Lt. Bella Lexi: Episode #514

Pervert Nation will really sink their teeth into this episode, so get your safe word ready! On this show, co-host Dahlia Dee picks Dick's brain about how he watches male talent in adult films. It's a discussion that will have the listeners replying to the podcast! The second half is an interview with the lovely Lt. Bella Lexi! Enjoy as she talks about her well-publicized former job and her pivot to adult work and content creation. She also dives into her love of sports, her evolution as a performer and so much more. It's an amazing look inside the life of a new talent, quickly on the rise.

Episode Transcript

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Dangling After Dark with Dick Dangle.Episode five fourteen features co host Dalia Did,
lots of dick talk, and aninterview with the lovely Lieutenant Bella Lexi.
Warning, this show is only foradults who like sex. Does your

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dick hango? Does it dangle toand fro? Can you tie at you?
Then? Can you tie it ina boat? Don't worry, Dick

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will be coming. Welcome to thepresent nation. Here he is Dick Dangle,
Dick Dangle, Hello every man,and welcome to episode five fourteen of
Dangling after Dark with Dick Dangle.Welcome to the Pervert Nation. I am

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your host, Dick Dangle, andjoining me for this episode is one of
your favorites. It is the Goddessfrom the Great White North. She's everything
you could possibly want in a cammodel and content creator and more. She
is your Manitoba maple syrup maiden,your saucy sexpot from Saskatoon, your thick

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thumpa from thunder Bay, the bitchand concubine from British Columbia in case you
didn't know, she's from Canada,and the pro twerker but anti Squerna from
Alberta. It is Dollia d howare you doing girl? You wrote me
a new list of ingin Hi.I felt so bad from the last time.

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Oh my god, I'm gonna cryon the show. Oh cry.
I know it's the holiday season,but that was beautiful. Thank you very
much. I like this. I'mlike, okay with not being like the
caterpillar, concubine or whatever. NowI'll take all of these over that.

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Okay. It is very Canada centric, it is, but I like it.
You really did your research. Itry, I do, be honest.
How many of those provinces did youknow before you googled it? Oh?
I knew all of them, didyou? Yes? So it was
your name all thirteen provinces and territories. Oh probably not, damn it.

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Yeah, that's okay. You guyshave a lot of states and I could
not. I don't even know likefive of them. So well you know
where I live, right? Really? Okay? So it's it's one with
a P. It's either Slovenia orPittsburgh. Well, Pittsburgh is the city
in Pennsylvania. Oh fuck? Sodouble right? Okay, all right,

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I'll give you points for that.Two points. I don't know if it's
double right, but you got it. Yeah, I got I was right
on both fronts. Yeah, it'stwo points for you. I was like,
I would think of a Canadian provincecity and just try to wrap something

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around it that. I'm surprised youdidn't go for the low hanging fruit of
Regina. It's too easy. Yeah, but like the perfect vagina from Regina,
I would take that. It's hardto say though, I just stumbled
over that. Right, you coulddo it, though, all right,
I'll put it in your list,just perfect, the perfect. I don't

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know, let's be honest. Iremind everyone that they haven't eaten in our
a while, but it gets thejob done. That is very true.
I didn't realize that Canada lowered itselfto the point to have in Arby's what

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we've had armies forever. That's wherethe meat is. Obviously they have the
meat. They've got the meat,and we know don't likes the meats.
That is very true. I thoughteverything in Canada was what's the name of
the big Canadian chain? Tim HortonTim Horton's, Yes, Well, I

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mean we have other things. Wedon't have half of the good stuff that
you guys have, though, Likewe don't have like in and Out and
Sonic and White Chassel or whatever.I almost have White Chapel. That's the
band I would have liked either one. Yeah, even in western Pennsylvania or
on the East coast, there aren'ta lot of in and outs, And

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I think there's a one or twowhite castles in this part of the state.
I actually have a sonic very closeto me that I've never eaten at.
So I kind of want to filma porno that's called in and out.
At in and out, it's justlike fucking in the bathroom at an
in and out, okay, withmaybe like a sign in the background or
something. Right. I mean,I'm sure I know someone that knows someone.

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I'm a classy broad, that's right. That's why. Yes, if
there is one word that pops tobrain in description of you, it's classy.
I knew it. What do wehave for this episode, Dick?

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Before this episode, you will geta little bit of banter between Dollya d
and I, and then never youknow, I thought I'd change it up
and I have an interview with LieutenantBella Lexi, and it is a very
interesting interview. You'll hear me talka little bit about that at the end
of the first half. Then wego to the second half, but the

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interview is a bit longer, sothis first half isn't going to be our
typical three hour marathon. Okay,good because I have one thing that I
want to focus on. But howdid you like your interview? That is
such an interesting interviewee, I wasalso very hard to say. I actually

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I really liked it. I thinkher transition from police officer to a performer.
I'm so glad you mentioned her backgroundbecause I was going to say,
the listeners need to know what they'regetting into. Yeah. Absolutely, I
think she has I don't want tosay handled it well, but I think
she really thought about the process andis doing it correctly. And I think

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that also has a lot to dowith just the experience of being older.
I'm so excited for this one.It's a hell of an origin story if
you think about it, like togo from a police officer who was then
I believe out it? Am Iright? Correct? Yeah? We well,
let's talk about that at the endof the first half. Ah,

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but it's so hard not to Iget so excited. I know you do,
but yeah, we'll talk about theend of the first half, and
we'll cover all the bases and thenyou'll get the interview. So, oh,
you guys, got a little bitof a fedging right there. Yes,
that's all you get, just alittle tease for now, right and
then I'm out. Okay. So, I have had a question that has
been burning me ever since our lastepisode, which by the way, I'm

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pretty sure we peaked that episode thatwas like the orgasm of the Dic Dangle
Show. So, dear listeners,before you ask me the question. We're
trying to come up with different waysto promote the show, and when we
recorded it, Dahlia says, hey, how about you send me the episode

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once it's edited, you time stampa couple spots that I can take little
snippets out of and put it onsocial media so people can hear what we
just did. And I will notlie. I found it so difficult to
do it because it was as agold from start to finish. It was

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as entertaining a first half of ashow that we have done period. I
still I'm very proud of that one. If you haven't listened to it,
guys, please go back and listento that episode. What number was it?
That would be episode five eleven.Okay, go, if you haven't

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just paused right here, we'll waitfor you. It's cool, that's right.
Yeah, it was based on Dahliagetting a lap dance and it was
just magic. I still am havingwet dreams about that lap dance, by
the way. Sure, So whatis your question? Okay? Oh wow.

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As someone who is very familiar withpornography, I've heard what are your
opinions, especially given that it's yourname on the dick? Ah me again,
you watch so much porn? Yes, do you notice the dick?

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Do you look for like specific thingsin the dick? Do you think that
it's necessary to have a big dickto perform? Because this is something that
has come up quite a bit onmy porn hub and in my content.
I've filmed with various partners over theyears, but they're just like regular like
dudes. You know. I createamateur porns, so we're amateur people,

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and a lot of people have alot of things to say about the penis
in the pornos, and I'm justcurious, like, where do you stand?
Where does dick stand on dick ina femdom house? A little joke
so well, it makes me wantto ask, what are you hearing?

