this one’s for you. ...

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Connecting with teens can feel impossible. You don't know what to ask and they think you asking the same questions all the time is just a routine of things to say. Here's a real conversation that will deepen your connection. Get the full list of questions from the conversation between my teenage son and I below.

Episode bonus: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1TuD1GsdRpCuNZGyjlJeee62aFmtuZuV5/view?usp=sharing

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Are you feeling overwhelmed and disconnected from motherhood? Do you miss the joy and excitement you felt when you first became a mom? In this video, we'll explore practical tips to help you fall back in love with motherhood again! Take a deep breath, grab a cup of coffee, and let's get started.


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I’m tackling the process of letting go when stepping back feels like failing and why watching them struggle feels wrong. But holding on too tightly keeps them stuck. So if you’re ready to stop managing every move and start trusting their ability to grow, this is for you.

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3 things I wish I knew before I became a mom.


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Do you wonder if you're a good mom? Take this test. You're doing better than you think.
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Next steps: It’s time to give your kids a childhood they don’t have to heal from.

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Join my email list to get the Damage-Free Discipline™ Framework for free with emails each weekday to help you lead with DFD in your home--https://damagefreediscipline.com

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This episode will challenge everything you thought you knew about disrespect.
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Next steps: It’s time to give your kids a childhood they don’t have to heal from.

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THIS is how you create resentful kids who can't stand being around you.
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Next steps: It’s time to give your kids a childhood they don’t have to heal from.

Book your chemistry call  👉🏾https://vvslifecoach.com

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You don't have to suffer in silence from emotional exhaustion. Here's how I broke free.

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Next steps: It’s time to give your kids a childhood they don’t have to heal from.

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The reasons why we yell are actually NEVER about what our kids are doing & have more to do with something simpler that we can do something about.

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Next steps: It’s time to give your kids a childhood they don’t have to heal from.

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January 12, 2025 15 mins

In this episode, Tunisha discusses the importance of transforming a vision into actionable steps for intentional living. She emphasizes the need for strategic goal setting, and understanding the deeper mission behind your efforts. Tunisha provides insights on how to create measurable goals.

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I’m so embarrassed to admit I did this to my son but he allowed me to post about it because more moms need to hear this. =================

Next steps: It’s time to give your kids a childhood they don’t have to heal from.

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Ephesians 4:2-3 (NLT)"Always be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other’s faults because of your love. Make every effort to keep yourselves united in the Spirit, binding yourselves together with peace."

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In this episode, Tunisha discusses the complexities of parenting and the challenges mothers face in trying to fix their relationships with their children. She emphasi...

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Proverbs 16:3 (NLT) "Commit your actions to the Lord, and your plans will succeed."

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In this episode, Tunisha emphasizes the importance of intentionality as we enter a new year, particularly for mothers. She discusses how setting a vision and following a plan can lead to meaningful growth and development in personal relationships, especially with children. The conversation delv...

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