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Is it positive? Is it critiquey? Like how there's a little bit of
both. So on the positive sideof things, you know, we get
quite a few comments that are like, oh, it's great to see a
dick that looks like mine. Right, And just like to preface this,
and I'm being one hundred percent honesthere when I say this, I've never

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put a dick on camera that hasbeen less than seven inches. Okay,
so what you're seeing is seven inchesplus, which I don't think is a
small dick. No, you arecorrect. For the record. However,
let it be known that my asscheeks are so monstrously large that they dwarf

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everything in comparison. Okay, Sookay, So on the positive side,
you know, we get people whoare like, oh, you know,
it's great to see someone who lookslike me and porn, it's good to
see like a normal looking dick.You know, some people are straight up
very complimentary and it'll just be likenice cock, bro, but yeah,

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and then on the opposite side,you know, you have people who are
just like, oh, you needa better dick than that, or you
need a bigger dick than that,And it just really baffles me, like
what, like do you need abig dick to get off? And again
like these are like big dicks.So these guys are talking like they want
to see me with like eleven inches, right, they want to see you

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with dread Yeah, well, Imean so do I to be fair?
Wow? Yeah, ten out often would smash or at least as long
as they provided me with a wheelchairfor use afterwards. Uh so me as
a fan of the industry, becauseI could also approach it as someone that

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has done a couple of scenes andit is interesting to see people be complementary
of my penis, right, andI appreciate it. But it's interesting because
I didn't think it would be appreciated, especially by men. Side note listeners,

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if you have anything to say aboutDick's dick, send him an email.
Yeah, he wants to know.Absolutely, be gentle. But as
a fan, I can say,if it's like a POV type of scene,
there are a few penises that Ihave seen so much that I can

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tell you whose penis it is.Okay, so you find that, like
did you notice the Dick's characteristics?Then to an extent. Yeah, for
the most part. Okay, letme flip the question a little bit to
make it easier to answer. Okay, is there anything that you dislike about
male talent in porn? Is thereanything that you're watching porn and you're just
like, ah, well, it'sdifficult to say, because, like when

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it comes to the original question,I really don't have an issue with what
penis is doing the work in afilm. For the most part, I
mentioned it in an episode not allthat long ago, I believe I did.
I have so many conversations like thisin my daily life that I don't

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remember, but talking about cock allday long. Oh just cock, cock
cock. I mean, I knowwhat men are doing to their penises when
it comes to procedures to either belonger, thick or whatever. But it
looks weird, especially if you goheavy girth, because you really can't do

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anything to the head of the penis. Oh my god, I hate that.
So it looks like a coffee canwith a Hershey's kiss on it,
and it's really really distracting. Andif they get and if it's not the
world's best work, it may haveodd angles or poor symmetry. Okay,

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So you do judge the dick alittle bit a bit, but even within
that well or like my big judgmentis because they have done work to their
penis, or maybe they are ina place when it comes to the profession
where it may be more difficult tofind that place to stay aroused. Just

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watching them trying to cram an accordionpenis into a vagina or butthole, and
that is beyond distression. It's justit's folding in half, it's bending weird,
like it may be time to takea little break and kind of reseason
the ball, like trying to shovein a rubber snake. Right, Oh

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god, Yeah, it's not pleasant. But most of my issues with what
is out there is depending on thescene, depending on the studio or the
content creator. There's a point ofaggression that I just don't care for.
I yeah, I'm behind you onthat for sure. Yeah, you know,

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I don't mind if you want togo fast, maybe a little bit
more of a body clap, dependingon what position you are in. That
is fine. But when there's faceslapping and spitting and degradation language and stuff

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like that, I'm out. Yeah, So it has actually become kind of
difficult cult to find that sweet spot, especially when it comes to purchasing DVDs,
because because everybody seems to be aboutthat, like this physical violence as
part of porn correct, And thereare certain studios that tend to shoot more

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aggressive stuff, and I might likethe talent be it male or female,
that are in it from other workthey have done, but then when they
work under this idea, it becomesaggressive and it's almost like they can't sell
it because it's not really natural tothem. Yeah, and that really takes

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me out as well. Okay,Yeah, I'm right there with you on
that one for sure. I Meanthere's definitely a time and a place for
like like rough fucking and like smearingmakeup and you know, all that stuff.
But I feel like there is afine line between like literally like physical
abuse as part of the porn rightand being rough and like you see like

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people like getting there aheads stepped onand like toes in their eyes and shit.
Yeah, Like I don't know,I'm sure if that's your thing,
like we don't think shame, butlike for me personally, yeah, that
definitely takes me out of it.Yeah, because I imagine myself in the
woman's possession too when I'm watching porn, right, so yeah, I'm like,

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I don't know toes in my eyes, get out of here, right
Yeah. If there's a position thatinstantly takes me out of it it is
doggie style and the guy has afoot on her head like that, I'm
just like just skip like I can. Oh you do yoga, bro?
Yeah, exactly nice. He's justshowing off his flexibility. Look what I

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can do. But it is definitelyan interesting question from you, and it's
something I would like to hear fromthe listeners as well, be it male
or female. What turns you off? A turn? So that actually kind
of makes me think of it becauseI would like to see it could be

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a vignette. It doesn't have tohave like this gigantic background storyline. But
I feel almost more physically connected,not even mentally, but physically connected to
a scene if the sex is slow, like almost teasing, because in my

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brain, my head is actually ableto feel what it's like to have slow
sex like that. Right, Youlike a more sensuous yes, yeah,
yeah, it can get a littlebit more paced, not necessarily aggressive,
but more like standard sex. Butif it starts slow, I'm in right,

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I'm going to write that down.Okay, remember that for our first
shoot in Chicago twenty twenty four.So so, but yeah, that is
a very interesting question. I likethat. So yeah, the listeners,
let me know via email Dick atDanglin after dark dot com, and let
me know how you feel about it. Just give me the header of what

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I look for in porn, Dick. There you go. We'd like a
summary, right, likes, dislikes, could do better whatever. It's a
vast subject that we could go onabout this forever, honestly, Yeah,
because there's so many like different likeviewpoints of like what constitutes like a good

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actor. Yeah, well, thegood actor is the woman that is like,
oh my god, it's so hugeand it keeps slipping out of her.
See that I hate. I can'tstand that in porn when it just
keeps falling out, like get ittogether, Yeah, just go to another
position whatever. This is clearly notworking for you, and as the studio,

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like why are you I'm showing thatI did that shit out? Yeah.
There are times where I'll see somethingin a scene and just go,
yeah, you could have cut thatout. That wouldn't hurt the scene.
It's almost like seeing a movie that'stoo long. Yeah. Yeah, for
continuity. I didn't need that thegood stuff. We don't have much of
an attention span. Uh, thatis true, and that is what I'm
finding out when it comes to shooting, because the first scene I did was

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very long, but it worked outwell. The second one in the third
like, the second one was onlylike seven minutes because it was more of
like a four play tas kind ofthing. And I want to say the
second scene I did with Ruby,it is probably somewhere around fifteen minutes or
so. And I'm really finding thatthat is the wanted sweet spot is Yeah,

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ten to fifteen, sometimes seven,depending on what you're looking at.
If it's taking you longer than fifteenminutes to get off, like you're either
gooning or you need to get somehelp. Uh. And that is what
I'm working on things. Thank you. Thanks for just calling me out on
my own show, You Heartless Harlot. So tell us about your interview.

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Yeah, I'm going to because you'veruined this show. No, I'm kidding.
So my interview is with the lovelyLieutenant Bella Lexi. Thank you very
much to Don Juan DeMarco for theopportunity to speak with her. I saw

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her briefly at Exotica, New Jersey, and we talked a little bit about
that in the interview And was shethere? Did she every one booth her?
She was with Signatures after dark andthey were okay. I don't know
if I made it that far.Yeah, there were a bunch of really
great people at that booth and shewas one and I wanted to speak with
her, but every time I wouldcome around to it, she was either

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not there or she had a substantialline of people that wanted to meet her.
Makes sense, Yeah, So itwas nice to be able to have
the opportunity to find out about herand ask her different questions about her history,
because for those who do not know, she was a police officer started
an only fans and someone called herout on it and she lost her job

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and has now transitioned to full timeadult work right, and it has gone
very very well for her, andI am happy that things have worked out
the way that they have because Ithink she has a lot of creativity and
expression still to come when it comesto doing adult work. But we have

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just a wonderful conversation and I knowthat the future is gonna be very bright
for her. I have a feelingthat there's going to be some award noms
and all the good stuff coming withit. So thank you to her.
And I know that the listeners aregoing to enjoy it. I will,
as will. It's good to doit, yes, So thank you once

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again to Lieutenant Bell Alexi for theinterview, and thank you Dalia D for
joining me for this episode. You'rewelcome, my guests. I guess damn.
I was gonna ask where people canfind you, but I don't want
to do that now. Actually no, because I have a brand new website.
It's the same link, but it'sa different You guys gotta go check

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it out. It's beautiful. Sowhere do they go? Www dot Dalia
D dot com, d H LI A D E E dot com.
Yeah, I guess they should doit. And if you want to see
my stuff, you go to DickDangle dot com as the links page.
Dangling after Dark dot com is thewebsite with direct download capabilities for the episodes,

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and it also has where you couldfind the articles that we talk about,
so all the good stuff is there. Heck y, let's get to
that interview. Love it. Sothank you one and all for listening to
this episode. Please take every salesand the people around you pay for your
porn and support amazing content creators likeLieutenant Bella Alexi, like Dahlia Dy and

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all of the people that you haveheard on the show over the years.
Find something that feature soul and doit as often as you possibly can.
And of course dangle on, Ohthat was a sensual one. I tried
really hard. Yeah you did.Don't worry, Dick would be coming back.

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Hi. This is Benny Lane,And when I'm not playing with myself,
I'm listening to Dick Dangle. Ohyeah, maser covet and ready to
go again. Welcome back to thepervent Nation. Here he is Dick Dangle.

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My guest hasn't been in the industryfor very long, but her beauty
and ever increasing popularity, she hasquickly climbed the ladder to superstar. Her
backstory may have made tabloids, buther incredible work with score group Bangbros.
Exploited x nookies and more, notto mention her clip and subscription sites is

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where the headlines really are. Pleasewelcome the lovely Lieutenant Bella Lexi, how
are you doing this evening. I'msuper fantastic. Thanks for having me on.
Oh absolutely, it is my pleasure. Before we get started, can
you please tell every buddy where theycould find you online and on social media.

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The easiest way to find me andall of my links is just to
go to my website, the Realbellolexidot com and that will take you to
all my socials and to all ofmy clip sales sites. Very nice,
nice and easy. I like that. Hey, yup exactly, So thank
you for being on the show.And I'm going to kind of talk a
little bit here in the beginning becauseI want to let everybody know a little

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bit about your background, just likea quick cliff note version of it.
So your story and many others likeit, where you had a non adult
industry job and in your case,a twenty eight year career law enforcement,
only to be let go because ofyour only fans page rings familiar to the

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listeners on this show because I've talkedabout a number of stories like that,
but it's rare to be able tospeak to someone that has gone through it
and has continued on the path ofadult work. So, first off,
thank you for your public service,and congratulations on your success in being able
to step into and succeed in theadult industry. I admire your resilience and

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your adaptability that is not easy formany to do. Well. Thank you,
I appreciate that. And yeah,like it's been a heck of a
journey. But I think ultimately thehustle and the hard work that I had
in my other career has kind of, in some strange ways prepared me for
the same hustle in this career.And I almost feel like the hours that

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you kept are fairly similar because you'realways on. You never know when the
day is actually going to end,and you have to kind of mentally prepare
yourself for always being on. Soit does make sense, right right,
Yeah, I mean, in thisbusiness, it is your iword, probably
I don't know, on average,probably sixteen hours a day, seven days

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a week. I try to beavailable. I try to engage with everyone
that's following me, and I alsospend a lot of time engaging with other
people in the industry. They havea lot of maybe questions about law enforcement,
or want to run an experience byme, things like that. So
really, truly, I just servea different community and population, I guess

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you could say, but I amalways on very interesting. Yeah. I
don't think a lot of people listeningunderstand just how hard of a job being
in the adult industry is. AndI can imagine when you first got in
and your popularity was starting to takeoff, you maybe didn't realize the amount

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of time that it takes to beon social media, engage with fans,
shoot for studios, shoot your owncontent. Did you find any of that
overwhelming, because it can be,oh for sure. When my story was
to the media and it came outpublicly, initially, I had only thought
it was going to come out locallywell and ended up being leaked to international

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media, and so I went frombeing no one in my community to suddenly
everyone knew who I was, everyoneknew what had happened. And I didn't
engage with people at the same levelbefore my story came out because it was
I was a small time right likeit was a hobby. It was something
interesting that my husband and I weredoing. And then suddenly I didn't have

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my career and I woke up totwelve hundred messages pending on my OnlyFans,
and I was like, Oh mygod, what just happened. I can't
even imagine what it would have beenlike to like, Okay, let me
get up and let me look,and you're hearing from England and all these
countries in Europe, like all thenews outlets like wow, this got big

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fast. It did, and Ihad to rely on Google Translator because I
had people messaging me in all differentlanguage languages. I would look at a
message and I'm like, I don'teven know what this is, so I'd
have to copy and paste it andput it into Google just so I can
figure out what the language was.I had no idea the reach that my
story was going to take. Oh, that's crazy. And when it came

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to the different news outlets, muchlike in the US as well, everyone
handles the story a little bit differently, and some of it can be very
salacious and just the way they coverit, How did you handle that part
of it? Because when you arebeing interviewed, you want to hold yourself

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with a certain respect and in acertain light, and then they don't necessarily
spin your words, but they kindof spin your words. Did you kind
of go through that process almost oflike grief, where it got to the
point where you just kind of acceptedit and whatever. I'll figure it out
as I go along. Yeah.Absolutely. I will say that I was
very fortunate enough to speak with anotherwoman who had the same type of thing

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happened. She was a super bigtime in the media over her story,
and I reached out to her whenI knew it was going to go public,
and I was like, I needsome advice because I honestly don't know
how to handle this, and shewas very encouraging. She was very patient,
She worked with me through the wholething, and you know, it
was so overwhelming, but knowing thatI had her in my corner was really

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helpful. And I probably would saythe best piece of advice she gave me
was don't read the comments on anystory that's released. It's like, because
you will not like some of whatyou see. People will be angry with
you, they will judge you,and she's like, so speak with the
people you want to speak with anddon't participate in the negative banter because she

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said it would suck my soul.And there were some negative comments, but
honestly, I really didn't even startlooking at comments until probably about six months
ago. Oh Wow, Yeah,good for you. Were you surprised at
the acceptance of the adult industry andthe people within sex work because it is
a fairly tight knit community, andwhen you have people that are willing to

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give advice and maybe kind of giveyou some lessons on how to get started.
Were you surprised at how I wouldsay, how quickly but you know
how they brought you into the community. I was, and I was also
very appreciative. But I did alsoface the suspicion right like, oh,
well, are you really not acop anymore? Are you really trying to

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investigate all of us? And Iwas like, look, I am one
of you. I am no longera cop. I have no duty to
report anything. I'm here to supportyou, just like you're here to support
me. And let's let's make thesebusinesses successful. Was really how I went
into it. And I think thatpeople, once they talk to me personally,
they realized that I didn't have ahit aen agenda. I just wanted

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to make the most of this experiencebecause I think if you talk to a
lot of girls that this has happenedto Yeah, you become famous and you
get a lot of money initially,but I always like to say, it's
like when you get the winning lotteryticket, right, you have all this
money up front, but you haveto make it last. And I was

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like, I'm not going to beone of those people that goes broken six
months after I win the lottery,and so I just was like, I
have to hustle. I have tocreate. And I didn't even reach out
to any agents until it had beenIt was about six months before I sat
down with my husband and I waslike, let's just commit to this and
let's just do this all the way. And that was when I started reaching

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out to agents and looking to getinto the professional porn business. I appreciate
the conspiracy theory that some people hadabout you, but you want to talk
about playing a long game like thatwould be crazy to just say, Okay,
now this is going to be myangle leg that right. I don't
want to say I'm surprised that somebodywould think something like that, but like,

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wow, that's uh. I neverwould have thought of that myself.
Well, no, And I alwayssaid, I was like, do you
want your parents to know? Doyou want your entire family to know?
What you do? Like? Sothat was really the hardest part was just
dealing with friends and family who foundout about it, and mostly what their
concern was. You know, Iwould have never done this to myself intentionally,

(34:30):
and you know, I walked awayfrom a great career. But honestly,
I think that it all happened inperfect timing because my other career was
sucking the life out of me anyway, and I didn't know what I could
do or should do, and thisjust kind of opened up a whole other
avenue of things that you know,really hadn't popped into my mind as a

(34:51):
new profession. Yeah, I thinkthat rings true for a lot of people.
You have a job that you love, but it is a very a
difficult job. I know I've hadthat issue in the past myself. But
to be able to make that moveinto something else you enjoy so quickly is
very admirable because a lot of peoplestruggle with that transition. Well thank you.

(35:14):
Yeah, And I think a lotof you know, creators struggle with
that instant fame and there there isa grief over whatever career you did lose,
but at the same time, it'sa time to explore yourself and decide
if this is a good fit foryou or not, and it just happened
to be a great fit for me. So for that, I'm very fortunate.

(35:35):
You know, some girls, youknow, they have a couple months
of fame, and you know thenthey just kind of fall off. And
I always make a point of reachingout to girls if I can. When
I see their story, I'll shootthem as social media message or whatever,
and I'll be like, hey,I get your experience. I don't understand
it because yours is different than mine, but I can relate in some level.
And so if you ever need someoneto call and cry, to scream

(35:58):
at front frustrated, give me acall, because I've walked down the same
path as you, just not inyour footsteps. Yeah, and I think
that approach because you did have sucha long career before adult and you weren't
entering the industry as a twenty oneyear old. I'm sure the life lessons

(36:20):
that you have learned helped you withthat as well, because I think if
that were to happen to someone intheir mid twenties as a life transition,
that would have been a much harderpill to swallow. Oh. Absolutely,
Because you know, I'm forty eightyears old, so I'm going to point
my life where I can also belike, this is who I am,
take it or leave it, andI don't have to necessarily worry about starting

(36:43):
a new career and worrying about ismy new employer going to find out?
Or you know what am I goingto do? I was very fortunate,
and I'm also lucky that I havesuch a supportive husband through the whole thing,
because you know that's important too.You can't you can't do this alone.
And I always tell girls that,especially when they enter the PLT industry.
I'm like, you need to havea support system and you need to
have people that believe in you,because it can be lonely and it can

(37:07):
be somewhat isolating. Yeah. Ikin it to a light switch where if
you are working, the light switchis on and you are at one hundred
percent, and when you're not,it's zero. It is completely off,
and that can be very difficult emotionallyto deal with, for sure. Absolutely,

(37:30):
So, you know, and Ithink you know everyone handled it differently.
For me, this was just sucha nice change of pace. You
know, I don't have the liability, I don't have, you know,
the worry about all of my copsbeing injured or anything like that. I
mean, and it's kind of ironicto I always say, I went from
one of the most hated careers herein the US to another hated career.

(37:53):
You know, everybody's like, oh, you work in porn. You're a
sinner. That's wrong. I can'twin either way. You're not wrong now.
Although it is a part of yourbranding and persona, one possible drawback

(38:14):
of adult work is having what youdid in the past be the topic of
every scene that you are in movingforward. How do you keep the police
officer role from getting boring for you? So I probably do. I don't
know. I would probably call itabout a thirty to forty percent that I

(38:37):
do the whole lieutenant cop thing,but the rest of it is just,
you know, the milf kind ofthing. Because people want to see all
parts of my life and my experience, and so yes, I have that
police thing. You know, Creatorswill be like, hey, I would
love to do some collaboration with you. I'm like, okay, great,

(39:00):
and they're like, can we doa cop thing? And so I'm always
like, well, it depends youcome to me with a fresh idea and
we can look at it. ButI also I'm like, that's not all
I do, so you know,and for the most part, I get
a lot of people who, youknow, just like to do the hot
milk neighbor, you know kind ofthing. So I would say maybe forty

(39:23):
percent at the most is what Ido with the whole cop piece. Okay,
Yeah, that led perfectly into mynext question because a positive of the
officer role is having people that mayhave a fetish for like uniforms or that
power play dynamic. You know,your fans will be fans for life when

(39:43):
you do that, and you willhave people in the industry that would like
to work with you because of that. Helpful is the bank of ideas you
have for your content? It hasto be overflowing. Yeah, I mean
a lot of times I can thinkback on, you know, maybe some
silly calls for service I responded on, or you know, some silly story

(40:05):
that was told to me on acall, and so you know, I
do have that. It's it's cute. A lot of people are like,
oh, let's do that. Youcame to my house on a noise complaint,
and I'm like, I'm sorry thatthat is kind of overdone for me.
You know. So like I justshot with King Cobra when I was
at Exotica and I was like,let's do that. You're staying here at

(40:25):
this hotel and there was a rashof car thefts and I'm coming to tell
you that your car was stolen andwe'll go from there. You know,
I've done the whole. Someone brokeinto my guest house with DFW Knight and
he like was awesome. I said, all I'm gonna do is I'm gonna
come knock on your door and vestigatingand crime. You come up with the
rest, and we just bet offof each other. We kind of just

(40:47):
made it into something different. SoI think a lot of it is just
the creativity and sitting down with youryour co star and kind of picking their
brain about some experiences and things likethat too. Now along the same lines,
because of your former job, Iwould think many people would say that
you are dominant as a personality trait. Are you mainly dominant or a switch

(41:12):
or submissive or kind of a littlebit of everything. So I would say
primarily in the dominant role in everythingthat I shoot, but I have had
a lot of requests to see memore submissive so I've been adding a little
bit more of the switch piece toit, and it is fun for me
because it is different, you know, because it's like that in real life

(41:34):
too, right, Like I'm notalways dominant in my personal life, so
it kind of lets me express somethat, you know, more submissive or
somewhat passive or curious. It addsthat flare to that in my content.
What type of scenes have you reallyenjoyed creating away from your role as a

(41:55):
police officer, and what projects doyou hope to be a part of in
the future, Like do you haveany career goals, benchmarks or just things
you would like to create. Iam actually working on a very big project
that I'm going to be shooting beforeABN and I'm going to try my hand

(42:17):
in a little bit of directing andthings like that. And so I just
like to experience all the new things, like we've talked about doing You're going
to catch me off guard here,I can't remember the name of it,
but with the with the girl who'snude and the sushiat her body and things
like that. So like I'm lookingat trying all of those new things because

(42:37):
it gives variety to my fans,and it also challenges me and so I
think ultimately, you know, ifpeople come to me with a fascinating idea,
chances are I'm not going to sayno, and I want to expand
on what I have to offer.And it's been a really good time,

(42:58):
you know. I do the wholemilk thing, but I also have like,
you know, just a hey,we're at yoga, and somehow it
comes out that we do only fanscreating, and then one thing leads to
nooether, Let's go home and makea scene about how we discussed it at
yoga, and then we go homeand get hot and bothered. So there's

(43:19):
just a lot of different avenues thatyou can pursue with it. So I
think it just it pushes that creativeenvelope to try to be unique and different.
How has your sexuality evolved over thistime and are there areas or topics
that you hope to explore now thatyou have a safe space to do so.

(43:42):
I would say that it has growna lot because I think that now
everyone knows what I do, sothere's a little less judgment around it.
You know, Like I super loveshooting inter racial scenes, things that maybe
some people are like, wait,what, But for me, I love

(44:02):
it. It's it's an experience.It's, you know, something that I
enjoy a lot. I enjoy alot of the fetish stuff. I never
really thought about feet like you know, and so, but working in this
environment, people are like, oh, I want to do can you make
me a custom video with this fetishor that fetish? You know, I've

(44:22):
done some giant test things. I'vedone tickling, you know. So it's
just it's a it's a unique thing. And I do like I'm superticular,
so I'm like, I won't bethe tickle person. I have to be
dominant in this situation, you know. So, But I think it just
it opens up a lot of thingsand things that maybe I had never considered.
And and I do try to beopen and you know, I mean,

(44:44):
certainly there's things that are hard nosfor me, but ultimately I do
want to try to be open andexperience those things to know. You know,
I was joking like, I'll tryanything twice to see if I really
like it or if I don't.And it's funny you bring that because I
did notice on your Twitter that youwere posting things basically for your foot fetish

(45:08):
fans. When it comes to this, have you shot something that you have
received good reviews on or good feedbackfrom, but you really didn't get like
for Giantis, it's really interesting.I find that stuff fascinating. But I
would imagine doing that as a firsttime creator. You just kind of have

(45:28):
to throw caution to the wind andhope they like what you make right and
hope that I can sell it right. Like so I when the option came
up to do it here, Iam. I get on. I'm like
googling Giantess porn. Like I didn'treally know what I was doing, and
so I have to get online andI have to do research right. And
it was very much outside of mycomfort zone. But I had a really

(45:52):
good time doing it because the onlytime I've ever been like, be really
big, Bella was when you know, I'd be dealing with an made or
someone who was, you know,a foot and a half taller than me
and yoked at like two hundred andfifty pounds and trying to control a situation,
and I was like, be big, be big, right, right?
And then you go into this andI'm like, well, I don't

(46:12):
want to like be condescending and youknow, you want to do it right,
and so I think that's been thething is just researching all of it,
I can imagine that you get alot of requests to be that overly
assertive, if not degradating person forfetishes as well, right, And I

(46:34):
do have like certain boundaries of thingsthat I'm comfortable with and you know,
like I don't do any kind ofrace play. I don't do anything that
would bring poor light onto my pastcareer because I never had any allegations of
that. I never am very forcefulphysically because I do understand people's limits,

(46:57):
and I do understand when that isa appropriated not just like when I shoot
with someone, they're like, okay, well what are your heard limits?
I'm like, okay, no,anal, don't hit me and don't hurt
me. Okay. You know.So it's a balance and I respect that
about other people too, Like Idon't want to come in and be overly
aggressive and that's not what they wanted. So those communications and conversations are so

(47:21):
important when you're shooting content, especiallywith me being dominant, What is your
limit because my limit might be moreyou know what I mean. It seems
like being someone that enjoys sexual expressionhas always been a part of your personality.
How did that transition into making andexpressing yourself on only fans? In

(47:43):
the beginning, it's very difficult becausewhen you're just with a partner, you
can explore and do everything and noone's judging you or watching, or you're
not like, oh is my angleokay? You know? How does my
nose look? Does my butt lookweird here? You know, So,
when you're doing it in that aspect, I was very adventurous and was able

(48:04):
to enjoy a lot of different things, and then once you start doing it
on a camera, you start towonder, oh is this going to go
over? What are people going tosay? Because my fans will tell me
we don't like that, oh wow, yeah, just as they will tell
me, oh, that was reallyhot. Can you do another one like
that? You know. So it'sa balance of being adventurous and doing it

(48:25):
on camera maybe for the first time, where you're like, I don't really
know anything about this, but yeah, let's give it a roll. Right.
There are many things that people notin the industry may not think of
as being a part of the job, like getting blood drawn for testing every
fourteen to twenty one days. Werethere any parts of being a performer that

(48:50):
surprised you more? On the businessside of it, I will say that
it is unique to go and getmy blood drawn every two weeks, you
know. But honestly, like I'ma huge proponent of it. I don't
shoot any collaborations or content traits withanyone who's not tested because it is so
important, and I think that itkind of gives me an avenue to say

(49:14):
to people just how important it is. You know. I had a family
member who was like, well,you know, your auntie was saying that,
you know, you're in a verydangerous profession and what are you going
to do? And I'm like,I'm probably one of the safest people to
have sex with, right, youknow, because I'm tested. Everyone I'm
shooting with this tested, and soI think that's something that people just don't

(49:37):
really realize, you know. Theshocks for me was the expense. Yes.
I was like, you want meto pay what? Yeah, And
it's one of those things where peoplewill say, well, that's part of
your job, so you can writeit off on your taxes as a work
expense. Well yeah, but Istill got to put that money out up
front. That doesn't help me now, absolutely, And you know, I

(50:00):
do feel for creators who are justgetting started, right, Like I have
new people who want to shoot withme and I'm like, Okay, well
you have to have this test andyou know whatever whatever, and they're like
they messaged me back, They're like, oh, I can't shoot with you.
I can't afford that. And I'mlike, well, that's all part
of you know, navigating the businessand you know, making sure that you're

(50:21):
putting away money to do that sothat we can all be safe and we
can all continue to do this fora long time to come. Yeah,
well said, Yeah, as youmentioned, you were at Exotica New Jersey
and you were signing out these signaturesafter dark booth. How was your convention
experience? Because you looked really busyevery time I saw you on the expo

(50:43):
floor. I was really busy.So this is my second Exotic and my
first one was last year at Miami, and I was so overwhelmed. I
barely remember any of it. Andthen I mean because it's like there's it's
overwhelming, like because I didn't realizehow many people knew who I was,
and so this experience was super funbecause I was a little bit more comfortable.

(51:05):
And I do have to say thatbeing in the booth with Brittany Andrews
and being able to pick her brainand watch how she did things, I
learned so so much about engaging withpeople from her, you know, because
I don't know it all, andso to be able to watch her and
Sophie, Marie and some of thosefolks, it really gave me an opportunity
to kind of hone in on whatfans are looking for, because I think

(51:30):
sometimes what people don't realize is I'mvery very shy in person. Okay,
so my persona and everything. Youknow, when I was a cop,
I had my uniform, my vestI had a purpose. I was that
person and so I'm still, youknow, ten of the Alexi. But
at the same time, I amshy and I can get overwhelmed, and

(51:51):
so I think sometimes I fear thatI am that way and people are like,
oh, she's such a bitch,And it's not that at all.
It's just that I might be uncomfortableor overwhelmed. And so, you know,
when I do interviews and things likethis, I just try to tell
people I'm like, I am somewhatof an introvert, and so this is
sometimes difficult for me, but justbe patient. It's nothing personal. I'm
just trying to work through getting myselfto where I'm more comfortable in some of

(52:14):
those atmospheres, you know, becauseas a cop, you know anyone behind
you, you don't anyone beside you. I'm still fighting off some of those
things, you know, looking forthroughout which no one's a threat in this
environment. They're just there to havefun and give you a hug and take
a picture with you. So ithas been a lot of personal growth for
me in that in that aspect,But in a way, it's not a
bad thing to have because I wouldimagine, like I have a number of

(52:38):
friends that have gone to conventions thatserved in the military, and the first
thing they do when they walk intothe convention they look for exits. You
know, They're doing kind of thesafety things that you need to do.
And I kind of picked up onthat as well. So I don't think
that's a bad trait to have.To be honest, this is a crazy
world we live in, it issure, and like you know, I

(53:00):
made fast friends with the security staffbecause they travel with the with the expo
and so you know, I knowthe head of security. But it's funny
because I walk in and I'm like, Okay, if there which sadly that
still ocurves in my mind. I'mok if there was an emergency or an
active shooter or some kind of something, where would I push people to?

(53:22):
Where would I help? Right?And so, even though that's not my
life anymore, I don't think thatwill ever go away. And so,
but it is. It's I couldtell you where every exit was in that
expo in New Jersey exactly. Now, when you attend conventions, you said
that you do shoot content, butis it a lot of networking as well?

(53:45):
Is it relaxing? Like do youjust go back to your hotel room?
Do you go out to any ofthe after parties? Like what is
the convention weekend for you? Well, so I schedule out my content trade
before I get there, so prettymuch I know who I'm shooting with and
when I'm shooting. Because I alsohave to plan in downtime for myself.

(54:08):
I don't stay at the expo hotelbecause I need to go somewhere where I
can take off my makeup you know, put my hair up in a ponytail
and wear my sweatpants and go downto the lobby and order some pizza and
just sit there and decompress. Andso I don't do a lot of the
after party stuff. I figure I'mon for six or eight hours at the

(54:31):
expo, and I'm on when i'mshooting with the people that I'm shooting content
with. And so it gets toa point and I just tell my husband,
I'm like, all right, let's, you know, order some wine,
sit down in the lobby and peoplewatch, and just relax so I
can recharge and be on for thenext day. Yeah. Now, I've
read that you have been a fanof the adult industry, So were you

(54:55):
able to meet anyone at a conventionthat you were a f and how do
you approach people that you want towork with? Oh? Yeah, I
think my ultimate I was so fangirling. I've always wanted to meet Brittany Andrews.
She's absolutely stunning. I followed herforever and so when I got to

(55:17):
my booth and she was there,I was like, I'm high. I
was like, I'm bala. She'slike, Hi, sugarplub, nice to
meet you. Bela and I waslike, oh my god, I'm talking
to Brittany Andrews. I couldn't figuredout what to say, and I was
just like, I look like atotal idiot. And so after some time

(55:37):
went by, I was like,I'm really sorry about how I introduced myself
to you. I said, Ijust I really appreciate your work and I
love what you do. And Ijust was ridiculous, and She's like,
it's okay, it happens to everybody. And so someone had asked me,
They're like, you know, howdo you feel about people who meet you
and they don't know what to say? And I said, you know what,
I really never thought about it tillI was in that position meeting Brittany,

(55:58):
and I was like, oh,oh my god, that's how people
must feel meeting me exactly. Yeah, you know, so it's a scale,
but yeah, so I super appreciatedmy time with her, you know.
And I met you know, justa lot of people that you know,
I follow on social media or I'vehit them up, Hey, I
might be traveling to Dallas, wouldyou maybe want to, you know,

(56:21):
shoot some content? And then Iwas able to actually meet them in person.
Here, I didn't have an opportunityto shoot with them in New Jersey,
but actually like meeting them and talkingto them, and we're all just
regular people. Yeah you know,yeah we're famous or whatever, but we're
still the same you know. I'mstill the same person I was, and
and so it's nice to have thatlittle bit of downtime and actually talk to

(56:43):
them and pick their brain about whatthey want to shoot when we do get
together and things like that. ButI really don't have any shame in my
game. If there's someone I wantto shoot with, I just am like,
hey, I'd really be interested indoing this if you want to kick
it around and let me know.So yeah, I think that's one thing
I am fortunate enough about is ifI really want to shoot with you,
I will approach you. I likethe fact that you are a fan.

(57:06):
And at the end of November onyour Twitter you wrote, if I may
quote my little secret, I haveto admit that when Brandy Love followed me
the other day, I may havejumped up and screamed like a little girl
and then covered my mouth with myhand. Carry on. And I love
the fact that you feel that wayabout stuff like that. Sure, well,

(57:28):
and it's like, I want peopleto know that I'm real. You
know. So when that happened,I was like, oh my god,
Oh my god, oh my god. You know, because she's very talented,
she's very famous, and I loveher work, and you know,
so when those kinds of things happen, I'm just like, was it an

(57:49):
accident? Was it on a purpose? Like? Okay, you know,
but for me, it makes mefeel really good. It makes me know
or realize that I am doing theright thing and I am making the right
connections and I am forging my wayin this industry. Yeah. Absolutely,
You've put out the call to yourfans and followers to do some fan voting

(58:12):
for you for the Avan Fan Awards, and you are hoping to be nominated
for Hottest Milk, Best Newcomer,Favorite Porn Star Creator, and Most Spectacular
Boobs. Yes, is this thefirst time that you've put out a call
for your fans to vote for you? No, The first time I did

(58:34):
was Flashpotka. When I had receiveda nomination, I was like, oh
my god, everybody vote, everybodyvote. You know. It was a
good time as a fun banter.Brittany Andres and I made tiktoks because she
was up for it also, youknow, we're like, hey, but
for her or for her, youknow, And for me, it just
was it was amazing to be invitedto sit at that table with those amazing

(58:58):
women. And so then when theABN thing came around, I was like,
well, I'm gonna throw my handthe ring on this one too,
so you know, and I alsofeel like it gives my fans a chance
to be heard too, And Iwould be completely honored if, you know,
one of those came up for me. If not, you know what,
I'm just gonna keep plugging along andmaybe next year. Yeah, I

(59:21):
feel that. And I also feellike it may be because you are a
more shy person in person. Isit weird to be like, hey,
everybody pay attention to me and votefor this. Because when it comes to
the podcast, I've been nominated forstuff and I have a really hard time

(59:42):
doing that right well. And I'vealways stuggled with that too, because even
as a police officer, you know, I would receive an award and I
was like, oh, I don'teven want to go to the awards ceremony.
I don't do it for the award. I don't do it for recognition.
And I think the biggest difference inthis arena is that I do it
for my fans, and my fansreally want to see that it in some

(01:00:06):
way, it gives them an opportunityto be heard and to weigh in,
if that makes any kind of sense. Yeah. Absolutely. And I saw
that you are going to be atthe Adult or Entertainment Expo around the AVN
Awards as well, So I'm excitedto see how this first AVN experiences for

(01:00:28):
you. Yeah, I'm super excited. I went and bought a pretty little
dress, and you know, I'mexcited to meet so many more people because
after being in the industry for eighteenmonths and things like that, you know,
I'm looking to meet new people andjust enjoy these experiences. And I
want to celebrate all the people whohave won and are going to win,

(01:00:50):
and because that's a lot of workthat goes into that. And I think
that's the other reason that they shouldbe celebrated is it's not easy. It's
time traveling away from your it's youknow, trying to figure out how you're
going to get from one place togetherand not miss something. So I think
that just being able to celebrate withthem and their achievements is so amazing to

(01:01:12):
me, and I'm so excited forthe people who did win and for the
people who will win with the FanAwards, you know, yeah, absolutely.
Are you a fan of Las Vegas? I am, Yes. I
usually three nights is my max.I'm going to be there for like eight,
so we'll see. Oh boy,this goes well. At least you

(01:01:32):
don't have a huge time difference.Correct, Yes, you're lucky. Now.
Yeah, then there's gonna be alot of work going on. But
I think for Avian, I amgoing to go to some of the parties,
you know, because I am,I do know more people, so
I think that makes it a littlebit more comfortable for me too. You
know, I have a great PRguy who's going to make some introductions for

(01:01:54):
me, don Juan DeMarco. Youknow, So I'm going into this with
some with my feet on the groundon this one, I feel like,
and so I'm super excited. He'sall right, No, I'm kidding.
Now. One thing I enjoy doingwith the people that I interview is look

(01:02:14):
through their social media and ask themquestions about some of the posts that they
have made. Are you willing toanswer a couple of questions about some recent
posts. Absolutely all right, Sowith your posts, there is most definitely
a trend. So I'm going torip through all of them very quickly,

(01:02:37):
and then I'm going to ask yousome questions at the end, but feel
free to interject as you will.Okay. So the first one said,
good morning, your job today,cheer for the Broncos and vote for me
for the Avian Award's Hottest Milf.But then a couple weeks before that you

(01:02:59):
wrote Cowboys win. It's now TurkeyLake time. Bland is a defensive Player
of the Year. There's no argumentto be made about anyone else. Now,
I'm not sure if you're aware whenit comes to football you can't root
for two teams. Okay, sofine, sorry. So, growing up,

(01:03:19):
I remember one of the first footballgames I remember was the Broncos playing
the Cowboys and Troy Aikman was thequarterback, and I was like, holy
shit, that dude is fucking hot. I'm going to grow up and I'm
gonna marry him, Okay, AndI was instantly a Dolls Cowboys fan.
And so when I met my husband, I mean, I'm a Broncos fan
because I live here. I'm anative, but not to the degree of

(01:03:43):
a Cowboys fan. And so he'slike, well, you have to be
a Broncos fan to you know,or we're gonna have an issue. And
I was like, okay, well, how about you have an NFC team,
the Cowboys, and I have anAFC team, the Broncos, and
we'll cheer for both of them.And so that's how that came about.
Okay, that's very nice because Ialso like when it comes to hockey,
I have my Eastern Conference team andmy Western Conference team. So I feel

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you on that one. Yeah.Now, you also tweeted about a couple
of other sports. You said,golf, let's go, and you were
talking about the hero World Challenge,which is the Tiger Woods Tournament. You
also responded to a Tyley Texas postwhere she was wearing a Halk Hogan shirt

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and you said, oh my god, I'm a huge wrestling fan. If
you have the balls, get onover here and follow this sexy babe.
And then lastly you wrote that's anAVS win. Okay, now that you
mentioned hockey, I'm back in.But you mentioned all the sports. Where
does your love of sports come from? You know? I think I've just

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always enjoyed sports, but working ina primarily male dominated field for twenty eight
years, those boys talk about sportsall the time, and so you just
gradually it becomes something that you do. I mean, I'm lucky I'm from
Colorado. I mean we have theNuggets who won the championship last year.
The Abs have won the Broncos ofSuper Bowl. So honestly, like,

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Colorado is a great sports city,and I find that too. Sometimes I
roofer teams from Like I love theDolphins because I traveled to Miami to do
a bunch of work, so Ikind of start just adopting team so when
I am someplace, I have someoneto cheer for if I'm going to a
game in person. I mean Iwent to a Toronto Maples Leaf game when

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I was in Toronto to meet withmy book publisher. So I just love
sports, and I love being bootson a ground in a city, attenny
a game where they play, andI don't know, I just I can't
get enough of it. Oh that'svery cool. Now, when it comes
to being a wrestling fan, whatis your era, Like, what are
the wrestlers that you enjoy? Oh, you know, take the Snake and

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of course Hulkogan and you're gonna touchme off guard here? Oh my god,
Brett uh the heart, yes,because you know he's he's hot up
the right. But you know,I mean, I've attended wrestling events when

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they came to Denver. I'm ahuge pro bull riding fan. I love
pro rodeo. I mean, Ijust my interests are like very vast,
and I think to being into allthose different things always help me build rapport
with people on calls or you know, people having a bad day that I
was dealing with at work. SoI think it just it made me a

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more broad person and I could talkwith people about just about anything. Got
you yourself are obviously athletic. Doyou play any sports? I play golf,
and I'm really sad because it's verycold here now and I don't get
to play as much. But whenmy husband and I travel, we take

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our clubs. We play in alot of different states, and I would
say probably my most favorite course I'veplayed traveling would be Half Moon Bay in
California. So there's just something aboutplaying against the ocean, you know.
Okay, now, what's your handicap? Oh? I can't talk about that

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because then I can't bet people.That's funny now that actually I can't tell
you what my gym says. Okay, I honor that. So that actually
leads me to a question I have. Are you a sports better like not
necessarily betting someone when you're playing golf, But do you do more of the
you know online and you know inVegas stuff kind of betting? Yes,

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I do, but I never beton my own teams because inevitably, when
I make a bet on a gamethat they're playing, they don't win.
So I've learned not to bat formy own teams. That's good advice,
truly. Now, what other hobbiesdo you have besides sports? You know?

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Really the big thing is following mykids around and supporting them in their
sports and things like that. ButI also, you know, I spend
time just learning different things and likeyou know, I mean, I work
out, but like just learning differentthings, like my kids, you know,
take a marine biology class right now, say, And so okay,

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well I need to get online andI need to learn about seat turtles,
and I need to you know,so I can have those active conversations with
my kids. And so for meknowledge is power, and I'm always researching.
You know, you probably saw apost I made the other night where
I was like, you know,everybody thinks I'm really cool, I'm funny,
but I'm really a big dork.And I was like, here's how

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you thought, butter. You know, So that's just who I am and
I embrace that at myself and Ican be quirky and whatever. But yeah,
I'm just always knowledge hungry and thatis a very good trait to have,
for sure. So since I wrappedup so many Twitter posts into one

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set of questions, I only haveone more that I would like to ask
you about. And this was veryrecent, and this is from an account
called Bella's corn Dogs, and youwrote, my corn dogs are the best
daily They save my life from thescary ups man and the Amazon guy that
drives on our street. No betterreward than homemade Land of Lakes pop cups.

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That is absolutely adorable. So whatare the names of your dogs and
what types of dogs are they?So I have my black lab. He's
an old man. He's eleven yearsold and we call him Bow. His
real name is Gumbo because he's fromLouisiana. And then I have my designer

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dog, of course, who isa mini Golden Doodle, and her name
is Charlie, named after a copon a TV show that was on years
ago, so I called her Charlie. That is adorable. Have you always
been a pet owner? I have. I absolutely love dogs. Not a

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big cat fan. I'm not gonnalie, I can't even pretend, but
yeah, I super love pets.In fact, I had a beagle.
She just passed away a few monthsago. But I just love dogs and
they're just a very I don't know. They just understand you, and when
you're having a bad day, youcome home and they just know that they

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need to come up and let youpet them and love on them. And
so I wanted to incorporate since Iworked from home, some of the adventures
with my dogs, and so Icall them my corn dogs because you know,
on social media you can't always saythat you're a porn star or whatever.
So they're my little porn because theirmom is a porn star. So
that's where the corn dog thing camefrom. And I figure it also lets

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people connects me on a different leveland just kind of see how ridiculous I
am with my pets. Very true. I like the fact that you do
it for that reason to be ableto connect with you on a different level.
I appreciate that. Yeah, AndI mean they're cute as hell,
so why not share their shenanigans.So you have announced that you are going

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to be at AVN in January oftwenty twenty four. What does twenty twenty
four have in store for you?Are you going to just be doing a
lot more content and studio shoots?Do you have any other big things plan
that you can let the listeners knowabout. What do you hope twenty twenty
four is for you? I certainlyhave a lot of big goals. I'm

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working with Model Red, which isworking with new girls in the industry and
some older people in the industry tomake sure that they're experiencing safe environments and
are having healthy shooting scenes and thingslike that, and that they're able to
recognize if they're shooting with someone andsomething isn't right, because education is so

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important to make sure that they understandwhat trafficking can look like and things like
that. Also providing advice to girlsif they aren't sure if they were a
victim of a crime or something,and helping them navigate that process. And
I'm also working on developing a potentialstudio of my own. I don't know

(01:12:38):
if that'll come to fruition in twentytwenty four or not, but I'm looking
at changing the way that studios shootand giving more weight to content creators as
well. So I don't know,have some really big plans. I'm super
excited. I have some pretty uniquepeople involved in some of these projects,
and I think that twenty twenty fouris going to definitely change the way that

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people look at creators who are workingtheir way up and learning the industry,
because it's not very often that someoneis a creator and then becomes a porn
star and becomes well known. SoI think that that can happen for other
people, and I want to providean environment that makes that possible for them,

(01:13:23):
you know, because a lot oftimes porn stars then starting only fans.
So I've kind of come up througha completely different path, and I
want to I want to be ableto encourage that and help, you know,
women and men, trans people developthat and be able to have some
of the same experiences that I've had. Very nice and I agree with you

(01:13:43):
model read fantastic people over there,for sure. Yes, I have been
very fortunate. I don't know howthey found me, but I've spent many,
many hours on many calls with folksin the UK and around the US,
and I'm excited I get to meetKylie Quinn and Aviann, who is
also a big part of that.So I think a lot of us just

(01:14:05):
want to see better things come forthe industry, and I think now is
the time. Yeah, I agree, this has been an absolute delight.
I have really enjoyed talking with you, and I know the way you handle
yourself and the scenes and content thatyou're creating twenty twenty four is going to

(01:14:28):
be spectacular and I can't wait tosee everything really blossom for you coming forward.
Well, thank you very much.I'm I'm excited that you took some
time out to talk with me andpick my brain and give you an opportunity
to share with people my experiences andwhat I like to see for the industry.
And you know I'm here today,so let's make big things. Yes,

(01:14:50):
excellent, So one more time beforeI let you go, can you
please tell everybody where they could findyou online and on social media? Once
again? Absolutely so, just goto my website, Therealbalilexi dot com and
the first page has links to allof my socials, to my only fans,
my loyal fans, all of thosekinds of things, other clip stores,

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and you can always message me onmy website. But I will say
I don't really respond to a lotof messages on social media just because I
can't keep up, but messaging iton my you know, OnlyFans or loyal
fans or my website is probably thebest way to get a hold of me.
Very nice. So once again,thank you very much for being on
and good luck with all of theawards coming up. And hopefully I get

(01:15:35):
to see you at a convention inthe very near future. Yes, thank
you. Hopefully, maybe I runinto you at av even if I'm busy,
you come over and tap my shoulders. Sounds good s